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Crazy Rich Asians is not really about Asians - Duration: 6:58.The film Crazy Rich Asians was released a few months ago,
and it was quite successful,
and performed really well at the box office.
In this video
I'm going to tell you how Crazy Rich Asians
is not really about Asians,
but just about Crazy Rich people.
The film has what you can say, a mediocre plot.
A rich man loves a poor woman.
They are both Asians, living in America.
The man takes the woman to his hometown, Singapore,
to introduce her to his crazy rich family.
The family obviously disapproves of the woman, because
she is a poor Asian American
who has no understanding of how the rich live.
But the woman is a fighter,
and because of her sheer authenticity
she wins everybody's heart, and gets married to the guy
Conflict solved.
Oh, and this entire thing is
set in rich luxurious houses,
and all the people wear filthy expensive clothes,
and are drowning in dazzling jewelry, and drive
posh high-end cars,
and the women are gorgeous to look at,
and the men have hot bodies,
and there are innumerable parties,
and it seems like a lot of money is thrown around in these parties,
and it's all such a grand celebration of
the wealth and the excesses these crazy rich people possess.
So, how is this film about Asians?
You can replace the cast of the film
with people from any other nationality
and absolutely nothing's going to change about the film.
Crazy rich Americans.
Crazy rich Russians.
Crazy rich Indians.
Crazy rich Slovenians.
Crazy Rich Hungarians.
Sure the location would change,
and a few things here and there about the culture.
But other than that,
the core theme of the film will still be same –
a celebration of all the riches in the world,
so that the common person,
who is basically a regular everyday citizen
earning an average income,
which is almost everybody in the world,
would be enticed to spend their money on buying a ticket for the film.
It's a film, that uses the the evergreen formula of
most blockbusters:
sell the audience a dream,
that they can escape into.
A dream that is so so far off
from their everyday common lives.
If this was truly an Asian film,
then I would have liked to see something about the life
of the poor Asian American woman.
What sort of challenges she faces in a society
that is riddled with discrimination.
And how she goes about tackling those challenges.
Or perhaps I would have liked to learn
more about the crazy rich Asian guy.
What sort of challenges he faced
while growing up in a society that
worships material wealth.
Or maybe when when he moved to America,
what was his condition?
Did he face as much discrimination as the
poor Asian American woman,
or were the Americans nice to him because he was crazy rich.
I wanted to see a film about real humans
struggling and fighting and accepting real human challenges.
Not a film about Barbie-doll characters
living in a Barbie-doll fantasy world
with their plastic conflicts that feel so fake.
Sure, the film features an ensemble Asian cast,
and sure Asians are an underrepresented race in Hollywood.
So this film is doing something quote unquote good
by casting Asians in it.
But will films like these
encourage humans to treat other fellow humans
from different races with love and respect and dignity?
Will films like these instill men and women with a spirit
that endeavors for equality and
sees the same living organism in each and every person
regardless of their cast and creed and race and gender?
I am not very sure about it.
Let me give you an example.
If you are not an Asian, and you are listening to my voice,
do you find something different about my accent?
If you do, what does that make you feel?
Do you consider me to be a human that is equal to you.
Or do you find yourself getting too caught up
with my how my accent sounds
and how it's not as good and superior as yours?
Or maybe let me put this another way.
If I were to speak like this,
would you be more willing to listen to what I am saying?
Would you be more willing
to let go of your pre-conceived notions
and judgments you have about Asian people?
If I were to speak like this,
would you be more willing to listen to what I am saying?
Would you be more willing
to let go of your pre-conceived notions
and judgments you have about Asian people?
Don't give me an answer right now.
Just let that question rest inside of you.
What I'm trying to say is that
these are the subtle questions
that films need to address about racial discrimination and about
gender discrimination and about body discrimination
and about all other sorts of discrimination.
That, in my humble opinion,
is definitely a better way in moving towards
a human consciousness
that delights in the equality of one and all.
I'm sorry to say, but
I feel that films like Crazy Rich Asians
are just cashing in
on the anti-racism sentiments that exist in our society.
They do very little to educate us
of the discriminatory behavior that exists
in all of us.
When I am watching a film like this,
I'm not really learning anything about myself.
I am very sure that I have shown
discriminatory behavior towards people based on their race.
Yes, I have been a racist.
I have done it because of my ignorance
and my lack of awareness about this issue.
And I expect films to make me aware of my own ignorance
so that I can become more conscious of myself
and then use that awareness to deal respectfully with other people.
While watching Crazy Rich Asians, nothing like this happened.
It just felt like another trashy film,
but with Asian characters in it.
Old wine in a new bottle.
I haven't seen Black Panther yet,
but from the reviews I have read,
I feel it has a similar problem.
It just has Black people in it.
The same way
It just has Asian people in it.
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Profit And Get Rich | Growtopia #1 - Duration: 12:06.Hallo Guys
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Liverpool news: Sky Sports pundit sends 'dangerous' transfer message to Jurgen Klopp - Duration: 3:01.That is the view of Sky Sports pundit Tim Sherwood, who thinks Liverpool are in a strong enough position as they stand and don't need to sign any new players
Last summer, Jurgen Klopp splashed out over £170million on new players which saw the likes of Alisson, Fabinho and Xherdan Shaqiri come through the door at Anfield
The serious outlay has had the desired effect as the Reds are currently six points clear at the top of the Premier League table, while their nearest challengers Tottenham failed to spend a single penny
While the Reds' rivals are likely to make a foray when the transfer window reopens, Sherwood thinks it would be unwise for Klopp's side to follow suit
"It's really dangerous for people to think they need to add extra players," Sherwood said on The Debate
"You can change the whole dynamic of your dressing room by doing that. "They are in this position and I wouldn't sign another player
"Newcastle did it with Faustino Asprilla [in 1996] and it was a disaster. "We know what a good player he was, he almost changed the dynamics of how they played, but it didn't work out
"If it ain't broke, don't fix it. "At the moment, I think the squad is strong enough, if they cope with injuries, to compete until the end
" Liverpool host Arsenal next on Saturday (5.30pm). Meanwhile, fellow Sky Sports pundit Craig Bellamy reckons the Reds can go the remainder of the campaign unbeaten, but isn't ruling out Manchester City's title chances despite their recent blip
"I don't believe Liverpool will go unbeaten, they will lose one or two games, and I personally think Man City will win the league," Bellamy said
"I think Pep Guardiola would be rubbing his hands saying 'game on - last year, we won it so comfortably, now let's see what we've got'
"They have a manager who is a serial winner so they have a lot of factors that they can look back on
With seven points to make up, especially over the Christmas period, you can get that back
"Don't write Man City off yet."
