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the step one is obsessed get totally
focused unleash your desire that gives
the energy step two is not waiting it's
massive action keep changing your
approach until you find effective
execution if you're running east looking
for a sunset I don't care how positive
you are you're not going to see the
sunset it's the wrong strategy it's just
not gonna happen so you gotta have a
proven strategy and you can get there
faster same way I've done it with these
books is saying I could go this or I
could spend four years interview 50 of
the smartest people in the world all
billionaires are started with nothing I
find out what they did and take compress
decades in the days that's really the
purpose of everything that I do so when
you have that plan and keep changing
your approach I always tell people you
know how long would you give the average
kid to learn how to walk before you turn
the kid and said dude it's never gonna
happen you're not a walker just give it
up people are you crazy make it's gonna
keep trying until well that's really
step two you keep changing your approach
until you find and then the third step
to achieve but really is as simple as it
may sound if you're obsessed you know
what you want you taking massive action
maybe you modeled somebody figure out
the right action so you get there
quicker than you're executing you still
need a little grace some people call it
luck you could call God but I really
believe that there's the part we do and
then there's the part that comes to us
but I do know grace shows up a lot more
when you do the first two steps on your
own and grace shows up a lot more when
you acknowledge grace in your life when
your knowledge that I was born in a
world where I didn't have to build this
Internet that I can pull out of my
pocket the answer anything on earth I am
driving on streets
I didn't pave I'm reading books I didn't
have to write that's the gift of our
lives and I think when we experience
that grace we don't just experienced
more achievement but we
it's workable if you fight your passion
you're gonna have this tremendous energy
of sustainable energy but momentum
requires you always do the next thing
that keep the momentum going
and the reason you get yourself in a
passionate place is so that you changed
your life and the only thing that
changes your life is making a decision
so while you're in this passionate state
that's where you make decisions
you don't think decisions but you're
like all right let's decide if you make
a decision in a state without momentum
and you make a decision from place where
there's no passion you are not going to
get momentum it'll kill momentum
it's decide commit and resolve some of
you in the past you've gotten momentum
you've gotten passionate you've even
made a decision but a decision is the
first step
decision is like a war I got to do this
or that all right I'm gonna make myself
through this but commitment is when you
nail after you've decided you commit to
do this for the long term whether it's
hard or easy doesn't matter you're doing
this it takes it from this moment and it
carries you to the future even when
things are difficult and the third state
is resolved resolved
means it's done it's like it doesn't
even if you took action it's done inside
you so it's done out there there's no
question whatsoever then once you decide
the only way that commitment and the
energy and the momentum continues is if
you take immediate massive what my
friends massive life write down in your
notes massive action is the cure-all
massive action is the cure-all if you're
having a difficult time with something
your relationship isn't where you want
it to be your finances are not where you
want to be your body's not where you
want to be your business not
wannabe you need take massive action and
if that doesn't work try something else
so that's his work try something else
keep going with massive action and you
will find the way because it will give
you momentum the ultimate question I'm
always asking is how do I help people to
break through the question is what are
you breaking through to in essence all
of us at some level to feel alive have
to always feel like we're growing when
people ask me what does it take to be
happy I always tell them one word
progress progress equals happiness even
if you're not where you want to be yet
if you're on the road if you're
improving if you're making progress
you're gonna love it you're gonna feel
alive on the other hand it doesn't
matter how successful you are if you
stop growing
you start dying inside now how does this
relate to this session I'm breakthrough
I'll say it's really simple if you and I
want to know what it takes to be happy
we have to understand what is our
current blueprint of how our life's
supposed to be a little we mean by
blueprint well we have a story in our
head about life's supposed to be some
people's story is you work hard in
school you become really great you're a
nice person you're a good person and
then you grow up and you take care of
yourself and you find the ideal man and
you fall in love you have a white picket
fence and you have three perfect
children and you live happily ever after
somebody else's story the old story was
you work really hard in school you excel
in college you're going to work for a
big corporation and you move up through
the ranks until you're the President or
chairman of the company and you become
successful respected throughout life
these are some old stories obviously the
