Hi everyone, I hope you are well?
Today we find ourselves in a new video, I'm so happy to see you again I hope you all and all very very good!
Today we will talk about a very serious subject (although it is not seen) we will talk about
self-confidence !
Feel free to watch,
to the end and especially to send me to comment on your experience at the self-development, the level of confidence,
itself and at how you live it day to day. Today I will help you have fishing,
I have every day and now we go there we advance in life and no one calculates the people we
put a spoke in the wheels brief go! First I'll talk adolescence because that's exactly where we see teens
change our character evolve in the direction that we want it early and unfortunately,
Adolescence is not the easiest period,
create its own personality because here we just grow up, you begin to have
acne, you begin to see your body change, you really see things
we do not usually see happening because of a child's body to a young adult body,
that disturbs us a lot and it really is the phase where it is most,
destabilized compared to the other! This is also the time when we will go look right to left how to forge his personality,
what type of music you love,
what kind of clothing, what type of person you like and it's not always easy,
to navigate so there are many choices so I'm going to share my experience!
There is this college transition in high school who was very rude to me! We were in a Zeppelin college
for those who do not know, those who do not know, it's a school where people are
trouble so I have not chosen this high school, college forgiveness, it's just that it was in my neighborhood!
I lived in the 11th district and there was a college Zeppelin over there suddenly
this is down I went and I,
made huge meeting
super mega too well!
People in gold, besides my best friend was there too and now it's 23 years that is,
We're together, we're friends but to death! Samera
big up if you go through there and here so I passed it to:
High school ! The school that was another,
area!
The high school it was simply,
Something that changed my life that is I went from a super friendly college hyper,
a little,
"Bazaar" you see where everyone does a little anything, but there is still a frame but that it is a college Zeppelin!
This is not anything Zeppelin college! And I went from that to a great school "bobo" super, education
Other in fact, there were only the French
who came from backgrounds a little richer than the people we see in colleges Zeppelin,
and ...
it was not at all the same thing the same mentality and suddenly I had to create
shell of a species to protect myself because I was afraid
one judges me compared to what I had lived all my childhood all my,
my early adolescence in college
and I,
face to people who are completely different from me and from here begins the discomfort when you not feel your
place when you feel you are different and well you develop a kind of
discomfort but really I do not know if you see what I mean me and my
self-defense system that was unfortunately adapt to these people is actually what to never do it precisely
try to become someone else just to please people it's just
something that you should never do and unfortunately it has been my experience, well as they say:
"Chase the natural change their spots" and I waited three years to free myself I created for friends
who had a completely distorted image of myself I admit today
I was someone who was afraid of being judged, of being persecuted or whatever
I was different because I felt there was this danger there and that's why I created a kind of,
"false me" shell that was not necessarily not me actually and
here and for three years I have maintained friendships with people who believed that I was like that in short
I will not go into details it's complicated
but be aware that in fact what I have learned in relation to this is that people who love you for real
He will love you for what you really are and you do not need to create a kind of
personalities that people like you know that sooner or later these people they
eventually you let go simply because it's not really what you're at the bottom so if you pretend to be someone
sooner or later you will get tired of playing this role
and sooner or later you will eventually drop the case and lose your friends with whom you have spent much time
this is what happened are myself personally after three years I try to open I tried to show me who I really was and
obviously it went wrong and although there are also people who
it is said, "oh yes I love makes your
personality is great and all and in the end we became friends I did not think at all that this would be my friends today and here in
fact
the day I was actually clicks
over-confidence because the video it's about confidence
is that I said the day I myself am actually must
must be itself must be especially fuck people doing is
crisp and clear it the day you stop thinking people
around you who wants that
you are afraid of them there are questions that stuck in your head like
oh but if I do that we will judge me we'll think I'm like this or like that where
oops we will laugh at me if I do this or that
except that the girls and boys who watch this video
People actually do not pay too much attention to the people around them that's unfortunate but that's the case
so no matter what you do there will always be some criticism there will always remarks
you can not
never please everyone that's something that you must get into the head it's not because you are a
so that means that should please the majority of people
frankly there is everything in this world so why not just being yourself
I know it's hard to say like that but I assure you that you adopt this growing
this mentality and say well
me if I want to put blue eyes blue lenses and I like I feel confident
I feel pretty I feel good in this makeup, in all this, in the way I dress,
and whatever, I know people who watch this video they may not all agree over my dress style
compared to the way I wear my headscarf, there is much controversy about it
compared to my makeup compared to many things and,
Here I am aware of that and I'm perfect
harmony with myself so that today I am happy no matter
what people may think and actually now I realize that
this is not because there are some people who will criticize who will not like
that means that I have confined myself on myself and I have to change my way of being
misrepresenting myself to please people this is not possible you can not do that all the time
If you try to please everyone you will never live your life serenely!
