hello you got let's try this against it hello baby welcome back to my channel
today's video is gonna be a get ready with me Q&A edition we're gonna be
having a chit chat today I'm gonna answer your questions so let's get
started um Mercury's in retrograde so I just want to say that I'm praying for
y'all everytime Mercury's in retrograde I'm like my life like if this is my life
it's just turned upside down if I make a really bad mistake in this video we're
gonna blame it on that okay we're not gonna blame it I mean do not blame it on
me got my coffee here I made such a I made such a good coffee this morning on
my face right now I just have my vitamin E creams that I get from Walmart I have
a little bit of water and glycerin the water just helps to kind of like sent
out the glycerin and I just make my mists and I spray it all over my face I
honestly was questioning do you even film this week like do you even have the
power I'm having like a very pale state right now I think I'm gonna have to turn
to the wet and wild what does this cause again the phone focus that's right I'm
gonna be traveling soon and I didn't want to have to tan two times in one
week I don't think I've ever done that spray my glam glow while I'm putting on
my foundation that just went on my mouth as I was talking actually put my
highlighter inside of this glam glow spray my sis actually suggested that a
handy-dandy Beauty Blender because I love this thing
okay stuff you didn't even get yourself a mirror like seriously and lately I
have been breaking out in this one specific area right here which is this
super hormonal area I hate hormone so much I really do you
guys just because it's the dark circles lately I don't know what it is you guys
I have been just not sleeping I feel like I'm sleeping but I'm not actually
sleeping and I'm using the torch shape tape I'm gonna pull up one of your
questions before I start to forget what would be your number one tip for someone
who is just starting the fitness journey I love your video stuff thank you I
would say don't get discouraged don't expect too much just know that it's not
going to be a perfect journey people forget that weight loss is not this
perfect thing and weight loss is not in favor of you your body doesn't even want
you to lose you're gonna run into plateaus I used to
get so upset when I would run into a plateau and I used to blame myself you
know what did I do is the fact your body is going to go through this because it's
just science your body's gotten comfortable that's
all that's happened just be prepared that it's not going to be the perfect
journey there's going to be bumps at the end of the day the reason why it's
called the journey is because you have to go through stuff like that to get to
the end to get to the finish line but by the time you get to the finish line you
have learned so much you have come so far but everything is very much like
this you're gonna get to the finish line and be like whoo whoo like it doesn't
really feel like it was a challenge for you it didn't really feel like you owned
it and you accomplished it okay next step I love to use this bronzers goals
is the new black I do not like a lot of makeup whatsoever I just don't like the
feeling of it at all what Dior Durand do you use do you use a different one for
when you go to the gym I use the same company as the one when I go to the gym
the one that I use is soft and dry and let me tell you it's such a hard organ
to find I don't like the jelly ones because oh I can't stand that wet
feeling that is my armpit and I don't like the ones that are like pure white
because then you get the stains especially when you're wearing like you
know black tops like those as you can tell my juror it's not coming through
because it's hard to find I think I have four bottles of it and whenever I find
it and I grab like three of them unlike stuff remember that this is the store
that you get it and I forget every single time that is my favorite and that
has been my favorite for years this is my brand-new favorite lip gloss
oh my gloss by Rimmel or Rimmel non-stop glamour yeah that's what it's called
I mentioned this lipstick and I'm still on it because it's my absolute favorite
this is the r63 from the Sephora collection I believe it's the Rouge
collection I just love it because it is the perfect like light nude I do not
like dark colors on my lips I consider literally every shade that take a little
bit darker than this dark and it drives Amy crazy
I'm gonna be using my morphe palette I love this palette and I'm just gonna use
their powder and put it underneath my eyes I hate when my nose is itchy
are you planning to come to Portugal funny enough
I do want to come to Portugal and I definitely will be coming back to
Portugal the last time I was there I was 2 years old when my grandfather was
still alive my dad side all I can remember is big
green garden with everything that he would grow I remember his little dog he
had pigs as well I funny enough my dad doesn't really have interesting going
back I guess is like he's been there kind of his whole life me and my mom
knew there's just so much to see they're looking at the pictures I can't believe
that that's where we come from like it's just beautiful beautiful beautiful
hopefully next year I think next year might be the year where I make it to
Portugal and I want to really plan it out and make like the best of it I'm
from the islands and I'm not from the mainland but there's just so much to see
the mainland me my mom were saying maybe do two weeks so you get like a week in
the Azores and then a week in the mainland okay you guys are gonna diet
this question if you were on death row what would you choose as your last meal
of her PSU YouTube videos are amazing oh thank you I just have a person where I
eat based on my Moodle what I'm feeling I don't have a favorite food I think I
would have to be in that moment to be like okay before I go I really need to
