Hey guys
In this video we will talk about the main reason
for the ruin of the gearbox
We need to know some important
information about the gearbox
How it works How to lose energy inside
The motion comes from the engine
to Torque converter .... RPM
In physics, the law of conservation of energy states that
the total energy of an isolated system remains constant
The RPM move from the engine to the Torque converter
& INPUT to gearbox
in gear box we have a fraction between gears and clutch's
Lose energy depending on the amount of heat lost
output speed = input speed - fraction ( heating )
Oil is primarily responsible for lowering the temperature
solenoid is responsible
for reading the speed of the car and engine RPM
It gives the signal to operate the gearbox
If the car stops giving at first the first speed
& solenoid is working according to the oil pressure and anther parameters
We'll explain in another video
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It's so cute!
Do you like it, Lulu?
Mommy's going for lunch!
(Laughing)
POK!
Oh, it feels good!
Feels so nice!
(Laughing)
Lulu...
Are you listening to the sound of rain?
Are you singing "Meow"
listening to the sound of rain?
What a romantic kitty!
Your face doesn't looks so though. (lol)
Why do you look so serious?
YAP!
Oh, who's making this
Grrs sound?
(lol) Oh my...
DD~
Oh...
Are you singing Grrr song?
Saying 'pet me please~'?
Your fur's flying when I touch you.
(Laughing)
Look he runs away as soon as I talk about the fur!
You!
You!
DD.
DD, your fur is getting fallen out so much...
Let's go comb your fur!
Let's comb your fur and
get the twisted fur cut.
Do you feel lazy?
DD.
Oh.
Feel lazy, huh?
You just told me "Pet me, mom",
but all of sudden mommy got a comb and scissors in hands...
DD: Woong~
Oh, did you get upset?
Oh my...
Hey...
You're a cat. You should get your fur groomed.
Kitty.
After finishing this, let's go and eat treats.
DD: Woong~
Oh, did you say Grrr? Grrr?
Oh dear, you fur is so thin and
curly like this.
Let me handle this.
Oh my god~
DD got curly hairs~
It's like snow falling from the sky.
Wow.
Kitty.
Oh, grrr?
DD: Woong~
Oh, grrr~
DD: Woong~
Oh~
What a pity!
DD: Woong~
Oh, grrr~
Wow.. you're a kitty
whose fur is getting fallen out a lot.
What a pity!
You hate it but
someone's holding you.
Let me see. Oh, grrr~ (lol)
From who did you learn that sound?
Lulu: Sniff sniff...
Lulu: Oh...
What is it? (lol)
Hey squirrel, mommy's gonna comb your fur.
Lulu: Oh?
Oh...You look too lazy...
Want me to comb your belly too?
You're so cooperative today, kitty.
(Laughing)
Done with the whole body?
Oh...(lol)
Terrific, kitty.
You're not the type whose fur is easily fallen out.
Hi!
TT.
Hi, TT.
Are you watching the rain drops?
Wow, such a romantic kitty.
Shall we comb your fur?
Wow, kitty! Did you look at me?
Gonna run away?
Come here.
Hey. Your hairs are flying in the air.
What a fluffy cat you are!
Feel good?
Great! Let's comb hairs on your chest too.
Grrr~
Did you say grrr?
Feel so good~
It's so nice~ Dead hairs are getting fallen out~Shong Shong~
Oh, want me to kiss? (lol)
kitty~
(Laughing)
Come here!
Where are you going?
Hey! Stop!
I got you, kitty! Come here!
Momo: Geez, you're so fast.
Yes, chairman Momo.
My record in the 100-meter race is 23 seconds.
Terrific, huh?
(Laughing)
Don't move! I gotta comb your fur...
Wow...It's amazing...!
The rich is different from us...
Hairs are getting fallen out continuously!
Oh.
I'm sorry but you got lots of hairs
on your belly too so...
I think I need to comb the fur on the belly too.
Momo: I've never felt this kind humiliation in my life!
What are you talking about? I do it once in two days.
Momo: I wanna hide...
Really?
(Laughing)
You're so cute!
You can go!
It's not that much than usual.
I should've done more...but he ran away.
Hey...
You think I can't find you if you're hiding here, huh?
(Laughing)
You think I can't find you if you're hiding here, huh? Kitty.
Let's go!
Today is the day for...combing.
Ta-da!
Who's the winner of the fluffy kitty contest?
It's DD!
(Applause)
Lulu: Oh, hi?
Lulu: I came to see my hair ball.
You're the very last.
Lulu: Well, I think...
Lulu: I'm the winner cuz my fur has the most beautiful color...
No...Hey, what are you eating?
Lulu, I'll make something pretty
with these hair balls.
Gotta get the winner a present.
Here we have the 8th kitty in the house!
No? Get him eyes! (lol)
(Laughing)
Oh, it's so cute!
Do you like it, Lulu?
Mommy's going for lunch!
(Laughing)
One, two.
(Laughing)
Hello? Come inside...
Hold on...
Yeah.
Ta-da!
Cheers!
Here we have a pancake with onions...no, chives.
Pancake with chives!
It's crispy!
Umm...
I think it's a bit bland.
Lulu, go get me the soy sauce.
Huh?
(Laughing)
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Parallelism: The secret to great writing - Duration: 13:43.
Hi.
I'm Rebecca from engVid.
This lesson is for you if you want to learn how to communicate more powerfully in just
a short time.
This lesson is about something called: "Parallelism" or "Parallel Structure".
Now, in case you've never heard of it, or if you've heard of it but you're not sure
what it is, I just want to tell you that it's something really important, especially in
academic circles or in the business world.
All right?
And also socially.
So, whether you're speaking, or whether you're writing, this principle of parallelism will
help you to communicate more effectively.
So, first of all, what is parallelism?
So, it's a speaking or writing technique in which you communicate more powerfully by balancing
different parts of your sentence, and I'm going to show you lots of examples so you
understand exactly.
So, when we create a sentence that has parallel structure, it means that when we have a list
of items in our sentence, all of the forms of speech should be the same.
For example, you have verbs, verbs, verbs; nouns and nouns; adjectives and adjectives;
adverbs and adverbs.
Now, that seems obvious, but in real life when people speak and write, they don't always
do that.
So I'm going to show you: "What are the benefits of using parallelism?" and also exactly how
to use them in a sentence.
So, some of the benefits that you will get when you start creating sentences with parallel
structure are that your sentences will have more weight, they'll be more balanced, they'll
have more rhythm to them, they'll have more style, more clarity (they'll be more clear),
and also you'll be able to emphasize things more.
And as a result of all that, your speaking or your writing will be much more dramatic
and much more powerful.
And you may not realize why, but it's really important that this parallel structure exists.
Now, in addition, it's not just something to make it better, it's not just something
to improve your communication.
In academic circles, if you don't follow these parallel structure rules, it's actually considered
a mistake in writing; it's considered very weak writing, bad writing, poor writing, and
you will get lower grades as a result of that.
Okay?
So it's really important, especially if you're in the academic world or writing anything
serious or in the business world, to write this way.
Let's look at some simple examples first.
Okay?
So, this sentence, the first one: "Janet sings and dances."
So here, what do we see?
We see verbs and verbs: "Janet sings and dances."
If somebody didn't write this sentence properly, they might write: "Janet sings and is dancing."
Now, here it didn't match because this was present simple, so this should be a verb in
the present simple; they should both be verbs, they should both be in the same tense, and so on.
Okay?
Let's look at more examples.
"We enjoy reading and cooking."
Here we have two gerunds: "reading", "cooking".
Next: "I like to watch movies and to travel abroad."
Okay?
Now, you see how that seems really balanced?
Okay?
So we have: "to watch movies", so we have an infinitive and a noun, and "to travel abroad".
"To travel", infinitive and a...
Well, it's not a noun, but it's like a noun, it functions like a noun.
Next: "The reasons for my view are political, cultural, and social."
So here we have three adjectives.
Now, up til now we had two, now we have three.
And if you've watched my earlier lesson on: "The Power of Three" or "The Magic of Three",
you will know that this is really special.
This is like parallelism on steroids.
This is like the best kind of writing you can do, and a lot of very famous leaders and
writers write this way, using parallelism in threes to make things much more effective.
So, if you haven't watched that other lesson, I will tell you where you can get it; it's
called: "The Magic of Three" on our website.
So: "The reasons for my view are political, cultural, and social."
Three adjectives.
"The police acted quickly and carefully."
Okay?
So we have here: "quickly", "carefully", two adverbs.
And last: "We enjoy comedies, dramas, and documentaries."
So you have here three nouns.
Right?
So that's what's important: nouns with nouns, adverbs with adverbs, adjectives with adjectives
- you get the idea.
Okay?
Now, if you get the idea, work with me, stay with me.
We're going to do a quiz and we're going to analyze some of these sentences when the parallelism
falls apart, and you're going to help me put these sentences back together to make them
really strong.
Okay?
Let's get started.
Okay, now you help me to find the faulty parallelism, the mistakes in parallel structure in these
sentences.
All right?
Let's go.
Number one: "The lightbulbs are in the cabinet, on the table or the kitchen sink."
Okay?
Think for a second: Is there a mistake in this sentence?
There is.
First of all, there are mistakes in all of these.
Okay?
So I'll tell you all of that right now.
Where is the mistake?
"The lightbulbs are in the cabinet, on the table or the kitchen sink."
Okay?
So I was trying to say it in a way that you feel and hear the rhythm.
So, the rhythm is here: "The lightbulbs are in the cabinet, on the table or", what's missing
here?
A preposition. "in" is a preposition, "on" is a preposition, but here we're missing a
preposition, and that created a mistake in this sentence.
So we could say: "...or under the kitchen sink".
"...in the cabinet, on the table, under the kitchen sink".
Now this sentence is parallel.
