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So Mae today decided she likes to rap. She made up a rap. She's going to share it

with us. Take it away. Welcome to unicorn land. It's

time. We're going to see unicorns around the land. Let me show you this place.

It's time to play my play. But first I'm gonna be singing a rap about you. You're the

unicorn I'm gonna be rapping about. So I'm going around. I'm going around. I'm

going on a walk. I'm rapping all day. I'm gonna do this right now. And so who

are you? You're not supposed to be like me. I'm not supposed to be a unicorn in

here. I'm not supposed to be a human. I'm the only one who should be a human here.

Not a unicorn. You are not a unicorn, so come on. I'm

gonna take you to the unicorn doctor. He'll fix you right up. Now go. Now I'm going to go and

play. It's time to go. where should we stay? It's time. Unicorns are the best

in the land. Where should we go? I don't know in this place. The end. The end?

That was awesome. High five. We missed. High five again. There we go. Good job.

For more infomation >> Unicorn Rap - Duration: 1:33.

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BoTalks - Lost Like Me (Lyric Video) - Duration: 3:34.

Tell me do you feel

La la la la lost like me

La la la la lost

La la la la lost like me

Tell me do you feel

La la la la lost like me

La la la la lost

La la la la lost like me

Do you feel lost sometimes, Tell me do you feel

And I feel lost sometimes

Cause I've been running

Do you feel lost sometimes

Tell me something

Tell me do you feel

La la la la lost like me

La la la la lost

La la la la lost like me

Tell me do you feel

La la la la lost like me

La la la la lost

La la la la lost like me

Do you feel lost sometimes, Tell me do you feel

And I feel lost sometimes

Cause I've been running

Do you feel lost sometimes

Tell me something

You know that I'm searching, Just like you

Show me you want me, I know that you do

Like it was last weekend, Put it on me

Get that body speaking, Get that body

I'm thinking maybe I should quit thinking bout you

When I'm thinking bout you

we do, I see indigos and violets

It gets louder love, and every time you and I rise above

I've made friends with the silence

Tell me do you feel

La la la la lost like me

La la la la lost

La la la la lost like me

Tell me do you feel

La la la la lost like me

La la la la lost

La la la la lost like me

Do you feel lost sometimes, Tell me do you feel

And I feel lost sometimes

Cause I've been running

Do you feel lost sometimes

Tell me something

You know that I'm searching, Just like you

Show me you want me, I know that you do

Like it was last weekend, Put it on me

Get that body speaking, Get that body

cause honestly I don't know what the f it is with you

Did you get the messages

With you, Unspoken but honest

My intelligence I think I'm at war with the elements

Emotions in conflict

For more infomation >> BoTalks - Lost Like Me (Lyric Video) - Duration: 3:34.

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Be The Woman You Always Wanted To Be - Duration: 1:50.

Be The Woman You Always Wanted To Be

Be The Woman You Always Wanted To Be

Be The Woman You Always Wanted To Be

Be The Woman You Always Wanted To Be

Be The Woman You Always Wanted To Be

For more infomation >> Be The Woman You Always Wanted To Be - Duration: 1:50.

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DIVINE 5 TOP 100 LION/VENGE BLUE SPAN DOTA 2 04/30/2018 DAILY STREAM 6AM PST - Duration: 10:50:22.

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Travelling through Iran. Be Open. Be Intrepid. - Duration: 2:20.

I imagined Iran being somewhat more conservative than what I found it

and very restrictive and when I arrived here it was so different than what I expected

I've never felt anything but really welcomed

when people walk past and talk to me in the street

they're just talking to you because they want to welcome you to their country

and they're generally just interested in who you are and where you come from

and that's not something I've experienced anywhere else

We also went up into the mountains for a village stay with a local family

and made this completely beautiful home cooked meal for us

As part of the village stay we made local bread with the mum

she made it look effortless and then when I sat opposite her trying to sort of copy what

she was doing I realised really quickly that it was actually quite difficult

But it was really really fun and they were really encouraging and there was lots of laughing

and it was a really great experience

My absolute favourite thing about Iran is the people

hands down the people the food's been amazing I must admit I do like food

but definitely the people the people are so warm, so hospitable

and just so kind

You can ask you know all sorts of questions about what it's really like

being an Iranian and how things are changing in society so it's been

fantastic to have people who are really quite open and willing to share things

about their life with you

I think more than ever now is the time for people to want to get out there and travel

to show people that you're not afraid to come somewhere in the Middle East

that you're open to their culture and to who they are

you

For more infomation >> Travelling through Iran. Be Open. Be Intrepid. - Duration: 2:20.

