hi everyone Alexis Paris here and you're listening to the empowered millennial
podcast episode 3 to live a limitless existence on this earth so I can impact
the most amount of people is the mission statement of our upcoming guest welcome
back guys this week our guest is Cheesette Cowan now last week I had John Obidi
who worked with me on the project and Cheesette Cowan also worked with me on
the same exact project and I'll tell you why it's because she's that count is
such a woman of faith such a woman of business and integrity and of wisdom and
I've learned so many life lessons from her and so I'm so glad that she's here
to offer value to you guys I'm so glad that she's here to pour out your wisdom
to you guys because she has so many golden nuggets that when you apply them
to your world you will get results so thank you so much she's that for being
here I'm so excited and I can't wait to dive in are you ready yes thank you for
having me it's always a pleasure to be with the world-famous miss Alexis pears
so the first question I'd like to ask all the time and what I'd like to know
is the story behind the person usually people have stories about business where
they start from nothing and then they they created something massive but I'm
super interested in your personal development story right when you when
you didn't develop yourself you are in a certain place and then when you started
to intensely read to intensely study to intensely apply the knowledge that you
are learning something always happens something always shifts in your
mentality and the way that you operate with people and the way that you execute
and so I would love to hear your transformation from before personal
development and personal development can be of any kind right it can be books
from Napoleon Hill from Jim Rohn and all of these things but it also can be the
good book the Bible as well you know so I would love to
know your transformation before personal development and after well just start
you know gonna dig me off and go back to when I was five years old this happen I
just start at the part of my life that gave me the greatest shift in thinking
and that was when I became a Christian when I became a Christian I begin to I
was in a church where they were teaching you the word and my pastor just say you
got to renew your mind you have to exchange your thoughts for God's
thoughts you have to look at the things that you were taught and the things that
you believe in examine them and line them up with what the word says and now
figure out that the word of the truth and that the way you were thinking
before where that wasn't in live of the word is in error and then reconciling
the two so what that taught me is that there's two belief systems so I'm always
looking at everything I see for there is a truth and then there is be truth two
different things a truth can be fabricated featuring
stands alone so I always since that point started looking at things and I
hear a tuba that I might there's something deeper there so you train to
go to college get the job to do all of it and you know make six figures so that
I get to that point in life and I'm like okay this is a truth but then I just
keep feeling this intense desire for there's more see if I let it that set
myself stopped that the fact that that's a truth I'm limiting myself to the truth
which is and I can give you six figures he can give you 60 million so then now I
had to take all of the information that I had and I begin to realize that even
while I was growing changing doing more getting more obtaining more I was still
limited by what I was given as far as true because when you're coming up you
know of you to make $100,000 a year the truth is everybody in your
only things that you meaning but you got a search deep breath to say that you
can't really impact people's lives at $100,000 you can I mean you can use your
influence wherever you are but to impact the world like the global world $100,000
is not going to do anything so that I began to realize that I have to get
deeper on the inside of me and get the truth that God wants me to live a life
without limits that whatever it is I desire the finances of resources have
already been there it's just simply been waiting for me to tap into it there's
this law of recognition that says everything you need is around me it
should be waiting on your ability to recognize it and what personal
development did for me is it made me uncomfortable
it made me begin to look at people that were like Oh a hundred thousand dollars
we do that on Tuesday morning you know so I'm like well here I am you know I
think I've arrived and I'm sitting with presents and you telling me you do to
the food and I'm like I got a look at what they're saying what my family is
saying who has told me that I arrived and I got away these two things out and
the way that I read them out is there's no limit in God so six figures is a
limit now I don't even I don't even tell that I want to make seven figures I want
to make eight figures I want to make enough to do whatever I have to do to
make an impact around this world it can however far God takes day it could be in
the trillions my mind is now open to it so that part of person element really
helps you understand that whatever the world told you that was so much greater
for you and he's just did you a bit go out here and make that thing possibly
mm-hmm that's so good because like you said when you start to develop yourself
you open up your mind to a whole new perspective is what I hear from your
transformation and it's easy to allow other people to set your standards you
know I created a quote today on Instagram
that was like let your standard always be higher than the standards that other
people set for you or in this case let your stand be limitless
you know because you understand that there's there's you don't want to place
a cap on your potential and personal development gives you the ability to
release the captain to to show you that there's always different options and
different opportunities and you can have an experience more if you develop your
mind to think that way so this is so good I love it I love it
and you know if you guys don't know cheese that is an author of multiple