have this maybe a poutine or something like a fully loaded dark rich brown
gravy poutine lots of cheese over top make sure those friends are crispy cuz I
don't need no floppy floppy all that gravy over top and then maybe nice till
I come to the body because if there's no gravy at the bottom like it's it's over
I want don't think you have to remake it clay clay that's what I'm gonna be using
what do you think of intermittent fasting and also do you take any
supplements BCAAs or anything I don't take any supplements I don't take any
BCAAs I'm the type where I cannot get myself to take like a tablet everyday I
just cannot do it I think it's because I'm not a routine person I don't like
having to have this thing that I need to take every day when I think of fasting I
immediately think of like I just think of deprivation it's just not my thing
it's not from my lifestyle there's no need for me to fast for a certain part
in my journey when I can just eat them right amount of calories I'd like to do
one color all over the lid people always ask me you know how do you do her
eyebrows or do an eyebrow routine video let me tell you something guys that
video would be like lily 10 seconds long I trim my eyebrows and I brush them and
that's all I do to them I have very coarse hair I have super thick eyebrows
super thick hair and I'm happy I don't have to fill them because I cannot stand
like having to do eyebrows what are the three important qualities you would like
in a man yellow is trying to find out how I let
my men I'm actually gonna put a darker tone underneath my lash line I love
doing that it just makes my eyes pop but he has got to be able to make me laugh
like we have to laugh we have to have fun together we also if you I can't make
this question in simple so I'm gonna like group the three that's just like
fun outgoing kind of person would not be able to date someone that was a complete
homebody but I also would not be able to be with
someone that's like that loves to always be at parties what I mean by outgoing is
someone that just likes to be like outside doing something for most of the
time because I do have a homebody side to me don't get me wrong I don't want to
be stuck every single night in with you watching movies on our sofa like take me
out take me places show me things I've never seen before
I've been there girl it's not fun I need a man that can take really cute flows
and you wouldn't worry that's what I need and when he knows how to get that
glow on point the Sun setting you know girl it's just number one that's not two
and three that's just one Amy sometimes she'll be like you know what you needs
to you need a man that's the first offer for girl and I'm like she's like you
would love that I'm like yeah I'm Arcola like number two I feel like I'm starting
to look like the Amy Winehouse me more like you just go too far the one like
with the eyeliner it's like I just want to do a very thin eyeliner and then just
like oh and Amy one knows this is probably why you're single this you
should probably figure out what your second reason is he obviously needs to
have some goals some direction as to what he's doing helping him with his
goals and then he helps me with my goals and we grow together but he definitely
needs to have some sort of direct of what he needs to do with his life
like Lee's it's important okay it is this important I want him to be enjoying
something that he loves to do too when you both know that you're supported by
each other I think that that feeling is really really important too and it just
makes you feel good that you have someone behind you kind of patting you
on your back and you know that you have that support there number three I
absolutely need to have a partner and this is a given but it's still it's
still very important to me someone that's very transparent someone that I
can you know get trust with much easier I have major trust issues just because
of my past relationships I'm gonna be transparent with you guys know that you
need to be able to trust this person this person should be able to be very
open with you I'm very open you know when I'm in a relationship
um and along with trust I think there's a lot of communication to overall
someone that is fun and outgoing and we can laugh together someone that
obviously has goals and directions about their life you know their passions and
then number three is someone that basically can be like my best friend and
you know be very trustworthy and very communicated with so I think that those
are like my three staple ones there's like many other ones but you want a
three as well what is your biggest goal in life to do what I love which is what
I'm doing right now but also to travel the world and see everything and just
enjoy everything to the fullest that I can that is my ultimate ultimate
ultimate goal like just work and do what you love but also be able to go around
the world and see things that I can't tell you guys like every time I go
somewhere I just feel so happy I love discovering I love seeing new things I
love culture I just it makes my soul really really really happy and it's just
this feeling that I get I just get this really complete feeling I got the same
feeling when I went to New York City but I was just so happy you know in a
relationship if I could share that with someone it would you know it would make
it even better I think it makes it even that more special when you share it with
someone has the same passion next question any regrets
a few of them I'm going to be using the Sigma mascara that they sent me I
absolutely love this guy I will be leaving a link to this down below and i
also have a coupon code with them so make sure you guys check it out I think
I mentioned before that one of my regrets obviously was not leaving way
sooner in my last relationship my last serious relationship the reason why I
regret that is because I just wished that I had more self-respect for myself