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Tucker Carlson Tonight 05/01/18 12AM | May 01, 2018 Breaking News - Duration: 33:54.

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The Ballerina - Movie - Duration: 1:46:11.

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How To Get Gaana Plus Free For Lifetime - Duration: 3:37.

hey what's up guys Hazet here back with another video so in this video I will be

showing you guys how to get the gana plus free for lifetime so if you don't

know what is the gana then let me tell you a little bit about it so Ghana is an

android application for streaming any songs for free they have a huge

collection of pretty much any language songs but with the free version you

can't download any songs so that's why in this video I will show you guys how

to get it ok so at the first all you gonna do just go to the Play Store and

download the gun app and now if you got that done make sure to sing in I am

already singing so now go back to the Play Store and now download another app

called parallel space link will be also in the description

okay after install the app open it up and make sure to make a clone for the

gun app

okay do after you've done that just exit it and now open any browser from your

phone and now search for temp mail on Google and open up the first link and

now copy the email and open the app parallel space and open up Ghana and now

all you gonna do just create a fake account using the email

okay now it has sent a OTP into the email all you have to do just go to the

mail and now copy the OTP and now open Ghana app and paste the OTP and submit

and continue then now your fake accounts will be ready so now click on this

option refer to win and scroll down and click on get referred and now exit this

app here and open your real gun app and also go to the refer to win option then

just copy your invite code and now go to the clone gun app and paste your refered

code and continue now exit the Ghana clone app and wait for an email on your

real account okay so as you guys can see I just get a mail so open it up and as

you guys can see Ghana had sent me coupon code for 30 days for joining a

friend with my invite code so now all I gonna do copy the code and now open your

real gun app go to coupons and now paste the coupon code and continue and as you

guys can't see my subscription has changed that's mean I get gone a premium

for 30 days now I can download any songs from here and also can streaming in the

best quality but forgetting it for lifetime you need to do this step one

time in every month and then you will be able to get the Ghana plus for lifetime

ok guys so thanks for watching this video if you like this video give this

video a big thumbs up share with your friends and please subscribe must

because that's what I need right now these guys

For more infomation >> How To Get Gaana Plus Free For Lifetime - Duration: 3:37.

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AP Explains: The proposed Sprint and T-Mobile $26.5B deal - Duration: 4:48.

Sprint and T-Mobile are talking up their $26.5 billion combination as great for high-speed wireless investments, rural service and U.S. competitiveness. But there are reasons to doubt the deal would do much on any of those fronts – and that it could also result in higher wireless costs for consumers.

The deal announced Sunday would combine the nation's third- and fourth-largest wireless companies and bulk them up to a similar size as Verizon and AT&T, the industry giants.

Here's a look at how the deal might affect your phone bill and prospects for better service.

For more infomation >> AP Explains: The proposed Sprint and T-Mobile $26.5B deal - Duration: 4:48.

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MAKE ANARDANA IN JUST 1 HOUR AT HOME | صرف ایک گھنٹے میں اناردانہ بنائیں - Duration: 3:48.

alam-o-alaikum

How are all?

Do you like aanar dana (pomegranate seeds dried)?

It is sweet and sour.

Its taste is so good in chuntnies, chaat and pakoras.

And it is the basic ingredient of potato paratha.

But the problem with locoal aanar dana is.

Frist, it is not clean. Second, it is preserved with artificial preservers.

Due to this, it is unhealthy.

The easy way to get rid of these things is, very simple. Prepare it at home.

Believe me, it is prepared within a few minutes and much more tasty than local pomegranate dry seeds.

Today, I am going to share a recipe of instant dry pomegranate seeds (aanar dana).

After preparing this at home, you will like other local pomegranate dry seeds.

Infect, prepare the pomegranate seed is very long and tough process, but we have made them so easy for you.

So, here is it 100 pages recipe card.