stories that we hear today and what
people's lives are supposed to
with the diverse no longer have these
little arc types but when our type still
seems to remain that archetype is in
order for you to really feel like you're
enough many people believe they have to
achieve an enormous amount they may do
it in different ways then they may do it
by building a company and taking a
public when they're 27 or 25 years old
or you know they finally create a new
technology or they become a very special
doctor but we live in a culture in the
West that teaches people that you're not
enough unless you do something really
special and uniquely define special and
unique and interesting ways the school
teacher is not special to me
a mother who stays home with her
children day and night
sculpting their minds their bodies their
souls and her future is not special we
live in a world today where we treat
teachers like they're nobody and pay
them accordingly we wonder why our
children's need to have challenges of
learning and growing or being engaged in
school we spend thousands of dollars on
some item like a computer but what we
look at overall we invest in for the
teacher and for that person is the
personal connection with them is so
small we live in a society where many
women look down and say well you're just
a housewife you're just a mother see
some of the pain we have in our society
is not because there's one right or one
wrong approach but because we try to
make everybody fit into some particular
approach to life here's what's gonna
make you happy or make you unhappy in
life it's real simple let's do a quick
test if you're in a situation right now
where you look at your life I know
there's an area of your life that you
probably feel pretty darn good about
even if you're not happy with your
finances I bet you feel damn good close
to your kids or if you're not close to
your kids maybe you don't have any kids
maybe you feel really good about your
career if you're doing not so good in
your career maybe you got a really great
body that you've trimmed down or
strengthened up or you know you really
shaped yourself the way you want
muscularly or and the way you look or if
that's not happening maybe you feel a
really special connection with God or
really close to your mother or father
your family whatever almost everybody
has an area of their life they feel
really good about if they're honest if
they're fair to themselves
what's any of your life you really feel
happy about how I want you think about
it for a moment truthfully what's an
area in your life today that if you
wanted to be happy about it you really
could feel proud about it you could feel
like scenario you're doing darn well in
and if you're really hard on yourself
there's still an area what's an area I
want to think of it right now
and once you think of that area whether
it's your body or your finances or your
career or your intimate relationship or
your relationship with your kids your
relationship with your Creator whatever
it is I want you to think about why are
you happy with that area of your life
right now today why are you happy with
that area of your life right now today I
really think about it if you're in a
seminar with me I'd have you write this
down
if you can you could put me on hold here
for a second because I'd like to reveal
to you the formula is for happiness and
if I say there's a formula for happiness
and here's what it is you're gonna go
yeah yeah sure that's what he says but
if you put down the answer and we can
see the formulas real without me telling
you what it is you get to look at your
own life and say it matches you're gonna
know this is right so you could stop
this right now if you want put me on
hold and just write down what's an area
of your life you're really really happy
about you're really pleased with or you
could be if you wanted to focus on it
and why are you happy with that part of
your life right now even if you're not
happy with everything what's the ER
you're happy with and why put me out all
right now or you're not gonna do that
just think for a moment why specifically
be real why now when I asked this if
you've turned me back on now if I ask
this of an audience I'll have people
write this down for a few minutes and
I'll call on people I'll say share with
the person next to you first what are
you happy about and why are you happy in
that area and be specific
after they share how people stand up
I'll call in a variety people and I say
ma'am tell me what are you happy about
she'll say well honestly I'm really
happy with my body
she does I never thought I'd say that
but I used to be so unhappy with it and
you know I finally I did some things I
push myself through and now I exercise
regularly and ain't no I'm not perfect
but I feel fit I feel strong I feel
energetic and that's really I don't know
it just feels good to me now I say to
everybody I'm now gonna show you what
the form in the front of eNOS is and
it's real simple I want to reveal it to
you so you don't ever forget it whenever
you're happy with the air of your life
it's because right now your current life
experience I call it your LC your life
conditions the conditions of your life
your life conditions in that area match
or are equal to your blueprint your
story your belief about how life should
be in that area so this woman says to me
I'm really happy in my body because it's
not perfect her blueprint is I don't
need to be perfect but it's so much
better than it was I'm fit and then
strong and I have this energy her mental