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Today I challenge the roof wrapping
Use glossy black
Unlike painting, it can be peeled off even if it fails
I will do my best
Think about how to wrap
Remove side pillars
B pillar removal
Mall removal
It is important to paste without wrinkles
I am not good at fine work.
I am not confident that I can do it well
sad news
Failure
An hour ago
There is a day like this
Try again with Magjora seat
Struggling
It is difficult to be alone.
I worked for two hours but I could not do it
Give up on the roof and challenge accessories
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5 Biggest Makeup Mistakes On Mature Eyes Tutorial Over 50 | Fabulous50s - Duration: 20:07.today I'm going to show you the five big mistakes women make when applying makeup
to mature eyes hi I'm Schellea and this is fabulous 50s a lifestyle channel that
explores fashion beauty and lifestyle for women over 50 and if you're a woman
over 50 click subscribe and click the bell and you'll be alerted every time
there's a new video and they'll all relate to you I'm going to show you the
five big makeup mistakes that we can all make on this site and then I'm going to
show you how to apply your eye makeup with some technique so that you look
younger fresher and more vibrant okay let's get started
the first big mistake women make when applying makeup to mature eyes is not to
prime the reason we prime our eyelids is because our eyelids are very oily and
particularly as we're getting older they become more oily so if you apply
eyeshadow to your eyelid without a primer by the end of the day or even
after a couple of hours you're going to get creasing in your eyeshadow and you
don't want that because it looks really cakey so to use a primer is the best
thing that you can do so I'm going to start applying my eye makeup to show you
what not to do on this side and what to do on this side I love the Too Faced
insurance eye primer you only need a really tiny bit and you tap it into your
eye just really gently and you don't need too much of this because you want
it to be a smooth film rather than a thick coating and this is just a really
small thing to do but it makes your eyeshadow last so much longer so what it
does is it make sure I shadow pop more the color becomes more intense and it
stops the creasing so prime is the first thing and I think everybody over the age
of 50 should be using a primer for that eye shadow
okay the second big mistake we make with our mature
is to go against basic color theories so what I mean by that is we applied dark
in the wrong places and light in the wrong places so I'm going to show you
what the mistakes are and I'm going to show you how to fix them basic color
theory tells us that dark colors recede and light colors make bigger so we wear
black and dark colors where we want to look skinny and we would paint a room
white if we want to make it look more spacious and this rule applies to makeup
it applies to fashion it applies to interior design it's one rule fits all
so we've got to use it when we're applying our makeup so I'm going to
start by showing you the wrong way to apply dark color and then I'll show you
how to apply it on the other eye then I'm going to show you the wrong way to
apply a light color and I'll show you on the other eye how to do it correctly I'm
using my eye shadows here they're just in a little palette that I make myself
so when I buy an eyeshadow I take it out of the container and I put it in here
and these are the ones that I use every day so it's really easy everything's
here in one place the part of our eye that we want to make skinny and recede
is this part here it's the hood it's the part that's loose skin and as we're
getting older this skin becomes looser and falls down a little bit so it makes
our eyes look quite heavy and droopy so we're going to receive this with a dark
color and the part we want to make look bigger is this part here because as far
as eyes go that's our most important real estate because if this part of our
I can appear bigger we look more youthful okay so I'm going to show you
the wrong way first and I'm going to apply a dark color to the part that we
want to make bigger but actually we're going to make it smaller and I'm not
going to use a primer
it feels so wrong putting this on without a primer it doesn't glide very
nicely okay so I'm going to do that and another thing I'm going to do with my
dark color is I'm gonna follow nature and sort of go down where my natural eye
goes so I'm just following the natural
folds in my eye now the right way to apply dark to a mature eye is where we
want to recede it so we would put it up here now let me show you what I'm going
to do there
I would normally do this part after I've done my eyelid but I'm just showing you
so you can get an idea of right and mistake now that needs to be blended but
you can get the idea so this has made this part of my eye look smaller and
what I wanted really is for this part my hood to look smaller now I'm going to
show you how to use light colors in the wrong way so I'm going to apply a light
shadow onto the hood which is what we really want to recede but this light
color is going to bring it forward just like painting a white room it's going to
make it look bigger
okay so can you see that another thing that's done is it's made all these lines
way more noticeable because it's bringing attention this is where I've
got wrinkles here at this part of my eye by adding the light to them it's making
those wrinkles appear a lot bigger than they are
actually I think they were already big but I'm making them look bigger okay now
I'm going to show you how to apply light the correct way so we take the same eye
shadow I'll leave all these colors the ones that I use in the description below
to show you but we're going to add a light color to our eyelid now
now I've got to blend out but just to show you what that looks like what I've
done is I've made this part here the important part bigger and you can tell
the difference I'm just going to go ahead and blend those colors together
now so make sure that you always blend your dark colors very very well because
you don't want harsh lines and harsh colors so you just add a little bit more
and you blend back and forth back and forth until you've got the consistency
in the color that you love while we're talking about light colors I'm going to
show you another two things that I do to add light to my eyes so I take a nude
eyeliner pencil and I line the bottom waterline of my eye so I'll do that on
the right side and I won't do it on the mistake side so you just gently will put
that in the water line and this NARS one it doesn't wear off all day again you
can see that's opened my eye everything on this side is opening and everything
on this side is drawing down making look heavy and making look older and I'm
going to add a little bit of light up here to just pop that out a little bit
and a little bit of light here
so I'm bringing this forward and I'm bringing that part forward and just tap
that in and when you've added a little bit of light here
you can just go over that with the tiny bit of eyeshadow the third really big
mistake we make when we're applying makeup to mature eyes is when we follow
nature with our eye liner so that's the one thing that makes us look a lot older
because naturally our eye comes down here and if you follow this line with an
eye liner again you're bringing it down it's just so heavy so to fix that
problem we slightly give it a kick up at the end of our eye and this'll lift so
I'll show you how to do it the wrong way and then I'll show you how to do it the
right way
ah I just feel like I wanna clean all that up but I want to show you what it
