Dude, when I was a kid, I knew how to do something in the slide
I do not remember, I was very young, I should have some
let's say, I was 5 and 6 and my sister was about 8
Man, and my sister called everyone to see
everyone, in my uncle's building
I had a lot of kids, everyone around the slide, so I could do it
when I went to make, gave a block, I do not know
I did everything wrong, it falls
Then everyone left, making fun, you do not know how to do. Speaking to sister
"we knew he did not know how to do it."
Oh my sister not to help me much, she said, you are an idiot!
Then I had that feeling in my head, I am not kidding, until today
I do not have blocks, but when I have a block, that experience comes to my head
From the slide, like this, now is the important moment, now I need to show, now is the time for the slide.
Funny that our memory,
sometimes people have the notion that memory when it is stored in the brain
it is stored in a single corner of the brain
But it is not
because if you have the memory of the slide,
and if you are thinking about it now
you are thinking so the area of the brain that recognizes color
is an area of the brain
The area that recognizes your
spatial perception of where you are
If you have any memories of scent
or memory of emotion
they are in different areas of the brain
So when you pull on that memory
several areas of the brain come together
to form that memory
So it has an English expression that says
"neurons fire together wire together"
When you trigger these neurons at the same time
they join they create that
So when you have this emotion
of now is important
it is still anchored in a series of other memories of you.
It is this anchor memory is very strong that created
so it comes
Its comes
now from some moment you've been able to undo the memory
because its comes
its has appeared
the window appears in your brain
now you have so many other positive memories
you giving course
you lecturing
so many other victories you had
Your brain
yourself
automatically the emotion it is already just a memory
a residual
It's there
you know
the moment is important
you do not deconcentrate
For me what I feel when I go to teach a course
a special day
I feel more stimulation than
for me it is encouragement
security
is you realize that the experiences work
what you have done comes right
It's interesting
when we see
I always say
that the confidence
the motivation
all these things are emotions
and the emotions
we have no command over them in the sense
if I tell you to be angry now
you can not give a command for you to be angry
if I say be miss you now,
you can not
maybe you say I missed you
remembered a loved one
or had anger
I remembered a politician
Or I remembered something
Yes, you had to do something for when
you realize that this feeling is in you
And then
we mistakenly try to build trust or motivation
giving command
Go there
you can
you can do it,
have confidence
you are trying to give command
to something that you will not be able to have
Now if you stop giving the command
and you think you want to know something
"damn"
you start to do certain things
that emotion is appearing
and then there is that positive feedback,
then you enter a looping
that you no longer have that question.
I have some problem
that motivates me a lot
Any questions what teachers had about me
that was my motivation.
Today has changed
because today I am more relaxed
But
erst
I was very motivated by this.
"You know, I'm going to rub this guy's face"
more or less like this.
The initial nervousness
is good because it gives you focus
if one is to think in biological terms it is so
First the pupil dilates
because you need to pay attention to the environment
you have palpitation
because your heart is pumping blood to the musculature
because physiologically our body does not know that you will give a lecture
or a course
He thinks you're in front of a lion
so he has to prepare you to flee or fight
So he needs to prepare all his muscles for that
Since you are not moving
you feel the heart in your throat
Because he's pumping
What happens in that
great
only you do a bifurcation
or you going to stress and nervousness
or you style enters the style of fight, flight or
the English
fight, flight or freeze
that you hang
Or you go into flow
flow, you have a peak of dopamine in the body
which makes what your brain does capture
much more information
we have information here
it's the fan
it's the environment
and the sensation of
our shirt on the body
we don't realize
the brain it inhibits
Now when you are in flow
it starts to capture all of this faster.
For example
I'm giving my course
but I know how to give my course
I'm paying attention in other things also in the course
but the air conditioning is on?
Is the temperature good or not?
Is that light on?
Is this light off?
The people back there are fine or they are not
I think about it a lot
And I start to feel more things than people
and then I stop the course,
"Can you guys fix the sound?"
Like João and Gilberto
it's only troubling Jogão and Gilberto
But it's troubling.
