So what's it like feeling out of place in the world where you don't feel accepted by the people around you
You don't think that anything you do matters you think that every choice you make is irrelevant
You feel very insignificant and you feel like
Everyone around you is better you feel like no matter what you do in life that you're not getting any farther
that every choice you make is a mistake and
You regret the choices that you make and you feel like every choice that you end up making
Doesn't really matter in the end
There's always going to be times in life where people try to put you down
Or try to hold you back or they judge you because of your differences
But what you should do
Is look up keep your head up and keep moving forward
The people that want to bring you down and tell you that you can't achieve something is mainly out of jealousy
I know what it's like to feel out of place in the world to where it everyone around you feels like they're so different
You feel like you're not welcome you feel like
every place that you go you feel like the outcast you feel like someone that isn't welcome there to have
people that you think are your friends and
to see them push you away and to push you out of your their life and to
judge you for
Any differences that you have when it comes to a point in life to where you have friends that are pushing it away like that
You're gonna know who your friends are and who your friends aren't
It's the ones that stick around with these through tough times that actually care that will actually be there for you
when things get difficult and
I've made a lot of friends
I've lost a lot of friends and I'm grateful for the few that I have in my life and
The people that actually care about me
Not just because they have interest in talking to me because they want something
But because they have an interest in being my friend because they enjoy my company
They enjoy having conversations with me and to talk about things
Even if we have differences and to meet on mutual ground and to accept that we may have differences
but we can look past those and
To keep moving forward with our friendship and to not let that hold us back. I've had times with friends
at family events with
Even places that I've worked
To where I always felt like I was outcast that I wasn't welcome. I
think is he's tough times that we get to in our life to where we have people to train and judge us or
Tell us that we can't do things that separates the strong people from the weak
You have to keep moving forward in life and don't let people that tell you that you can't do something stop you from doing it
Everything is in your mind everything that you want to do in life and everything that is holding you back. It's truly in your mind
Sure, there are obstacles in life that may prevent us from getting where we want physically
It couldn't be a job. It could be what we're living it could be income
But we can all get out of those. You know, we can change them to an extent
But don't let what you're thinking and what's going on in your head and what people are telling you to control everything
He's gotta take control of your mind. And once you have control of your mind
You can always continue pursuing whatever it is that you want to do. You can keep pushing forward and keep trying
When people tell you that your hobby doesn't matter that your goals don't matter
It's usually people that are jealous of what you're doing
Or maybe they failed at something and they want to try and hold you back. They say they care about you
maybe it's a family member and
They want to see you go to safe route
They don't want to see you try to do something big in life or to follow big goals and go do things and life
They know
Might be a big risk, but with anything that is worth doing
there's always a big risk when I think of the safe route in life, you know the standard working nine to five and
doing
something that
Isn't very rewarding to me
You know
I mean I have been Jordan a lot of the jobs I've done and I have jobs that I have not enjoyed whatsoever
but don't make your
Life out to where you're just working 9:00 to 5:00 and coming home every day
Thinking to yourself. Well, what if what if I did this?
what if I need to pursue that goal what if I pursued this career and you let people around you and
Their opinions dictate who you are and who you become it doesn't matter what you want to do in life
Just because other people might not accept it or you feel out of place in the world
Don't let that dictate what you're gonna do in life going there for me. I always felt completely out of place
but all the difficult things that were happening
growing up and
Not having
People there that could really understand me or to teach me a lot of things. I
Had to learn about it on my own and I felt really out of place. I
had difficulty socializing with people and
You know in school, I'd never really had very many friends at all and the times I'll try to socialize I felt
So out of place I didn't really know what to say. I didn't know how to talk. I was afraid to just be myself
I was afraid that I would be judged for who I was because at home I had people telling me
That who I wasn't wrong and every time I tried to be myself
they would try to knock me down and to hold me back and
Every time we got into a social environment or around other people try to socialize
I felt very out of place. I felt like I wasn't welcome. I didn't even feel welcome in my own home
I didn't feel welcome at school and the few friends. I did have I tried to be myself
But I always felt like us holding back, you know, sometimes we regret things in life
you know you wish you do go back and change it you wish you can go back and um, you know,
Just be yourself and make a different choice
Though we can never go back
We have to accept any mistakes we make we have to accept our past. We have to accept who we are
because the first step and living in a world that doesn't accept you is accepting yourself and
taking ownership of your choices and your
responsibilities and
Not letting the mistakes that you've made in life
Or letting other people control you
Because when you're living in a world that doesn't accept you or maybe you are the outcast you're very different
The people are always gonna try and test that and it's gonna rise above that if you can keep pushing yourself and just be yourself
In a world just so different than what you are. You're gonna be a stronger person and
Every time a person tries to knock you down and tell you you can't do something you can rise above it you
Can keep doing it. Keep moving forward
So my advice if you're living in a world that doesn't accept you as a I've always felt in my life
Is just keep being yourself
If they don't accept it
So be it as long as you accept yourself
You keep doing the things that you enjoy
The things that gives you a purpose every day you wake up in the morning and that's another question ask yourself
When you wake up in the morning
What is it that motivates you to keep going spend some time to think about that if you don't have the answer yet?
Take some time and think about it
Why do you get up every morning? What passage do you have? What motivates you to keep going when you find that answer?
Then you can be yourself and do what you enjoy in life and don't let other people control who you are
And decide your future
Is your life you live it how you want it?
So no matter what if you feel out of place in the world that doesn't accept you if you feel like an outcast
Just be yourself. Do what you enjoy do what you find gives you purpose in life and I think from then on you'll be fine
Sure, you're gonna have struggles and obstacles overcome
But don't let that discourage you from moving forward
Just keeping yourself
And don't give up
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