and I wish that I wasn't as insecure as I was and that I didn't lose myself but
my other regret is probably not leaving my job way sooner it was just a part of
my journey and it was a learning curve for me that's what you kind of just have
to accept so if any of you guys are having any regrets just remind yourself
that that regret is actually it actually is a lesson I can't go back I can't
change them I think those are the only real regrets that I have just not
starting my career earlier let's just get this thing a little bit what okay
I love Prosecco public I just Oh
Who am I kidding I just like to put it all over are you a righty or a lefty I
am a righty I'm not a lefty but I cannot write with my left hand it's really
pathetic hi Steph I love you in your channels so
much thank you you're so inspiring my question is how to get over the fear
or or and intimidation I'm using the gym machines every time I go to the gym I
say I'm gonna use the squat machine or the cables and then I chicken out and
just do cardio how did you do that I just want to firstly say that your
question is completely normal because the gym is a very intimidating place
you're afraid of being judged you're afraid of someone looking at you and
going oh she's not even doing that swap right and I had those fears to number
one literally you have to and I know this is so hard I know it's so hard but
you've got to just like eliminate them like it doesn't even matter what they
think it honestly does not matter what they think because guess what you think
that they came to the gym perfect they started at rock bottom too just like you
are starting at rock bottom nobody just went to the gym
and knew what they were doing let's just be realistic a lot of those people
started one of the gym and has the exact same insecurities assumes it's only
gonna make you more confident and less insecure if you face the fear a lot of
people I've heard in the past say go ahead on when you are trying to get over
your fears some other people have to take tippy-toe and small steps no I like
to go ahead on like it's just what works for me maybe you want to bring someone
with you I mean I didn't go to the squat machine first when I was by myself
I'm with my sister we had some people that came up to us oh you're not doing
that squat right and I was like okay thank you have a good workout I was
saying you like that because this person what they've been correct but they were
even saying doesn't even make any sense you know there's gonna be egotistical
people at the gym that think they know every single thing now there are gonna
be people at the gym that may want to help you and they genuinely want to help
you or if they see you kind of struggling with the machine actually
they're struggling with the machine someone that's helped me I'm Michael I
couldn't like get something down or something and this guy was like oh I can
help you with that I can take that out for you probably good at me right like I
said it's only gonna make you a stronger person what I do put on my headphones
I'm in my zone I go to the machines I want I do it how I want I put the weight
how I want and you have got to just slowly slowly build up that confidence I
know why the squat machine is very intimidating you have to lift up the bar
and then you have to put on the weights and you know you're kind of nervous so
then you have to find the end clips and you know it is a little bit
nerve-wracking and then once you do and you get that confidence I'm telling you
you're gonna feel like you want to step up and you cover like this new milestone
and it's just gonna feel so amazing and guess what
like guess what I have like really big news for you okay if you mess up you
just try again I've messed up I messed up many many men I've dropped weights I
still make mistakes today I'm not perfect but I want you to try it and
when you try it I want you to message me and I want you to tell me that you try
that squat machine there's a pugilist I didn't try to this glendalough spray
it's just a little more accepting you just stop talking when you were spraying
this thing like it's going inside your mouth so I think that's basically it you
guys for my makeup oh wait let me show you my
protein that's best bad and then a lot of my new favorite lip gloss that's
right baby now they have been calling a me baby and
she hates it I'm like that's right baby you look beautiful baby she gets so
annoyed makes my left asleep do you guys ever have like the thing I don't know
like even when I'm eating on a table yeah should I share with you guys so
what I'm eating right even if I'm at like a restaurant I'm not a girl I don't
know if anybody else does this but I mean everything out of the way I do know
I can't breathe I don't know how else to describe it I can't breathe like just
thinking about it I'm having like when there's like so
many bottles in front of you like sitting here and filming with mullin
makeup over here was giving me like whoo I don't like it I don't like it girl do
you still do graphic design I know you used to before when you started youtube
I think lol girl you know me I still do consider I will always consider myself a
graphic designer because I've always loved graphic design I do still do it
from time to time I'll get emails from people I used to do it for and they're
like I don't know if you still do it but I kind of needed my logo link change to
this or I need this I think yeah of course I can still do it so I still do
make time to do some graphic design here and there that's what I love about
graphic design I have a canvas and I start from scratch and I designed it
myself and I make it look pretty based on what the client wants so I do still
do it yes and it's funny that you remember that how would you handle slash
separate finances in a marriage mmm this personal really prude by the way you
guys I'm loving us can't notice I know the whole thing you know in today's day