We need two red pomegranates.

White vinegar, one tablespoon.

And… that's all….

One of the very important ingredients in it is….. Pomegranate.

So, first of all, buy the pomegranate from the market.

Focus that the pomegranate is fresh and not addle or rotten from any side.

Try to buy that kind of pomegranate, which seeds are red and sour.

Seeds must be big in size and must be softened from inside.

The best kind for this, is a red pomegranate (kandhari pomegranate).

Wash pomegranate first, then peel it.

Before peel, wash is better to remove dust or spray on it.

Don't press its seed and peel them gently, so it remains in full size.

Clean all fleshy mesocrap.

So, let's start.

Turn on stove on normal flame and put a nonstick pan or nonstick karahi on it and put the seed in it.

If you have both, pan and karahi then karahi is best for it.

Because it is much easy to dry them in it.

Nonstick is important because in other pan it sticks.

As start the stove process, get ready, because it is very important to stir it continuously.

Don't worry. It would not take a long time to prepare.

But you should must stand along with the stove.

In the beginning, pomegranate seeds release their juice.

Stir it with a wooden spoon with some pauses.

Keep the flame medium or low high.

Stir with wooden spoon continuously.

Keep in mind, as it is going to be ready.

It becomes sticky.

And obviously, you will have to stir the wooden spoon as fast.

If you don't stir spoon, it will burn. And all will be spoil.

When I tried it for the first time. Same happened.

Don't dry them full.

Only seeds don't seem good.

I keep them some juice, so it tastes so good.

And my kids also like it as yummy.

But if you like totally dry, then keep it some more minutes on stove.

As you feel that the color has been changed and the seed are shrink according to your taste.

Then put one Tablespoon vinegar and stir and immediately turn off the stove.

Let it be cool for a few minutes.

So, the best aanar dana is ready.

Taste it yourself before give it to someone.

Hmmmm…. It is so yummy and awesome taste.

And the very tasty thing in it is, you can use it from now.

And … don't eat all during taste because it's so tasty.

Keep it in a glass jar and save it in the refrigerator.

Glass jar and fridge temperature is very important for it. Hot temperature may it spoil.

Local aanar dana (pomegranate seeds) don't addle due to artificial preservers.

So, no matter, there is pakora, raita, or chutney.

In which you put this, you will really enjoy the awesome taste.

If you like this recipe, share it. Like this recipe, share it.

I will have been uploaded to make the taste easier on this cooking channel.

So, subscribe my channel.

And don't forget to give a like for this video.

Let me go for another healthy recipe.

Allah hafiz.

For more infomation >> MAKE ANARDANA IN JUST 1 HOUR AT HOME | صرف ایک گھنٹے میں اناردانہ بنائیں - Duration: 3:48.

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#9: Whether You Think You Can, Or You Think You Can't - You're Right with Dr. Rob Fazio - Duration: 50:29.

Voice-over: Congratulations, you are in the right place at the right time.

This is the Summon Courage, Change Everything podcast with Matthew Levy.

An inspiring interview with a guest who has achieved big goals in life and work and who

will divulge their secrets to success.

Today, now, the man behind the microphone, Matt Levy.

Matthew Levy: Hello, Summon Courage, Change Everything community.

I'm Matthew Levy, the host of the Summon Courage, Change Everything podcast.

If you like what you hear, please help spread the word in your networks with a five-star

review or the equivalent.

I'm so pleased to have Dr. Rob Fazio joining us for this episode.

Let me tell you a little bit about Rob.

He is the managing partner at OnPoint advising, specializing in global leadership and organizational

success.

Rob partners with leaders and top teams and organizations to empower them to grow while

achieving results.

Based on his experiences in sports psychology and executive development, he teaches clients

how to remove barriers to organizational effectiveness and to function at optimal levels.

Rob has worked with executive teams and coached executives throughout organizations including

the c-suite, surgeons, and emerging leaders.

Rob is also that author of Simple Is the New Smart, and he's developed the Motivational

Currency Calculator which is a self-assessment that reveals what drives people, how well

someone can read another person's motivators, and how effective someone is at using the

best approach to tap into someone's motivators.

Rob, welcome to the show.

I've been looking forward to our conversation.

