so apparently Jason Nash thinks that he has fixed Trisha Paytas so let's talk
about that what is up everybody this is Chris from the rewired soul where we
talk about the problem but focus on the solution and if you're new to my channel
my channel is all about mental health and what I like to do is pull different
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different and yes that's true because my beautiful girlfriend has her
best friend she'll be in town and her husband so they're in the living room
watching some TV decide to record this video because a lot of people requested
it so disclaimer I don't know all I know is what I see but the reason I make
these videos is because I know a lot of you can relate to the youtubers that you
watch right so as I go into this video because first I'm going to talk about
Trisha and before anybody like Trisha stands come here and say listen Trisha
Paytas has admitted to having borderline personality disorder so I'm not a
diagnosing a damn thing so yeah the holidays are over and jason
nash just uploaded his most recent vlog holiday gift exchange at the beginning
of the vlog and then jason and Trisha went out to Chicago to meet up with
david dobrik and do the podcast and all of that and a lot of people asked me to
check this video out and watch it and a lot of people wanted me to talk about
the jason nash situation but i know a lot of my viewers have borderline
personality disorder or a lot of you are trying to learn more about borderline
personality disorder because maybe you'll have a loved one so I'm going to
talk about a few of the things that Trisha said I think he will change I
think I think you will we know but we were saying and
better more stable reason comes I think what you have you got first first I want
to talk about this conversation they had about her getting better all right so
here's something that I get asked a lot I get asked a lot from people who are in
relationships or even it might be toxic family members and by the way go watch
the video that my mom and I did over on her channel about dysfunctional families
I'll link it up in the info card and down in the description but I get people
asking me they're like they're trying to get better they're trying to get better
right I'm like what is trying mean like what is trying mean and one of the most
recent videos I did on Trisha Paytas and Jason Nash was where Jason was talking
about how he almost called the cops on Trisha because she was blocking the door
all right so like what's he mean by getting better and this is important for
a lot of us who get into toxic relationships because so many of us stay
in a relationship were like oh they're not that bad they're not as bad as they
were but it's still pretty bad like for example and this is not Trisha and
Jayden Jason okay but I've seen people who have been in like a physically
abusive relationship but then the person stops abusing them physically and now
they're just doing emotional abuse so like they're better right so what does
better mean like when we're talking about somebody trying to improve their
mental health or work on their mental illness whatever it is like this means
actionable steps like I always tell you guys actions speak louder than words and
we've seen we've seen clear as day throughout all of their vlogs that Jason
and Trish do not do therapy on a consistent basis that is a fad all right
they've done some videos with Kati morning and everything like that but you
see how they go off and on with therapy and it kind of bums me out because
especially with Trisha stating that she has borderline personality disorder
Jason talking about his bipolar disorder like these are two people dealing with
mental illness and don't get me wrong like a lot of people get it twisted what
I say like when two people are broken and not working on themselves they
should not be together right but they have the potential of having a better
healthy relationship if they were both working on each other but what you see
in this relationship and some other ones that you might have been in before this
is kind of codependency I don't need to fix myself because you
complete me right as long as I'm with you
you'll make me okay that's not how mental health works your brain doesn't
magically get fixed because you're with somebody so now we're gonna explain why
Trisha Paytas is so clean that right there is a very common symptom of
borderline personality disorder all right again I'm not she is
self-admittedly just said that she was diagnosed with
borderline personality disorder so one of the common symptoms of borderline
personality disorder is a fear of abandonment okay now one of the best
books I read on borderline personality disorder was I hate you don't leave me
I'll link it down in the description if you want to check it out but they talk
about what causes borderline personality disorder and there's things such as
genetics but a lot of it is environment and what we go through as a child so
when you're a baby you start to develop something called object permanence all
right so one of the reasons why peekaboo is such a fun game with babies is
because they don't have object permanence developed yet so when you go
like this they actually think that you've disappeared if you take an object
and put it behind your back a baby doesn't understand that the object went
behind your back and their brain it says that that thing's gone forever this is
why by the way that is very important to develop a nurturing like an emotional
bond with your child when they are young because if you leave and a baby doesn't
know if you're coming back like if you don't come back when they're crying or
they're hungry or whatever it is like they can have an issue developing object
permanence so a lot of people with borderline personality disorder and this
might big emphasis on might be one of the reasons why Trisha Paytas developed
this because her father left right so as a child a lot of people develop
borderline personality disorder when they have pillow