does I've done two things wrong here I'm going to show you the first thing I did
wrong is that I made the line here very thick and because this is our most
valuable real estate this area here if we darken it again with a thick line
just here we're going to reduce it so that is the first mistake the second
mistake you see how I've gone down here and it's just drawn it down and that
looks terrible so the basic rule of thumb for eye
makeup is not to follow nature we've got to create a lift and I'm going to show
you on this eye how to create that lift
now what I've done here is on the last eyelash I've kicked it up like this
and then you come down into a line and form a triangle and that leaves a little
bit of the end free of eyeliner so you haven't used up all of that space as
opposed to this side we've drawn a line all the way down another thing to note
is if you've got a very small amount of skin here showing the finer the line you
use with your eyeliner the better I have more area to work with and I can use a
thicker line and that's what I like but if you don't have much here go very fine
and do the kick and you'll love the look and if we're going to follow nature with
our line underneath that will actually bring attention to drawing our eye down
unless you've got a really straight line underneath your eye already we have to
create that so let me show you the line underneath
so this is following my natural life but what I want to do is create a lift so
I'm going to do a very gentle and soft line but I'm not going to follow down
here I'm going to keep this part where it droops straight
okay so that's really subtle it's not thick and then once I've done that line
I'm going to take a little bit of eyeshadow a more neutral color and I'm
just going to go over that to blend it out and to soften it up
okay the eyeshadow is really great at softening up a dark heavy line and the
softness is much better on mature eyes one more thing that lots of people still
do is to add a light color here on the brow bone and I'll just show you what
happens when we do that because we're bringing more attention to the wrinkles
and the droop so I've just gone up a little bit higher just to show you that
okay the fourth big mistake we make is to follow nature again and go with our
natural eyebrow as we're getting older many of us lose our eyebrows or we've
over plucked them and they didn't grow back and a good shaped eyebrow really
helps create the perfect look for our face so I'm going to show you how to
measure out your eyebrows and what will suit your face the best so you grab an
eyebrow pencil I use the benefit precision brow number two and you take
your eyebrow pencil and you put it between your nose and your corner of
your eye and then you leave a mark like this so that dot there is where your
eyebrow starts and then on the other side you take it from the corner of your
nose to the corner of your eye and you go up like this and that dot there is
where your eyebrows should finish so that's the symmetry of your face and
they're the perfect measurements so you can see I've got a good distance between
here and here with no eyebrows and when I show you on the other side of my face
it makes a big difference when there's something there because it puts
everything more in proportion okay I'm going to do this side so I'll do this
that's the dot there and on this side
with the eyebrows it's really important to only feather strokes on this part of
your eyebrow and you can line the rest here and fill it in but if you're going
to color this in and make it really heavy it looks too much and it makes us
look too old so I'm going to show you how to do it properly
so basically you're just adding some strokes and then when you come
underneath you can fill in the gap
you can also create a little bit of a lift here if you like it does bring your
eye up so on the top you just do a little bit extra and then bring it down
okay and on the other end of the eye pencil you'll have a brush and you brush
your eyebrows upwards and that's it and I love to use an eyebrow setting gel on
top of that this is also benefit I'll leave the links below but it's just like
hairspray and it keeps your eyebrows in place and it kind of accentuates the
hairs that you do have and makes it all look a bit fuller so you can see the
difference there these eyebrows have really helped shape my face and this
side looks like it just needs something and that's what it is it needs an
eyebrow and the fifth biggest mistake we make with our mature eye makeup is not
to curl our lashes now a lot of people say it's not worth the trouble but I'm
going to show you what it does for my eyelashes and again we're creating a
lift so everything about this side is lifted and everything about this side is
droopy so let me show you the difference so an eyelash curler
if you haven't used one of these before it is definitely worthwhile getting it
takes a little bit of practice if you're brand new to it and if you've got
straight eyelashes like you're going to notice such a difference this one's a
shoot memory and I've had it for years and years and years and it still works
perfectly I like to heat it gently with a blow dryer because the heat will set
your eyelashes and keep them curled up so you can try that at home
but don't let the rubber get too hot because it can burn your eyelids so be
safe with that and here's what you do you clamp your eyelashes like this
plant them and then you gently turn it towards your inner eye and hold for 10
seconds or you can pulse it lightly I'm going to do the mistake side first and
we're going to not curl them and we're going to apply the mascara in the wrong
way so this is a thrive mascara and is this beautiful I'll leave the link below
and to do it the wrong way to get the least benefit for our mature eyes is to
apply from the top and to apply your pressure downwards
so we are doing it the wrong way okay that's that I now I'm going to go to the
curled eye and I'm going to go from underneath up and I'm going to zigzag it
a little bit towards close to the eye and bring me mascara upwards
and then gently on the top of my eyelash I'm just going to do it gently and kick
it up and then go back underneath and set that again okay that's one coat of
mascara so let that dry a little bit and you can add a second coat on top of that
if you like which is what I always do so I'm going to go in on this eye again and
if you're just rushing and not doing your mascara with purpose it does tend
just to look straight and then they just don't look nice okay that's my second
coat to the mistake eye and now I'll do my second coat to the good eye okay so
there's some results I have a mistake one mistake after the other five in fact
and this side I've done it with a little bit more finesse and I think I've got a
much better result let me know if you've got some great eye makeup tips I'd love
to hear them please give a thumbs up if you enjoyed
this video and share it with any of your girlfriends who have mature eyes thank
you so much for watching and have a beautiful week
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Richard Wolff talks about the effects of the purge of the left in the decades after the New Deal - Duration: 5:08.And so whether the movies or the TV shows that came in, or the radio shows, or
the schools, or the universities, or the colleges, or the labor movement, wherever
the purge could go it went. Hounding people for their ideas, hounding people
for the questions they asked, silencing an entire generation. And of course, the
predictable happened. And I want to hammer at that. Killing off those
leaderships, destroying the education of people in critical ways of thinking, was
very convenient. It made it possible for the next decades (the 70s, the 60s already.
