men are talking and here's what they want hi I'm Jaki Sabourin and I've posted
over a hundred videos on my youtube channel and over a hundred thousand
people have watched them today and here's what I discovered that men are
posting comments in the comment box and this is gold why because they're telling
us exactly what they want from us so here's what I did for you I took my top
three most popular videos and I created a three-part video series just for you
so if you want a man to love cherish and adore you without feeling needy or
desperate I want you to watch these three free videos and the last and final
video in the series is three tips it drives him wild I hope you enjoy the
video ladies lots of love hi ladies Jaki Sabourin here and I'm excited to
connect with you today because I want to talk to you about three things that
attract men over 50 and it's really over 50 over 60 over 70 and beyond because
this is what men are looking for in a woman that are over 50 and so the here's
the thing is all men want to attract the same type of woman
all the men when I read through this statistics I it all it all shows the
same thing all men want a fun honest woman that they can have a good time
with so that's easy right you're a fun honest woman that they can have a good
time with so you already you already solved half of the problem and so but
there's specifically different qualities that men are looking for as a age and I
want to share those with you today and so one of the things it really stood out
when I looked at the statistics and what I hear from my my the men that I know
and also from the women that I'm coaching is that men are really looking
for a relationship over 50 over 60 in over 70 they really are they're more
relationship minded so ladies I don't want you to be afraid to be expressing
they are interested in a committed relationship because that is exactly
what men are looking for over 50 over 60 and Beyond because they are they
recognize that the important things in life is having a loving partner by their
side and to experience life with someone and
they're recognizing that more and more as they age so that's such a benefit a
bonus right to know and to really understand and accept and empower
yourself with this knowledge that men over 50 60 and 70
really are looking for long-term committed relationships that lead to
marriage and face it what else are they gonna do I mean you know having a
relationship when as we age is really the most rewarding experiences you can
have and so I like that I'm sharing this with you because I really know that to
be true based on my own experience with Michael all right so so men are looking
for relationships over 50 in fact they are more interested in that then than
just dating for fun and so a loving partner is a priority two men over 50 60
and 70 and another thing that men are looking for men that are over 50 looking
for a woman in a relationship over 50 60 and 70 is is a woman who is valid values
intelligence and so men are looking for intelligent women so emotional
intelligence and intellectual intelligence so emotional intelligence
is your ability to have a great communication skill your ability to hold
a conversation without getting triggered your ability to bring more wisdom to
every situation because that is a such a benefit to him benefiting from your
wisdom your intuition and your knowledge your life knowledge and your life
experiences actually when he's looking for not that you're younger that you
have all this life experience and you know how to apply it
that's what emotional intelligence is having compassion having empathy having
good listening skills being being present and being open minded that's
another thing that men are looking for over 50 60 and 70 in a woman is a woman
who's open-minded because what happens is over time and this is a really a
something I want to dig into a little bit more being open-minded as we age we
tend to get generally speaking of course we
to get more closed-minded we used to tend to get rigid in our thinking and in
doing that we limit ourselves we limit not only with possible but we limit
ourselves from learning something new and so you want to always keep an open
mind sometimes when we feel like we know it all or we know a topic that somebody
is sharing with us like especially on days then we we shut that person down
because we're not really open to hearing anything new and so life is all about
learning and growing and evolving and expanding and so men over 50 60 and 70
are really looking for a woman who is open to exploring possibility is open to
looking at life in a different angle who sees the value and learning and growth
and so that's what men are looking for of course it goes across the board to
say that men are looking for a woman who has a sense of humor I mean all men are
looking for that when I looked at the statistic so and so here's a surprise
that you may not think that is true but men over 50 60 and 70 are looking for
romance they're looking for romance they're not
done with the romance in fact they're more likely to be work more romantic
because they are they value those the quality that a woman can bring to a
relationship bring that that touch of feminine energy that makes life more
rich and interesting and more colorful for a man and so they're definitely
looking for for more romance and I know as women we love romance so I think
that's that's a wonderful thing to keep in mind men want a romance you they want
to have romantic experiences with you so she as they get older so they're looking
for that quality so don't shy away from those romantic experiences because men
really do want that and so and so here's the last piece I'll share with you and
there's so many things but this one is really key
as men over 50 60 and 70 really are looking for someone who they can be
active with whether that means writing bikes taking walks skiing whatever it is
for you being active is a really important thing
two men over 15 and I think it's obvious why when we're active we live a
