hi everyone and welcome back to my channel we are here today to do Ni Luh
18-months update I'm sorry if you see me kind of like crying or I mean my voice
sounds funny I'm really sick and I've been sick for a couple of days and I
just have to fill in this video so I'm really apologize in advance because
obviously I'm sneezing a lot and I'm trying of brave at this bitch's house
icon and I'm gonna cut all of these pieces when I'm like cleaning my dogs or
doing things I should know about
Neela it's just turn 19 months how long ago like ten days ago I had no one to do
this PDB for Setar 19 months because I found that she's changing a lot every
single day so if I do if I do it earlier I will be missing something to tell you
guys off that nerd I have to hang up so wait until she's 19 months so few things
about Neelam let's talk about herself like her hair color I found things the
last 15 months update that I did which was like beginning of summer I found
that she was having darker her and after summer is just turn a little bit more
like mine more like brunettes not black like Alice and I found that more she
gets the Sun she start to have like I used to when I was younger we just have
like kind of highlights like a different type of bronze different shades of
bronze which iPhone is so cute and also she started to have all of these I don't
know you can see the camera these crazy curls on the back it's they're so cute
and because in the front you have these like a really long piece the rest is all
really really short it does get curved but because we have
to come back to make it look obviously we make it flutter so that
actually destroys a little bit the snow I have to say when we are like we went
to Spain or here is really like a humid day all her hair looks curly and it's so
cute like I just want it gets really really cute and I used to have curly
hair when I was a baby afterwards just become like wave B and now it's like a
mess so I just hope now that I hurt that I said I know I know what I'm doing I
hope I will be able to kind of like Menace her hair and make it look nicer
and maybe be curling for a long time and her eye color when she born it was like
really dark brown like eyelids and I found out with the months and going and
going and going they're getting more like a light brown
and I don't expect her to have light color eyes like me I wish no I know it's
not gonna happen maybe baby number two will have them but
Nilla no but anyways she looks so cute with that eyes I am something that makes
them for myself I think and some people say prettier he's like she has really
big eyes like me and also she has really long eyelashes so that make her eye look
even bigger and I found that she's the kind of baby that she doesn't need to
talk to you like only her face expression her eyes says a lot which I
found that's really cute in a person like being able to speak to you without
even words about routines and favorites so she still have one nod J her routine
is kind of when she's with me for the day without a lip Cazale blessing he
doesn't really spend as much time as much time as I wish with us she normally
wakes up between 5:30 a.m. and 7:30 a.m. and she will normally in normally in a
good day go down for an hour between 10:00 and 12:00
which is like two hours now and it's absolutely fine for me because it's the
perfect time for cooked lunch so as soon as she woke up she will ask for food so
food will be ready and it would be fine if no see we prefer to go down to sleep
after lunch with make my life harder because I have to cook with her and
she's a really impatient child with the food which I'm gonna speak after all
that and obviously you will be cooking this will be like down down down
it's no fun and then that's why and if she have the nob after lunch she only
sleeps one hour because after she goes to sleep between 6:00 and 7:30 p.m.
she's done and in a really bad day or in a day the holidays home she could maybe
even go to sleep and chill like a xxx which means she will be crying she will
be hiding from us and it will be a hard extra hour for us because obviously she
felt tired but she feel active because her Bobby's home and things enough but
normally I try to be really strict with my routine because I found that's how
she behaves the best and how it's easier for me to keep going with that day and
favorites she has had three favorite things she can't live without it there
was two only before ever now I get like a new addition short story long
basically last Christmas my parents bought a toll for her the name was
Isabella he's a really cute baby and she will have like a dummy you remove the
dummy and she will scream whatever in May we went to Spain for like a
christening I think it was we were in the return I left it old daughter
because we were crazy around with her and there was another kids doing another
celebration there are some things around I did not pay attention to things for me
my priority was my daughter and when the party finished she wanna go
down for a nap and okay wait so it's about over seven hours
Sibella we couldn't fund the dorm that made me have the hardest two days of my
life I searched everywhere for her in online I even call a factory I called
the company I call the biggest store that they have every single store that
sell them and basically it was a special edition for Christmas time and after
December finished they will not have it anymore
I found one online it was a fake one so i i'm not buying expensive fake for my
daughter so what I did I took Nina to the store where they put it and I was
like okay you cannot have Isabel of it don't have this one this is like
municipal or whatever and anyway after she realized it was the same doll just
changed the clothes and then the skin colour and the hair but the function of
the door was the same and I think because that time she was really young
she was kind of young to one year old I mean but she kind of accepted that time
and if make myself my life easier and since then she love Sofia my father gave
her that name is Sofia she loved her so much we have to go everywhere everywhere
like I travel Sofia come with us we go outside Sofia come with us whatever we