Congratulations.
All right, number two: "She wants to speak to the manager, return the cellphone and to
get a refund."
Did you catch the error?
"She wants to speak to the manager, return the cellphone and to get a refund."
Now, there are actually two ways that you could fix this sentence.
So one is here: "She wants to..."
She wants to do what?
"...speak to the manager, return the cellphone", and in one way to correct it is to get rid
of this extra "to" and then we have just three verbs.
"...speak to the manager, return the cellphone, get a refund".
The other way to correct the sentence which is all right, but it's not maybe as effective,
is to say: "She wants to speak to the manager", now we say "to speak".
"She wants to speak to the manager, to return the cellphone and to get a refund."
So then we say: "to speak", "to return", "to get".
All right?
Do you see how it's more balanced that way?
All right?
Two ways in which you could correct it.
Next, number three: "To fly will be better than driving."
Maybe you've written sentences like this.
I do sometimes.
Sometimes I write it like that first, but then I correct it because I'm aware of it.
Okay?
And as you become more aware of it, you will correct your sentences.
"To fly will be better than driving."
How can we correct this?
Well, the best way to probably correct it is here we have "driving", so here we should
have, what?
Another gerund: "flying".
"Flying will be better than driving."
Okay? Good.
Next, number four: "She wanted love, happiness, and to be secure."
So what do we have there?
"She wanted love", a noun, "happiness", a noun, and then what happened?
The structure of the sentence fell apart.
So instead of having a third noun, the writer went on to say: "...and to be secure".
How can we express this idea: "to be secure" in one word, in one noun?
Do you know it?
It would be: "security".
Okay?
"She wanted love, happiness, and security."
Now the sentence is balanced, and parallel, and perfect.
All right.
The next one.
Now, it's a little bit more challenging, but stay with me; I think you can do it.
I know you can do it.
"The job demands professional qualifications, the ability to manage others and experience
working around the globe."
Okay, doesn't matter, sometimes we have a lot of things to say.
It's okay if the sentence is long.
But even if it's long, it should still be parallel.
So, how could we make this more parallel?
So let's start here: "The job demands" three things, right?
So the first thing was: "professional qualifications", so what do we have here?
An adjective and a noun.
Then the sentence kind of fell apart, and it said: "the ability to manage others".
So, can we change this part in some way so that it's also an adjective and a noun?
How can we say "the ability to manage others" as an adjective and a noun?
We could say...
Instead of saying: "the ability to manage others", we say: "professional qualifications,
managerial ability", and then again a very longwinded thing, we want to shorten it: "experience
working around the globe".
So can you shorten that to two words, an adjective and a noun also?
Can you do that with me?
So, how can we do that?
We could say: "and global experience".
Okay?
So now let's listen to the sentence.
"The job demands professional qualifications, managerial ability, and global experience."
Okay?
Now, this is a beautiful, professional, businesslike parallel sentence.
All right?
Next, the last one here, number six: "Let's start by checking your essay and look for
any faulty parallelism."
Okay?
So there is a problem there.
"Let's start by checking your essay and look for any faulty parallelism."
It almost sounds like it's okay, but it's not, because we're saying: "Let's start by",
doing what?
"...checking your essay", right?
And so here it should be: "...checking your essay and looking for any faulty parallelism".
Okay, sometimes it's pretty hidden.
It's very normal to write sentences that are not parallel in the beginning, until you start
really becoming aware of it, and then you enjoy it, and then you say: "Wow, my writing
is getting so much better, my speaking is getting so much more powerful."
This is a really powerful technique, okay?
And as I said, if you want to make it even more powerful, check out that other lesson
on: "The Magic of Three", so that you'll learn how to make it parallel three times.
Okay?
As I did, for example, in sentence number five.
Okay?
All right.
And if you want to practice this some more, please go to our website: www.engvid.com;
there, you can do a quiz on parallelism or parallel structure, and you can also check
out lots of other videos on improving your English.
Hundreds of other videos.
And don't forget to subscribe to my YouTube channel.
Thanks for watching.
All the best with your English.
Bye for now.
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Keeping Score in Relationships [RIG 15] - Duration: 45:04.
Hey there this is clay with www.ModernLove.Life and this is the relationship inner game experience.
Now, today we're going to be talking about something that I think a lot of people instinctively
know is not something that you should be doing in a relationship which is keeping score in
a relationship, and we're going to be talking about how people can sometimes keep score
and why keeping score is not important and why it's actually detrimental to a relationship
or to dating.
Okay, so first of all, keeping score can take a whole lot of different forms, right?
It could be keeping score over who is initiating text conversations.
Are you doing most of the initiating?
Is the other person doing most of the initiating?
Does it matter for some reason?
who's calling, who's paying for the date?
Who is asking the other person out on the date if you're in a relationship, who is doing
the dishes at the end of dinner?
Who's cooking, who's doing the chores?
All of these sorts of things.
These are very common ways that people keep score in relationships.
And I want to just point out a little interesting thing, which is that nobody ever keeps score
and suddenly realizes, oh, look at that, you know, I actually never initiate contact with
the other person.
Looks like it looks like they win right now.
Nobody ever does that.
If you're gonna keep score, you always somehow do it in a way where you come out the winner.
And I think that this is interesting because it really brings us to one of the main points
which we'll get to in a little bit when it comes to the topic of keeping score.
But first of all, I want to talk a little bit more about this, this whole issue of a
dynamic and all of that.
So first of all, keeping score is not important in a relationship, although it might seem
as if this is really critical information, you know, does it mean that he cares if I'm
doing all of the initiating, does it mean that, that, that she's using me if I'm like
doing all the chores around the house or whatever it is.
Right.
And although it seems like this is really useful information that you should know that
you should keep your finger on the pulse of whatever the thing is that you're keeping
score over, it's really irrelevant because when it comes to a successful relationship,
when it comes to dating, when it comes to getting into a relationship, the most important
thing that you can focus on is the quality of the emotional connection between you and
the other person.
Anything else is really just a distraction.
Okay?
It's not, it's not gonna make anything better if you focus on anything else, okay?
It's not going to make anything better if you focus on, you know, some sort of arbitrary
thing, like whether or not they're initiating contact with you, whether or not it's taking
them five minutes to text you back or 30 minutes to text you back, or half a day to text you
back or anything like that.
These are not important things.
These are just distractions from what is important, which is the quality of the emotional connection
that you are having with the other person.
Okay?
Now, secondly, keeping score is detrimental to relationships.
We know this on an instinctive level in some way, you know, people always say, oh, don't
keep score all of that stuff, but why is it, why is keeping score not a good thing for
relationships?
And the reason is, is because there, there's a certain dynamic at play between two people,
right?
So you have one person over here, you have another person over here and together they
create this third thing called the dynamic between the two of them, right?
That's why relationships between certain people can be great, they can feel comfortable, they
can feel welcoming, you know, you probably have some people like that in your life where
you can go to them, you can talk to them and you just instantly feel welcomed and comfortable
and relaxed around that person.
On the other hand, you also have relationships with other people that are tense or awkward
or strange, either because of just how the person is bringing themselves to you or how
you bring yourself to them.
Or it could just be due to the circumstances between how the two of you are relating to
one another.
You know, you might be having an argument or a disagreement or something like that that's
causing the two of you to have this sort of strained dynamic between the two of you.
And that's that third component.
It's the dynamic when we are keeping score over who is initiating, who is not initiating
all of these sorts of things.
What we're doing is we are feeding something into that dynamic.
We are feeding a sort of energy into that dynamic and you may not realize it, but when
you're keeping score, you're actually scanning what the other person is doing and you're
looking for ways that they are failing.
You're looking for ways that they are not living up to some sort of ideal or expectation,
right?
Like, oh well if he really loved me, he would be initiating contact with me.
Oh, if she really loved me, then she would at least, you know, offered to pay for the
date once in a while.
Or you know, things like this.
And the thing with keeping score is that if, for example, you know, he started initiating
contact with you all the time, suddenly it's not as if this whole keeping score thing would
go away.
It's not as if you'd just be like, oh great, now he's initiating contact with me all the
time.
Life is perfect.
No, you would find something else that you would keep score over.
That's just how it energetically comes across.
Right?
So you would notice things like, oh well, you know, he never cleans up after himself.
He's always late.
He has an uncomfortably high number of female friends that he spends a lot of time with
texting or calling or spending time with them or something like that.
And you would find something else to keep score over.
And so what you need to realize is that this is something where as long as you're coming
to the interaction, to the relationship, to the dynamic with this way of being, you're
going to constantly be scanning him, looking for things to keep score over.
Okay?
What you have to understand is that you're feeding this energy into the dynamic, into
this.
The third thing that represents the quality of the emotional connection between you and
him, you're feeding this into that dynamic, this sort of anxiety, this sort of insecurity,
the sort of seeking reassurance.
This sort of, you know, constantly looking for validation and so if that continues to
build in the dynamic, he's going to feel the effects of that.
He's going to feel the effects of that with maybe that's like, Oh hey, I'm never enough,
so why should I bother trying?
Or a no matter what I do, it's never going to be good enough.
Or maybe even something like, hey, it seems like this person is putting a lot of demands
on me.
Is this something that I really wanted in a relationship?
Maybe it's not, in which case, okay, bye.
See Ya, I'll go date somebody else.
Right?
And so you have to understand that this keeping score is not beneficial to you.
It's not as if it's given you any valuable information that's letting you know, hey,
this relationship is gonna work.
It's not going to work or anything like that.
In fact, it's just a distraction from what is actually most meaningful.
And most important in you having a great high quality relationship, which is the emotional
connection, the emotional connection is what you should be focusing on.
You should not be looking for signs of like, oh, hey, he's initiating contact.
He's not initiating.
Contact is taking him two hours to respond to a text.
It's not taking two hours to respond to a text there.