That's why that's why I'd definitely recommend the first step to self-confidence is to say
OK !
Today I get up I do what I want I dress like I want I reflect as I want
and I go to school and I go to work and I'll go where you want
in hand within the limits of respect and of course you will impose on people what you are you are not going
impose brutally but you explain how you are you going to dress how you like you dress will get married
how you like your makeup if you cdd with people that you really like
and you will see that by doing that people who love you for real come to you
naturally and then made what to say in your head and it's really a phrase I tell myself all the time
is that if a person has to go because she does not accept you as you are well
let her go because this person really does not like you she loves you for what you him
send a reflection of you such a person and super
superficial and loves to gossip talk
talk about people and maybe you're not like that at all but you have connect with this
person because you made your shell voci
is actually what happens is that the day you're going to say it but actually you know I love
not too much gallows I like talking about people that's not something that interests me in this period it will go
because she wanted to bring some comfort but you crash and it is because to do
So there for two important things
he must know is that confidence that based on I do not care attitude
people is to live for himself to be a selfish minimum within reasonable limits, of course,
and so you'll see that it will free you and that's exactly what happened to me
the day I realized that I crash and before people stop I said it's over I stop I insist
I like certain things he can behave so well
people
Not all agree with that and if you for real friends they'll kiffez you love because you are
authentic you are tanned and that's exactly what I'm actually me when I'm videos at first I was
Super stressed out I thought my god I'll die there too judge me
so if you see my first video I was completely stuck I was there I
not speak and everything is actually me my character my true nature I'm a person who is completely
wow I'm too slow kind is not to be
how to say
I do not want my fart or anything it's just I'm actually someone I'm crazy in my head I love
delirium and I love talk I love the atmosphere is a girl who is full of life and actually
Here for me it is life c is actually my character and what they do not like
appreciate me for what I am actually I love messing I love talking
I love living here but lightly
and when I began my youtube channel I was not at all in it was not at all in hand
god but c'mon make videos talking about what you want no worries not I was rather too too
stressed and it is precisely because in fact my community I was afraid she judge me compared to what I'm saying what I'm doing
full of things done and done now thanks to you
I totally
released I was actually more videos more I gain confidence and less the more I free myself from this small
I was shell created me for years and now today
I'm here and I'm talking about open heart without any filter and this is what is beautiful
Here you may also train you to free yourself by making a youtube channel by creating videos
here
it is true that there are lives showers on the youtube channel and all but this is a way that allowed me months
open but feel in harmony with myself how I thought c is you have other
other options have you sport you
made objects are things of the activities you can do
Here in fact there are plenty full path that leads to self-confidence as there is music
it's amazing to listen to music but now we put into it is lost by end level we
hyper
atmosphere like this Bulgarian port
and was there you walk down the street and you have your headphones and
was the queen of the world is simply because there are
music like that that puts you fishing and who tell you it's good in fact you can do it there are plenty of things
Do you think you can do because you plug in you from the people you life for you and
you do stuff and what if people say th and 10 th and 6 th well not too bad for them all
So here I just hope this video you will clearly helped in any case do not hesitate to ask me questions
commented me I have given you my self-confidence secrets because I'll do a little more videos you more
depth
here I just given you the basis in fact
the small surface layer which already allows you to feel good in your body etc.
anyway me it made me great pleasure to tell you about that is very rare that I speak of things as
So this is serious I am big big kiss I tell you very soon for a next video and bring you
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