This one is titled, "Relieve My Grudge!"
I have a role for you. Be confident.
The husband is a bit curt.
- Me? / - Yes.
All right.
Hello. I'm a woman in my fifties from Seoul.
I am here today thinking that
I could end my marriage of 29 years.
I have been terribly heartbroken by my own husband.
The door opens. Ring.
"Honey, you're home."
Her husband.
(Let's see)
There's just an ellipses.
It's the hardest thing to act.
- You want me to do this? / - Yes.
You have no lines but you must express it.
"You're home, honey."
Here we go.
(Acting his best)
"It was hot today, right?
Honey, how was work?"
It's another ellipses...
(The end of acting curt)
Yes. My husband never says anything.
He has always treated me as if I don't exist.
He is a quiet person.
He's so cold and quiet.
"Oh, my head. Honey.
I feel ill. Can I have $3 to buy medicine? Honey..."
I don't have it.
When I am sick,
he won't even give me $3. But...
"Hey, sis! You're moving?
Okay. I'll wire it right now."
He wired $1,000 when his sister needed money.
When he said he doesn't have $3?
One time, I was driving and he was next to me.
We got in a car accident.
"Hey! I had my signal on."
"What? You crossed the lane first."
"Hey! I...
Honey! You talk to him. Listen to him."
"It was your fault. What's wrong with you?
Apologize to him."
My husband has never taken my side.
Please help me relieve my grudge of 29 years.
This is the concern she sent us.
How is your husband, Jihye?
My husband thinks what I say is the law.
(How sweet)
I'm sorry.
If you're so happy, why are you here today?
Are you here to get the audience's love, too?
Kyubok, I'm very curious. What are you thinking about?
(Guilty)
(He's a rookie who spaces out at times)
I was reminded of my father when I heard this.
Your father is a man of few words, too?
Yes. When my friends came over
and I said, "My friend is here," he went...
(Bye)
He would just look and walk away.
I was stressed out a lot because of that.
I still don't know why he did that.
Let's bring her out now.
Please come on out.
(Who has a grudge against her husband?)
(Lee Insuk)
(Depressed)
She looks so serious from the start that
I don't know what to say to her.
Tak Jaehun played the role of your husband.
Is your husband more curt than that?
Or was Tak Jaehun more curt?
My husband is more curt.
Tell us how curt and indifferent he is.
I think you're more curt.
(Perplexed)
Hold on.
It's going to be a long day.
We've been married for 29 years,
but he still doesn't know when my birthday is.
He doesn't know when our anniversary is.
Our kids told him when my birthday is, but...
- He's indifferent? / - He just doesn't care.
(That's terrible)
I got in a car accident and got hurt.
I was hospitalized for a week,
but he never came to see me.
(Shocked)
That's terrible.
I had a stomachache and asked him to get me medicine.
(She can't help but sigh)
He said, "Are you a doctor?
Go see a doctor. Don't ask me to get drugs."
He wouldn't even give me $3 for the medicine,
so I bought it myself.
But he wired $1,000 to his sister?
His sister called him to say that she's moving
and he wired her $1,000 right away.
But he didn't even give $3 to you.
(You think it's a waste to give me $3?)
When he comes home, you speak sweetly to him?
"Honey, you're home?"
"It was cold today. How was work?"
He said, "It wasn't cold!"
What more can I say to him?
How is he with other people then?
Is he kind to other people?
He's very kind to other people.
We go to church. At church, he does the dishes,
talks to others and does volunteer work.
He is very kind and generous
to strangers.
But not to me.
He never buys me things.
So he always speaks negatively to you?
Yes.
Then tell him, "Honey, let's go to church."
"No church! We have to go to a temple!"
He doesn't say that?
(No reaction)
Dongyeob, you must be embarrassed.
You made a joke.
I wanted her to smile.
She could've laughed, but she didn't.
Ma'am.
Just the look she had...
She has so much anger piled up in her.
Did you wrong your husband somehow?
No.
What do you mean no?
I didn't!
(Stop joking around)
She smiled. She smiled!
(Smile)
(She finally smiled)
She smiled! She smiled!
(Taekyun made her smile)
Shin Dongyeob, you failed.
Failed. You did it!
When you got in a car accident,
he didn't take your side?
The car made a turn without turning on his signal.
So I got hurt.
Instead of asking, "Did you get hurt?"
he said, "It's all your fault!"
And he wanted me to apologize to him.
Just out of the blue?
- In front of the other driver? / - Yes.
That's quite upsetting.
Rather than saying who's right or wrong...
"You must've been surprised. It's okay."
It would've been nice to say that instead.
If he apologized for you,
then you wouldn't have been so upset, right?