just go five minutes of the park Sophia come with us because I never know when
she will request Sofia or sometimes she just take Sofia with her and it's just
running around and then a second thing which is her favorite now is a book
basically my mom decided to buy for her lots of books which I love it because I
think reading is amazing and his teach you so many the words and so many things
and everything um she found this really tiny sleep beauty book and she was like
I'm so sorry he's not really a big deal but I found it it is so cute and I love
it no I was like mom is fine and it becomes her favorite I think it's
because it's literally like the my promise is so small and I think she
loves it because for her so easy to open it and then read it and go around with
it and as I said we go outside and she was just having her hand and make sure
it's not like this huge thing that she cannot even take around yeah and she
loves it as well because of skippy beauty has like a baby
it has like horses and fairies and things of that which she also loves so
makes everything you were special she will even sometimes sleep with a book
like these or her arms which makes everything so cute and her third
favorite thing eats a new puppy door we just got it for her in winter wonderland
here in London we went there to see the Santa grotto and have the annual picture
with Santa and we decided to play you know this game I don't know how you call
it neither in Spanish this game where you are like fishing normally you do
with dogs but this one was with Olaf the snowman of frozen and depends of the
color you will get different things if you saw our visiting Santa video it's
I'm gonna live around here you will see with them I mean and as soon as I saw us
Fabio sigh oh my God look at this puppy and she loved it but I need was like
come on this dog is fine those are reindeer and he was obsessed
to get that rain there and it was like no I want a puppy and then the lady was
like what do you want so at the end I like play again and he got the same
color so I got the puppy for her cuz I was like I am NOT think about these she
wants the puppy so that's it and he got the reindeer so he feels better for kids
up actually she doesn't pay attention at all to the ring there but she hasn't
because her father ones so that her three favorite things that I have to
take with me every single day as I say even when I travel does the thing that
comes with me in my heart language about um clothing
she's so petite she's so skinny in its own tiny she could even continue feeding
in the 9 to 12 months but it's true that I kind of got rid of them because they
are like summer things I still have some like short sleep but issues but there is
a kind of like put it away because the dresses are absolutely like summer
dresses and I tried to start to put more like 12 to 18 even they look massive I
have some money terms of 18 to 24 which is the suppose age she supposed to be
now I'm sure that's gonna be possibly the word next year because this year
looks massive for her it seems like two needles could go inside that dress or
that throws us with hot shirt and it's kind of frustrating because sometimes
when I buy things like now we are going on holidays the next month and I bought
so many summer clothes during the summertime here to go to Bali and
obviously now I'm not gonna fund any more summer clothes and all what I
bought because in my head I was saying okay she will be 20 months at times so I
should wear at least 18 to 24 or 1213 so I bought almost everything is 18 to 24
and is absolutely massive for her but it's okay because obviously summer is
coming in few months and I suspect she will fit on them by that time so it's
kind of day but I don't know what she's gonna wear now when are we going to
holidays boogers I don't know unless she can still feed on her summer clothes of
a few months ago I don't know guys I would have to buy everything there I'm
happy she's petite because this makes my life easier to like carry her around and
because I cuddle her some does we're in the street and she doesn't feel good or
whatever says she asked me to like hold her for like five minutes and I can't
walk at the same time and if she was so heavy it will be harder for me
especially not being pregnant but is is so cute and she so
it's just like it's my little torn so speaking oh my gosh she speaks a lot she
copies every word I say and she can speak words either in English Spanish or
in individual Indonesia a little bit less but see hundred percent understand
everything that you still hurting running sport in English which it's so
much better because I can't go to play groups and make sure she will understand
the moms or whoever is the coordinator I go to Spain and I'm sure similarly
summer family I feel so bad for Alex family but I have to say that Ali
doesn't spend time enough with her to teach her more things and my knowledge
of his language is really short like I keep we have less specific words that
I'd keep it just repeating to her so she always use them I should learn myself
and I'm thinking to start now to teach her some French I'm gonna also speak
French so I think if I start from now she will start using some words as well
and yeah I mean I really believe like if I have the knowledge why not giving it
to my kids and learn language is so expensive and if I know them but I can
fix them for phrase why not I'm especially from kids so when they
grow older they can speak all of them and I also believe what they said if
they learn from now so many languages when they grow older it's easier for
them to learn different other languages because their brain is already used to
different languages I don't know that's what they say I don't know I just want
her to learn as many things as possible how is Neelu how is her behavior hi sir
she is hiperactive like she's the kind of
toddler she will wake up run around spend a full day run around and she will
never stop until her not have come before she used to cry kind of cry moon
a lot when her nap time was come because she didn't want to go to sleep
but she was so tired now she understand more so I just come to her and I'm like
listen you're tired why don't you have a short nap you will wake up you will feel