books and what was the most recent one that you wrote the most recent book that
I wrote was no more boyfriends it's a book tour that are gearing to understand
how to date like not date like the world but court as Christians and for me more
than I am an author I'm a publisher you know I don't really I write to keep my
gift going and to make sure I'm exercising that muscle but I really want
to help other people publish books but at the end of the day that there is so
many things that God wants to do in this generation there are books that have to
come out of people and they're not going to be the traditional book you know
they're going to be books from from you like why I put college to learn like
books where they plant a seed of a different way to think and people said
because they're gonna have to do something different in order to make it
in this generation the way you maneuver and journal success and this edge right
here 2002 17 2001 tactics are not going to work you gotta have to reshape your
whole game your business structure you're going to have to come from a
different vantage point and in order to do that you're gonna have to think on
another level because here's the thing problems cannot be solved on the same
level that they are created in order to solve a problem you have to be at a
higher level because you've got to be able to look down on the problem in
order to get with them and what's happening is we're going into
the marketplace everything else with the same wisdom instead of taking that with
them taking it all in and then figuring out how to bring it to the next level
yes and as you go for success you have to understand that if you want it that
you cannot be an ordinary thinker like you have to think differently the the
way that people view things that's cool if you vote if you view that in like the
first time that you look at it but overall you have to think differently
you have to come up with new types of solutions and new ideas and things like
that because that's what allows you to keep up with the fast pace of the world
you know the world changes so quickly so thinking differently is definitely
necessary and I wanted to pull up your book because I know that you are very
wise and it comes about developing friendships and relationships and
relationships is such a crucial role when it comes to developing yourself
when it comes to creating your best life like you can't do it alone you can't
expect to live like be alone and to be fully satisfied you need nourishing
relationships and nourishing nourished friendships however I also believe that
before you get to that point there has to be a stage where you are in solitude
like there has to be a place where you are by yourself getting to know who you
are and so I would like to know from you as you're developing yourself what role
the solitude play like how does it contribute to your growth
how important is it that you go through that stage before you start building
other relationships to that you gotta go to that before any you gotta go to that
dairy like even in friendships you have to have that quiet time because the
quiet time is how about introduce you to yourselves see you need to know who you
are and that's what the quiet times do they introduce you to you see here's the
thing about me isn't this I I know me I know my ups I know my downs I know my
strengths I know my weaknesses my weaknesses are not issues and if I know
what they are and I'm working towards in that area I'm not going to be 100
across the board but if I can be at 60 and then next year being 70 and next
year being 80 and I'm striving toward perfection then I know that I'm to be
growing exponentially across the board in all other areas so if I came from a
sixty to a 70 in this area by default whatever area I was at a 95 and I'm
moving toward 100 but the time of being alone really shows you how to interact
with other people it shows you how you come off the people how people perceive
you how you sleep how you want to speak to people it also gives you thing of
knowing what are your hurts one of the things that you bring into a
relationship that could possibly be a hindrance to other people how you can
bless people how you can be a burden to people because for me prior to you know
really learning about who I was I was codependent I didn't even realize it
see because if you have these relationships like one of the really
like relationships I'm speaking of I knew her since I was in milling sixth
grade I didn't even really have a consciousness of who I was so when you
grow up and you're codependent this person is always been a part of your
life you don't realize it but what the pulling back does is it helps you
analyze are you depending on other things other people more than you depend
on Christ are you strengthening yourself so that you can grow and now bring a
level of I'm not going to say confidence but a level of awareness to Christ that
can now challenge somebody else to go to the next level because that's what this
thing is all about like I was saying to somebody that my main thing right now
and this is what I keep sanity dominate every space you are in
do not come in space and leave it to chance about what does this environment
going to be like when I come in up coming in to dominate that environment
if there is another stronger person and that person lives for Christ we will
dominate together for Christ but I am NOT coming in any environment that I'm
not dominating because if there are spirits in that
place and nobody takes christ-like Authority that spirit will dominate
somebody's going to have to win this generation for Christ why not me
it's so good and you do you think that solitude could be a great recovery
tactic when it comes to releasing friendships that are no longer
benefiting you or that are holding you back do you think that solitude could be
a great recovery process to move on from those types of experiences when you have
to distance yourself from friendships that you've had for a long time but
there are no longer feeding you in the way that you need them to as long as
this productive and it's healthy and is done decent in an order if I have
friendships that I've had to distant myself I believe in having a
conversation and letting people know why because God is also concerned with their