They're asking me out on a date.
They're not asking me out on a date.
All of these sorts of things you shouldn't be focusing on that you should be, instead
of focusing on whether you are actually having a good time connecting with one another when
you are together, when there is contact made, whether that's by you or by him or her, or
whether you're having a good time on a date, whether that date was initiated by you or
whether it was initiated by him or her or any number of these other things.
Okay?
Focus on whether the connection between the two of you is improving or or not improving.
Okay?
And that is what you should be paying attention to.
Not all of these tiny little insignificant, symptoms and little extraneous things that
don't matter.
Okay.
Focus on the connection.
That is the most important thing.
So at that being said, let's go over and see what sort of questions we have this week from
the students that are enrolled in our classes over at www.ModernLove.Life.
Okay.
Our first question is from Goodman, Goodman writes in and says, dear Clay and Mika, I
am still planning to break ANC in July.
It is really not because of damage control mode thinking or fear of my ex.
Moving on, I think I might want to push myself out of the comfort zone of ANC to the dangerous
zone.
You know, I have been on ANC for almost six months.
It's not about time, but more about how you feel not outcome focused and get advanced
relational skills down and solid.
Otherwise I might end up staying in ANC for nine months or even a year.
How can I be mindful that my reaching out to my ex is not relationship focused, but
start to build up a positive energy in her email in January.
She said the only way for her to know if I have moved on is to know that I am dating.
That was the third time she used that as a reason that she couldn't see me.
I get it when Mika said that I needed to bring the vibe that welcomes her in the past I told
her that I was okay for us to be friends and I didn't feel like dating at all.
Don't worry.
I was okay with whoever she is dating.
When she told me about the rebound guy.
Now after nearly six months of ANC, I'm hoping that she would not again use me not dating
as a reason to not meet up with me.
What can I do if she asked me about dating?
Trust me.
She absolutely.
Again, will ask me that.
Okay, so this is really a two part question here.
The first part is how can I make sure that when I reach out and contact my ex that I
am not relationship focused, but instead connection focused.
Okay.
And this really comes from what your mindset is about your ex and your relationship with
her and your connection with her.
Okay?
So if this is part of some sort of story that you're playing out in your mind, like, okay,
I'm going to contact her, we're going to get back together.
We're going to have this great relationship.
We're gonna.
I Dunno.
Maybe you get married or move in together, or something like that.
Then then you are more relationship focused.
You're more attached to the outcome.
You're more attached to getting back together with her.
Okay.
Now keep in mind you have been in active no contact for, I believe you said approximately
six months, which means that you probably don't know a whole lot about her, where she's
at emotionally, what's going on in her life and all of that stuff.
And so if you were connection focused, you would instead simply just be curious about,
hey, how is she doing?
What's new in her life?
What are the things that she is dealing with right now in her life?
What are the good things that are going on in her life?
What are the bad things that she's struggling with in her life that is more of the connection
focused way of thinking about things.
Whereas relationship focused, you don't really care so much about what the other person is
going through as long as it leads to an outcome of us getting back together of us being in
a relationship of her breaking up with her rebound partner of you know, something like
that without you even bothering to understand where she is at right now.
Because keep in mind, if you have been in anc for more or less six months, then you
know you are only really relating to her as the woman that she was six months ago as the
person that she was six months ago.
And keep in mind that that person no longer exists.
That person's life has rolled on for the past six months and she has gone through some things.
She has experienced some things that life has not been static.
That life has not stayed the same.
So to continue to relate to her as somebody who was the same person that she was six months
ago or possibly even longer ago, is to not really understand that there's that connection
component between the two of you that is most important.
And instead it's to realize that what you're focusing on is trying to get to an outcome,
trying to use her as a means to an end, trying to use her as a means to an end for you to
get into a relationship or as you to get a girlfriend or for you to get back together
with your ex because I don't know that means something about you or something like that.
And so what I would encourage you to do is to let go of any kind of outcome or relationship
focused thinking and to instead focus on simply just being curious about who this woman is,
what have the past six months like been, like for her again, what is she dealing with right
now?
What she's struggling with, what is she excited about?
What is going on in her life?
And simply let go of the status of being in a relationship, the status of having it look
a certain way, the status of having her laugh when you tell a joke, the status of her being
open and receptive to you, the status of her wanting to get back together with you, the
status of her wanting to leave her rebound partner for you or something like that.
And instead simply just be curious about who she is as a person and what she's going through
right now.
Then about your second question, which was what to do if she asks me if I am dating.
Okay.
Now, remember, if you are connection focused, you're going to have the ability to feel into
the moment and to know what her main concern is.
Okay.
Is Her main concern that you're still love sick and hung up on her and unable to move
on and that you're just pining to be with her or something like that?
Or is her concern, you know, something else like, do you have some sort of hidden agenda?
are you like not being genuine?
When you say that you just want to catch up or you know what's going on on her end, so
you want to be able to be tuned into the present moment to know exactly what's going on for
her and be able to respond accordingly.
But if you are a relationship focused, right, you're going to see this question as like
an opportunity for you to get to the next step for you to move one step closer towards
your agenda, towards your goal, towards the outcome that you want for yourself, towards
the getting back together towards the, her being your girlfriend again towards the youtube
being in a relationship again.
Okay.
And if you see every question that she asks you, whether it's this question or other questions
as some sort of, you know, like game show quiz where if you can answer enough questions
correctly, you'll get to the, the final bonus round of being in a relationship again.
Then that is being relationship focused.
Okay.
And you want to understand like what we were talking about before is that connection focused
is probably going to be the better way of approaching this sort of situation.
And if you are connection focused, you can simply just answer the question honestly.
Are you dating somebody else right now?
Either yes or no.
You can feel into the moment and say, well, what is it that you really want to know?
It seems like you're concerned about something.
You can ask her a question like, oh, are you?
Do you think that I might have a hidden agenda?
Is that while you want to know the answer to this question or you can do whatever it
is and I'm not telling you these kinds of things so that you can write them down and
put them in your back pocket is like canned responses that you can use or anything but
more so that you can actually feel into the moment and ask her what's going on.
To get clarity on what her concerns are.
To do what you can do to feel into the present moment and to start to wrap your mind around
what her experiences, what is going on with the dynamic between the two of you and what
you can do to actually improve the quality of the connection that the two of you are
actually experiencing.
Okay?
So, that's what I would really recommend that you do because again, on one hand in your
first question, you're saying, what can I do to be connection focused instead of relationship
focused?
And then your second question, you're saying, okay, now that I'm relationship focused, how
can I continue on this path of being relationship focused?
And so what I'm saying is don't worry about that at all and instead be on the connection
focused path because that is going to be much more likely to help you to create the kind
of relationship that you actually want.
Because relationships come from the quality of the emotional connection.
Connection does not come from being in a relationship, but having a high quality emotional connection
will naturally and organically result in a relationship.
Okay?
So I hope this helps you out.
And please keep us updated on how things go moving forward and feel free to check in with
us next week.
Our next question is from F, f writes in and says, my question for this week is in terms
of emotional acceptance, when she tells me that she didn't contact me after a month of
no contact because she wants to get back together, but because she wants to know how I am doing
and what I have been up to, I get that this is the content, but where's the context coming
from?
What would be the emotional place that she is acting from?
She seems to be keen on being friends at the moment with no expectations and no labels
either.
My response was to tell her that I'm totally okay with that.
A little scared about this and to be honest, a little bit scared about putting trust in
the process.
So when she is saying that she just wants to catch up and to see how you're doing rather
than trying to get back together with you.
There are a couple of different possibilities that are going on.
Number one, she could be connection focused like what we just went over with Goodman,
but number two is that she also might be simply wanting to test the waters without seeming
overly invested, right?
She doesn't want to seem like she's desperate or clingy or needy or something like that.
So she might simply be contacting you and saying like, oh, hey, what's going on?
How are things been?
How have things been going for you for the past, you know, however long it's been, and
she doesn't want to come right out and say, Hey, I want to get back together with you.
Hey, I miss you, or whatever.
Right?
Because oftentimes people approach dating and relationships as if it's some sort of
exercise in looking good in looking cool in sort of a grandizing your own ego.
Right?
And there's nothing wrong with, you know, trying to look good and trying to be cool
trying to aggrandized your own ego, but we have to differentiate the two because having
a great relationship is one thing and looking good, looking cool.
Having a strong ego is another thing.
And if you want to have one thing, that's okay, but it doesn't necessarily mean that
you can do both at the same time.
Right.
She, she probably doesn't want to come across as looking desperate, looking needy, looking
bad in any sort of way.
Right.
She doesn't want to come across in a bad way.
And so what she's doing is she's just kind of testing the waters to see how you respond.
And what I would do in this particular situation, which, which I imagine is probably what's
happening.
Again, I don't know your ex, I don't know exactly what your dynamic and relationship
between each other is, but what I'm imagining is that she is probably just testing the water
to see where you're at emotionally.
Right?
It's just kind of like a check in.
She doesn't want to seem overly invested.
She doesn't want to seem anything like that.
So she just trying to, you know, play it.
Cool.
So Yo, hey, what's going on?
It's been a while.
How are you doing?
You know, something like that, right?
When maybe in the back of her mind, she wants to ask you a million questions and maybe in
the back of your mind do you want to ask her a million questions too?
And so the thing isn't to necessarily play cool, composed, unaffected, detached, and
all of that stuff either because then you're just two people pretending to be something
that you're not pretending to be detached and emotionally unaffected by one another
and that that's not really a very rewarding experience.
But at the same time you also don't want to overinvest either and say, Oh, you know, I'm
madly in love with you.
I've been so surprised it took you this long to reach out to me.
I've been, I've been counting the days you know, endlessly until this moment.