blueprint says I should be fit strong
and have energy I don't need to be
perfect but I should be that way
in my life my body matches how I think
it should be I feel good about my life
well that's somebody else I'll say you
know tell me there you're happy with
someone else to say well I'm really
happy with my career and why well I'm
doing better than I even thought I would
be I mean I I'm ahead of the schedule of
where I hoped I'd be at this stage I'm
working at this level in this company
and I have these skills and this ability
and it's even better than I thought
well once again listen this person's
happy with this area of their life
because their current life conditions in
the area called their career are even
better than they expect that they would
be better than their blueprint better
than their belief about how it should be
if it's really better you tend to be
over the moon but one moment would say
you know I can't tell you I said I'm the
happiest ever been in my whole life how
come she goes because I have this man in
my life that I'm in love with him and he
loves me and I can be myself with him
and he we have this incredible intimacy
and this passion and we want to be with
each other all the time and I never get
bored with him what's her blueprint you
want to be the somebody that you could
have total intimacy with somebody
loves you was a part of her rules her
beliefs of how it should be she said you
know it's needs me I never want to be
with anybody else I'm gonna be with him
every moment her blueprint about how
life should be and the way she lives her
relationships even better than she hoped
when it's better than you hope you're
gonna be totally excited so think about
this then what's an area you're not
happy with let's see if we can find the
formula for unhappiness but the formula
for happiness is to be able to meet your
expectations or exceed them that we
really make sure excited but to be happy
at least Mita does not be perfect but if
you general your meaning what you expect
you want from your life in that area
feel good right conditions match
blueprint feel good so what makes you
feel bad or creates pain stress
frustration feel easy way to figure it
out answer this question what's an area
your life you're not happy with let me
be honest with yourself and even if your
life is great all kinds of ways I'm sure
there's an area you'd like to improve
anybody who's honest if they're doing
great in their career very often don't
take care of their body so much if
they're really focused on their body you
know very often they find themselves in
the position where they're not spending
enough time with their kids or they're
spending time with their kids their
intimate relationships not doing so well
because it's the nature of human beings
to focus on areas they feel comfortable
with and strong in and give those time
and the areas they don't feel so strong
and they go I don't have time for it
what you're really saying is I don't
feel very competent that area so what's
an area of your life that you are not as
happy with
I mean it's healthy honestly to look at
areas and say I don't like it I want
more this whole concept of a
breakthrough is about how do I close the
gap between where I am right now and
what I want to be that's what we're here
to do is like here's what I want to be
here's where I am it's healthy to see
there's a gap that makes me have this
hunger this drive to grow to feel alive
to expand as a human being so what's an
area you're not pleased with is it your
body is it your finances is it your
career is it your spiritual life or lack
thereof in terms of feeling connected in
that area is it your kids what's the
area what's the area that's not where
you want it to be and then answer for a
moment why aren't you happy with that
of your life right now why specifically
today are you not happy with that area
of your life at this stage of your time
of your life again you can stop this and
write it down might be useful for you or
if you're gonna keep it running can you
stop it and you'll turn it right back on
I'll kick into it do that now or if you
kept it running then just I'll give you
what happens I have people write this
down and they don't like this exercise
so much oh I don't like my body or I
don't like my finances I don't like my
career I don't like the person I'm in a
relationship with I don't like myself
the way I'm in relationships why they
write it all down how people share back
and forth I call on people and the
lessons pretty clear I tell people in
advance here's the formula for
unhappiness
I'll show you before you do anything
else when your life conditions when your
life conditions the way you're living
your life today does not match it
doesn't equal your blueprint your story
of how it's supposed to be then you're
gonna have disappointment frustration or
pain if your life is way different than
the way you think it's supposed to be
you can have enormous pain if it's a
little different you might feel stressed
make sense so people stand up and I said
tell me you know what C are you're not
happy when the person says well you know
I'm really not happy with my finances
and I go why and they say because I'm
doing worse now than I was five years
ago I made mistakes in the market and at
this stage of my life I should have this
much money and I don't have it and I
don't know how to change it and it's
making me crazy and why are they crazy
you say well because they don't have
their economic needs met no you cannot