(This is why I have such a huge grudge)
It sounds like there are many other cases
when he took other people's sides.
Here's another example.
In our alley...
Yes.
When you think back on what grudge you have...
Anger! Anger!
Think about it.
There's a stationery store on the corner.
A mailbox was located right in front of it.
My car got scratched every time I turned.
Other people got their cars scratched, too.
So I reported it and it all worked out.
But my husband said to me,
"You embarrass me. Why did you report it?"
So I explained to him. "I had no other choice.
It was an inconvenience to other people, too.
I didn't hurt anyone else in the process."
He should've taken my side,
but he kept taking other people's side.
Then is he at least sweet
- to your kids? / - No.
Kids run up to their dad when he comes home.
He says, "Go away! I'm tired!"
So my kids were heartbroken many times.
That's why my kids told me
to divorce my husband.
That must've been upsetting to you.
Yes.
Did your kids raise a rabbit when they were young?
No.
(Unexpected jab at her)
Can you show the two of us on the screen?
Can you see that her body is turned towards me?
Her husband is sitting to her right.
She doesn't want to look at her husband
because it makes her mad.
Her husband isn't looking at her either. He's frowning.
(Where did we go wrong?)
Let's meet her husband.
What do you call him?
(What does she call him?)
"Hey, pig!"
(A pig?)
(Where is the pig?)
(Bursts into laughter)
She smiled.
She smiled.
(Good job, Yeongja)
Hey, pig.
She calls him "Pig."
Piggy, where are you? Mr. Pig.
Nice to meet you.
Is everything she said true?
Yes. I am indifferent to my wife.
You should be good to her. She's your beloved wife.
How can you say that with a smile?
Why are you so indifferent to your one and only wife?
She's so pessimistic when she talks.
He has a grudge, too.
Has she upset you in some ways? Be honest.
I cook my own breakfast and dinner.
When I ask her to cook for me,
she says, "Do you not have hands?
Why can't you cook for yourself?"
That still upsets me.
When she said that to you,
she must've had her reasons, too.
I said that because
he was indifferent to me when I was sick.
See?
When I was in the hospital...
She's upset, too.
Like she said earlier, she was hospitalized
for a week because of a car accident.
You really didn't go see her?
I think I was too busy with work.
You could've taken some time off
to see her at least once. She was hurt.
The hospital would take good care of her anyway.
It was too hard to go see her and go to work.
Pardon me for asking, but what do you do?
I'm a mailman.
- I see. / - Oh, a mailman.
He makes deliveries.
You could've gone, but you just didn't want to.
Right.
Do you know when her birthday is,
but haven't cared to tell her?
I know it roughly.
(How can you know it roughly?)
What do you mean by you know it roughly?
When is her birthday?
I think it's May 4.
Is he correct?
No. It's May 3.
(He's off by one day!)
He really does know it roughly.
He knows it roughly.
You were a day off.
Do you know when your anniversary is? Roughly?
I think it's around March 23.
Is he right?
Is he right?
It's March 24.
(He's off by a day again!)
He does know it roughly.
He could get it right if he wanted to.
Is he playing hard to get on purpose?
He is off by just one day.
He never knows the exact dates.
Let me ask you instead.
Do you know when his birthday is?
October 16.
Is she right?
Yes.
She knows the exact date.
My husband has a liver problem,
- so I went to catch marsh snails. / - That's hard.
It's cold in the water in November.
Sure.
I have to catch 10kg of snails to get extract.
So I had to go 5-6 times to catch 10kg of marsh snails.
I nearly died from a cold.
In November.
He could've thanked me for doing that,
but he never did.
- Did he drink the extract? / - He did.
- He drank it all? / - Yes.
Sir.
I took for granted that she did that for me.
Going to catch marsh snails 5-6 times
in November is something to take for granted?
Then why didn't you do anything for her birthday?
I'm not good at expressing my feelings.
But she said that you're good to other people.
You even do volunteer work at church.
It's not volunteer work.
I'm a deacon at church so I have to do it.
So you're kind to others at church
because of your position at church?
Yes. I can't neglect the duties of my job.
(He's not doing his task as a husband)
But she says you side with strangers more.
Right. Tell us about the mailbox.
Somebody else could've reported it.
I asked her why she was the one to do it.
- "Why did she report it herself?" / - Right.
I work at the post office,
so what would my colleagues think if they found out?
I have a bad reputation in my neighborhood.
She always steps up and does things.
What else was there?
There was a sewer construction by our house.
The cement water got all over our vegetables.
Got all over?
So some of our vegetables died.
My wife wanted to report it to the police.
She always wants to report things to the police.
Do you call the police often?
Yes.
I do it because when I see something is wrong...
- You can't help it? / - No.