And I just, you know, thank the heaven so much that you finally reached out to me because
again, that throws the whole social dynamic lopsided because you're way over, invested
in.
She know it's really hard to tell what her level of investment is at this point.
But she's making it seem, at least that she is a relatively low investment on her end.
Okay.
So what you want to do is you want to express vulnerability, but express vulnerability in
a positive way.
Okay.
So again, we had a podcast episode on this a couple of weeks ago on the difference between
good and bad vulnerability.
You might want to check that out if you have missed that episode, but basically you want
to take ownership for your feelings, for your emotions rather than projecting them onto
her and using her as a means to an end to get to some sort of outcome that much like
we were talking about with Goodman.
So, so overall, you know, if this was going on through a text exchange where, you know,
she texted you and I was like, hey, how have you been?
And you texted her back with, oh, I've been good.
And she's responded with, I think that we should just be friends and you're, you respond
with, that's totally okay with me.
Then you know, that's, that's okay.
There's nothing wrong with that.
It's just kind of words going back and forth.
There's not really a whole lot of emotional connection going on there.
There's not really a whole lot of emotional, revealing vulnerability, honesty, transparency,
all of that stuff.
and that's okay though, because sometimes you need a little bit of just words going
back and forth to kind of warm people up to the idea of actually having a meaningful conversation,
a meaningful interaction with one another.
Sometimes you just need a little bit of small talk about weather or you know, whatever it
might be, but you don't want to linger there.
Oftentimes people will linger there and they don't understand why things aren't developing.
They, they end up getting caught in what we call the polite trap where they're just, you
know, going back and forth about kind of trivial meaningless things and wondering why the other
person doesn't want to actually go out on a date with them or why the other person doesn't
feel connected with them.
It's because they're just talking about sports and weather and TV shows and work and stuff
like that.
They're not talking about actual emotions or feelings.
And so what you want to do is you want to use the advanced relational skills, pull it
down to the emotional level, use things like the magic questions and so on and so forth
to actually pull the conversation down to the emotional level and focus on the quality
of the connection there so you can actually start to build up a high quality emotional
connection with her in the process.
And what this'll do is it'll start to lay a foundation for obviously an increased emotional
connection, but a foundation for being able to do more things such as meeting up in person
such as you know, spending more time together such as possibly even getting back together
at some point.
Okay.
But this all comes from the emotional connection.
So again, if this is some sort of, you know, polite trap, sort of text exchange where it's,
how are you, I'm good, how are you?
I am fine.
Also, what is new?
Not Much, how are you?
Things are okay.
Things were like that, and you just not really going anywhere.
Then you're going to have to be a little bit more vulnerable.
You're going to have to share a little bit more about what's going on with you, put a
little bit of skin in the game and really invite her to open up and share more on her
end about the process as well too, because you can't expect other people to open up first.
You can't expect other people to be vulnerable first.
I'm sure sometimes they can, but oftentimes if we're able to go there, then that can invite
them and help them to feel more comfortable to follow us there because they know that
we are committed to the interaction and if they know that we are committed to the interaction,
then they will often commit to the interaction too, but if we don't commit to the interaction
will just end up in this polite trap kind of way.
Talking about, you know, meaningless things like sports, weather, traffic and so on and
so forth.
So I hope this helps you out and please keep us updated on how things go moving forward.
From here, our next question is from Pino.
Pino writes in and says, hi Clay.
My husband broke up with me at the end of last year saying he was no longer interested
in having a romantic relationship and just wanting to be friends.
We've been through what seemed like a mutual ANC.
Then a couple of months of good communication.
Then he went into a strong pull back for over a month and we recently met up again for the
first time during this whole period we have been fight free, which is a lot given how
2017 went, but he's brought up wanting to get started on the divorce every so often
with varying reasons such as wanting a fresh start and I like and respect you and think
that you're an attractive person and I want us to be confidence, but I don't want to be
married to you because I just don't feel attracted to you in that way.
That and the fact that he is changed jobs three times and moved cities twice in the
months since our separation makes me feel pretty sure that he is writing the dragon
in many areas of his life, including our relationship.
My question is, when somebody is writing the dragon and there are these weird inconsistencies
in communication, should we ever bring it up with them knowing the general pattern of
things to expect due to the ESP is such a big help that I am able to feel into the situation
and process them accordingly, but when patently rude things are done, like not replying to
texts, discussing the logistics of preplanned meetings, but are then followed by seemingly
normal conversations the next day, I feel a bit weird not addressing it the way I would
with any other friend.
It's not the waffling of writing the dragon itself that I feel effected by as much as
unsure about whether it's all right to leave my ex wondering about why as far as he's concerned,
I'm being accommodating to the point of collapsing.
For me, empathy helps explain the weird behavior and I let these things go.
But do you think it would come across as inauthentic to somebody who might not necessarily want
to think positively about you at the moment?
Okay.
So your, your question here, which you asked in the middle here was when somebody is at
riding the dragon and there are inconsistencies in communication.
Should we ever bring it up with them?
Okay.
So if there are inconsistencies in the communication that make it difficult for you to actually
communicate with them and for you to actually move forward and to actually plan things then,
you know.
Yeah, that is something that you can bring up with them, right?
Because obviously if you can't plan things and if you can't rely on them to follow through
with things that you're discussing such as meeting up or perhaps talking on the phone
or at a particular time, you know, you're agreeing to catch up over the phone at 6:00
tonight or something like that and they won't respond to you about, you know, hey, I need
to move it back to 7:00.
Something came up or something.
Then, you know.
Yeah, that's something that you need to address with them and you don't need to do it in some
sort of righteous way that makes you right and them wrong or anything like that.
Just simply say something along the lines of, hey, it's really difficult for me to schedule
things.
If I don't hear back from you, can you please let me know if this particular time or this
particular place or whatever works for you, that way that you can actually get clear on
what's going on with them.
You can let them know what your concern is, right?
Because if you just keep quiet, obviously that's collapsing and that is not you voicing
a real concern that's on your end and if you speak up and in a way that makes them wrong
and that's kind of posturing and that causes of course them to not feel connected to you.
but, but if you're simply just explaining like, hey, this, this doesn't work because
it's not workable, right?
We can need to be able to actually plan these things in a way that makes sense then, then
that's just being vulnerable.
Right?
That's just you owning what it is for your experience.
Right.
I'm on the other hand though.
I also have noticed that that many people will look at communication and they'll say
things like, oh, you know, I do 100 percent of the initiating.
What's up with that?
And they'll be keeping score over these sorts of things and the issue with keeping score
over, you know, for example, who's initiating or who's doing, you know, and other circumstances,
who's doing chores around the house?
Who's doing this or who's doing that.
The thing is, is that it comes from a place of looking for ways that you are doing more
than the other person.
Okay.
And if you're constantly looking for how am I putting in more work, more effort, more
more sweat and tears into this and the other person, you will always find a way to prove
that to be true.
For example, if you were keeping score over, let's just say who's initiating contact more
than, you know, it's not as if he suddenly started initiating contact 100 percent of
the time or 50 percent of the time or whatever.
That suddenly your life would be smooth and problem free.
No, you would probably find something else that he's not doing enough of.
Maybe he's not taking enough interest in your life and what's going on with you.
Maybe he's not paying for enough dates.
Maybe he's not asking enough questions about you.
Maybe he's not doing this or that or whatever, and you would simply find something else to
notice that he is not pulling his fair share of, in which case you need to either look
at yourself and why you are insecure about who is putting in an equal amount of effort
and who is not putting in an equal amount of effort while you're concerned about the
thought that you might be putting in more than him.
Or you might say, okay, well maybe he.
He just isn't putting in as much as I am and maybe this just isn't something that I want
to be a part of.
And you can just say, okay, well if that's how he is, I have to accept him 100 percent
as the person that he is right now.
And if that's not something that I want to deal with.
If that's not the kind of person that I want to be in a relationship with and I need to
let go of that so that I have the space in my life to welcome in somebody who is willing
to pull their fair share.
Right?
Not all of this is in your head.
You know, sometimes people are kind of just looking for a free ride.
Sometimes people are just looking to take advantage of people in one way or another.
And that's definitely not something that I am advocating in any way whatsoever.
Then you actually had a second question, at the end here, which is basically, do you believe
that showing empathy for somebody might come across as inauthenticity if that person is
not used to thinking about you positively in the moment and you know, yeah, it, it can,
you know, they might think that you're putting on some sort of act.
You're doing some sort of gimmick.
You're, you're doing some sort of trick or something like that in order to win them over
in order to make them think something positive about you.
And this is normal, whenever anybody has some sort of change in behavior about how we're
accustomed to seeing them now, in order to break up with you, he had to create an image
of you in his mind where he has to see you as like, oh well things are never going to
get better between us.
She's this way.
She'll, she'll never have empathy for me.
Are relationships never going to get any better and so on and so forth.
So he had to really cement that into his mind to the point where he actually felt comfortable
breaking up with you.
What you want to do as you start to change your behavior and change that perception that
he has a view, is to realize that it's gonna take time.
It's going to take time for him to start to trust you.
It's going to take time for to start to trust that the, that the empathetic version of you
is actually who you genuinely are now.
Right?
Because he doesn't know if this is a trick.
He doesn't know if this is just a gimmick or some sort of mind game of some sort.
To try and win him back or whatever he doesn't know, and so it's going to take him a little
while to start to trust you again, so you're going to have to keep going with this.
Hopefully this is genuine empathy and it's not just a gimmick or a trick or anything
like that, and so you're going to have to keep going with this and eventually he'll
start to trust that to empathetic you is actually just who you are now.
He'll start to say, oh, maybe I was wrong and Pino actually does have empathy.
Maybe she actually can see things from my point of view and again, for each person,
this will be different depending on, you know, the, the way they perceive things, the way
that they trust, the way that their past has been in all of that.