and age is to have you know separate accounts and everything separate if I'm
gonna get married to you we together to me marriage is still this very sacred
thing you know you don't get divorced and you don't cheat I mean yes something
can always go wrong but I just still have that I have you know my
grandmother's vision of what marriages again if I'm in a serious relationship
with you and we've chosen their work gonna get married but we're just gonna
stay like this and a couple then let's keep things separate you have your
account I have my account you know if we live together we can discuss you know
how things are gonna be split up I'm very traditional where and I don't know
why this is so hard for me to admit I do think that the guy should handle more I
don't know wife guilty saying that I think it's because we're in 2018 I think
it's because that's what I grew up with do I want to have my own absolutely I'm
not saying you know for him to completely take over everything if I
were to make a lot more than him I didn't contribute more than him and I
would you know I'm saying I'm just saying that my ideal world and the way I
would like it to be I would like to know that he can he can handle things
I was raised with my dad being more of the breadwinner like the traditional
mailroom let's just be real what girl does not like being taken care of like
can we just please I think that it really comes down to you know how much
do you make how much do you make but and if one person makes more I do think that
they should be contributing more you know because I mean that the other
person can handle less than you can that answer was the most horrible answer I
have come down to to be honest with you it's just a really uncomfortable
question how did you figure out your personal style and color palette who
influences you to be honest with you I've always known my personal color
palette and I think from a very young age I've always been into a lot of
neutral tones you have to try things you know and it's all based on from me in
particular how I feel in the outfit and I wear white I feel beautiful when I
wear new to feel beautiful black I feel beautiful red topes I love the loved
hopes I know for myself when I wear grey I don't feel like my most beautiful I
think that finding your own personal palette is all about really trying
things out never close yourself to trying stuff I mean yellow is something
I've been really trying out a lot lately obviously Kim I find her styles changing
a little bit more now overall I like style of when she does like very
monochromatic outfit I like when she wears a lot of like neutral tones
I love desi and love desi style I love how it's funny cos desi supply seems
like me and desi can go from the classy pretty girl to like edgy and we can't
like go all over the place and that's how I am too but if I could describe my
personal style it's definitely more classy elegant a little bit of chic in
there how do you stay so confident because she says that she has a hard
time with it all so what do you do or how do you get well-known on social
media love you Steph oh thank you a lot of people ask me you know how did you
get your followers on Instagram to be honest with you it's it's a group of
things but I started getting serious about like my outfit pose I'm wanting to
be a blogger and then of course eventually now a youtuber it was about
consistency so you have got to constantly be posting you've got to be
yourself people will read that you were not being authentic and you were not
being yourself there's only one of you even ami told me this like when I was so
lost she's like there's only one Stephanie Macedo so the number one rule
for myself was don't ever look at how someone else is doing a youtube video do
it how you want make sure when someone watches that it's
fully you and it's who you are and you have to love what you're doing if you're
not loving what you're doing it's also gonna come across and people enjoy your
work they will continue to like you they'll continue to follow you and you
will continue to grow like it's just there's just no other answer for it
except for that and that's that's really what I've been doing this entire time
as for confidence highways be so confident I'm not 100% confident of
myself but am i confident person I would say I am I think you have to stop caring
what other people think if you have just got to stop you have got to find ways
and things that make you feel beautiful being on my weight-loss journey right
now I'm coming so far and being in this brand new body you know that I'm really
growing to love every single day coz made me feel even more confident even
when I was bigger I still was confident to be honest with you guys but not like
the confidence this is just on a different level to
have a confidence that I have like physically and let me tell you how
powerful it is when you are just comfortable with being you and not
caring what anyone else has to say be confident about who you are you know
don't apologize for who you are don't feel like you owe people a different
side of you because of how they make you feel don't let them make you feel like
that and you should always be around people that accept you for who you are
shared with you recently that I decided to end things with my boyfriend about
two months ago and I don't regret it at all but what are some things that you
may recommend in order to do to focus on myself and not feel lonely and stay
happy with being on my own there's someone's person for like four years
and you're so used to like being right to their side even if things were wrong
like going wrong or whatever you're used to that person being there and now
you're by yourself and some people handle that well some people don't I to
be honest with you I'm very black-and-white I always tell you guys
this I'm so black and white when I'm in a relationship I want to do everything