50s, 60s, 70s, 80s) to be times of rolling back the New Deal. Which we did. We let
the minimum wage rot as prices went higher. The minimum wage wasn't adjusted
so the real effect was to reduce it. Government employment stopped dead in
its tracks even in the crisis of 2008 when we had millions and millions of
Americans losing their jobs, no leader of the Republican, or Democratic Party even,
brought up the idea of a government jobs program, even though it had worked so
well the last time we had this problem. That's how successful the purge went. You
don't bring up those ideas. They had become taboo. They had become unthinkable,
unspeakable, out of the norm. It meant that the people who were critical of
America's adventures overseas went to help big business, we went to war, or
abused other countries, or allowed our allies to do unspeakable things, you know
like Saudi Arabia did a few weeks ago. Where were the critics? We didn't have
them. They were afraid to speak when poverty went nuts in America over the
last 40 years. Where were the critics when the inequality of income in America
exploded. Where were the critics? They were afraid. They kept their mouths shut. They
were afraid to see what was going on, or certainly to speak about it,
for fear that they would be subject sooner or later to another purge like
that horrible one they had lived through or heard from their parents about back
in the late 40s and 50s. The impact was to weaken the labor movement, to weaken
social criticism, to convert, for example, the Congress of the United States, the
political scene. Not to a debate between the people who appreciate and like
capitalism on the one hand and those who are critical on the other. That would be a
healthy debate. No, no, no, no. None of that. We have people in Republican leadership
and Democratic leadership whose job it is to outdo one another in celebrating
the system as it is and demonizing critics. They're still doing that because
they haven't learned the lesson. It's particularly poignant with the Democrats
who don't understand that by not keeping the other side of the political spectrum
in a balance they were in effect ceding the territory to the other side. It was
the part that could call itself American having demonized the other part. For
those of you who weren't alive then, let me tell you, in the 1930s it went the
other way. It was the capitalists who had brought
us the Great Depression it was their bad investments, their corruption, their
banking irregularities that had plunged us into this morass of 11-12 years of
depression. They weren't heroes. They were crooks.
There were exploiters. They were the Robber Barons. But the last 40 years has
converted them into "creative job-creating entrepreneurs." Nice change
of language that reflects the purge of those who were critical.
And of course, the end result of that is precisely the Trump administration, even
though there were many steps up to it. The costs of economic inequality, the
costs of political nightmare, those are some of the prices we're paying now in
economic reality, because of the politics of destroying the New Deal coalition at
the end of World War II. It is a lesson, a testament, to the power of politics to
shape our economics.
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Roberto Firmino gets a new haircut to celebrate Liverpool's win - Duration: 2:44.Liverpool are flying high in the Premier League, now six points clear of their closest rivals, and striker Roberto Firmino is looking happier than ever
To celebrate a massive 4-0 win over Newcastle on Wednesday, the Brazilian was spotted out getting a new trim
It was getting a bit long, so Firmino has gone back to his usual shaved sides. Perhaps he thinks it'll make him a bit more streamlined, as the front man didn't actually get on the score sheet at Anfield this week
Firmino was looking a little glum before his haircut, but afterwards he was beaming as he showed off his slick new do
He and the rest of the Liverpool team have plenty to be happy about as they're now six points clear of Tottenham at the top of the Premier League table
Manchester City have slumped to two shock defeats to Crystal Palace and Leicester City over the past week, which has let Liverpool extend their lead at the top and has left them down in third position
Liverpool are playing their best football in years, and are now in pole position in the league as we head into 2019
Despite Liverpool's success, Roberto Firmino is actually having a slower start to the season than he did in 2017
In the Premier League last season he scored 15 goals and provided seven assists in his 37 matches
Right now he's not on track to match those scoring stats, with just four in his first 19 games
However, Mohamed Salah and Sadio Mane are on their usual goalscoring form, and Xherdan Shaqiri has also stepped up to the plate, netting six times so far this season
Plus, Liverpool are much improved defensively, conceding just seven goals up until now
So, even though Firmino isn't scoring as much as usual, with Liverpool doing as well as they are, it's no wonder he's all smiles
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Richard Wolff on the Taft-Hartley Act - Duration: 4:18.In 1947 a law was passed called the Taft-Hartley bill, after Senator Taft and
congressperson Hartley. And this was a remarkable piece of legislation. It went
after the Communists, it went after the Socialists, and it went after the labor
unions. It basically told labor unions that they couldn't anymore elect
democratically their own leaders. For example, it forbade a communist from
running for office, winning a majority of the votes and serving as the leader of a
union, which communists had been doing for 20 or more years in the United
States without an incident. It became illegal. Wow. But it went much further. It
had a remarkable clause which has remained law to this day as I'm speaking.