development if i distant myself from them because they're a negative person
and i don't tell them and then for other people defend themselves from them
because they're a negative person and nobody tells them when do they have the
opportunity to grow because nobody's ever held them accountable to the
standard but now if I say hey you know I love you but this is where I'm moving on
to you know I really need more positivity in my life and I don't feel
like I'm getting that from over here so I'm going to be kind of making the ship
I still love you nothing changes see when that happens they're gonna say okay
she's pretty then when it happens the second time oh she's pretty
then would have it the third time that'll be like okay it's not them is me
every hour they have that image now they're able to grow see my thing with a
lot of you know friends the Bible says if you have a fault with a brother
you gotta go to that person and bring your issue to that person and give that
person a chance to answer you a lot of times we do that because we haven't been
taught how to have healthy conflicts you know we think that if I see you means I
see any no more oh it could be really hard so like this is what I'm doing for
me and this is a decision that I made love you but you know but giving that
person opportunity today a friend and I kind of told her I said you know if
we're going to be friends you need come up here but because you down here and I
can't really do that at this stage in my life and she said okay and she really
has worked to come up he doesn't and so her to a standard now made her aware
that I got it I can't be talking negative all the time every time she
call I can't be talking about who left me
what they doing at work and how I'm like I want hero that because we all I think
that we can pay attention to that are not right but at the end of the days
where we're going because whatever you focus on expands right right exactly
but is it helpful in the SS whether you've already done that and you've made
a decision and you have to say it is helpful because you can learn why you
back to that place like what MIT what was it about that friendship that made
you stay longer than you needed to what was about that and then not just
looking at okay there like that what part of you was a loose stuck to
compromise what were you getting out of that because like I said this
codependent thing it wasn't just her that was draining me it is also my need
to feel needed that I had to assess and say to myself why did you have to feel
like that and then I had to deal with me getting because a lot of it is kind of
earns we're doing things or people that we wish people had did for us you got to
kind of get healed and get whole and then now begin to make friendships from
a healthier place right so people want to be right I'm telling you Alexis I
think the number one mistake people make is getting and surviving themselves
people that don't have the same passion and drive like you need to be around
people that so driven I mean I'm not talking about like yes circle
you trying to motivate them I mean people who aren't purpose already had it
in then you ain't gotta coach them they wanted just as much as you want and you
get off the solid then you thought you were tired but you back then fired man
you fire you got like if you ever get a chance I did an interview with two women
they have a business together and they have that energy and they said
that they believed that they were business soul mates and she said he had
the same Drive like we were driven by the same energy that kind of actually
like you gotta search for that soul mate in your friendship right and this leads
me to my next question so once you once you're in a healthy place to develop
those relationships and once you're looking for who you can connect with to
help you get to the next level what are some what's the kind of effort that you
need to make sure that relationship continues to thrive agreement you need
to have lengthy conversations I think what happens is we try to attach
ourselves to people without asking for permission for a mutually beneficial
relationship so we may see somebody that person may have drive on a thousand but
they may not want to connect with you and that's fine they have a have a drive
and a thousand with the connection that you want from them has to be mutually
reciprocal they gotta want that same connection from you so now when that's
in place we agree to hold each other accountable to be each other's kind of
driving or pushing force but a lot of times we just kind of look at me like oh
she's really driven I'm going to connect with her well she is somewhere else you
don't even understand that the the process it takes to be in a relationship
where iron sharpens iron so you might be pouring into her and she's been taken
keep moving because she's not cognizant of the relationship piece and that's the
hard part because a lot of people that have the kind of drive that I'm
about they are one-sidedness they're so focused so driven a lot of times they
the relationship piece so you may even have to lovingly bring that to their
attention you may have to even a sex what's going on around them and say hey
you're doing your thing I see you moving but where are you at a relationship like
no man is an island at some point you're going to need people support you and be
around you and you have to do that on purpose you know your mom talks about
being intentional like you have to intentionally build the support system
that's going to be there for you because out here who you are every leader every
strong person has a bad day everybody gets tired you need to have people I can
hold you up when you can't hold yourself up right it's so true oh my goodness and
I'm seeing it with someone that I know right now that exact same situation you
know sometimes we have goals and we become super independent and we're like
we got this goal we got this and we're gonna make sure that we get there but
you also have nursed understand and I heard it from someone doing a Facebook
live talking about there's something higher than independence and that's
interdependence you know when you have people around you that can help you not
because you necessarily can't do it on your own but you're stronger with them
