BEAR MAN AND …. WOMAN?
I bet you heard or you said yourself: that man is a bit of a bear, meaning a retired man, maybe a bit clumsy, someone that loves to be on is own, and so on.
What is the counterpart of "bear man" in the female world?
There is not!
There is not a bear woman, in fact, there is a wolf-woman instead, but is something different, she is not a retired woman.
A she-wolf is a predatory woman with a marked sexual value, from which the etymology of the term "lupanar" (whorehouse).
This thing is interesting.
So, we have a stereotype of a clumsy, shy, asocial man which can deprive himself of the human relationship, but there is no an equal stereotype for the woman.
Or better: there is and it is negative!
Because? While the retired man embodies the stereotypes of wisdom (the hermit, the holy man, the stylite sitting on the column ...),
the lonely woman is either cat lady or a witch or a saint who has, however, had to cancel her femininity or is a woman who is unlucky.
That is, the hermit woman did not understand something more than life as it may be for hermit man but instead, she seems to have lost something in her own life.
Again, the only hermit woman who understood something positive had to marry Christ, renouncing all her carnality.
In fact, there are a whole series of strange but very interesting stereotypes related to male and female genres. What do these stereotypes tell us?
Several years ago, an anthropologist wrote that male and female genres, in their extremes,
might coincide with autism in man, that is, the inability to understand emotions and then retire to lonely life,
while for women, the extreme would be DeClerembault's syndrome, that is Erotomania,
which simply means seeing love, desire, and relationship where it is not, falling in love most of the time with important men.
That said, it is true that society, with a patriarchal and sexist background, granted to the bear male a dignity tied to wisdom,
so the bear man or hermit is a man who has, indeed, understood something more than life
(though in the fairy tales there is also the archetype of the beast-man, a retired man regressed to a brutal level);
the woman who is deprived of relationality, instead, is unlucky or malignant.
The witch, in fact, is a single woman, a hermit woman who has denied her fertility by virtue of a pact with the Devil
but she has not only denied her fertility, she denies the fertility of other women and of the earth: she kills children, makes animals sterile and hardened the soil.
So she is an anti-fertile woman, an anti-Eva, a Lilith which, marrying Satan has exalted her carnal dimension
and whose condemnation, however, is her personal infertility and a sterility transmitted to the world.
The Christ's bride, on her side, having married Jesus sees her sexuality canceled by virtue of a spiritual bond with the divine.
These two models fail to generate a complete female figure: the woman is hypersexualized or desexualized.
And then there is a well-known and friendly archetype of the cat woman which did not find a male partner (as if finding a man was an absolute necessity for a woman)
And now she accompanies herself with cats, these cute animals who, however, they too are known to be a small and sympathetic egoist.
So this poor woman not only did not find a man and did not realize herself with children (as if doing children was an absolute necessity for a woman)
but, getting old, she lives with cats who, for their own selfish nature, do not give her the love she would like.
Anyway, the cat woman archetype is not similar to a wise woman, but it recalls the image of a homeless … let's think, for example, of the Simpsons' Cat Lady!
All these words to reflect about stereotypes related to the female and male word and what society has, over the centuries,
instilled about the purposes of male and female beings and how these things heavily relate to sex genders.
Women, therefore, would be related to the relationship while the males would not be fit for the relationship or not so skilled in emotional communication.
Every time we joke about this topic we reinforce certain ideas:
males never understand the women's emotions, the latter expect that males could understand them by magic ways and without having to talk, and so on.
We'll talk about it in a new video.
By now I salute you …
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