So there's no specific timeline about how long it'll take him to trust you, but through
consistency, he'll start to really erase the version of you that he had to create in order
to break up with you.
And he'll start to reconsider that as you continuously and consistently bring that empathy
to your interactions.
Okay, so I hope this helps you out Pino, and please keep us updated on how things go moving
forward from here.
Our next question is from Gaveol, Gaveol, writes in and says, hi Clay.
Two months ago, L decided that me and him should stop communicating.
He didn't tell me why exactly he came to this conclusion.
He just notified me that he has a new girlfriend and thinks we had better stop texting like
we did.
I pretty much understand that it could have been because he wants to take his relationship
seriously and put contact with an ex or because he didn't like interacting with me.
I don't see anything in our past conversations that point to something like agenda.
However, it is possible that an ex can just assume over time that you have an ulterior
motive because you're texting them despite the lack of investment on their side.
I want to reconnect with him in a few more months.
However, I only have a nothing more than assumptions regarding what made him to push me away rather
than the real reason I thought to ask him directly.
What made him feel bad about talking with me?
However, probably he wouldn't answer such a direct question.
On the other hand, a friend here suggested to tell him why it will be good for him to
interact with me.
That sounds good in theory, but I guess it's a form of convincing somebody and convincing
somebody in most cases, rarely works again and watched your videos about rebound relationships
and yet didn't find anything regarding an ex who is on a rebound and doesn't want to
communicate with you.
That's why I have to ask you a question.
If an ex is in a rebound relationship and refuses to talk to you, how can you reveal
their true reason and communicate to them?
You can keep in touch with one another.
Thanks.
When it comes to knowing their true reason for not wanting to communicate with you there,
there's a couple things to keep in mind.
Number one, unless you have any reason to believe otherwise, it's probably a good idea
to just take them at their word.
Okay.
Anything else is just speculation and it's just your brain filling in the blanks and
it's just it.
You know, it can lead you down, bs machine roads of thought where you're just, you know,
catastrophe, thinking, having worse case scenario predictions and so on and so forth.
And that is never a great idea, especially when there's no evidence.
So if there's no evidence, then I would just go with what he says he says to, he says here
he has a new girlfriend and he thinks it'd be best if we stopped texting.
Okay.
So what you know about this leads us to our second thing, which is what you know about
him, his personality, who he is, what his emotions are like, how he generally responds
to things and all of that.
If you were him and you sent as him, you sent a message to Gaveol all and you said, hi,
I have a new girlfriend and I think it's better if we stop texting one another the way that
we do.
What do you think?
Knowing his motives, his emotions and all of that stuff, what do you think would be
going on there?
Do you think that you would want to try giving the new relationship a fair shake?
Do you think that it's just some sort of thing that you might say to try and throw somebody
off?
Like what do you think?
Knowing what you know about him, you have to really feel into this.
Okay.
And so based off of that, that is what I would really do.
And then you know, of course you can take action and start to do things from the Internet.
Can of course give you more feedback which can help you start to form a better picture
about what's really going on, which can tell you really what's what, what the real story
is here, but until you actually have information, you don't just want to go filling in the blanks.
The only information that you actually have is what he told you and your knowledge of
him and his personality and how he generally responds to things and so on and so forth.
So if you put those two together, what do you think might be going on behind the scenes?
Okay.
And then when it comes to how you can keep in touch with one another, well, what you
want to do is you have to do that first part that we talked about and understand what you
think might be going on behind the scenes.
So for example, maybe he is in a new relationship with somebody else and he wants to give that
relationship a fair shake and he thinks that if he's in touch with his ex, that his new
girlfriend might get jealous that his new girlfriend might give him a hard time.
It could just screw up the new relationship in some way.
Right?
And so what you might want to do is you might want to say, okay, well he's afraid that we're
going to be in some sort of romantic relationship with one another.
He's afraid he's going to fall for me.
He's afraid that his new girlfriend is going to pick up the phone and see that I sent him
a text message and get really jealous and insecure or something like that.
So what could you do to, really comfort that emotional concern his.
And maybe that is to simply just say, hey, you know, I, I'm, I'm not trying to get back
together, I don't have a hidden agenda.
All I want to do is just stay in touch as friends, something like that, right?
That could potentially ease that particular concern that could potentially sued that kind
of anxiety he might be feeling okay.
And so what you have to do is you have to feel into the situation and understand where
he's coming from, understand what is likely to be his concern.
And then you have to directly address that in a way that hopefully will soothe that concern.
And, and you know, if he responds back and says, oh, that's nice, but I still don't think
we should be in touch for this reason or that reason, or whatever, then that you're gathering
more information and you can use that to say, oh, okay, I get it.
He's actually concerned about this.
Not that or something like that.
But it'll help us to, to kind of put together a full picture about what's going on.
So you want to really just understand him, understand, because.
Because again, you know him better than I know him, you know him better than probably
most people out there because you were in a relationship with him, so you can go ahead
and feel into what he must be going through and you can, you can kind of meet him where
that might be emotionally and you can start to soothe any anxieties that you think he
might be experiencing.
You can, uh, kind of let him know that it's safe to contact you to be in touch with you
in any way that you think would be best to do that based off of your level of empathy
about where he's at.
Okay.
So Gaveol, I hope this helps you out with your question and please keep us updated on
how things go moving forward from here.
Okay.
Our next one, next question is from Vixen.
Vixon writes in and says, hi clay.
My Ex has having a graduation party because he just graduated from Undergrad.
I was not invited and found out from mutual friends.
I was with him at a party when some of his friends brought it up and it was really awkward.
But I didn't say anything given the situation, it's bothering me and I've tried bringing
it up in, passing over text with him and he just dodges the question, how can I bring
it up to him in a way that won't be blaming him or anything like that.
It is something that is really on me and I feel like I'll regret not talking to him about
it or at least trying.
Even if he doesn't answer, should I call and leave a message or text him.
He hasn't been very good about phone calls in the past.
I'm just hurt that he wouldn't talk to me about it when I asked and also heard that
I had to hear about it from other friends when I was under the impression that we were
on good terms because he has been answering my messages more frequently since the party,
but still didn't respond when I asked him if he wanted to meet up when I was in his
area.
Thanks.
Vixen.
Okay.
So once again we have to go back to empathy here.
We have to put ourselves in ex's point of view.
Okay.
How would you feel if you were having a graduation party and, you did not invite a, again, you
as your ex and you did not invite Vixen.
Okay.
How would you feel, especially if Vixen later found out when she was spending time with
your friends and it just kind of came out accidentally in conversation.
How would you feel?
Would you feel embarrassed?
Would you feel maybe a little bit angry?
Would you feel maybe a little bit dodgy about it?
I mean like how would you feel then you have to really understand where he's coming from
and then you can address that, you know, so maybe if, again, knowing him, knowing what
his personality is, like knowing what his emotions are, like if you think that he probably
feels guilty about it or embarrassed, then maybe you could just say, Hey, I know that
you might feel a little bit embarrassed about this and he might feel a little bit bad about,
you know, me finding out about that.
But I just want you to know there's no hard feelings and I just wanted to, to clear the
air with you.
If this is something that we can talk about, something along those lines would be a good
thing to bring up, but again, you have to put yourself in his position.
You have to see the world from his point of view so that you can have a beginning of understanding
how he sees things so you have a beginning of understanding what his emotional world
might be like so you can start to meet him there.
Because if you, you know, dance around this.
If you take the direct route, if you just, you know, confront him in some way.
If you hint about things or something like that, but you're not talking to his actual
emotional state, he is probably not going to, open up very much about that in a way
that is going to allow the two of you to actually connect and allow the two of you to actually
have a real conversation about this.
So what is important is that you stay focused on the emotional connection.
Put yourself in his position, feel out where his emotions are, what's going on with him
emotionally that has created this situation.
And then meet him in that emotional place and then as you have this conversation with
him, it's important that you don't get lost in the details.
Well, you said this, I was a, there was a text message where you and I don't know, but
instead say, okay, what is actually the emotion going on beneath the surface here and how
can I address that?
Okay?
Don't get lost in the content.
Stay focused on the emotional context beneath that.
Okay, Vixen.
So I hope this helps you out and please keep us updated on how things go moving forward
from here.
Okay, so those have been our questions for this week.
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Don't you give up on your dream.
I don't care if you don't have the money,
you don't have the help and you don't have the family for it
and you don't have the background for it
and you don't have the friends for it,
don't you give up on your dream.
Don't you do it.
Don't you do it.
Don't you do it.
It may take you twice as long.
You may have to take courses and classes.
You might not read as fast.
You might not move as quick.
You might not have as much.
But don't you quit.
Don't you quit.
You do make a difference.
You do make a difference.
You do make a difference.
As weak as you are, as tired as you are,
as many mistakes as you made, you do make a difference.
There is something they would lose
if you were not there.
There is something that they would miss
if you were not there.
You do make a difference.
Nobody gets a degree by mistake.
Nobody wins the Olympics by mistake.
Nobody runs a race by accident.
Success is always intentional.
You have to run after your destiny.
There are certain things that will happen in your life
that make you pick up the pace.
The one thing I can tell you for sure
is that nothing is for sure.
And I want to say to you that if you run after your destiny
you won't have to fight with your history.
You won't have time for your history
if you run after your destiny.
I want to wake you up out of struggling with old ghosts.
Casper the Friendly Ghost is dead.
I want you to shake yourself and understand
it's time to run after your destiny.
Everybody in tanks is running after their destiny.
If they are running, why are you still standing there?
It's the one thing I can tell you to count on
is don't count on anything.
That life will often disrupt what you expected.
That just as soon as you have it down
in a nice neat little box of how you think it's gonna go
and that when I walk down here,
this is what is going to happen, by the time you get there,
it will never be what you expected it to be.
So you gotta get used to being a little disappointed.