who are in and out of their lives okay and for some people it's just an
alcoholic parent it's a parent who they live with but they never know if their
parents gonna be emotionally available so this is how that fear of abandonment
develops because it never it never fully gets healed unless you work on it
through therapy all right so what trisha is saying is like if they live together
she wouldn't have as many issues because when they're apart she freaks out if any
of you struggle with borderline personality disorder you know exactly
what I'm talking about there's so much anxiety that comes so
like if you know somebody with borderline personality disorder this is
one of the reasons why they might freak out on you when you don't return attack
so you don't go back with because what their brains telling you them is this
person is never coming back this person has disappeared forever so
what can happen is a lot of people are borderline personality disorder
self-sabotage their relationships because they are so clean like think
about that for a second they're so worried that the other person is going
to leave them that they're very overbearing they need that person around
all the time they will text and call constantly
because if they don't have this cost a reminder that the person is there their
brain tells them that they're leaving for good and this is why ther appears
very beneficial because it helps you sit down and recognize these thought
patterns right through things like cognitive behavioral therapy or
dialectical behavioral therapy but this isn't something that you could just go
to therapy once and do these types of therapies they take practice dialectical
behavioral therapy is one of the best treatment methods for borderline
personality disorder if any of you who have BPD and have been working on it and
going through therapy let me know if you're doing CBT or DBT and let me know
how it's helping right because what happens is you so to be more mindful of
these thoughts and these emotions that are coming up one thing that I always
try to teach people struggling with symptoms of borderline personality
disorder or even fear of abandonment right is to write down a list of what is
true what is false right because our brain will tell us this person's leaving
us but that's not always true one of the best lessons I can teach any of you
watching this video is just because your brain thinks it does not mean it's true
Oh remember that and sometimes it helps to
write that down on paper I was thinking about it you've gotten a lot better the
URL major major major major hey you know I'm not somebody that would want to do
that I'm not the guy that's like let me fix you believe me but out of necessity
you put zero effort into our relations oh my god I've really put the work in
with you so this last clip right here this is the one that made people want me
to make this video right Jason Nash thinking that he fixed Trisha so this is
difficult and like I'm just saying just from watching this like Jason has a half
smirk on his face the whole time Trisha is kind of like looking at him like are
you serious right now and it seems like Jason's joking and
Jason's a comedian see I get a lot of you who say like oh this is all they're
all just joking all the fights are just staged and they're joking like you guys
they're both messed up human beings most of their fights that you see are real
but in this particular conversation I can't really tell now what I will say is
watching a lot of comedians and documentaries and everything like that
and be somebody who jokes around a lot myself a lot of humor is rooted in
reality right it's just we kind of say it a little bit differently are we
changed you know our facial expressions like haha I'm joking
but I'm kind of telling you the truth right but let's let's just say
theoretically that he is being serious cuz this is just a lesson I want to
teach all of you is never go into a relationship thinking that you can fix
somebody or that they're a fixer-upper people are not houses okay so many
people get into a relationship with someone who's broken thinking they can
fix them on one of my other videos I asked you guys how how many of you have
stayed in a relationship far too long thinking that the other person was gonna
change or you were gonna fix them okay like I don't know where this delusion
comes for so many of us where we think we have to
or to fix other people like think about that like that is a little a little
crazy it's almost like a god complex right like oh look at me I can fix
people like I have no I have no delusion any longer that I can fix anybody I put
this information out here on YouTube and if you want to take some of it and do it
use it to improve your life awesome but I would go absolutely insane if I
thought I was gonna fix every single person who watch these videos hell check
the comments sometime some people watch these videos think I'm a freaking idiot
so how am I gonna help fix them you know what I mean so never go into a
relationship thinking you're going to fix somebody because it will drive you
insane and that might even be a sign of
codependency alright and again go check out my mom's channel dr. Carrie Randazzo
she's a professional psychologist she is coming back to town in a few weeks she's
gonna be doing a lot a lot of videos about journaling as well as codependency
and dysfunctional families and dysfunctional relationships alright
anyways let me know what you guys think down in the comments below or let me
know if you try CBT or DBT alright but thanks so much for watching if you like
this video please give it a thumbs up if you're new make sure you subscribe and
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you to everybody supporting the channel over on patreon you are all amazing and
this first week of January I will announce what's coming soon for all of
the patrons in 2019 alright thanks again for watching I'll see you next time
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