have your economic needs met and you
could still be okay but when you have an
idea this is what my need is and I did
the wrong thing my life doesn't match
how I'm supposed to be that's when
people get a little crazy so you think
about it
if you grew up taking care of folding
your own clothes making your own meals
going to the store doing the grocery
shopping cleaning the bedroom cleaning
the house vacuuming taking out the trash
and you did that your whole life then if
you have to do that later on you don't
feel like you have economic pain because
you don't have a maid but if you grew up
an environment where everything was done
for you you never have to work and now
suddenly you
to work incredibly hard to just pay
enough money to pay your bills and all
of a sudden food is building up and the
house is dirty and your clothes aren't
folded and nothing matches you might
find yourself really angry and
frustrated because you have a different
story about how life's supposed to be
than how it is
someone also say well I'll tell you why
because I'm in a situation now where you
know I'm 30 pounds everything I should
be should be the key word there are
people there are people in all cultures
who love being big there are people that
will walk around and someone else might
think they're massively overweight but
they're gone I own this honey and they
really truly they match their blueprint
big is beautiful because their ideas big
is beautiful I'm big
that's beautiful matches my blueprint
rock and roll I'm happy as can be
somebody else can look like a twig and
be stressed out saying I hate my body
because their blueprint says I should be
the skinniest thing on earth and I'm not
skinny enough am I making sense when
your life conditions don't match your
blueprint you're gonna have pain but
here's when you suffered when I ask
people who here has been through the
dark night of the soul who's been here
in a situation where you feel like like
like life life isn't worth living or we
feel like a pain that just will never go
away and I'll people write down those
experiences like Joaquin so you begin to
understand what the issue is I'm talking
about here what keen if you recall was
in a situation where this man felt like
there was no reason to live he couldn't
work he couldn't do anything his life
was worthless why did he think that
because he had a blueprint and his
blueprint said I need be an NBA
basketball player at least a
professional basketball player I need to
be able to make money and have this
great lifestyle because that's what
makes me worthwhile as a human being
that's what makes my family respect man
my mother my uncle's my aunts I am the
successful one in the family and I make
the money I support everybody there's a
good man he didn't come just to be
successful he took care of his mother
his families he tried to be an
inspiration for people while key knock
ins is a man it was always going out on
his free time and training kids and
showing them the pathway to freedom how
they could play basketball and get free
like he did and get out of the inner
city so this man is not a selfish man
but he knew this is the way to be
worthwhile this is the way to be able to
give to people this is the way to take
care of your family and all of a sudden
one night what happened that way was
taken from him he has a stroke and
another night his life conditions make
it impossible to be who he has to be or
he feels like he's working to get it we
have an identity we have a story of how
we're supposed to be and if life somehow
gets in the way of that story we feel
pain but if we feel we have no control
that's when we go into suffering see
it's one thing to say my life doesn't
match my blueprint I got to lose weight
that might stress you out or my life
doesn't match my blueprint I'm not in a
relationship I got to get in one that
might motivate you even you might not
like it but you're gonna find a way
together with or my career doesn't
matter I should be you could change it
but when you start believing that your
life doesn't match your blueprint and
you have no control to change it you're
helpless that's when people suffer and
so this week for your breakthrough it's
a chance for you to start to take a look
at your blueprint anywhere you're really
having pain hey look if you're doing
great in some area of your life
celebrate of course and I'm sure there
are many areas you are but life is
really a seriously growth spurts I mean
two things in life that make you feel
alive growing and giving and what's
really wonderful about this man Joaquin
is he was constantly growing trying to
get better trying to be a better team
made a better basketball player think
about it when he didn't make the team's
I didn't make the NBA he didn't give up
he worked even harder the guy was always
striving striving to be
something and he became it and he
achieved it and then life took it from
him
isn't that the common denominator with
so many of the people and the stories of
this six-part series that you saw these
six specials I mean Frank and Kristen
had a blueprint of what life was
supposed to be about we're supposed to
get married to have children and we're
gonna top our own business and all of a
sudden life doesn't match the blueprint
and suddenly there's depression because
in their case they said there's nothing
we could do but they were wrong they
were wrong because they discovered that
Frank was covered I can make a
difference in my life the chair even
though I didn't create this NIM asked
for this chair does not define me I can