You gotta get used to being a little bit shocked.
You gotta get used to walking into situations
and being flexible and adjustable.
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If you hear me good, especially young people,
if you run after your destiny,
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If you just run after what's in front of you,
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Because you'll never be able to fix what's behind you.
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I don't dress like you, I don't walk like you,
I don't act like you, I'm a runner
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Shout hallelujah!
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Yep, this isn't clickbait.
Today we're throwing away our rose-colored glasses because we're gonna need nostalgia
goggles for this video.
A lot of my viewers are probably thinking to themselves:
Well, yes, but it's been about a month since I returned, so I guess this video serves as
somewhat of a thank you for the kind support you all have given me.
I absolutely love reading the comments, and I've found more motivation from looking
at them, so thank you again and I appreciate it a lot.
I know I shouldn't have to explain myself for this otherwise self-explanatory video
topic but I'm going to do it anyway.
This is all just my opinion, and I'm not saying that I think "X show" is objectively
better than "Y show" if its higher up on the list.
I'm just letting you know what my favorite cartoons are.
With some of the cartoons in this video still on-going, and the fact that I continually
re-watch and discover other cartoons, I don't expect this list to be permanent, and it might
be outdated within the next year or two.
Also, I re-watched a few episodes from each series just to refresh myself on how I feel
about them.
But with all of that said, let's start off the rankings by showing you my obligatory
list of honorable mentions that didn't make the cut.
Believe it or not, I wasn't really a fan of the movie that started it all.
I mean, I don't think it's bad, but it never quite latched onto to me like the TV
series did.
If I'm being entirely honest, I don't know the exact reason why I love this weird
show so much, but there's definitely a lot to love about it.
I still think Jimmy Neutron is a hilarious show.
Sheen and Carl serve as great supplements to Jimmy's rather focused and straightforward
personality, and of course you can't forget about fan-favorite Bolbi Stroganovsky or my
personal favorite source of humor in the show: Jimmy's dad.
Aside from all of the times that the characters' odd behaviors and interests were made fun
of, there was also a lot of pop-culture references (that I'm sure flew right over my head when
I was younger) and the occasional risque joke that gone thrown in.
Jimmy's Dad: I don't mind, once when I was seven years old, I sat on a banana and, of course, that changed my life.
The animation was decent, especially for being CGI animated content on TV in the 2000s, and
I think the semi-retro aethstetic made it more visually appealing.
Obviously the animation isn't the best, and you'll find some instances of stiff
movement or less-detailed characters and backgrounds, but with all of the explorations the characters
went on in different environments, it seems understandable that some were more detailed
than others.
And I also think the animation naturally improved as the show progressed.
I would say that Jimmy Neutron is somewhat educational, but I reconsider saying that
when I remember all of the bizarre and totally unrealistic things that happened.
In itself, the concept of a virtuoso child scientist using wacky inventions to solve
his problems is a pretty cool idea, but that mixed together with a cast of charismatic
characters and creative inventions makes for a entertaining cartoon.
For those of that don't know, there was a spinoff of Jimmy Neutron that was released
in 2010 called Planet Sheen, and I'll be talking about that more in an upcoming video!
I'll post it either this upcoming week or the week after that.
Let's just say it hasn't been fun forcing myself to go through all 26 episodes.
I discovered Rick and Morty shortly after it premiered, in keeping up with the current
landscape of cartoons as a reviewer, and I never expected it to get as popular as it
did.
I just thought it was going to be a niche, single-season Adult Swim show that would be
remembered as an overlooked gem, but man, was I wrong.
And it's understandable why it's so popular.
We got it.
We got it.
[Pause] We got it.
It's not the first sci-fi comedy cartoon to do a lot of these things *cough* cough*,
but it certainly has taken a unique approach at doing so.
I know a lot of people think Justin Roiland's brand of humor is annoying, or even lazy,
and I'd agree in saying that it's not very sophisticated, since most of the time
it's just him drunkenly stuttering and saying a bunch of nonsensical things in a VO booth,
but I really don't care because I find it super funny.
I think the first season, and most of the second are absolutely amazing, but I was super
disappointed by season 3.
I only thoroughly enjoyed two or three episodes from that entire season, and felt especially
let down by the finale.
Like, with Pickle Rick, the joke that Rick turned himself into a pickle is kind of funny
at first, but then I feel like that meshing the action-plot mixed in with family counseling
and that trying to take itself somewhat seriously; I just think they took a simple and mundane
joke too far.
The toxic portion of the Rick and Morty fanbase is a vocal minority and isn't representative
of most fans or the people who work on the show, but it has gotten a little frustrating
seeing certain Rick and Morty fans say or do something stupid, only for others to mock
and imitate that stupid behavior, sometimes looking more stupid than the original person.
In regards to my overall thoughts, and similar to how I feel about the fanbase: I hope it
gets better as time goes on and doesn't lose what made it special in the first place.
Also, I tried the McDonald's Szechuan Sauce a couple months ago, it wasn't that great.
Alien: Wow! This sauce is [expletive] amazing. You said it was promoting a movie?
I'm so glad that Cartoon Network started airing reruns of this show again because it's
filling a void in this current generation of cartoons.
Based on the supergroup from DC comics, Teen Titans was one of many action-superhero cartoons
airing at the time, like Justice League, The Batman, and Static Shock, but Teen Titans
was definitely distinguishable from the rest.
The action was really solid and it was balanced well alongside plot-building and comedic interventions.
The anime-inspired aesthetic works really well, especially with the comedic outbursts
that some characters would have.
Speaking of which, the series was a little more upbeat when it started, but as it
continued and developed relationships, character arcs, and deeper themes, it took on a more
serious tone.
Each character had their own issues and the series took time to explore them.
Starfire assimilating into society while trying not to forget her origins, Cyborg dealing
with the consequences of being both man and machine, Raven's psychological problems
and disputes with her father, and the list goes on.
There's a chance that a season six could happen, but I'm curious how that would turn
out with the landscape of animation at the moment.
We already have a new Young Justice season coming out too, so I'm definitely looking
forward to that as well.
Beast Boy: What? That's how it ends?
Starfire: And there is no sixth season to resolve the plots hanging from the cliff?
Robin: You ended that show? You monster.
What more can you say about this show that already hasn't been said.
I'm fairly certain that SpongeBob is single-handedly the most iconic cartoon of our generation.
He's a character that's recognizable on an international scale and has easily been
Nickelodeon's biggest cash cow.
There's tons of clothing, accessories, food, figurines, videogames, and even a Broadway
musical.
All derived from a cartoon about a fry-cook sea sponge and his anthropomorphic sea creature
friends that live in an underwater city called Bikini Bottom.
The distinct premise lent itself to a lot of really interesting ideas, like the in episode
Pressure, and though it borrowed some things from other cartoons like Ren and Stimpy, it
was fairly experimental in its first couple seasons.
It's a hilarious cartoon, full of legendary visual gags and and an endless amount of quotes
that still get recited on regular basis.
It's no surprise that there's been a lot of popular memes either, and I think some
young people definitely acquired their sense of humor from what they saw on SpongeBob.
The use of music is also great, and I have the lyrics from songs like Sweet Victory,
the Campfire Song Song, and Ripped Pants ingrained into my head.
Comparable to others, I'm a fan of the first three seasons, but really wasn't
a fan of anything beyond that.
There's some things that I liked from those following seasons, but I haven't watched
SpongeBob since season 6.
As the crew underwent major changes, I think the characters got a little dumbed-down
and the show became more repetitive in the process.
Now that it's had two theatrical movies and 11 seasons over than span of nearly 20
years, I think it's fair to say that SpongeBob has run its course, but from what I've heard
among current SpongeBob fans, the past few seasons have been decent, so maybe they do
have more interesting stories to tell.
They're releasing another SpongeBob movie in 2020 set to be directed by Tim Hill, also
known for directing such critical hits as Hop, Alvin and the Chipmunks, and perhaps
his most notable film, Garfield: A Tale of Two Kitties.
If you want further thoughts on SpongeBob, I'm no expert on the show, but my friend
PieGuyRulz is, so I'd highly suggest checking out his SpongeBob videos and his Every Episode
of SpongeBob Reviewed series.
Butters's dad: There you are mister! Just what do you think you're doing?
Butters: Hello dad. It's me, Butters!
Butters's dad: I know that. Why do you-
Butters: This for all the times I got grounded!
Butters: Ha! I could almost feel his balls on my fist!
For the past twenty years, South Park has continued to offer social commentary on relevant
issues and deliver such commentary over comedic characters and situations.
However, since the introduction of the season-long serialized story-arcs in season 19, I haven't
liked it as much, not only because they're trying to make meaningful story-arcs with
formerly expendable characters and the show hasn't been as funny, but the story-arcs
themselves aren't that compelling either.
In reference to some of the weaker comedy in recent seasons, there's the member berries,
which are clearly there to make fun of the annoying yet popular aspects of the 2010s
nostalgia craze, but there's not really anything more to them.
Member Berry: 'Member Bionic Man?
Randy: Oh, I 'member!
Member Berry: I love Bionic Man!
Member Berry: 'Member Chewbacca again?
Member Berry: Oh, I love to 'member Chewbacca!
Pretty much everything prior the most recent seasons though, I love.
It's amazing when they take a topic of relative importance and exaggerate it for the sake of
comedy.
Like, the episode Chinpokomon makes fun of the Pokemon craze that happened in America
during the late 90's, but they clearly hyperbolize it by having the producers of Chinpokomon
use the merchandise as a way to make American children become Japanese child soldiers.
Not to mention, Chinpoko also translates to a pretty inappropriate Japanese phrase.
Then, there's episodes like Trapped in the Closet where they're already exploring a
rather extreme topic, so they just let the subject matter speak for itself.