you may be strong by yourself but you're stronger when you're attached to other
people who have the same passions you have the same Drive and values as well
we cancel out each other's weaknesses see when you have shred
we also have weaknesses when you are intertwined with somebody you only need
a hundred percent to behold so if they have 50 percent good at 50 percent bad
you have 50 percent good at 52 percent bad when you intertwine you take get rid
of the 50 both of you guys that are not good you intertwine and 100 percent of
strength that's like a Bible day they will yoke the animals together and
that's why God tells you don't be unequally yoked because the the equality
and yoking is what's gonna pull this thing
full right exactly and what's the mentality that you keep in mind always
to four to form new relationships as well I know like for example um kind of
like what you said earlier like if you're online and you're searching
around and you see someone you're like oh I just want to connect with them
because they're geben like well that mentality allow you to carry on that
relationship for a long period of time you just joined because she was driven
right he's so like what's the mentality that you need to have to form
long-lasting relationships not ones that are just temporary and for a season but
the ones that you can have for a lifetime I believe that God opens people
with heart told you what I'm looking for been a beneficial relationship mutually
but I'm looking for people that have a heart toward me see some people have a
heart toward the thing I have a heart for not for me particularly so forth and
we get together and we both want to be successful the success is driving us
into the same car what happens when we get there we're gonna get there but you
don't have a heart for me when we get there you don't have a heart you won't
get out the car cuz we've arrived even if this train backs up at a time because
you have a heart for me you're here for the backup you're here for the go
forward when we get to the destination you're here for the celebration right I
think that's like you know who has a heart to you today they-they-they
driven but they're also connected to what's going on with you they want to
know like when they ask what you're doing to be successful they want to know
not so they could do the same thing but they want to know so that they can hear
if you're alright in that process you know okay you know like for me I
travel a lot and do a lot with my kids you know like a lot of people will you
know will be like you know hey you need me to come over and watch the kids while
you get rest see that's somebody that's there for me you know because they
understand what they see me doing where they see me
go down I'm human I got kids I get tired because they're connected to what's
going on a man see TD jakes has a certain he talks about comrade
constituents and confidence he said your comrades are the people that you're for
the same plumbing yet your comrades are people that you're against the same
thing so your your connection is what you're against those of you joining
organizations Mothers Against Drunk Driving all those two organizations you
don't really know them get the same thing so you form a relationship based
on those claws and constituents are people that you have the same goal so
maybe it's business you want to be successful so you have that vision in
common so you get together you form partners because admitted but the
confidence of the behind the nail one they're the ones that can see you at
your lowest point if still not see you at that point
they got to see you when you're all the way down and still not see you down you
know like I have friends that I've seen in that places and even though they're
in that place and I'm with them at that moment I don't even see them in that
place I see them as where that is calling me and who I know they're really
are outside the infinite and it takes it takes off god got to give you all her
for somebody like that I just don't think I'm sensitive to that and I don't
think I have that kind of hurt for everybody because there are just certain
people that God just endears you to and I think it's really about I mean those
people that die in fears you do it's really good and I believe that as you
describe the confidence and I think it was Tyler Perry I was I went like this
Leadership Conference and he was one of these speakers and you talked about the
relationships in your life and how you the relationships in your life and how
you can categorize them you can categorize them and compare it to like a
tree so on a tree you have leaves you have branches and you have roots and the
leaves you know they fall off periodically branches they break if you
apply too much pressure but the roots they're there with you from the
beginning into the end and all through the middle as well and I believe that
your confidence are you as well right just like you said you
have to be able to see that person at the place of success at the plate at the
place where they dream to be even when they're not there in the very beginning
or you have to be with them through this struggle through the experiences through
the hard times to support them and like you said you just really have they have
to have a heart for you those are the lifetime our relationships that we need
and there are hard to find I think TJ's is the one that said if you find two or
three you've done well all right so they take time to develop and people are so
in a rush they put more like you can't when you I was thinking about what
you're saying about roots and branches the difference between a root and a
branch because some branches grow to be strong some branches can hold a child a
swing what happens is that branch just started growing today and you're trying
to put a swing on it see that's what happens in age where we meet people and
they're like that's my friend how long have you know her oh we've
known each other nine months or we're connected yeah I'm gonna need some years
behind that I'm gonna need some experiences behind that I'm gonna need
that root I mean I'm gonna need that branch to get some strength to it
because it could be a perfectly good branch where they before I applied too