And the clause goes like this: if at a workplace (a factory, an office, a store)
there's a union, and let's say half the workers in this place have voted for the
Union and joined the Union and have a union there. And let's say that that
Union negotiates with the employer and gets a contract, let's say a wage
increase of 10 cents an hour. Under the Taft-Hartley law, then and to this moment,
that Union must give anything it wins with the employer to all the
workers there whether they're in the Union or not. Whether they joined the
union or not. Whether they pay union dues or not. Whether when the Union (if it
thought it had to) called the strike and had workers go out and tell the
public about their situation, to help pressure the employer to meet them
halfway and give them a wage increase, the workers who went on strike, and
therefore didn't get paid, had to give to all the other workers who didn't go on
strike, who didn't lose a day's pay the same benefits they won. The Taft-Hartley
law in effect created an incentive for workers NOT to join a union, not to pay
the union dues because they would get whatever the Union won whether they did
so or not. That's fundamentally unfair, and you know it, and I know it and the
people then knew it. It was a hammer blow against the labor movement. Wow. This was
an attempt to destroy the Communists and the unions and the coalition between
them, because of course, if a communist couldn't be elected that removed them
from leadership of unions. And if more and more people decided not to pay union
dues, not to be part of the union, it weakened whatever unions could do. So it
was a crazy but effective way to abuse the law in the interest of a purge. But
it had the effect of weakening the labor movement. It was the opening gun, and
there are many more laws that came afterwards, to a direct assault on the
labor movement, which has worked very well reducing labor membership from
about 35% of all workers at the end of World War two to about 10% today. A
staggering cutback. Anyone in America today, and there are a few, who talks
about an economy with big business on the one hand and big labor on the other
is either ignorant or lying in your face. Big business has gotten bigger and
richer. Big labor, it's gone. There is no big labor. Hasn't been for years. We are
an economy dominated by one side of what used to be a rough balance, and boy does
it show.
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Five Little Ducks | Preschool Learning Videos For toddlers | Bob The Train - Duration: 32:16.Hey Kids!
Let's watch the five little Ducks!
Five little ducks went swimming one day
Over the hill and far away
Mother duck said "Quack, quack, quack."
And only four little ducks came back.
Four little ducks went swimming one day
Over the hill and far away
Mother duck said "Quack, quack, quack."
And only three little ducks came back.
Three little ducks went swimming one day
Over the hill and far away
Mother duck said "Quack, quack, quack."
And only two little ducks came back.
Two little ducks went swimming one day
Over the hill and far away
Mother duck said "Quack, quack, quack."
And only one little duck came back.
One little duck went swimming one day
Over the hill and far away
Mother duck said "Quack, quack, quack."
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Nanowar Of Steel - Куроград (Kurograd, feat. Asen Kralev) - Duration: 4:08.Somewhere in Stara Planina
is huddled a village with one woman
her name was Ivan and her butt was torn apart
"There is no order
Everyone tries to go first by me"
To this village travels at night only the train
The fireman is throwing dicks in the darkness
As soon as I got on The engineer told me
"The next stop
is right in the ass"
Come and visit Dickville
There are strange woods
You think they're soft but with a hand
You caress them to grow up
There are lots of singing birds in the woods
Their nests are hidden in most dank holes
And in the local pub
the table is placed
We'll be eating now
sausages with eggs
Come and visit Dickville
There are strange woods
You think they're soft but with a hand
You caress them to grow up
Come and visit Dickville
Join the brotherhood
But if you share your ass
From Ikebana it will hurt
Dicks, Dicks, Dickville
Our Dickville is very popular Our glory is world renowned
Parkour is our sport Grab your barefoot fingers
Come and visit Dickville
There are strange woods
You think they're soft but with a hand
You caress them to grow up
Come and visit Dickville
Join the brotherhood
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From Ikebana it will hurt
Come and visit Dickville
There are strange woods
You think they're soft but with a hand
You caress them to grow up
Come and visit Dickville
Join the brotherhood
But if you share your ass
From Ikebana it will hurt
Come and visit Dickville
Join the brotherhood
But if you share your ass
From Ikebana it will hurt
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Chelsea latest news: Eden Hazard provides update on Chelsea future after reaching 100 Blues goals - Duration: 4:10.Eden Hazard refused to commit his long-term future to Chelsea after his two goals on Boxing Day helped the Blues beat Watford and gave him his 100th - and 101st - goals for the club
Hazard struck in first-half stoppage time to bring up his century and give Chelsea the lead at Vicarage Road, and followed it up with a second-half winner from the penalty spot after Roberto Pereyra had briefly levelled for the hosts
The Belgian is just the 10th player to score 100 goals for the West Londoners, but didn't take the opportunity to put down rumours that he could leave the club if Real Madrid decide to make a bid for him in the summer
The European champions are reportedly ready to offer up Isco and Mateo Kovacic - on loan at Stamford Bridge this season - as makeweights in a deal to finally bring in a player they have long coveted
Of his plans beyond the end of the season Hazard said: "I am just focused on the pitch, I will see at the end of the season
Am I playing better than I did the year I won Footballer of Year? I am scoring more goals, but I don't feel that I'm playing better
I just score more goals."I will get more goals playing through the middle, for sure
But I will score more goals also if I play as a winger, so." Hazard has been used by boss Maurizio Sarri as a central striker in recent weeks, most notably during his team's eye-catching 2-0 win against champions Manchester City earlier in December, and is enjoying one of his most prolific goalscoring seasons in blue
The Belgian has racked up 12 goals in 22 games this season, and has been involved in more goals - 19 - than any other Premier League player
But he feels that he is yet to hit the same heights this term as when Chelsea won the title and he was crowned the league's best player in 2015
I get more chances through the middle," he said."But my position is winger – I feel better there
But against Watford, I did well as a striker.Against Brighton, I did well as a striker
So, the manager chooses where to put me on the pitch and then I try to do my best
"The first one is always special.It was a penalty, but it will always be special.I've scored a couple of good ones through the years, so I can't choose just one
"To score 101 is a special achievement.I am not focused on scoring goals, but to reach this level is good, especially when you play for this amazing club
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Protecting Your Child From Sexual Abuse - Justin and Lindsey Holcomb - Duration: 25:34.that's why it's important when they're little you're slowly building that
foundation and one it builds a trust so that if something does happen or if
they're exposed to something or they have a question they're gonna know mom
and dad they're safe they're not gonna freak out about this they understand I
can I can talk
welcome to the focus on the family broadcast helping families thrive
at Jon the statistics on sexual abuse are heartbreaking with one in four girls
and I know this varies by different studies but generally this holds one in
four girls and one in six boys are abused and we don't want your children
to become one of those statistics today we're gonna empower you as a parent or