South Park always makes me laugh, and unless the show continues down the rabbit-hole it's
been going through recently, I see it remaining on the air for as long as there's societal
issues to make fun of.
Hey guys.
I wasn't expecting this project to be split into two parts, but I decided to do that after
realizing how long it would've taken to make the entire project in the matter of week.
I'll have the second part up on Friday, and the following week after that is my Planet
Sheen review, and I have a lot of other really videos in the works that I'm looking
forward to sharing with you.
Thanks for watching, give me some feedback and maybe guess what you think the top 5 are
going to be in the comments, and have a spectacular day.
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WE WERE TALKING ABOUT IMMIGRATION EARLIER AND
THANKFULLY, PEOPLE ARE STANDING UP TO WHAT IS GOING ON IN THE
TRUMP ADMINISTRATION.
575 PEOPLE MOSTLY WOMEN WERE ARRESTED PROTESTING THE ZERO
TOLERANCE IMMIGRATION POLICY INCLUDING ACTRESS SUSAN SARANDON
AND REPRESENTATIVE PRAMILA JAYAPAL FROM SEATTLE
WASHINGTON AND
ALSO JOINING THE PROTEST ALTHOUGH NOT ARRESTED WAS
SENATOR TAMMY DUCKWORTH YOU JUST GAVE BIRTH IN APRIL AND BROUGHT
HER DAUGHTER TO THE PROTEST.
HER DAUGHTER WAS ARRESTED THOUGH THOUGHT
KNOWING THE TRUMP ADMINISTRATION THAT IS NOT
THAT CRAZY OF A STRETCH.
ALSO SENATORS JEFF MERKLEY AND KIRSTEN GILLABRAND
ATTENDED THE PROTEST.
SPEAKING OF GILLIBRAND, WHO ABSOLUTELY RULES.
YESTERDAY SHE BECAME THE FIRST SITTING US SENATOR TO CALL FOR
ICE TO BE ABOLISHED.
MAJOR KUDOS TO HER.
HERE'S WHAT SHE HAD TO SAY.
SHE'S ALSO GOT SOME POSITIONS LETTER EVEN TO THE LEFT OF
BERNIE SANDERS.
SHE WAS TO GET RID OF ICE.
WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO WITH YOUR PARTY IF YOU DO COME
INTO A MAJORITY AND YOU HAVE A SIGNIFICANT NUMBER, AT
LEAST IN INFLUENCE OF PEOPLE WHO HAVE THAT KIND OF A POSITION?
WELL, I AGREE WITH IT.
I DO NOT THINK I TODAY IS WORKING AS INTENDED.
YOU THINK YOU SHOULD GET RID OF AGENCY?
I BELIEVE THAT IT HAS BECOME A DEPORTATION FORCE AND I THINK
YOU SHOULD SEPARATE THE CRIMINAL JUSTICE FROM THE IMMIGRATION
ISSUES AND I THINK YOU SHOULD REIMAGINE ICE UNDER A NEW AGENCY
WITH A VERY DIFFERENT MISSION AND TAKE THOSE TWO MISSIONS OUT.
WE BELIEVE THAT WE SHOULD PROTECT FAMILIES THAT NEED
OUR HELP AND THAT IS NOT WHAT ISIS DOING TODAY AND THAT IS
WHY I BELIEVE YOU SHOULD GET RID OF IT, START OVER, REIMAGINE IT.
I WAS GOING TO JUMP IN THERE.
THE REACTION SHOT OF HIM WAS HILARIOUS.
REALLY IMPORTANT POINT HERE GUYS IS PROGRESSIVES ARE WINNING.
WHEN KIRSTEN GILLABRAND, WHO STARTED A YEAR AND 1/2 AGO AS A
LITTLE BIT OF AN ESTABLISHMENT POLITICIAN IS NOW OUTFLANKING
BERNIE SANDERS ON THE LEFT, THAT MEANS THE MEMO IS OUT THE
POLITICIANS IN WASHINGTON.
GO LEFT.
THE COUNTRY IS LEFT, YOUR VOTERS ARE LEFT, YOU CANNOT GO
LEFT ENOUGH, KEEP GOING.
AND OF COURSE, THIS WEEK ALEXANDRIA OCASIO-CORTEZ WINS
AND ONE OF HER PLANKS WAS ABOLISH ICE SO NOW ALL SORTS
OF POLITICIANS GOING, YEAH, ABOLISH ICE.
THAT IS WHAT I MEANT.
AND IF YOU MEAN IT, IF YOU DON'T MEAN THAT YOU WILL BE
FOUND OUT, BUT GILLABRAND RHETORIC IS A TESTAMENT TO
TELLING VOTERS I'VE GROWN, I'VE CHANGED MY MIND AND AGAIN, I
DON'T KNOW IF IT WILL VOTE WHEN SHE RUNS FOR PRESIDENT,
OBVIOUSLY WE THINK SHE WILL, WHETHER PROGRESSIVE VOTERS WILL
BELIEVE THAT IT IS A LEGITIMATE CHANGE OF HEART OR WHETHER THEY
WILL STILL SEE HER AS AN ESTABLISHMENT CENTRIST DEMOCRAT
BUT YOUR BEST TACTIC IS JUST TO SAY YEAH, I BELIEVED THE THINGS
I BELIEVED LAST BACK THEN WERE WRONG AND I HAVE LISTENED
TO THE PEOPLE SUPPORT ME AND I AM CHANGING MY POSITION.
IF HE HAS ANY HOPE, CORY BOOKER SHOULD SAY THAT.
I'VE CHANGED MY MIND, I AM WRONG.
I BELIEVE HE HAS FOLLOWED HER IN A FEW THINGS.
ON MANY OF THE ISSUES.
HE STILL HASN'T DONE THE THING WHERE HE SAYS AND I ALSO WANT TO
TAKE A TINY BIT OF CREDIT, I ONLY BRING IT UP BECAUSE I
THINK IT IS SO IMPORTANT.
IT IS BEEN A COUPLE OF YEARS NOW SINCE I STARTED TALKING ABOUT
ICE AND HOW THEY NEEDED TO CHANGE THEIR NAME BECAUSE PART
OF THE PROBLEM WITH ICE, AS SHE SAYS, THEY HAVE TO SEPARATE THE
MISSIONS, LAW ENFORCEMENT CRIMINAL JUSTICE FROM
IMMIGRATION, IS THAT THEY HAVE CREATED THIS BAD ASS NAME THAT
MAKES THEM, I GUARANTEE YOU AND I AM NOT KIDDING, MAKES THEM
FEEL BAD ASS.
WE ARE ICE AGENTS AND WE ARE GOING TO GET IT DONE AND
PART OF THIS MEANS WHEN THEY TALK ABOUT CHANGING THE
MISSION, IT IS TO THAT POINT WHICH IS NO, YOU WERE GOING
TO BECOME AND HAVE AN AGENCY THAT DEALS WITH IMMIGRATION
ISSUES AND NOT A POLICE FORCE INVOLVED IN THAT.
THOSE ARE SEPARATE ISSUES AND THAT MEANS DOING AWAY WITH
THE NAME ICE.
YOU PROCESS ASYLUM REQUESTS, THAT IS WHAT YOU DO.
YOU ARE A BUREAUCRAT, NOT SWAT.
NOBODY ON THE LEFT DOESN'T THINK IMMIGRATION IS AN
ISSUE THAT REQUIRES A GOVERNMENT AGENCY THAT IS ADEPT AND
ADROIT AND COMPETENT AND ABLE TO HANDLE IT.
THIS MISSION, THEY HAVE MISREPRESENTED THEIR
MISSION, AND THEY HAVE TURNED IT INTO A POLICE FORCE WHICH
IS THE WRONG IDEA.
I WANT TO AGREE WITH CENK UYGUR WHICH IS THIS IS OBVIOUSLY
ANOTHER EXAMPLE IN THE SAME WAY THAT SO MANY OF THEM HAVE BEEN
DOG PILING ON GETTING RID OF CORPORATE MONEY, OBVIOUSLY
PROGRESSIVES ARE WINNING AND I UNDERSTAND WE HAVE BEEN BEATEN
DOWN FOR SO LONG THAT NOBODY WANTS TO BITE AND THAT IS FINE,
I DON'T EVEN KNOW THAT WOULD MEAN, MAYBE SHE DOESN'T ACTUALLY
MEAN IT, MAYBE SHE WILL REVERSE ON IT, MAYBE IN A YEAR AND
HOW SHE DOESN'T FEEL THE SAME WAY, IT IS SIGNIFICANT THAT
SHE IS CALLING FOR NOW BECAUSE THERE'S MOMENTUM.
IT WAS NOT LONG AGO THAT THERE WAS ONE ELECTED DEMOCRAT WHO WAS
CALLING FOR ICE TO BE ABOLISHED.
WE HAD HER ON THE DAMAGE REPORT TODAY TO TALK ABOUT WHY ICE
NEEDS TO BE TAKEN OUT.
SHE SAYS OBVIOUSLY HEY HAS GONE FAR BEYOND ITS ORIGINAL MISSION.
WE ARE SPENDING BILLIONS OF DOLLARS ON IT, IT IS A ROGUE
AGENCY WITH NO EFFECTIVE MEANS OF ACTUALLY CONTROLLING IT
SO SHE WAS THE FIRST CONGRESSWOMAN TO DO THAT.NET
WE HAVE KIRSTEN SCHILLER BRENT, THE FIRST CONGRESSWOMAN,
SOMETHING LIKE NINE OTHER REPRESENTATIVES HAVE SIGNED ON.
MOST OF THEM SINCE TUESDAY BY THE WAY.
WE JUST FOUND OUT DURING THE BREAK THAT NYDIA VELASQUEZ,
ANOTHER DEMOCRATIC CONGRESSWOMAN HAS SIGNED ON.