better and then we can play again if but I have to say you feel winded time again
to sneak thumbs you start to feel like her
buttery like what I said start to go nowhere I lowered I lower lower and she
can't run on her anymore pizza that's so that's what I feel like
okay now is your time to go to bed thinking about that behavior we were
saying Neelu is kind of same like me so we are the kind of people like we woke
up we need our five minutes we go to a place or they're like strength people
it's a new place or things that we need like our five minutes to observe from
the back to be like okay who is around what's going on and then okay now I
accept everyone I'm fine let me adjust myself and then we will be
fine neelu's absolutely listen like when I go to people's house they just expect
her at this age to like even she know them to like run to them and hug them or
whatever but she sometimes just see them every like what three four six once a
year and I'm like listen why don't you give her five minutes and she will come
to you in five minutes and she will be lovely and actually she does like I
remember yesterday we were in a party and at the beginning okay
the son of them which is like a week older Danilo
here's his living so she was by herself which was kind of good because like that
is gave her time to like okay it's not my house Parque their toys like in my
house and this lady said I got so she felt more confident when he came down I
think if he was awake the thumb she will just feel she was going inside another
kid's house and she will feel like okay this is no mine theme so I can't play
with them but I have to say it was so good like they were behaving both of
them together really really good like I'm so proud of her how she was we have
really strong personality both of us and really strong mood
character and because I know myself I'm trying to treat hurts I'm correct
hurting the things I know I've made mistakes during my life obviously she's
my daughter I need to let her make mistakes but I need to teach her life
this is the correct way like you can't behave this way like there's not a way
like I'm not gonna have child like this I'm not gonna spoil my child and I'm not
going to let you behave but in order to make you think you are happy I mean
because all the kids are saying they cry when you don't give them what they want
so what some parents does it's like okay I give you the word just for you to stop
crying just to shut up and calm down I'm the kind of mom I prefer to face the
problem I mean like okay what's going on does it hurt you anything do you feel
sick I tired I'm hungry i thirsty are you bored whatever I want to find out
what happened to you okay you are tired okay why don't we have enough if we are
outside in the street okay why don't we sit here and then mommy will can't do
anything to you and you will maybe fall asleep or why don't we have a walk
around you will relax you will fall asleep you want mommy to help you the
difference between tantrums and meltdowns cuz sometimes we confuse one
thing with another for my understanding tantrums is when your kids cry because
they are not having what they want because she wanna go to a toy shop and
every time we go to a toy shop she want to left the shop with a toy okay
that can happen once us like okay let's do it
let's fight Once Upon a like always the theme this is something I always kind of
have like a discussion without it trying to make him understand it's like listen
if we are coming every single week to the store are you gonna buy every single
week one toy to your daughter just in order to make her stop crying or you do
better comments that your daughter listen a loop we are in this store this
time because we need to for this person last time we would adore
for you you already have it enjoy it that's it next time when your dog breaks
or when your birthday comes we can buy anything something because also we come
back the same thing I mentioned in the beginning because unnie doesn't spend
time enough with her sometimes I feel like he just don't know how to approach
the situation and he doesn't know what to do and he feel like I can't see my
daughter crying I can't see her suffering I can't see her and I'm like
listen she's doing it in purpose it's all just a drama that sister win cuz she
know how to get to you why she doesn't come crying to me saying mama mama I
want this I own it I mean this because she know I'm not gonna give it to her
that's it don't you see the different another
thing are the marathons for me the meltdown is as I feel it and even me I
said I don't sometimes I feel I'm gonna have a meltdown and I'm like no no no no
control yourself you're old enough is for example take our example the other
day we went to Spain because my father was having an operation and we went
inside the hospital 7:00 a.m. and it was 12 p.m. and the only thing that Nina was
doing was sitting on a high chair in the cafeteria eating and listen to others
conversations or in the waiting room where she has to be quiet and office
posture because people was feeling so annoying that the taller was running
around in a waiting room even me as an adult I was just like oh I'm so stuffed
to be in this hospital I'm just tired to be inside here and I just want to go but
because I'm an idol and it's my father I understand I have to be patient and at
some point he will come out and everything will be fine
what happened to Nina was she start to kind of moan and then she wasn't crying
yet but with happen as soon as you start learning a pair my aunty is my mom my
grandpa they start to be on top of and even me I was feeling like oh my god
give us our space our personal space please what's gonna leave us alone it's
fine so I saw how she felt like an ant and
she has like five elephants on top of her just I'm screaming at her and I was
like okay guys you have to shut it like give me my daughter let me get out with
her so I went to the corridor with her like away from whatever where everybody
was that time she was already crying because I said I feel that she got so
anxious when she fell all of them top of her and speaking at the same time and
screaming and everything I see her on my side and I said listen hello I know how