It's not that what she did was wrong.
You just have different personalities.
Right.
Your kids must have something to say, too.
Let's meet them.
Hello.
Hello.
In your opinion, whose concern is this?
My mom's.
When I was young, he never spent time with me.
When I asked him to hold me, he said, "Go away."
- You never felt loved by your father? / - Yes.
You must've been curious
why your dad treated you that way.
You must've had many concerns, too.
She is very upset by her father, too.
Let me ask you.
Why don't you tell us how your father upset you?
Okay.
When I was in 4th grade, I had an appendectomy.
(In tears)
Both the mom and daughter have grudges.
She is so upset with Dad.
I don't understand.
When your children asked you to hold them,
you told them to go away?
Well, I don't hate them. They're my kids.
He doesn't speak nicely.
How can you say you "don't hate them"?
It's because he's too shy.
I think he's been pretending to be a bad boy
to his wife for the past 29 years.
You stopped crying now. Why don't you tell us?
You have to get everything out today.
When I was in 4th grade, I had an appendectomy.
I was hospitalized for a week and he never came.
He never asked me if I was okay.
Did you ask him why he never came to see you?
- You didn't, right? / - No.
You just ignored it?
I thought it could hurt both of our feelings.
You just endured it.
See? If one person starts to shut someone out,
they just stop speaking for years.
And they misunderstand each other.
Do you talk to your father often?
We don't talk much.
He mostly talks to grandma.
Your dad?
You've lived with his mother for 29 years?
Yes, for 29 years...
We live on separate floors now.
He always goes to his mother first.
When he gets home from work?
He's supposed to talk to me about things.
But he always talks to his mother first
and just notifies me later.
My mother listens to me without judging me.
If I talk to my wife, she starts nagging at me
about every little detail.
But didn't you two talk to each other
a lot when you two dated?
We met through a matchmaker.
I chose to marry her because...
I went on 30 blind dates before I met her.
It was 50 times, not 30.
You went on 50 blind dates.
How does the daughter know?
She wasn't even born then.
Most women don't want to live with their in-laws.
When I told her, she said she'd live with my mom.
I didn't marry her because I love her. I...
How could you say that?
Wait. Hold on, everyone.
(How could he say such a thing?)
(Oh, my wretched fate)
Even if that's true, you should be grateful
and apologetic to her for that.
So you should see her as lovely for doing so.
But, you see...
When I do something wrong,
she doesn't blame me for it.
She says, "Did your mom teach you that?"
She's so pessimistic about everything.
She said that his mom taught him wrong.
So she said that your mom taught you wrong?
Right.
My father passed away when I was 3.
My mom worked hard to raise the three of us.
So I got very upset.
Ma'am. How could you say that to him?
Ma'am! Ma'am!
I wouldn't say it if he didn't do anything wrong.
But he keeps giving me a reason to.
- Who? / - My husband.
Even so, badmouthing a spouse's parents is
something that's just off-limits.
It's because...
It's because...
We had a small lot in Jangwi-dong.
I suggested that we sell it
and he agreed.
So we sold it and moved.
Then he cussed at me and said,
"You sold that on your own."
- Who? Your husband? / - Yes.
He cussed at you?
Yes.
Was that the only time?
He always cusses at me.
Why did you cuss at her, sir?
Well, I don't remember saying that.
(How frustrating)
I don't remember cussing at her.
But I do cuss at times when we argue.
Do you cuss because she cusses at you?
Or are you the only who cusses at her?
I do it first and she cusses back.
(This is so difficult)
(Sigh)
If this were a recent problem,
I'd say what's right and what's wrong.
But it's been 29 years.
We don't know who did wrong first.
You gave us a difficult task. You know that, right?
This is hard.
Let's try to unravel this little by little.
(Will they be able to knock down this wall?)
What do you think, son?
From elementary school to college,
he never came to my entrance or graduation ceremonies.
Maybe it's because he never knew the dates.
On weekends when he has his days off,
he just leaves the house by himself.
He never tells us where he's going.
He doesn't talk to us, so it's frustrating.
Did you ever try to talk to him to resolve this issue?
Man to man?
I suggested we have a drink together many times.
- So the two of us talked. / - That's good.
He said, "Why aren't you taking my side?"
I try to explain, but he never listens.
At the end of the worship,
we all hold hands together.
I've never seen the two of them hold hands ever.
So I tried many times to get them to hold hands,
but they just pulled away from me.
I'm sure they didn't pull away at the same time.
I'm sure one of them did that first
and the other one did as well.
If he holds your hand...
Are you willing to hold his hand?
Will you hold his hand no matter what?
- I'm willing to hold hands. / - Why?
Even though you hate him so much?
But we have kids together.