maybe a grandparent to know how to talk to your young children about the wonders
of the human body the good things that God has created but we want to do that
in the context of safe and healthy relationships and how you can teach your
children about sexual abuse in an age-appropriate way obviously in the
culture today this is a very important topic and I think children need to have
a biblical understanding of what God has done which is a good thing and then how
to you know control those appetites and really be in control of your own body
and that's what we're gonna speak to today and we're gonna speak specifically
to how to do that in the lives of little children yeah you're gonna be empowered
to help your kid feel equipped to deal with any potential issues we've invited
as I said Justin and Lindsey Holcomb Justin has a doctorate he's a minister
and a professor of theology at gordon-conwell Theological Seminary and
Lindsay's busy she's a first grade teacher and counsels victims of sexual
assault and domestic violence and and together they started rest which is real
escape from the sex trade an organization devoted to that great
endeavor and the Holcomb's have also written a book called God made all of me
and my understanding is you wrote it for your two daughters that's true we we
have daughters and when they were a little bit younger they're seven and
nine when they were a little bit younger we were looking for a book that would
that would be both Christian content and really good illustrations that would get
to the practical issues on that and so we decided that we couldn't find the
book so we decided to make it Justin and Lindsay we hear about this topic quite
often now because I think because of the prolific nature of it and if you're in a
family that's safe you probably don't come
across this but many families encounter this I was stunned to read that about
90% of abuse of this nature comes from someone in the family or close to the
family it's not stranger danger I know I taught my boys that and Jean and I
stranger danger but when you look at the statistics it's only about 10% that are
stranger related most of it is people the kids will know is that right that is
very important for everyone to understand because if you think it's
only strangers you'll give yourself a false sense of security and the stats
that we have are about 34% our family members the other 58% are acquaintances
so it's more likely that a child will be sexually abused by a grown up an adult
that's trusted and known by the child that leaves about seven to ten percent
that is stranger so knowing that the knowing who you're defending against is
really important well if you think about it we do as parents a lot of the
stranger-danger talk because I think we don't want to believe that someone in
our family or someone near us as a friend would harm our child it's almost
unthinkable and we don't spend a lot of time if any trying to equip a child to
understand how to how to be more assertive in that kind of environment
and so often you hear those horrible stories where the child just didn't know
what to do when uncle or cousin or somebody did something to them and we'll
talk more about that specifically this is a great book I wish it was around and
my boys were younger God made all of me let's go there I
mentioned a moment ago the alarming stat about the number of boys and girls who
are impacted by sexual abuse but give us more of that overview of the problem
parents often aren't equipped to talk to their kids why well that was one of the
motivations when we wrote the book we found a lot of our friends were not
having the conversation with their children because they felt awkward they
didn't want to cause fear in their children and they just didn't quite have
the tool of how do I even launch this topic and a
lot of our friends their children were 10 13 and they're thinking oh goodness
so much time is passed by how do I start now and so of course this book is
written primarily for the two to eight year old age range but we told them you
know if you have a child that is older start with the book and then it could be
a good launching pad for more conversations but primarily the thing we
want parents to know is you're not going to mess up with the conversation but
don't try and sit down and have like an hour-long talk that because I'm nervous
I'm going bad I want to talk about this and get it done with right so I'm in
that spot where I'm kind of nervous I don't believe what you just said if I
say that bold so tell me how I can not mess it up seriously I could mess this
up you don't know me I might say something stupid
and my kids might think I'm saying something stupid I think we have done
that that's where grace abounds but with with building a foundation with our
girls we've talked to them about their body since they were wee little ones
which is important in infants you know when I was changing their diaper I would
say you know now I'm you know I would name their body parts which is really
important I'm of course you know this isn't something we do all day long we
don't the appropriate time yes and in the building that foundation briefly and
so naming their body parts or we're getting in the tub and this is this
something that mommy and daddy help you with of cleaning in the tub or who sees
your private parts the doctor when mom and dad are present or if I'm helping
you on the toilet or in the bathtub other than that this is your body and so
it's all about giving control back to the child which is what sexual abuse
does is it takes awake and takes away the control but for a parent it's
building the slow foundation and no child wants an hour-long conversation or
even 20 minutes they zone out on anything seems like the older they get
the less discussion they want so that's why it's important when they're little
you're slowly building that foundation and one it builds a trust so that if
something does happen or if they're exposed to something or they have a
question they're gonna know mom and dad they're safe they're not gonna freak out
about this they understand I can I can talk to them if I can go back real quick
to something that Lyndsey taught me on how to talk about this with our children
was you don't have to say everything all at once because right
dad's listen because I think dad's follow that fall prey to that more often
than moms exactly especially someone whose job it is to speak and teach you
think I'd say everything all at once so she said just give him a little chunk
and let them ask questions follow their lead follow their questions that so that
helps demystify it for parents is you don't have to have everything lined up
perfectly and know exactly or five points you're going to say just give the
big picture God made your body and all of it in these body parts and then let
them ask questions and answer to their level of query yes and that's great
advice and it is a nervous area of parenting it's probably the most
complicated or at least we make it that way
Justin specifically for you this isn't coming out of a vacuum you experience
this yeah that I know has to be hard to talk about but I'm glad and grateful for
your boldness because that also has to be said and so you've had the experience
described briefly what took place just to give us a perspective and I love that
attitude that you know our pain often drives our passion so I'm sure that's
part of your story yeah but what happened that was about 10 I'm not
exactly sure how old I was so around 10 and it was an extended family member a
male who participated in inappropriate touching and requested the same type of
touching done to him so that that was taking place only during some visits so
was there isolated in maybe three or four times but I had really good parents
so they had the lines of communication parents and parents they were converted
during the 70s Jesus Movement right so I love him already it's my parents are
Christians were involved in church and and because of their past and they had a
really strong sense of the grace of God and the grace of God is for everything
all the way down from you know head to toe top to bottom
that's all creation everything needs to be influenced by the grace of God every