become more than I was before I can have
the impact with my life I can have
children we had to change his blueprint
because we couldn't change all the
conditions of his life does that make
sense I couldn't get him to physically
walk again maybe some day he will but we
can't count on that well we gotta count
on is that he can be fulfilled by seeing
he isn't helpless and I did that to a
series of experiences that violated what
he thought he couldn't do the same thing
was true with almost every one of the
people we worked with in some well and
in Joaquin's example it was also true
our Keane said why I can't ever have
this quality of life again because I'm
not a professional basketball player
and he was locked into that mindset and
all of us get locked in time
but to his credit to assist them of
steps we were able to break him out of
that we were get him to see that he
isn't helpless this here's your choice
watch this now if you're suffering if
you're in pain your life doesn't match
how you think it should be and you think
you're helpless to change it now you
have only three choices choice one blame
something
fucking there people
he blamed his coach he blames what
happened to him and of course these
things were outside his control but he
blamed his coach a big part of the
healing if you watch the session was
when his coaching and getting into see
and he you know when all that anger all
that resentment inside of you are key a
it's not based on the truth and B that
Nelson Mandela said you know having
resentment your soul is like drinking
poison and hoping that your enemy will
died then work that way
and when Joaquin was able to break out
his breakthrough as a change in
perception to realize this coach wasn't
stopping me I just felt like I lost
everything and so I don't know how to
change it so I'm looking for something
to be mad about someone to blame so so I
don't have to blame myself or I don't
have to feel so helpless
cuz when you're angry you don't feel so
helpless you feel strong for the moment
even though it's a fake strength when he
was able to make that breakthrough he
could stop blaming cuz these are three
choices when life doesn't match how you
think it should be blame something an
event someone else or yourself as we
talked about earlier in the series blame
games just destroy you there's no
progress than you plan for the moment
you feel okay but nothing changes what
are your real choices you only have two
choices in life if life doesn't match
your blueprint you either have to change
your life that is you gotta say you know
what my body isn't there I'm gonna go
work out my relationship is in there I'm
gonna change it you know I'm not making
what I gotta make I'm gonna retool I'm
gonna get a new skill I'm gonna go back
to school I'm gonna start a business I'm
gonna do something you have to do
something to change your life or in
order for you to be happy if you can't
change your life you're gonna have to
change your blueprint usually in life it
requires a little bit of each does that
make sense
and if you've changed your take change
your life and change your blueprint you
can have an extraordinary life and what
you witnessed this man do was once he
let go of his anger and his denial once
he started to look at things he began to
find by spending time with his family
that he was worthwhile being loved while
he played basketball or not of course
he'd love to play basketball but
professional basketball is no longer a
part of it and we had to get Joaquin to
shift that and Joaquin is a metaphor for
all of us because all of us are gonna
have times in our life when
what we want or think life should be
like isn't gonna match how life really
is those moments if we blame our life
goes into pain if we change we can
change our life and match our blueprint
but we have to also know when it's not
within our control and that's how we're
able to make a shift and change what our
story is for our life what our
expectations are not by lowering them
but by changing what that model really
is helping us make sense to you I'll
give you a great example
years ago I do a lot of work with
business people celebrities people have
all kinds of walks of life and I was
dealing with a group of people and they
knew a very very powerful celebrity and
without to give that person privacy I
won't tell you too many details we can't
figure out exactly who it is but it
would be a person who was very
successful as a woman who was extremely
attractive by cultural standards a woman
who's had a lot of dear friends a lot of
deep respect so great skill great
ability extremely talented quite
attractive quite wealthy in financial
terms and lots of great friends this
would be for most people's idea the
ultimate blueprint if your life matches
that description you must have an
incredible life but ironically this
particular individuals famous as they
were was depressed all the time they had
seemingly everything and yet the person
was depressed how do you get depressed
when you're smart and you're strong and
you're beautiful and you got great
friends and you're rich and you're
famous
well it's real simple people said it I
don't know what it is everyone's tried
to help her she's been on the through
counselling she's got all these
different drugs nothing's working
she's taking antidepressants and she's
still depressed which is not uncommon by
the way because if you change the way
you feel physically but you still see
your life doesn't match how you think it
should be at some level and you feel