THIS IS AMAZING PROGRESS INSTEAD OF JUST A WEEK AND WE
SHOULD ACKNOWLEDGE BRIEFLY ALTHOUGH IT IS NOT PURELY
FEMALE, THERE ARE A FEW THAT SPONSORED A BILL TO ABOLISH IT.
IT IS BEEN LED AMONG CANDIDATES LIKE ALEXANDRIA OCASIO-CORTEZ
BY FEMALE DEMOCRATS AND I'M GLAD THEY ARE SPEAKING OUT AND
ALSO PROTESTING, PUTTING THEIR BODIES ON THE LINE AS WELL.
ON SATURDAY THERE IS GOING TO BE A LOT MORE OF THESE PROTESTS.
FIND OUT WHERE IT IS IN YOUR AREA AND BY THE WAY ONE OF THE
WAYS YOU CAN FIND THEN TRACK THEM IS GO TO FACEBOOK.COM/
REBEL HQ.
THAT IS WHERE WE COVER THESE PROTESTS FROM DIFFERENT CITIES.
JOHN WILL COVER IN LOS ANGELES, BUT WE WILL HAVE CAMERAS IN
MANY OF THOSE PROTESTS ON SATURDAY SO GO THERE THEN
SAID I WILL PULL A CENK, WELL I WILL TOO.
I WILL TELL YOU, NOBODY EVER GIVES CREDIT AND CERTAINLY NOT
TO PROGRESSIVES, IT IS THE JUSTICE DEMOCRATS.
WE SAID NO CORPORATE PAC MONEY AND NOW ALL OF A SUDDEN,
NOT EVERYBODY BUT A LOT OF PEOPLE ARE SAYING THE SAME.
I REMEMBER, YOU REMEMBER, YOU SAW IT ALL UNFOLD.
WE SAID NO CORPORATE PAC MONEY AND EVERYONE SAID WE WERE
CRAZY.
WE NOW HAVE ALL OF THE SENATORS SAYING THE SAME.
WHEN SOME OF THE JUSTICE DEMOCRAT CANDIDATES AND THEY
WERE THE FIRST LIKE ALEXANDRIA OCASIO-CORTEZ, SHE LED ON
THAT ABSOLUTELY.
SHE LED WITHIN THE JUSTICE DEMOCRATS ON THE ISSUE.
THAT IS CRAZY.
NOW ALL OF A SUDDEN, SENATORS LIKE KIRSTEN JULIE BRENT.
BY THE WAY, YOU KNOW WHO ELSE IS A JUSTICE DEMOCRAT?
THE ONE INTERESTED IN THIS PROTESTS AND SHE IS BEEN A
SUPER PROGRESSIVE.
NO CORPORATE MONEY, SUPER PROGRESSIVE, LEADERS.
THIS IS A REAL CAUCUS NOW AND THESE ARE THE LEADERS OF
THE PROGRESSIVE MOVEMENT.
IT IS POLITICALLY DAMAGING NOW, IT COULD BE AND IN
MANY RACES IT WILL BE IF YOU TAKE IT.
THAT WILL BE A QUESTION REPORTERS ASK.
YOU TAKE CORPORATE PACK MONEY.
ALL THE PEOPLE WE EXPECT TO BE RUNNING IN 2020,
THEY'RE NOT WAITING EVEN UNTIL THE PRIMARY FOR, THEY WANT
TO GET THAT FAR AHEAD OF IT TO DEMONSTRATE THAT THEY ACTUALLY
MEAN IT AND AGAIN, IT DOES NOT MEAN YOU HAVE TO TRUST THEM.
BEFORE I SAID BEFORE, I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT TRUSTING THEM
WOULD ACTUALLY ACCOMPLISH BUT THEY ARE NOT TAKING IT, YOU
CANNOT TRACK THAT OVER TIME AND GUYS, AFTER ALEXANDRIA
OCASIO-CORTEZ ONE, ALL THE PRESS THAT WE MISSED IT, WE DIDN'T
KNOW, THERE WERE ALMOST NO CAMERAS THERE EXCEPT FOR THE
YOUNG TURKS IN NEW YORK ONE HAD CAMERAS IN HER HEADQUARTERS
AND WHAT IN THE WORLD HAPPENED?
WHAT IS GREAT ABOUT, I SAID WE ARE NOT THE YOUNG TURKS,
YOU ARE.
YOU GUYS GIVE MONEY TO HER AND OTHER WONDERFUL PROGRESSIVE
CANDIDATES AND JUSTICE DEMOCRATS ETC.
YOU MADE THE RACES POSSIBLE, YOU MADE THESE POSITIONS POSSIBLE.
YOU MADE THEM POPULAR AND WHEN THEY WERE SURPRISED, YOU WORDS
BECAUSE WE HAD ALREADY DONE 34 VIDEOS ON ALEXANDRIA
OCASIO-CORTEZ BEFORE HER ELECTION SO WHILE THE REST OF
THE COUNTRY WAS SHOCKED, YOU ARE THE ONES WHO LEAD ON THAT SO
THINK US ALWAYS ON THAT AND WE ARE JUST GETTING STARTED.
I TOLD YOU ON THE NIGHT OF 2016, THE ELECTION, YOU DON'T GET SAD,
YOU GET ANGRY, YOU GET BACK UP AND YOU FIGHT AND WE ARE GOING
TO WIN AND I SAID 2018 WAS GOING TO BE THE BEGINNING AND HERE WE
ARE AND IT HAS BEGUN AND WAIT UNTIL WE GET THE REST OF
2018 AND THEN THE REST OF 2020.
WE ARE GOING TO BE GET THERE, WE HAVE KEEP GOING.
I'M SUPER PROUD THAT THIS IS THE HOME OF PROGRESSIVE.
I AM SUPER PROUD OF OUR MEMBERS, TYTNETWORK.COM/JOIN TO
BECOME A MEMBER AND POWER THIS.
WE ARE YOUR MEDIA.
I DON'T KNOW THAT A LOT OF THIS HAPPENS WITHOUT AT LEAST
SOME MEDIA OUTLET.
I AM SUPER PROUD OF ALL OF THESE JUSTICE DEMOCRATS THAT ARE
LEADING THE WAY FOR PROGRESSIVES.
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Nella giornata del 28 giugno 2018 il bar del quartiere romano di Trastevere, il Bar San Callisto, è stato chiuso
Il provvedimento di sospensione della licenza di 3 giorni con la relativa chiusura ai sensi dell'ex art
100 T.U.L.P.S. è stato notificato dai Carabinieri della stazione e del nucleo operativo del quartiere romano di Trastevere
La motivazione alla base della chiusura del famoso bar del quartiere turistico della Capitale sarebbe la "documentata frequentazione da parte di persone con precedenti penali" e il "disturbo al riposo ed alla quiete pubblica" in orario notturno
Il provvedimento di chiusura espone anche gli episodi denunciati dai residenti che hanno coinvolto il locale
Tra questi, anche quello verificatosi nella notte tra il 3 e il 4 giugno 2018, quando era stato organizzato un intrattenimento musicale nei pressi del bar, senza le autorizzazioni necessarie
A denunciare la chiusura del bar sulla loro pagina Facebook sono stati anche i Ragazzi del cinema America
"Sembrerebbe che il Bar San Calisto abbia ricevuto una denuncia dagli esercizi limitrofi perché 'mal frequentato'", si legge nel post
"Il San Calisto. Il Bar che più tra tutti spicca per il suo multiculturalismo. Dove il rispetto della piazza e del quartiere viene prima di tutto
" I Ragazzi del cinema America avanzano delle ipotesi sui responsabili della chiusura del bar e sulle loro vere motivazioni
"Soprattutto nell'apprendere che questa denuncia sembra provenire da tutte quelle attività confinanti che Trastevere l'hanno distrutta
Attività, a volte, di dubbia provenienza (chi vive qui, lo sa) dove la qualità non corrisponde al sevizio ricevuto e dove il turismo ha preso beceramente il sopravvento"
La notizia è stata confermata anche dalla rivista del quartiere Trastevere, "Il Ventriloco", nata proprio nel bar San Callisto
"Oltre i casi indicati dalla legge, il questore può sospendere la licenza di un esercizio nel quale siano avvenuti tumulti o gravi disordini, o che sia abituale ritrovo di persone pregiudicate o pericolose o che, comunque, costituisca un pericolo per l'ordine pubblico, per la moralità pubblica e il buon costume o per la sicurezza dei cittadin", scrive Il Ventriloco sulla pagina Facebook
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Rotatorie e aree verdi, a Carpi il Comune cerca 'sponsor' - Duration: 2:13.
La Giunta comunale di Carpi ha approvato una delibera che rende possibile a soggetti ed aziende private 'adottare' una rotatoria stradale o un'area verde, garantendone la manutenzione in cambio di una sponsorizzazione
Non si tratta di una novità, già da oltre dieci anni questa iniziativa era possibile e i risultati sono stati positivi: gli accordi di collaborazione stipulati in passato sono però venuti a scadenza
Si tratta di rilanciare ed estendere questa opportunità, che garantisce risparmi di spesa per l'ente locale e visibilità per i soggetti assegnatari che si occuperanno della manutenzione periodica e che possono posizionare, sulla rotatoria o nell'area verde 'adottata', cartelli informativi
Gli interessati devono fare arrivare la loro domanda in busta sigillata entro il 23 luglio prossimo all'Ufficio protocollo del Comune, in corso Pio 91
Se ci saranno più richieste per la stessa rotatoria o area verde si assegnerà a chi ha offerto il canone gestionale annuo più alto
Le rotatorie che si possono 'sponsorizzare' sono 26, e 12 le aree verdi, sparse per tutto il territorio comunale
Per informazioni: Marco Rovatti, telefono 059 649067, marco.rovatti@comune.carpi
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