Because you do not think
you know
you do not reason in the sense
of using the prefrontal cortex
you get now what I have to do
no
you identify the pattern
It has a pattern that you have to identify
So when you are giving your course
ou have a pattern in your head
of how the course has to be following
This light is not within the pattern
in my head
Then something is wrong
and then you get that feedback
right away and make corrections in real time
that's what makes the difference
that you can fix it right away
and not learn it later
"man that bullshit"
how am I going to learn it for next time
Here comes one thing that
I ask a lot for students
I ask people
What better way to learn?
Oh, studying
What better way to learn?
Oh, we learn wrong
But how does a cardiac surgeon
learn to operate?
How many patients will he kill
to learn to operate?
There are other ways to learn
I think it's fundamental
that people understand that to learn
you learn by observation right.
Dude my specialty is the timing
true
I can not do things well
Jiu Jitsu
I may not be excellent
but I want to be good
I want to be good up
So my head she programs a lot in relation to the time
I do a lot things
But I put all the schedule
for example
of the time of day
previously
So today
I woke up at 7:30 in the morning
I knew what I was going to do
I will to the gym in the morning
I knew what I was going to do
I'm going to do 50 minutes of aerobics
I'm going to train my leg
chest
Then I'm going to lunch
I'm going to sleep
I'm going to come here
I'll to pratice jiu jitsu in the afternoon
But my brain is constantly checking the clock
So sometimes it feels like I'm neurotic
sometimes I'm here talking to you I look at the clock
and I run
I do not finish talking to you
For example
Jiu Jitsu
I know I have an hour and a half to learn this
because tomorrow I will not have more time
I will not be able to repeat
I'm not exceptional
so I need to learn this now
do it again
Then my brain speaks
ah got it
My brain slows down the system
I do not need more
I go to the next
like this
Our brain deals much better with risk
than with ambiguity
the ambiguity is that way
I do not know what will happen
the risk is that you have a plan
I only have until midnight to figure it out
it's three in the afternoon
So instead of you thinking three in the afternoon
how many hours until midnight
we will see in hour by hour what I have to achieve
You spend less time worrying
more time doing
you free up space of your mind to learn
But my head is like a mobile app
so so
I'm kind of boring
people who know me really talk
you're kind of boring
I thought you were more fun
Because I'm too programmed dude
I do not have
"Oh let's go out just to relax"
I'm going to relax
but I have a right day for this to come out
I can not go out any day
So my head thinks like that
I can go to the bar and have a beer next Saturday
just that day
This week I can not
my head knows I can not
You know what you are willing to do
to have the lifestyle you have
And you know most of all
that in my view it's the question that people do not ask
it's what you're not willing to do
to get there.
Because many people who have the success that you have
is doing what you do
but do not want to give up also everything else
This is one of the pillars
in fact
of the emotional intelligence
that is the fact that you postpone the current satisfaction
for future gain
So you're putting off the beer that you want to drink
but you're not suffering from it
Even at the beginning it may even be harder to have discipline
but then over time you think
"The beer will come"
And there will come a time that will not hurt you anymore
you already do
it's automatic
I received an email now
to tell you the truth
on Instagram, a message
This question person graduated a year and a half ago
and said he was not making money how she could or should
She thought she did not earn what she deserved
with a year and a half of gratuated
And she said she wanted to go to the US
give me a tip
I'm going to go to college
But everyone thinks it's easy
alright
she was wanting to go to the US, because she thinks she earns more
Then I said
phew, but you're one and a half years graduated
what course did you do?
Did you do any specialization?
