[Hello to all] the colors and welcome to a new video. This is one of the classic videos I already had
shot of which the famous break of the hard disk led to loss, but that's okay
because at least the answers will be new, I do not even remember what I answered
the other time and so on I immediately say that there is no question tagging
But I do not even tag anyone, because it's a tag ... an argument ... about a topic a lot
specific and niche that is coming out: as you will have read, this is the coming out tag created
from Endi, written just as I said it, and I will leave the channel of Endi in the
info, and take advantage, this time I sponsor at the beginning so you are
forced to watch the sponsor [chuckles] for also sponsor a channel that does not
knows how to get out right in this video, and the channel it is called just with the name and surname of the
person: I sponsor Francesco Perrini, I decide to sponsor it
within the coming out tag because he is a person who, together with
civil partner (I would say husband but you can not, therefore
no one denounces me, thank you!), you live at 360 degrees either in life, both on Youtube
Unfortunately with all the people instead
they marry with women for cover, the people like him and like Rosario are
unfortunately, become exceptions from admire, and I hope this thing
one day you change, and I hope to be still alive to celebrate it,
but that's okay, it's already more than a minute I speak, I would say to start with the
questions of the tag, which this time me I'm prepared. First name? My name is Riccardo.
At what age did you come out? So, here you have to do a little
speech: I have done two coming out in reality, because I lived in a context
strongly masculine and phallocentric, so my first camina .. the
my first coming out was like a bisexual, because they had convinced me that before
have to declare me gay to taste i female genitalia
Nice eh? Beautiful consideration of the woman
so my first coming out was like bisexual: a year later, with the advent of the
first flame, I understand that I do not interested the other, so I did the
coming out as definitive as gay. What do your parents think?
So when I came out like bisexual, my mother told me that not
it was possible, in the sense that I liked men
I liked women, and the beauty is that they are still younger people than mine
like-minded mother. My father practically not even noticed the
first coming out, when instead I declared myself as gay with the advent of the first boyfriend:
"ehhhh, but you have to understand, we did not expect it bla bla bla ... "then the ending of the story is that
when I left home he did not supported and here I stop
oh well ... how was your life since then? I assume this question meant
how I lived coming out instead in general, beyond the speech
"parents": for me to declare myself - above all the second time, because the first was
a little forced - it was a liberation, I could not take it anymore to have to pretend for
force to want a girlfriend, I like girls, to congratulate
to the girls in the sense of trying, while if now I have to say that mine
friend is a great cunt, I say it's one great cunt without so many problems because
mine is a total compliment disinterested, at the time it was a problem.
I really understood who at that moment he kept us, and from that moment
I rarely changed friendships for mine sexual orientation, friendships are
always end up for something else, so in essence it was a liberation.
My little work experiences do not they were instead positive for me
it's about coming out, I learned that when I will work
I will have to keep private life out of the working life because unfortunately the
luck of Francesco, who had his own students
civil do not have it in many, above all I know people with
much more negative experiences inherent the school that I can not tell in this video. Thing
do you think of parents who drive out of the house (I have wrong to write) or mistreat i
children after their coming out? So, I'm not ... I mean, yes, I am
he was beaten but not to be gay but because I simply had a father, then
I can not go down in these clothes because not
it's an experience that I have, I have not been kicked out of home but ... for what I have
past and unfortunately I can not say in video at least until I have even one
relative in life I would have preferred to great long to be driven out of the house, though
by law parents must keep ... me I would have prefe ... I would have hoped to
be in a position not to ask nothing more to mine, because precisely I do not
they accepted in the most manner absolute
But I would like to say, if this video is going being watched by people who maybe
they are thinking of coming out that fortunately mine begins to be one
case a little more isolated than a few years ago, in the sense that I know more people
young of me (I'm 28 for the record) that they are receiving positive responses to
coming out so that is, do not take the my experience as an example but
an experience: let's move on to the other question, Gay is born or made? Then apart
there are some scientific studies that gay is born, if I can
I would also like to put you in the info box a video, an article something like that
that I will try thoroughly before to publish the video, which demonstrates what I'm saying scientifically: for how much it is about my experience
reviving my feelings, mine feelings as a child I tell you that I
I was born gay, and I always have girls appreciated as friends and to whom al
maximum I enjoyed asking why they did not put the necklace, the
earrings and the ring, because I always have had a little the stylistic soul, just for
this. What do you think of the people who they keep everything for themselves without talking to them
someone? I think they are not condemnable because
every person is in himself, but in the same time I think they are not even
enviable (I have mistaken the subjunctive before, nice, hello) are not even
enviable because
there is nothing more satisfying than walking head up, being sure of yourself and
via talking to 360 degrees, not only regarding emotional / sexual orientation.
Here, and I was already about to answer
the other question: how do you feel about yourself? Now, now to the venerable - it's done for
say - age of 28, I have a lot more security for how much
it's about being myself: sure, I remain shy in percentage, however
it is not in my opinion a shyness pathological but surmountable, in the sense
let's say that the first impact has passed see qando a person I like, which I
it has not always been this way, I would love it, but really
so, get out of the virtual more than what I can not do now but live in
Grosseto does not help, because however, the inhabitants are few a
regardless of what the orientation is emotional affective, so it's not a thing
very easy to get out of the virtual.
But I can work at the same time even more about myself to have
AUTOSTIMA estimates even higher and be even safer, there is still from
work, there's always work to do lifetime. you have a tip to give to
people who are afraid of coming forward?
my advice is to go for degrees, that is, you do not feel sure of the
your parents' reaction? Begin from friends ... from friends, from friends
from the amic * helps, start from friendships, and if yours
friendships will accept you means that they were not true friendships, I know it's one
sentence made but believe me it is so
especially if you are very young and easier to make new ones: I have
started to be judged more for the my disability
let's say after 16 years - first no - and when you feel more confident with you
themselves with the support of your friends in case
you can start passing it not to the family member to whom
you feel more connected than mother, dad, aunt, cousin, sister
I do not know it depends on you, though go step by step, choose, make discernment
and do not be afraid because someone who is there will accept there: one of these for example
it's me, if you want you can contact me via
company. The tag is finished, I dropped it the mouse for the third time, you do not
you saw it because I will cut it. as I said first I do not tag anyone, pass by
Francesco Perrini's channel, because it is really a hilarious thing, today has
done, has published the video of the masks to laugh, laugh ... of course
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