Dr. Robert Fazio: I am too, Matt.

It's great to be with you.

Matt: Let's start, get the audience a little bit familiar with your background.

Tell us a little bit about your upbringing and how, ultimately, that may have impacted

your career decision and lead us up to what you are doing these days?

Rob: Sure.

Upbringing-wise, I think what's most relevant is I grew up in Northern New Jersey, about

20 minutes from New York City, so I had the benefit of being in the suburbs with access

to New York City.

It was almost a little bit a combination of grit and grace.

You had trees and then you got exposure to diversity of New York City which I really

enjoyed.

We were a typical northern New Jersey family where you played sports and academics were

also important.

You got exposed to different things.

I think that the coolest thing was the block I grew up on was a double dead end, so we

got to play all the sports we wanted without the rush.

At the same time, I had cousins and family in Queens, New York, so every other weekend

we'd go to New York, and we'd be playing football on the middle of 93rd Street across Bay Boulevard

which is completely different than having to catch on a lawn.

Matt: Great.

Tell us a little bit more.

How did you wind up in the career path that you ultimately selected?

Rob: It was pretty intentional believe it or not.

I always enjoyed learning about people, and it actually is partially because I used to

get in trouble as a kid for not saying hello to my parent's friends when we go to family

visits or friends visits because I was just socially awkward or worried about things.

Most people got intrigued by this whole aspect of how do people act and behave, and what's

that all about.

One day, my babysitter had a book.

It said psychology on it.

This was maybe grammar school or somewhere around high school, and I said, "That sounds

really interesting."

Then I went down the path of psychology and sports psychology and learning about athletes

and top performance and then further went on to doing that in the business world.

Matt: Ultimately, also, to get a Ph.D. now, a lot of people have aspirations to do that,

Rob, and they hit a derailer along the way someway or another.

Was this as significant of an achievement as it sounds like to most people?

Rob: It was for me in many ways.

I've realized along the way I was my biggest derailer.

I would continually hold myself back because I'd be worried about something or concerned

about something, and even the messages I got from professors-- I started at a small school

in New York and then transferred to Penn State.

I didn't have that traditional cognitive IQ academic prestige if you will.

A lot of people were straight with me, and they said, "Look, Rob, I don't think that

getting a doctorate is going to be in your real house and that fueled my fire, and I

knew why I wanted to find a way to do it and made a decision in undergrad that I was going

to find a way to do it, and I did.

Matt: That's interesting.

In some ways, you were being dissuaded from following that path?

Rob: Yes, no one was doing it intentionally, but the messages that I got along the way

was, "You're really not cut from the same cloth as a Ph.D." or "You're not going to

be able to get the GPA or the GREs, and there's a cut off of 1200."

The messages that I got was that I wasn't of that caliber which just made my fire burn

a little hotter.

Matt: Was there a time when you started to doubt yourself?

Rob: Yes, absolutely.

I doubted myself a lot, and the biggest buffer to doubt is your friends that believe more

in you than you believe in yourself.

I have one friend when I was going to my first master's program in athletic counseling in

Springfield College who said, "You're definitely going to get in."

I said, "No I'm not."

At the time, I was focusing on being healthy, and he goes, "I'll bet you a plate of cheese

fries, you're going to get in this program."

I had to eat a plate of cheese fries, but, yes, absolutely.

Matt: Interesting, interesting.

Along the way, I guess, at some point, you did have what you might call a w2 job, is

that right?

A steady paycheck from an established firm?

Rob: Yes, yes.

I worked for the Hay Group in Center City, Philly in their corporate headquarters.

I was deciding between New York Metro office and Philadelphia, and once I got through grad

school I really wanted to go there because they had a lot of research and focus on emotional

intelligence.

That was what I had done my dissertation on, and that was my target firm which I went after.

Matt: That leads us right into the conversation that you ultimately decide to leave that comfort

zone, that safety nest of a regular paycheck and break out into roles, one way or another,

that required you to hunt and kill in order to be paid.

Rob: Yes, absolutely.

After Hay Group, I went to a smaller firm which is called LRI which was a firm that

years ago Marshall Goldsmith had started, and it grew into something else.

I was there for eight years and had a great experience.