with you I want to do with you as much as possible I want to enjoy every moment
with you but when I'm single I feel like I turn
into like the complain I turn into the single girl I just I don't really need
to have a guy I don't know I just go into independent mode I think that you
need to find things that you love and just remind yourself of why you're
single for me I lost myself in my last serious
relationship completely I had nothing going on for myself it's very important
to have something going on for yourself something that you're growing out and
that you're passionate with and because once you find yourself you grow a whole
new love for yourself that's where I'm at right now
but just remind yourself that you know sometimes being by yourself and being
able to be strong on your own is even more powerful I feel way more powerful
now because I know that I can handle situations on my own you know joy wanted
to eventually have someone in my life yes of course I do but it makes me feel
good as a woman that I have grown into my own and
I love to do and I have something going on for myself now when that man comes
into my life then I'll have my own thing he has his own thing and we have
something together actually adjusted really well so think I'm like the worst
person to ask to be honest with you this time is the best time to grow it really
is the best time to grow the beauty about it was that there was so much to
learn about myself now looking back I'm just like wow I did not know all those
things about myself I didn't know I can do this I didn't know I can make it
through this takes it as more of a blessing then it is as this acting there
by yourself what is the best moisturizing lotion from the drugstores
I love using an e vitamin e cream and I'm using right now so this girl also
went through a breakup and she says that she does feel lonely she chatted with me
before and now that she's actually broken up with it he was actually a
fiance so this was the girl that was going through what I was going through
at the time she says you know she's so used to having someone there by her side
and now it's like there's so many lonely feelings and again you have to take this
time is like a time where you're growing and you're learning stuff about yourself
but the other thing I want to say the last thing I wanna say about with the
whole lonely feeling is surround yourself with people and friends that I
really love you and just have a great time with them go all places with them
enjoy life because at the end of the day if you lock yourself up in your room and
you're like I'm so lonely you know I used to have this guy by my side I used
to love him and we did everything together now I'm just by myself those
feelings are gonna consume you if you just focus on them
I only personally I only felt lonely the first I would say me me I'd say three
months and then I was like I was over and I'm like this is awesome like I'm by
myself and I could do whatever the hell I want
favorite beauty products I don't know I would have to see my lip gloss
I think Betty wants to come in look who we have here crazy baby oh my baby boy
oh my baby lay down for mama this is all he wanted mama you give no no no that's
mommy's coffee yep yep
then we're filming my god if you guys could only see he's squinting his eyes
of me but Ben I just did my makeup you guys the door just closed by itself
describe her teenage self this is so funny antisocial
I didn't like having that many friends I was always the girl that liked to have
like very small groups of friends I don't like big groups of friends I never
have my parents seem to have forgotten that they never used to let me out my
dad's like I used to let you out all the time I'm like really dad you did that I
used to let me go out guys I have a boyfriend I was not allowed to go out
with okay I would get the good grades I've never like smoked in my life I
never like drink anything till I was like what 18 it's just that I how you
doing back there man doing good I'm not gonna lie I was I was the perfect child
like I was the perfect teenager you know the teenager that everyone's like oh
wait till there are teenagers yeah no that wasn't me and my mom picked me up I
would come home and I would stay home yep that's that's my life I wouldn't go
to parties I had a best friend I would go to her house all the time we would go
to the movies the parents had to know like who this
friend was like this was nothing like that with my sisters it was just it was
not the same I followed every single rule I was probably the best teenager
you could have ever prayed for and would eat by myself in the art room like my
lunch I would eat there by myself in a back table like how antisocial was done
that was me then are you for real you guys he's trying at my attention I can't
kick yet is showing that you can come up no don't be lazy boy you guys he's so
lazy do you have a BS oh my god and she taped Beyonce's single ladies I don't
have a boyfriend I am single okay not yet I know you said you you are
currently single I swear those questions were back-to-back that was weird
but when the time is right and you do find your significant other do you plan
on having kids if so how many kids just make me smile I am obsessed with them
I love them so much I think they are the cutest thing on this damn planet think I
want either two or four or seems like a lot of kids maybe up to the three I'll
be like let's see if I can handle before so that is basically it for all the
questions that you guys sent in thank you guys so so so much I actually really
enjoyed doing QA it's probably one of my favorite videos to do because they just
get to like chitchat with you guys and talk to you guys about a bunch of random
stuff let me know down below if you guys want me to do some where q and A's and
if you guys like to get ready with me or if you guys just like when I'm chilling
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