like you're helpless to change it you're
gonna be depressed so I said bring her
to me I said I can help her I know that
sounds like hyperbole but I absolutely
can help her well how do you know that
Tony because I already know what the
problem is
I know if someone's depressed it's
because they feel helpless because their
life doesn't match how they think it
should be I just didn't know what her
blueprint is but we'll find out what it
is and we'll either help her change your
life or well pretend your blueprint or
both
long story short and very quickly I'll
tell you the core of it which came to me
and she spent maybe the first half an
hour telling me apologizing saying I
know I should be happier I know it's
silly for me to be depressed I don't
know why I'm so depressed I I know I
should be grateful for what I have and I
am grateful and it was all these reasons
why she knows she should feel good but
still didn't I try to finally explain to
her listen I don't care about that I
care about you the fact that you're not
happy has nothing to do with what you
have or don't have the fact that you're
not happy is that your life doesn't
match the way you think it should be and
you have some idea of how you think it
should be and worse if you're this
depressed after all this time you feel
like you can't do anything you have no
power to change it you feel helpless and
she looked at me in a certain way and I
said so what is that what did you want
your life to be like she goes well it
sounds stupid I said myself stupid to me
she said well I don't know I just always
since I was a little girl dreamed that I
would be married and I'll have three
basically perfect children and they
would love me totally and my above my
husband he loved me and I said okay so
how's that working for you so far and
she said well I think you know who's
pretty famous person she said I'm
divorced twice I have no children and
now EX age and to give you a clue that
age would be an age where having a child
your own natural child at least barring
a medical miracle is not going to happen
so I said to her well why don't you just
adopt there's no no no no no that's not
it
and so what I had to dig under is
whenever we talked and one of the
earlier sessions about there's the
surface problem and then there's the
deeper desire or need so I said to her I
said well what if you couldn't have the
husband but you could have the kids and
she smiled and she said I'd take that I
said well why not adopt it kid she goes
now it has to be my own blood children
I kept digging to find out what was
behind her blueprint because your
blueprint is just a projection of what
you think you need to be happy but as
human beings were notoriously
ineffective at knowing that's gonna make
us out so much that we think we're gonna
make us happily get there we go is this
all there is so many things that we
think are gonna make us miserable we can
never deal with we go through it we can
handle it
we're not good at projecting these
things but graduate studies of shows so
I said to her well what what are you
helping me get from these three children
why do they have to be your blood
children and she finally said well if
they're my blood children I know they'll
always love me they'll never leave me
what was she looking for unconditional
love she had this big blueprint that
said white house picket fence three
children perfect husband you know all
these different things but what was
behind that was a need and need to feel
like she get out love that would be
certain and wouldn't go away so I can
help her meet that need as I said to her
I said well maybe one reason you don't
have a husband is because every time you
look at one you're trying to figure out
if he's gonna get you those three kids
in time and how that's gonna happen and
maybe feels a little stressful is when
you're looking at in this way because he
can feel what's going on behind your bed
even if he doesn't know what the words
are and she started to laugh because I
guess I've probably been that way a good
portion of my life and she goes people
wonder you know why I'm so uptight
I said you're uptight because you were
felt like you're running out of time
trying to meet some picture but I said
all you really want is love
I said no channel I love a new life tell
me about your friends and gradually I
got her to start seeing this love that
she was trying to get was already here
it didn't match the picture maybe maybe
we could paint a new picture of what
life could really be like and make sure
that picture met her deepest needs
that's basically we did Joaquin Joaquin
wanted to be a professional basketball
player cause he loved basketball yes but
also because he wanted to be that man
who was a leader he wanted to be a man
who was the good man he want to be the
one who brought energy to people he want
to be the man people would look up to he
want to be the man who could take care
of his family and style all of us Amelie
not just his daughters and his wife but
other people as well underneath it all
he wanted to know that he mattered and
through the process that you saw in the
show he began to find out that he didn't
need to be angry at the world that yes
his blueprint was taken from him but his
soul and his ability to be a special
human being and he could touch other
people was not taken from him that may
be his real gift was his ability to
inspire young kids his ability to get
himself to do whatever it took how do
you become a professional basketball
player unbelievable discipline
unbelievable Drive he started bringing