experience so they didn't do shame like when we talked about you know how babies
are made it it wasn't awkward it wasn't weird my dad's an artist he was drawing
body part pictures of like whole bodies not just body parts but so the logic
we're open thankfully because of God's grace it didn't affect me as much as it
could have sure and and I can't explain why it didn't but let me let me ask you
this said the benefit of the parents it's not
to indulge the details of this at all but as that little boy what were some of
those thoughts that you can remember about why is this right what were some
of those things that ran through your head that that instinctively even as a
10 year old boy you kind of had questions about I was
really curious so that was the first thing and one of the things that I knew
my curiosity wasn't a bad thing I knew wonder and being curious was okay but I
was curious I was going through my head I thought maybe I wanted it or asked for
it in some way I thought I did something so I thought I was the I thought I was
the reason that it happened and that's almost universal isn't it it's very
typical and this isn't it Lindsay yes yeah almost all children think that they
were to blame for it either because of just their curiosity muddies the water
form or any think okay I was curious I guess I wanted that but also because
frequently perpetrators will tell them I did this because you did this or you
said this or or the worst we've heard those dirty things happen to dirty kids
into having imagining a little kid who already feels isolated and and being
told by someone dirty things happened dirty kids that's the Spurs telling an
identity that the gospel has to undo right and that's that's where the real
power in in sting of the sin and crime is the the long-term effects that it
does the children it's a nun agna fight for the victim and it's what's
unbelievable and I mean it gets in between how they view themselves how
they view other people and how they view God so they feel isolated and shamed and
that was the one thing that I did feel was kind of dirty and shame do you feel
I mean I see the emotion I'm hearing the emotion in your voice do you feel like
over all these years now you've you've gotten a healthier grip on this you
seemed to but obviously the pain is still there yeah well the
thankfully being married to a good wife always who's an expert on this who who
knows how to you know I remember when we were dating I told her just various
stories and I remember her kindness then and just saying hey that's you know and
just for response so that that's really again wasn't shaming not even close to
me I was the opposite and in you know we've done the stuff because of you know
personal and we said personal professional and pastoral everyone
thought and we said personal it was Lindsay now because we didn't we didn't
we weren't clear in some of our previous things that we've written about my
personal strengths but then when you have you know being a pastor this is
this is just par for the course of just regular conversations with people where
people are coming to me saying hey I think I've heard you mention this in the
sermon I think I can tell you about this so just the stories that you hear I mean
we hear horror stories and then professionally Lindsay was a case
manager at a you know abuse crisis center so when we were dating this I
mean all came together all three of those professionally personally in
pastoral so let's go through some of the practical applications of that out of
your book God made all of me start with that younger child let's just the two of
you can just talk about it with me as if I were a young dad oh I wish what would
you say to counsel me you know I come to you my wife's here hey Jeanne here we
are you're the pastor and you know we've got
kind of an issue we got a three year old we're not sure what we need to say there
might be some behavior that that's concerning us what what do you say to me
is mom and dad well one thing that I would start with I'd say I'm really glad
you're asking this question and just to convince you that this is important just
and I realized early on were like gosh as parents we teach our kids water
safety we teach them safety around the stove we
teach them safety don't touch the outlets you know and what to do in the
event of X Y & Z if there's a fire and so but this is a topic that we don't
necessarily or you know automatically teach children speak to the parent right
there convince me tell me why you need to
consider this it's like a flame on the stove or something else it's the
practical sure I think the main thing is anything you can do to help your child
have tools about body safety body protection tools for you to talk with
them one makes it not awkward two is preventative and I know that you would
want that for your child you want to set them up with the most success that they
can live their life with control over their body good and safe boundaries and
just to feel empowered in that sense that's your job as a parent and then
with the child give me two or three practical quick you know examples of
things I can continue to say to them I like the swimsuit diagram or discussion
you know that anything under the swimsuit is for you and private when the
swimsuit analogy is really a good starting point but don't stop there
because a perpetrator can touch other parts of their body that might make the
child feel uncomfortable that's good you don't want them to think well they're
touching my thigh or my back so that's her or I worked with a three-year-old
who was kissed by their uncle but yet that didn't fall in the bathing suit
category and so you want to take it that your whole body is yours but you can
start with the swimsuit analogy that's really good but take it further
well that mean this is the private parts conversation so I mean was this is what
we will always tell and people come over to our house for dinner so we actually
have these conversations these are your dinner conversations people people say
hey I got a quick question can I ask well that's good though so you said if
you're the young parent we would say well you have to have a conversation
with your children about private parts though you mean God made all of you but
especially private parts and one name the private part naming the proper names
for private parts right and there's a whole reason for that the proper name
yeah now some some can disagree with that but what why is that so critical
well what you don't want to do is turn their private parts into give them just
nicknames and we're not saying only use private part or proper names for private
parts all the time like you're a doctor but if you only use nicknames it can
turn private parts into playthings and that's what a perpetrator the purpose is
to prevent against a perpetrator as a perpetrator will say oh what about this
and use a playful nickname thing it also doesn't bestow dignity to
everything that God created I mean this is my elbow and this is my nose this is
what it is it's just being matter-of-fact correct so it's not
trying to demystify yeah demystifies it and and also because if a child is
touched inappropriately they're gonna need to be able to report or say what
happened and we're just matter-of-factly so it's just for the sake of reporting
police officers and those who during investigation would love it if children
knew the proper names and there are children who have never heard the proper
names right until they're like teenagers and they got the awkward talk at 15
about you know stuff they already knew from you know ten years ago let me ask
you about the suspicion you know the the parents that think maybe something's
different now our daughter or our son is more in tune with those private areas
than they should be right now or you may suspect something because of that has
happened how do you begin to discuss that with your child in such a way that
it's productive and that you begin to uncover some impropriety
I would tell I mean I have had some parents that ask me they say you know
when their child's around five or six you know they're really curious and I
say well on one level that's healthy sexual development like they are curious