I'd do anything for our kids.
(Upset)
What I'm most curious about is...
What? Kyubok.
When he says he's curious, he really means it.
He sighed about 200 times already.
You may act indifferent and be curt,
but you're a family.
You must care for them. But hearing you talk,
you sound like you don't care about them at all.
Do you not care about them?
Well...
Okay.
It sounds like you concluded that he doesn't care.
(Entertainment programs are tough...)
Sir, the way you talk, it sounds like
you are upset with your children, too.
Why don't you get it all out?
Yes. My wife treats me badly,
so my kids seem to belittle me, too.
That's upsetting.
Is that why you leave without telling them?
Sure. I want to rest after work,
but I feel as though they leave me out.
When you're at home?
(If you were nice, the kids wouldn't be like that!)
It's so frustrating.
I really want this issue to be resolved somehow.
- But there's a big wall. / - It's so hard.
I will give you two some time to talk.
We'll stay out of it. Tell him what you want from him.
Why don't you look at him, ma'am?
So we should stay out of it, right?
He doesn't like that you're pessimistic.
Do you want to start, sir? Take the courage.
She was brave enough to come here.
Talk to her. "Honey."
(Glance)
Honey, until now...
(Oh my!)
Honey. I'm sorry that
I didn't express myself well until now.
- Oh my. / - That was fast.
We never really talked to each other.
He talks so well.
I hope we can resolve this by talking.
Ma'am. Speak as you look at him.
(He's apologizing after 29 years)
She's finally looking at him.
Let's not interfere.
(Will they be able to tear down the wall?)
(It's not easy for her to begin)
- Honey. / - That's great.
(The first step to tearing down the wall of 29 years)
I hope you put into action what you said here today.
I do admit what I did was wrong.
I'll be good to you, too.
"I love you."
That's too out of the blue.
They do love each other. Look at each other.
He's looking at you.
Let's love each other now.
He's still looking at you, ma'am.
(Glance)
Please look at him.
He should be the one to open up to her first.
Please answer her.
I love you.
(I love you, I love you)
He's a romantic.
He knows how to say it.
I think he was being cold on purpose.
Let's get this ball rolling.
Sir. Why don't you say a word to your daughter?
(No, no)
It may feel awkward, but you have to do it.
Tell your kids
to go sleep somewhere else tonight.
What?
Go sleep at your grandmother's place.
Sir.
Call out your daughter's name. Be sweet.
(Glance)
Sumi, I love you.
- Look at him. / - Your son now.
Call out his name.
Siyeong, I love you.
He is able to express love.
(Getting loved by Dad for the first time)
(They look very awkward)
(But he's expressing his love)
(As best as he can for the first time)
Call out to your father, son.
He called your name with love.
Dad! Let's travel a lot from now on.
Okay.
Daughter. Why don't you say something?
He just didn't know how to do it.
No one taught him how to show love.
He couldn't do it on his own.
That's why he was bad at expressing his love.
He was actually very lonely
and suffering all by himself.
That's how he has lived his life.
Reach out to him.
She holds a built-up grudge inside her.
Of course.
Someone has to open up first.
Dad. I'll do my best to be good to you.
So please be good to mom.
All right.
(Please remember each other's sincerity)
(And do not shed tears anymore...)
I'm sure you all felt this way.
He told us earlier that
his dad passed away early and his mom raised them.
That was a big event in his life.
You telling him his mom taught him wrong
really broke his heart.
It feels like you were trying
to put yourself above him.
Maybe that's what suppressed him.
I hope you live happily from now on
for your kids' sake.
You have to be good to your wife
or you won't be able to get a meal from her.
You must see the big picture here.
That's why I think it's a concern.
Be understanding of each other.
I hope you live happily from now on.
I think you two need to talk to each other more,
so I think it's a concern.
You never knew how to express your feelings.
I don't want to think that this is a concern.
If you think it is a concern,
please press the button!
(What does the audience think?)
5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Please stop.
Can you come up and hold her hand?
She won't refuse this time.
Come only if you want to.
If not, you don't have to do it.
(I'm coming)
(He's a romantic!)
It was nice that she was willing to accept your mom,
but you liked her looks, too, right?
- No? / - She was beautiful.
She was beautiful. Of course.
She is beautiful even now.
Call out to her, please.
"Honey."
Honey.
(One step closer)
I love you, honey.
(They now see their true feelings for each other)
(Why did it take 29 years to see it?)
(Please live happily from now on!)
How many votes did they get?
Please show us the result.
(Announcing the result)
The winner currently has 137 votes.
(Will they get more than 137 votes?)
If they get 142 votes...
(What is the result?)
(They got 152 votes)
Please give them a round of applause.
(We hope you become a happy family!)
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