that to picking up trash and the game
started to change he started up Mary
could come home and take care of his
kids and pay his bills that doesn't
solve everything but it gives him a way
to suddenly regain himself when he sat
around with all of his family and you
saw part of those scenes and if you
watch little areas of browsing this week
you'll see some more scenes from his
family where you see him begin you
realize they love me whether I'm rich or
poor they love me I'm a professional
basketball player or not they love me
that's what he was really after and when
he got that it allowed him to let go and
say I can do other things that doesn't
mean he won't have challenges we're all
gonna have challenges in our life he him
it doesn't mean that at times he won't
wish he's doing more but he's no longer
stuck he's broken through because he now
knows I have control I can change my
life or I can change my blueprint and
when I do I can fulfill it I can start
to feel that aliveness now here's the
trap what do you think happens once you
fulfill your blueprint regularly once
you figure out how to do what you always
dreamed of you always dream to live a
certain way and now you live in that way
live in that way live in that way
everyday well the human nervous system
human spirit needs to grow so pretty
soon you'll get bored with that and
you'll come up with a new blueprint
that's part of the part of life that's
exciting
see if you and I are from this day
forward our gonna be happy just remember
what we've said it takes two things grow
and give a meaningful life comes from
growing that sense of progress and it
comes from having life not just be about
me but about we doing something that
makes me feel connected to other people
besides myself that growth that sense of
contribution fills a deep spiritual need
that we all have if you are unhappy in
your life you got three choices really
to blame that's not a choice it's not
gonna work don't blame someone else
don't blame you that don't blame
yourself just figure out what you're
gonna do
change your life that's my specialty if
you like my coaching or my team's
coaching come visit with us come to an
event come get a coach come to a program
or we'll guide you through it more than
just a few minutes like this and we'll
do it directly an environment that will
shift you or change your blueprint
you're gonna have to rewire what's going
on inside and that's what we focus on as
well so I hope this journey has been an
interesting one for you I hope it's
opened up your eyes to what it takes to
go from where you are to where you want
to be it takes changing your emotional
pattern to change bringing presents to
your life it takes realizing you have no
problems compared to somebody else and
putting your life in perspective it
takes the ability to deal with those
extreme stresses that happen in your
life by questioning your limiting
beliefs and again if we'd love to coach
you and show you how to change those in
a permanent way where it happens
automatically just like lifting weights
so often till the muscle is always there
and you find yourself able to follow
through it takes for you to be able to
figure how to deal with crisis and how
to turn it around it takes facing your
fear it takes pushing yourself through
what used to stop you it takes putting
yourself in a position where you connect
to what's more important than just
yourself what you value than just
yourself and it takes I think in this
case also the ability to realize that no
matter what happens to you you're more
than that moment you're more than the
story you think you're supposed to be
and that even when you're not matching
what you think you need to be maybe
there's a reason for that maybe you're
having to find a different part of
yourself that's gonna fulfill you at a
much deeper level sometimes failing to
get your goal gives you your destiny I
can't tell you how many people I've
known of the years who have an idea if
what they thought their life was
supposed to be like and they didn't
achieve it they felt miserable and upset
and frustrated and one day an opening
happened and they went oh my god thank
God that didn't happen
I think it's Garth Brooks had a great
song and it's a song about when he was
in high school and he was in love with
this girl infatuated with her and she
didn't even know that he existed and he
prayed to God every day that she would
notice him that she would fall in love
with him and then sure enough she never
did he was so disappointed his blueprint
didn't match his life didn't match it
because she didn't even know he existed
and he felt this suffering he could do
nothing to turn it around no 15 years
later he became a guy named Garth Brooks
somebody everybody knew and he could
rock you know stadiums with his energy
and a song at his music and he goes back
to be at his high school reunion it was
his 15 year even if I remember correctly
I don't remember the exact year but all
I remember is he said he saw that woman
that he was so obsessed by he was
looking forward to seeing her and now he
was Garth Brooks and he met her and
after he met her and spent some time
with her he wrote a song called thank
God for unanswered prayers sometimes not
getting your blueprints the best thing
that ever happened because the
disappointment drives you to find
something more important inside of you
or not getting it makes you look for
another aspect of your life a spiritual
aspect of a family aspect a physical
aspect if you can just trust that life