about their bodies they do want to know a lot they have a lot of baby questions
around that age so parents can go online and look up what's healthy sexual
development like what are certain things that kids at age five versus eight or
ten that they're gonna be noticing or aware of but if a parent starts to
notice changes in their child apart from their normal behavior that might be
something where they want to either start asking them you know why are you
doing these things or what's causing this but hopefully they have a
foundation built where they're able to have those conversations but if not I
mean you don't want to hold back just a heron even if you haven't done that job
don't if something in your gut is telling you there's something off pursue
it wouldn't you agree I always say follow your gut for sure
never deny everything we're pretty I mean when you get the questions that's a
great intro a point to the conversation in general
of just body parts God forgot what God made so so their curiosity you know puts
the question on the table to talk about this but the other thing that we've done
regularly is if the girls have a question Lindsey will pursue it and say
okay no showing us for the question but also what is a straight up you know do
you feel comfortable with that person has anyone you know do you do you like
it when that babysitter is with you do they ever talk to you about stuff that's
inappropriate or have they ever touched you so we just ask point like it's norm
that's what we did as well normal for our kids and we don't do it every single
time we don't want to instill fear in them to think that everyone is a sneaky
person but we want them to be aware that everyone's potentially one it's such a
balance it give us also some tools and again the book is great in this area you
can just read it if you're uncomfortable this this resource is terrific because
it will allow you to simply read it with your child that's actually the purpose
what we did on the book and we've got we had the minor criticism we get is that
it's actually a story about a family having the conversation yeah and it's
not it which is brilliant it's not dazzlingly with like really neat animals
and right you know things that would be really just captured kids imagination
it's a story about a family doing the conversation so you're actually kind of
you're having the conversation with your children but it's an indirect way to do
it which is much more comfortable that's what I love about it God made all of me
but I want to also encourage the parents to be on alert and have that vigilance
so what are some of those things external to the child's behavior so we
dealt with that but when you're looking at environment and you're looking at
babysitters and you're looking at extended family members and all those
kinds of things it sounds horrible that you as a parent would even have to have
that in the back your mind but what are some of those cueing things again not
related to your child's behavior but just knowing the family or the neighbors
well enough what are some things you can be alert to that if you're not could
pose danger one for me is if someone cannot pay attention to and respect
boundaries that are given that's a huge red flag for me so if you say to the
family members hey like you know there's no reason to close the doors and our
girls know when kids come they don't close the doors so if a
family member had to fill that need to violate that basic boundary of shutting
the doors or if the neighbor did that that would be significant to me of why
we don't need to have the door shut and we don't need to have secrets those are
those are important ones for me well one scenario I heard from a good
friend was her stepfather was trying to isolate the child like will you come
down in the basement and play with me and so getting the child away from all
other family members and that where I said that's a huge red flag because
there's no reason why they need to be down in the basement playing of course
you know we don't need to walk around with fear from every person but why
can't they play upstairs with everybody or you march right on down there mom and
you join the group so anytime they're wanting to isolate a child or really
single out a child with gifts and with toys and treasures to try and win their
trust in a different way I think is a big big red flag yeah for sure but as
Christian parents particularly how do we not live in fear and and be able to
communicate to our children that we want you to have a full wonderful life and
not be that mom that's so panic Lindsay if I could be that bold you know honey
don't go over there don't don't get an ice cream there don't do this don't talk
to that person and you can over a kind of react to some of this too right
absolutely I don't want anybody to walk around paranoid but I feel pretty
confident as we've been building the foundation with our girls even though
they're only seven and almost nine that they are going to tell us things and
that we have that level of trust of back and forth conversation that if something
god forbid happens we'll address it and I'll tell them I believe you and we're
going to look at all the options of ways that we can get help but I feel like
we've built a foundation that they feel very empowered about their body and I
feel empowered as a parent that if I were going to take them to a playdate or
wherever that I'm gonna feel confident to ask who's here what grown-ups are
here even going to church I think there's a lot of ways we assume as
Christians that things have been taken care of with background checks and who's
in charge of our children but as a parent I have that right to ask who's
taking my child to the bathroom and so on one level my child is empowered but I
also feel the confidence to to speak up and ask you know who are they around I
appreciate that you don't be intimidated by protecting your child's I mean that
that's sounds simple but for many parents that's hard and going back to
the why why not to be fearful and paralyzed in fear one is that God's plan
for how he made bodies was to multiply and have dominion going back to Genesis
and and what was required for that was marital intimacy for two the very call
that God gave Adam and Eve multiply and have dominion and the only way you can
do that until evangelism in Matthew 28 his procreation and so God God makes
this and then it gets distorted by Satan in the fall and then he's about
redeeming what's been distorted and God is and will redeem as his creation he
cares more than we do he cares about our children more than we do and in the
other thing that's just encouraging practically is that the children who are
the most protector the ones that have caregivers who actually empower them if
if you do three or four of the basic things that we've talked about
it sets up a guard against it so it's not a foolproof it's not a silver bullet
it's going to take care of the problem but when the best thing you can do is
actually have basic lines of communication open and the confidence
you can have of what that type of protecting your child and equipping them
is actually very very effective one of the most effective things you can
actually do well I so appreciate this and Justin and Lindsey a good great
discussion really and I'm glad we've kind of pulled the veil back a bit to
talk and equip parents to be able to be comfortable hopefully more comfortable
in having this discussion and again your book is a great resource for all parents
God made all of me and this is something you need to implement and we have
counselors here too I'm mindful of the folks maybe Justin like you and they
haven't been able to find the courage yet to say that was me and it may be
driving some of that fear and you may be parenting in such a way that isn't as
helpful as you it might be we're here for you there's
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but we want to be walking this journey with you no matter where you're at and
again thank you so much for being with us
thank you for the opportunity to be here and talk about such an important dark
subject and shining a light on it amen hey I'm John fuller and thanks for
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