you're feeling I absolutely understand your mummys
feeling the same why don't you calm down clean your face give mommy a hug give
mommy a kiss let's go outside there's a really nice
Park it's really sunny outside we will wait for grandpa outside so I was okay
on the count of three you have to solve one two or three guys she stopped crying
she stopped screaming see clean her face see give me a hug she give me a kiss and
she was like mommy let's go we went to side she was laughing again she was
running around see it was my turn again happy and sometimes that's what our son
adores we don't understand with the kids we want them to understand the themes
but we don't realize if you are tired imagine how they are like you are so now
that we have the freedom to be like okay guys I'm gonna go for walk five minutes
walk around whatever they can't because your son although they will be like no
no you can't go around you need to stay here you need to stay here because I
want to stay here we kinda like we need to sometimes kind of adjust things to
them as well and I think especially when you are in public places where
everybody's looking at you you as a parent kind of I don't feel embarrassed
by me I feel up serve and I feel more anxious of people looking at me even
they are judging me I don't care I mean I don't like I feel like what I say in
court the aunt with the elephants on top so I feel I am the aunt and the people
is judging me as an elephants on top of me and I'm like
listen I need to get out from here my daughters having a meltdown I'm gonna
home and zone so I do better get out but I'm also the kind of mom if she has a
tantrum if she decide to cry in a minute of the street and throw herself in the
floor and start kicking and punching and screaming or whatever I'm like Neelu you
stay there when you come down because I know you can come down you can come back
to mommy mommy with hockey okay she would be friends again
but I really believe that's how it should be the way since this age because
if you give them discipline and you tell them like you you can't have this you
can do this from now you're gonna avoid so many traumas and so many meltdowns
and so many things in future and you're gonna make your kids understand like
they kind of life doesn't give your with what you want when you want it how you
want it so they have to learn it as soon as possible to don't have any
disappointments in future Oh some people been asking me how is she behaving with
the idea of having baby I have to say she loves babies she loved to be around
baby she loved to take care of babies I was really concerned about that since I
told her I was having a baby she's lovely she will take care of me when I
get sick she will come to me then kind of like cut me and cuddle me and that's
me I'm like mommy are you okay she would like hang me this ship if I get sick in
the mornings or something enough she would give me teacher be like mommy your
nose and she will suddenly just come and pull my shirt up and start kissing my
belly and I started hanging my belly and talking to baby and giving the bottle to
baby and giving toys to kind of like play with him I say him all the time my
little general yet Neelu before for the last 17 months shipping our really fussy
eater serious literally a nightmare like I will have to force her to eat and
I will have to pure everything and do kind of like huge foods to make sure she
was eating but at some point or so when we move to this house I kind of changed
my mentality and I was like no I need to help her I need teacher she's not gonna
learn by herself so basically the first thing that I did which was the best was
I changed her high chair she was having a let's say like a baby from six months
chair to like a proper high chair where she will have more spaces she feel more
like like an adult that's what she liked to copy me to be having more like
freedom to move her legs up and down and then stand up it reads so many things on
how big they were before was like a kind of like a tiny table but she really know
what she likes and what not so every day I do different things to kind of like
learn what she really likes or not and some does seem to be like mommy be snow
geese other or whatever she loves pasta she's obsessed with
pasta doesn't matter the way how I do it except in that type of like her purely
order telling me is not her favorite she doesn't really like them she just will
just like to chill them take away the sauce but that I see does it like for
the rest seat everything everything everything would be another friend
except she doesn't like fish and she doesn't like meat so I think it happens
to her so what is happen to a lot of kids like they are not used to chew that
seems so for her she will for example make chicken but after two seconds she
is just like having a lot of people see we just make this huge bowl of like
marched chicken and sherry says play me out like I can't swallow this and it's
try on whatever but it's fine she's eating as I said really really
good the right sheet a lot of fruits eat a lot of vegetables which I think it's
really good I'm really really happy and everything but is so surprised to see
how hunter says he has changed and what
makes me feel even happier all the change
that has happened guys since we moved to this house like like the first theme is
that I gave me a routine no she loved to be on a high chair so I can go to
restaurants make sure she will be on a tighter and she really they're happily
and fine before every time I think about oh my god go to a restaurant and have
her sitting on top of me that's such an idea from you it's just like someone
would tell me let's go Pyrus and i was like no thank you no no no no I'm happy
home another thing that has changed since we move is that officially seems a
week go we have stopped breastfeeding hundred percent and another thing that
has changed which is a video I uploaded a few weeks ago which is the change from
sleeping with us to sleep by herself before in that video
I spoke about how I changed her to her coat which I actually transformed in bed
but now we bought our official bed for her so that's everything for today thank
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