healthier life we live longer we sleep better we feel better about ourselves so
if you haven't been active lately this is a good time to break out your walking
shoes if summer is coming and you can get out there if it's really hot in your
environment you can go really early in the morning right
so getting yourself back into yoga routine a workout routine anything that
you can share on dates this shows that you're active even if it's just taking
really long walks that is something that is going to appeal to a man over 50 60
and 70 because he wants to remain active as long as he lives and I know my
husband is like that he's like I'm gonna work out until the day I die because I
never want to not be able to get out of bed and do the things that I want to do
and I couldn't agree more with him so we we do that together
that's one of the things that attracted me to Michael and him to me is that we
were both active so ladies they're not looking for younger women they're
looking for women that are relationship minded they're looking for women that
are active they're looking for women that are easygoing that are looking
they're looking for a woman who's intelligent emotionally and spiritually
intellectually so make sure you begin to cultivate those parts of you to make
sure that you bring that forward when you're out on your dates and of course
we're all looking for a sense of humor that's what we need to do to do all the
dating right you have to have a sense of humor about everything so bring that
sense of hearing to your date because it's going to connect really well to men
over 50 that's what they're looking for and I don't know about you but you know
it's good to have a good laugh with somebody especially when you're on a
date so if you can come up with some jokes or don't forget to be playful and
witty and have that fun playful banter not taking things so seriously not
taking things personally that's for sure and questioning things when you don't
understand something shows emotional intelligence it doesn't show that you
don't understand something it it shows you acknowledge that you're curious and
you want to be clear about something that was shared to you
not afraid to ask questions especially when you don't understand something or
don't know something I think it's really attractive when you are when you don't
know something and you're not afraid to admit it when you're like oh you know
I'm not familiar with that tell me all about it instead of thing instead of
faking it and going yeah huh sure I know about that when you really don't so
bring that vulnerability forward and and it really connects I mean I'd rather say
I really don't know about that I've never heard about it I'd love to hear
more about it than to pretend that I do because that's you don't have to do that
just let that go okay so I want to answer answer a question that was sent
in earlier before I conclude this our talk here how do you know if he's the
right man you should commit to if most things are good but then you question
other things that aren't matching up to your core wants and needs and so I would
need to know what those other things are but I would I really recommend that you
look at what your core wants and needs are more closely sometimes the things
that we want and need we haven't examined them in a while and our needs
and wants change over time and I would really look at more about what your
needs are what are the needs because the once a lot of those things you can
fulfill in yourself maybe you want to travel to different places and maybe he
doesn't so maybe you can go well are you okay with me going on trips with my
girlfriends and if he's okay with that you guys have worked that out so may I
mean but maybe that's a deal-breaker for you maybe you want to travel with your
partner so that would be a need so really getting clear about making the
distinction between wants and needs is going to help you to take the confusion
out of whether or not this man is is it has is real place in your life and now
you said your core your core wants so I I'm just imagining that the core would
be maybe front financial would be a core or maybe children's ages could be a core
thing you don't want to take on a relationship where somebody has younger
children so you really just have to get clear on what
those core needs are but I certainly would come to the table with a lot of
questions and seeing if you can negotiate I mean if you have if he has a
lot of good things that are matching up I think that it's worthy of
conversations to see if you can't negotiate some kind of compromises
because relationships are compromises and I say that in the highest with the
highest respect in a good way I compromise my time I compromise where
we eat what we're gonna watch on TV where we're gonna go on vacation because
my core needs are to be with Michael to be with a man who loves and adores me
who to be with a man who supports me to be with a man who accepts me and treats
me well those are the things that are the most important to me the other
things like where we're gonna go what we're gonna eat and all those little
things I can let all those go and go with the flow because I'm easygoing and
and those things just you know aren't that important compared to the core
needs so really it's just getting clear on where is it a need or a want and how
important is it to you it can you negotiate that because if the man has
the qualities and the principles that you really resonate with I say it's
worth negotiating and so I hope this was helpful ladies if you want more clarity
on what I'm sharing as always you know I'm here for you in these Facebook lives
and I do the youtubes and I'm always here providing you these tips but if you
need to learn how to apply them and take action on them because intellectual
knowledge was what I'm supplying here but it's useless if you can't take
action on it ladies do you need more from me if you leave a question in the
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