much pressure too soon yeah it might bring it not because there's anything
wrong with the branches just the timing is off the roots are a little different
that the roots of a tree take years to grow you know and then when they spot a
spot but that's what happened I know that have said a lot of people I don't
you're not my friend unless we've had a conversation unless I have sat down with
you and I said this is what I expect for from you this is what I could offer you
we're not pretty I'm friendly I will give you the same I don't treat people
different because they're not my friends because my character is what drives my
behavior not my friendships my characters we get all the time but I
noticed that a lot of people you know that this is so broken in themselves and
when they meet somebody that's friendly they tell you you know all about
history and all mothers like it's not the time I think that's the hardest part
and people say well this person you know somebody said to me well I told this
person something she you know told other people she said she's not a friend to me
I said she agreed to give her to you was there an expectation that you could
confide in her and she didn't tell anybody was that expectation clear
because if she never agreed to do that you missed the mark by giving her
information that she should have been privy to that's not on her because she
never presented herself to be other than somebody who worked at a club with so
now trusted her with your deepest secret is that on her or is that on you on you
I mean it could be are you yeah yeah and I have someone that's really important
to me who takes people through like an auditioning process you know no one and
I've had I've had to work on this as well so I'm super friendly and I love to
talk to people but you have to take people through an auditioning process to
be your friend you know you don't just allow anyone just come into your room
like hey we're best friends and I'm gonna share with you everything because
not everyone is like you all right you can't you can't kind of classify as
everyone as the type of friend that you would like them to be until they prove
themselves true you're responsible for you're just as responsible for them so
if you say they're your best friends and they start to do weird stuff and you say
you know what I'm not going to anymore then you're going to be held accountable
too because you could made it to them so now you're going back on your word so
part of the interview process for me to assess whether I can stay with you
friendship and I was really young in Christ she has the paddy stuff on OA and
I had to tell her I can't be your friend like and she's if I really need a friend
I know you do but it can't be me because I'm I'm vulnerable right now weak I
can't carry this stuff you got going on will take me out so I have to separate
myself from you because you got step one that right now at this new stage I was a
new Christian I'm like yeah you want technique and I can't you know that was
a decision that I had to me but you know those are hard decision this time time
we gotta make sometimes when you get to know people they got a lot of stuff and
you got to be like you know what and it works for me got everything that one but
I think it's so important to really understand that the people that you
surround yourself and the people that used to round yourself with the people
that you choose to call friends is a very serious thing you know it can't be
taken lightly and I think like when we when we're in school and we're in high
school and things like that it's you usually gather friends just because they
so that you're not alone alright so that you have someone to talk
to you so you have someone to walk to class with but you soon realize in life
and you develop yourself like you have to be picky you have to be you have to
use wisdom and choosing the people that you surround yourself with because they
shape who you are they shape your mentality they shape the results that
you're going to receive in your life later on as well what you just say the
average person is not even intentional about where they vote in life so they
can be friends with anybody an apartment well we're talking about a flower that
got a destiny on their life they're going after it and it man ain't like
I've got to be intentional about this thing right it's true it's true so you
those who listening you have to make a choice do you want to be intentional
with your life do you have somewhere to go the other destination if so then be
intentional with your relationships you can't afford not to be if you have a
destination because it will contribute to where you end up late turn one more
thing this is really good when you have a clear intention always divide people
into assets or liabilities we all have assets we all have liabilities we all
have been assets we all have been liabilities well what dividing people
into assets and liabilities does is financially if I have a thousand dollars
a week and my car is a liability to the tune of
$200 I can decide that that's the liability that I want to accept because
I needed to get the work around to do that in the public transportation I
don't mind spending the extra money for that liability because it's worth it to
me see if you don't divide them in assets and liabilities so you got a
whole bunch of things that it's costing you $2,000 a week and you didn't even
realize that your budget was $1,000 a week so you're overspent because you if
you look at them in that terms my babies they're not live better assets their
liabilities they cost money but it's a liability test you have
decided to take loan you plan for you prepare for it yeah like a structured
way that makes it doable so just because they're a liability at this moment see
your kids you in your mind your kids are a liability until they get on their own
so yeah they're not a lifetime liability you foresee that in asset to you at some
point later you know them saying so somebody maybe
ability now but you may see the investments that they're making in
themselves and know that in two years that person is going to be an asset
because she's on a school she personal development she getting to know herself