doesn't happen to you
it happens for you then you can find in
any situation a benefit that can take
your life to the next level I don't care
if you're Frank and Kristen I don't care
if you're you know Mandy and Scott I
don't care if you're Joaquin and Kim
every one of us in our life is gonna
feed faced situations where it feels
like we have total trauma something
that's been taken from us the real
question is what are you gonna do with
it some people just live in the story of
but they don't have gonna have the right
to do that the Frank and Chris them
lived in pain and felt bad we'd all say
they have the right to do it it's a
difference in what you have the right to
do and what you deserve to give yourself
and others we have the ability to
transcend whatever happens to us there's
something called post-traumatic growth
very few people know about it
two people go through the same stress
one's destroyed the other grows what's
the difference the people that grow will
not give up they don't have any excuses
they find the way to break through
whatever it takes and when they do three
things happen number one they realize
who they really are and what they're
capable of they realize there's so much
stronger than they thought they were and
number two they deepen all their
relationships you want to know who
really cares about you who you love and
who loves you go through some tragedy go
through some hard times all your
Facebook friends go away your real
friends your real family shows up for
you and you show up for them and it
deepens your relationships and the third
thing happens if you can push yourself
through and break through whatever
challenges life gives you each time you
have a breakthrough you get stronger and
it almost like builds a psychological
immunity in you we're suddenly all of a
sudden it's like stuff happens you know
stuffs gonna happen and you're not
scared of it anymore cuz after you've
been through a stroke after you've been
through you know losing the use of some
of your body or senses after you lose a
family member and you break through to
that you get to the other side it's like
give me your best shot life it's almost
like there's this psychological immunity
that says I'm ready for whatever life
will give me I don't want challenges but
if they're here I know I can handle them
that strength of spirit is what creates
a sense of freedom and joy in life
and that strength of spirit basically
comes from living a life where you are
constantly a never ending thing you way
to improve yourself and to help others
that's my mission and if we can serve
you again in the future I hope you'll
check us out there's three ways you can
continue to participate with us you can
come to an event come have an experience
with us live in a weekend at our unleash
the power within or our date with
destinies I think you'll find it's very
different than just sitting here talking
to you quietly sitting in front of your
computer screen it's a rock and roll
environment it's like going to the
ballpark in heaven one person sitting
there talking to you versus being in the
ballpark of the rock and roll concert
you know with 50,000 there's an energy
and a power that comes from its second
is there's immersion here we talked for
an hour there's distractions and emails
there it's total focus and we go for
immersion where literally what we did
here over six weeks few little
conversations all that happens over and
over again multiple times a day you get
that shift so come to an event or call
up and get a coach we have people that
you can work with and have a free
coaching session to make sure it's
really valuable for you but these are
people that can check in with you to
help make sure you break through you
make the changes you want to make and
your career your finances your body
emotions or whatever area matters to you
and finally lastly and probably most
importantly every day you got to feed
your mind cuz every day most of us are
turning on you know some form of news it
shows up in our pocket and our
blackberries or iPods or iPhones I
should say it shows up you know
here constantly it chases us in it
rarely does a good idea interrupt you
really what you have to do is pursue the
ideas pursue the experiences they're
gonna change your life and we have a way
to do it call that time no extra time a
wave where you can keep feeding your
mind the stuff that really matters with
some products or services so if you're
interested in any of those things be
sure to click on your interest of an
event your interest in having a free
coaching session or maybe try one of our
audio programs because the other
challenge here is with video got to sit
here potentially and watch me but with
audio you can do it while you're working
out you can do it while you're cleaning
the house you can do it while you're
driving in the car while you're getting
to work we'd love to continue serving in
any way we can I know I've gone wrong in
this session but I really want you to
think about how can I get my life the
way I want it to be the way I do it is I
figure out what my blueprint is and I
update it for what life is I changed my
life match my blueprint and suddenly my
life feels full and a life thank you for
the time that we spent together here
I've really enjoyed our time and I hope
that this breakthrough series reminds
you to never settle for less than you
can be never settle for less than you
can give or you can share LIVESTRONG
loop of passion and god bless
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