Hey happier, this is Juan Camilo I am today in Taganga, this is a beautiful, beautiful
place in Colombia.
I am doing scuba diving with my coach.
And today I want to share with you an story and this happened couple of months ago and
is this.
I was talking with a friend of mine and he told me: hey Juan you remember that girl with
who I was hanging out few months ago?
And I was: yes of course sure how is it?
And he told me, well I need to tell you a bad story, he said: everything seems as if
I got AIDS because of her and I don't know what to do, I already went to the doctor and
I am waiting for my results.
Can you realize this very hard situation?
When he told me that I began talking with him in order to let him know that when we
have difficulties and problems in our life, is that specific moment when we can take advantage
and look for the lesson that life is trying to teach us.
So we began talking every week, in order to find that kind of message that life was giving
him.
While we were talking he was waiting for the results and we were talking for an average
of one month.
At the end, the day before he knew he was going to pick up his results, he told me that
he was finding happiness and beautiful things in life in specific details.
For example in his family, in the beautiful moments that he was sharing with friends and
he realized he was looking for a girl that he really want to love.
The next day he went for the results, and when he received the letter he was very nervous
of course, he opened the letter and fortunately the results were negative.
But the good thing was that he found what he was needing to do, that he was using his
life maybe in a non proper way.
After he received his results he was very grateful with me, he told me that he really
appreciates that I was talking to him and of course it was something that I did because
he was my friend, he is my friend.
And I am sharing this story with you because the importance of serving others, of helping
others in a way where you are not expecting something to give back, that is the best way
to feel happy, when you contribute to others.
When you use your passions and your talents in order to help others.
I learned this in Cambodia, when I traveled to Asia, I was looking for my purpose of life
and this NGO, he are part of a religion which is called Baha'i, I am agnostic, that means
that I'm not part of any religion, but I believe in God.
And they began to teach me different principles from several religions, for example I studied
not just religions also spiritual persons.
So I was studying the life of Buddha, Jesus, Krishna, Gandhi, Mother Teresa and so on.
And what I found that all of them had in common, is that they serve to others, they dedicate
their lives to help others, to improve their own lives.
And that was a switch in my mind, when we change our mindset, because we are used to
think in this way.
I want to have, then I want to do and finally I want to be.
But the real order, the nature order says that you must be, then do in order to have.
That is the change that we must take, that we must do in our lives.
We must be a better person, we must be a kind person, the type of person that help others,
that contribute, that use all your energy, all your skills, all your abilities in order
to help other people.
And that's the best way how you can live, that's the best way how you can find happiness,
when you serve others.
That's our last purpose in life, to serve.
That's why I have this tattoo, servicio, that's the Spanish word of service in Spanish.
Because I want to remember myself, that is not about me, is not about I want to have,
I want to get, I want to be.
Is more about, how can I contribute, how can I help people, how can I teach others and
in that way you'll feel and you will find eternal happiness.
That's our last purpose, that's our last principle on this nine principles of eternal happiness.
And that comes back to our first one, which was: which is your purpose in life?
So, if you see, all this journey, from the first to the ninth principle which is this
one, we were talking about, why we are here in the world, and how we can contribute to
others.
So your exercise for today is very simple, I want that you today do a kindness activity,
something for others.
Help others without any expectation of receiving something, that's what in Cambodia they call
it Aura.
To give to others without any expectation and you'll feel how great is that.
Okay this is Juan Camilo and see you in the next video.
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