10 Reasons Why Introverts Are Incredibly Attractive People
Introverts are often thought of as shy, aloof, disinterested and "stuck up" because they
keep a low profile. But that assumption couldn't be further from the truth.
In this video, I'm going to show you 10 reasons why introverts are incredibly attractive people.
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Think of James Bond for a moment. Bond doesn't always wear his emotions on his sleeve — or
on his face. He is quiet, pensive, confident and driven. Do you think his demeanor make
him more or less attractive? Well, his style make him more attractive.
Similarly, introverts don't center themselves as the life of the party, but they are among
the most incredibly attractive and fascinating people you'll ever meet.
Here are the 10 reasons why introverts are incredibly attractive people:
1. They are mysterious.
Introverts have a mysterious aura about them. People want to know what they are thinking,
but will never know all of it. This makes introverts incredibly fascinating and intimidating
at the same time. It is no wonder that they are so extremely misunderstood by the more
outgoing and vocal people in our society.
2. They are easy to be around.
It might surprise you, but introverts are some of the nicest and friendliest people
you'll ever meet. They are naturally chilled out, relaxed and loving. In a world that is
always in a rush and that can't stop talking and clamoring for the limelight, the introvert's
cool and laid-back nature is extremely appealing. It is true that introverts are drained by
crowds, but they thrive in small groups and one-on-one interactions.
3. They are dreamers.
Despite what you may have heard, dreaming is anything but a waste of time. Psychologist
Scott Barry Kaufman and colleagues explain that a mind that wonders aids in the process
of "creative incubation." You may already know from experience that our best ideas come
seemingly out of the blue when our minds are elsewhere.
Introverted people get lost in their minds often and come out of them with refreshing
and wonderful ideas. When you are with them you are fascinated and feel like a part of
the magic because of the way they treat you and let you in on intriguing, new possibilities.
4. They are
It seems everyone in our extroverted world today is preoccupied with themselves and what's
on their own mind. Every day is like a shouting contest where everyone wants to speak and
no one wants to listen. So, when someone shows an interest in another and is willing to listen,
it's a huge attractor. Introverts listen more than they speak. They listen with the
view to understand and not merely to reply. And that is incredibly rare and special. It
boosts stronger connections and healthier relationships.
5. They are intrinsically motivated.
As inwardly-oriented people, introverts tend to be intrinsically motivated. That means
they are motivated to act by deeper, internal convictions rather than shallow, external
motivations like reward and recognition.
They know who they are, what they want and what matters in their life. And that is why
they are the ones most likely to pursue their true passions despite the risks and inconveniences
involved. Anyone who is self-driven, motivated by higher values and passionate is undeniably
attractive and inspiring.
6. They are observant.
Introverts see things others often miss or don't see. The world is an introvert's
wonderland with possibilities everywhere. They are constantly taking in information
in their quiet state and using it as fodder for creative expression. When you are with
an introvert, nothing is lost. And it often seems like the introverted person always knows
what you want even when you haven't spelt it out, which is brilliant and endearing.
7. They are mindful of what they say.
Nothing makes you look stupid and unattractive faster than saying inappropriate things because
you rushed to speak and did not take time to consider your words. Introverts don't
speak out of turn. In fact, they won't speak at all unless they have something important
to say. And when they do speak, they say just enough to pique your interest and leave you
wanting more. The more they speak the more fascinated you become and the more you want
to hear them speak.
8. They are creative, out-of-the box thinkers.
According to studies by the psychologists, the most spectacularly creative people in
many fields are often introverted. That's largely because solitude is a key ingredient
for creative success. Introverts have no fear of being alone. They actually cherish privacy
and freedom from interruption. In the state of solitude, introverts get in touch with
their inner monologue, ask the right questions and flex their creative muscles.
Author Susan Cain notes that, "Without introverts, the world would be devoid, the theory of gravity;
the theory of relativity; W. B. Yeats's "The Second Coming"; Chopin's nocturnes;
Proust's In Search of Lost Time; Peter Pan" and so on.
That natural tendency to embrace solitude, focus deeply on a subject, think and act creatively
makes introverts, past and present, gloriously remarkable and attractive people.
9. They are studious and smart.
Introverts are naturally drawn to reading and study. They enjoy learning and figuring
out new things for themselves. And while they might be dubbed book worms, they are smart.
And a smart person is sexy and attractive. You are better off spending time with someone
who's knowledgeable and eagerly interested in learning more, than someone who is ignorant
and disinterested.
10. They are intellectually stimulating.
Because introverts are studious and self-reflective, their conversations are intellectually stimulating.
They know all kinds of things to share with others. And there is something magical and
beautiful about someone who lights up and is energized by meaningful, intelligent conversations.
Well, that's the ten reasons why introverts are incredibly attractive people. Really cool
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