She said no
had not done anything
just said she was thinking of doing
So I said
you should think
about graduated now
for the next five years
you should think about money later
I'll give you an example
when I graduated
I did not have any money
I was 10 years without money
No money even five years
But I put the following in my head
for five years I'll stay on the negative
I do not care
but I'll be graduated
From five to ten years
I'll be tying
to tie I need to earn a specific amount per month
After ten years, I need to gain how it would be an arithmetic progression
So I set it in my head like this
in the first five years
I need to earn
for example, a thousand reais a month
in the first year
in the second year two thousand reais a month
three thousand reais a month in the third year
to the fifth year
From the fifth to the tenth year, this would not change much
because I would be investing in other things
I would not make money
from ten years on
so I would actually make money
Sometimes it gives a desperation
and we want things now
he young man much more
he wants now
He talks like that
I want to be champion in the blue belt
but he does not want to give himself,
he does not want to go in a league in the city
he wants to win
but he wants to win the Brazilian league
wants to go to the championship world
He does not want to do the steps
build the little castle
And the young man today is more and more impatient
What I fell
it's like this, after everything I've done
if I want something too much
it's taking me long for one thing
but when I want it a lot
I can
It may take longer
it may be more laborious than I wanted
but I will can, but if I put it in my head,
but I need to want it too much
In my head it's like this
I need to do something that is not natural for me
because doing manual things I think is natural
I have a facility
But for example
when I went to boxing,
it was not a facility
My bone
you need to have a bone structure for boxing
But I put it in my head
I need to prove
that if I want one thing too much
I can
If I can do that
I can teach a dentist
It happened in boxing
in karate
but in jiu-jitsu, now this is the project
people ask why you train so much?
I practice a lot
I practice every day
but I practice a lot
My finger broke
people ask if I am not afraid of the broken finger
as it broke several times
but I put it in my head that I need
to get well
I do not need to be a champion
but I need to get good
It takes me long for something
but when I decide something
I will
I'll screw me
but l will
That's why I do the programming
I arrive in Spain, sometimes the flight arrives
flight of seven hours from New York
the flight arrives midday and the training is three thirty in the afternoon
So in my head I'm, arrived noon
I thinking
landed
Where is my luggage?
One in the afternoon
One and a half, I leave the airport,
two hours I arrive at the hotel
when I arrive at the hotel I think
three-thirty is the training
I'm going to sleep from two o'clock until three.
I think this is very cool
the part of the decision even though you said it
we have nowhere to run
because there is no one imposing on you
But you have to want it before
Yeah, when I really want to
because wanting
you talk, I have a desire
kind of superficial
you will not get it
Kind of deep down there is much better
when I was little child
I had an illusion that it
would be nice
if I had a chip
that the time people spoke English with me I understood
and the time I spoke Portuguese
would leave in English
like you see in movies
And the funny thing is
that after that I ended up studying English
then I went to college in the USA
and I speak English and today
I see that it is much more profitable to know that to know that
than to have a chip
It's that idea
I think when you start to want some
and conquer
even if it's a small thing first
and see how good it feels
to conquer
you gain more strength and confidence
as we talked
it's not like Give that concept of a single command
have confidence have motivation
have small victories
because in the small victories
they give you a cascade effect that you begin to perceive
because you become addicted to victory
Not that you want to win and be competitive
but you talk I know this is good
For you to achieve one thing
you have to go through many things
when you can
you remember every sacrifice you have made
Martial art does a lot of that
you look at your belt
and you speak "Oh my god ... I do not believe I'm still"
I did not pass
but when you pass
it's not the new belt
you remember those three years
Three years I'm purple belt
you think, man
they never hit me so much
I never suffered so much, really, in this purple belt I suffered a lot
they beat me a lot
and I do not leave the purple belt
but I'm dreaming, I dream?
When I get the brown belt,
man I'm gonna cry
I'm going to cry because I remember all the days I've been training
I remember all the training
You know, it's personal, it's not for anyone
Someone asked me this, what do you feel writing a book?
Are you proud of the book?
Man, I do not think about the book anymore
I did the book
but I do not look at it, I did not flipping through pages
I do not feel this pleasure
that people thinking
Oh, you did one thing, you set up a dental clinic, you set up a clinic...
I feel more that satisfaction
than I do with me
It was a test I did with myself
I wanted to prove that I was able to do this
it's not the book itself
I wanted to prove that
I knew how to make the book
and I did the book
It's there in my memory
it's deep in my heart
so that counts more for me
My victories
are not things I did,
are things that are concrete
is that I know what I did
No one needs to know
I Know
So sometimes I finish a restoration
I look
Man, I did not photograph or film,
or I posted in instagram
I finished and you know what I mean?
Dude, it was fantastic
Sometimes the patient does not see
as much as I see
but I say
no one needs to see
I saw
And, I go home
With a sensation
of victory
that lasts, I don't know man
Maybe it's a hormone
that shoots I think
and lasts about eight hours
is eight hours of pleasure
Yes, dopamine coming in
Dopamine, that's right
Cool!

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