she's a great person she's got her heart she's got the character I want to take
on this you know liability right now because I
know that in a year it's gonna mature be an asset can either Joe mm-hmm so I want
to challenge you guys listening to make a list I think Harvey recommended this
as well make a list of everyone that's important
to in your world make a list one column says assets and other ones there's
liabilities and put people in their rightful position and see the people
that are under liabilities are you accept are you accepting them
intentionally do you are you accepting them because you know that their
liabilities and they're going to grow into something else later or are they
just liabilities just to be liabilities and they're just holding you down all
right all right you guys you have to and I think that's a great way to assess
what your relationships are doing for you just make that separation and to see
who you need to audit who you need to keep around who you need
to grow with I think that's very very important and
also like as you continue on your journey to success it's always important
to continue to grow your knowledge about not just put platonic relationships but
romantic ones as well they are huge a huge factor when it comes to your
success as well and so I would like to know she's at what two books would you
recommend to learn about relationships or whether the last two books that you
read that regarded this whole relationship topic well the last two
books that I read actually have nothing to do with the relationships I read
anyone a success in a minute the last book I read was a compound effect by
Darren Hardy and then there is another book called the secret help me by debby
pearl but as far as relationships a book that I really really kind of think is
just good it really it says a relationship this is the Bible that's
good I really like Brenda and I are working on the book of our friendships I
don't really see a lot of friction there's a book it's called the the
grown-ups guide a group the girlfriends guide the grown-up guys to girlfriends
or something like that I don't know who the author is I ordered it I have yet to
read it really important because your relationship affect how much yeah you
know you can be doing other personal development doing everything you know to
get ahead and failing to assess this relationship piece and that will hold
you back more than anything else because you're undoing everything that you're
learning by sitting and fellowship with people that are just not going in the
direction that you're going mm-hmm and then the final question I
like to ask is who would you recommend to be on the show next it can be anyone
there okay so there is a guy named Tony Giordano's that just did a training he
is the social real estate agent he does not list properties that are probably
under 50 million dollars he's killing it right
but he had a great understanding of Millennials and social media what's his
name Tony Giordano more than he's on social
media I think Amanda's his own stuff so you know you can probably find him to
Facebook when he did the size he his Facebook page up so obviously he looks
at it but I think that when it comes to Millennials Millennia's know a lot but
sometimes you need wisdom too and I think he does a job of balancing the
wisdom and what's really going on in our social media world so I think he would
be grow I also um there was another young lady I don't know her name but
I'll get it to you she's a chemical engineer and isn't DC but she's had a
baby at 14 took her baby to college with her and at 22 years of issues making 500
habló videos so she said manufacturing machines for coca-cola I don't know her
she's a friend of a friend but I I saw her online and I was inspired by her
story and I think because she's so young I would want to know personally what was
going through her mind at those different stages in life yeah let's get
her on yeah it sounds amazing sounds awesome
yes citing great awesome oh yes yes he's coming he's coming too
Darcy's coming soon yeah um so oh what's the best way that people can connect
with you Facebook it's really good I'm on
Facebook a lot she's at Carolyn I'm on Instagram alone oh I'm trying to make
the shift my Facebook is just much more fun to me but yeah the Graham Twitter
tease that count all that awesome and do you have any final words before I close
up I purchased like I said if you're
listening to this dominate the space that you're in decide what you want to
happen and make it happen it is if there is one thing I have learned right now is
that if I decide something that won't be it's going to be nobody can stop it
there is no financial barrier no social barrier no racial barrier no class
barrier there's nothing that can stop a person that has decided that they're
going to do something the issue is we let all these things
play in our mind and they stop us from making a decision make the decision and
then go forward and Dominique with that decision in the forefront of your mind
because there are people that are attached to you that are waiting to see
you get to that place of total domination so that they can start to
dominate their own life and win so good so good I so agree you know there's
always people have come before us but haven't been tell you that I'm gonna do
it and I'm gonna do it better you know I mean dominate that space and you can
dominate everyone has the opportunity to do so because we are are unique in our
own ways we all come from different places we all have different backgrounds
and things so there's enough room for all of us to dominate our individual
spaces you know so definitely take that make the decision to do it and do it man
like Nike says just do it yes yes so um thank you so much she's that for being
on this was fun I learned a ton don't hesitate to reach out to cheese that
she's on Facebook's on Instagram and Twitter at she's at Cowan I mean
definitely plug into her to get some of her more of her content she's always
spitting out wisdom like crazy so thanks again for being here and I hope that you
guys enjoy your day and I will talk to you guys later like I always like to say
be great be awesome and do you every single day see you guys soon bye
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