I always knew that I enjoyed working with senior executives and, let's say, strong personalities

at the top of the house.

That's something I was always been passionate about.

I got to a place where I love autonomy, I love thought leadership, and I really enjoy

being able to create your own path.

That's when I decided to take the leap of faith.

Though there's the element of you've got to be willing to give some things up when you

start your own firm or business, it's about also a combination of your support systems,

people that believe on you as well as you have to have that business network.

You're never going to be 100% and there's no safety net, but my biggest inspiration

was my wife and she's like, "What are you waiting for?

Go do this."

That was the deciding factor.

Matt: Yes, sure.

You need that support system, but even with that, Rob, isn't there concerns like, "How

am I going to pay my mortgage?

What if my phone doesn't ring?"

How did you wrestle with those "normal fears" I would call them?

Rob: Yes, absolutely.

I started my own firm, as I was getting engaged and selling a house in Philadelphia, finding

a house, there was a time for eight months where I shared my office with my infant daughter,

Reese.

You have all those fears and all those times where you're not sure.

All you can do is increase your probability of success.

I think that I'm always a little bit anxious around adding value, and I think that's been

a helpful differentiator around making sure that when I do something with the client,

that it's going to be helpful and add value to their business.

[music] Matt: It's interesting, Rob.

Being lucky enough to be with you when you made this decision to create your own firm,

I remember saying, "Come on.

It's a no-brainer.

You got this.

This is perfect."

Isn't it interesting that sometimes in life everyone else has this supreme confidence,

but in our own heart of hearts, we lack that confidence?

Why do you think that is?

Rob: You were absolutely there with me as I was going through transition.

I think it's when you have a responsibility that you want to other people, so a mortgage

or to a spouse, it's more difficult to take those leaps of faith.

As well as the insecurity always comes in to play.

Those things that I talked about before, sometimes fears like, "Am I smart enough?

Am I good enough?"

Those type of thoughts that enter into what you do, and I think it takes some work on

ourselves to say, "Okay, if I have those insecurities or potential challenges, let me be smart about

it and try to build enough money up and enough relationships up so I could do this in the

right way."

It takes time and being intentional and strategic.

I know those are buzz words, but [unintelligible 00:11:45] a lot of work on the front end,

and being sure you have the confidence, and the competence to match that confidence is

really what got me there.

Matt: Interesting, Rob.

We all have these limiting beliefs, these self-doubts, but isn't step one to acknowledge

that those are what they are in the first place?

Rob: Acknowledging to yourself and other people.

I have conversations about limitations I put on myself all of the times.

One of my biggest pet peeves is people who get advice from people that shouldn't be giving

advice.

I vet people that give me advice.

My wife's one, other friends, other colleagues, but I just think that acknowledging it and

then also making sure that you're pushing through that, or as one of my colleagues said,

"Leaning into that discomfort."

It's never a slam dunk, but if you can get out of the way of yourself, good things can

happen.

[chuckles] Matt: Good and we're going to explore some

of that some more for sure, Rob.

One of the things I talk about in the podcast is what I call the D.R.E.A.M. action plan

where each of those letters stands for something really important to help people achieve big

goals in life and work.

The first one is D, devotion.

This concept that, really, to overcome adversity, to live a full life, one really should think

about what is their destiny, what is their purpose.

Do you subscribe to this notion that that's an important concept?

If so, how do you apply it to your own life and your own work?

Rob: I think it is an important concept.

The only slight pivot I'd make to that is I'm a big believer in "we create our own path"

and so, I try to be very disciplined about my destiny and make it that it's somewhere

I want to be as opposed to somewhere I just end up.

That aspect of being disciplined and really having clearly focused priorities that we

go after.

In my business life I'm very intentional, and then there are things that just happen

in the world and in your life that are great connections and things that add value to your

business life as well as your home life.

Matt: It was Nietzsche, I guess, that said, "He who has a 'why' in life can bear anyhow,"

right?

This is one of those concepts, so just say a little bit more, if you would, about the

importance of people finding out their purpose or doing some work in that area at least.

Rob: I think that finding a purpose is really important.

Sometimes I think we overemphasize the whole idea of "why" and we get caught up in that.

There's some great research that was done at UCLA around looking at different groups

of people where they talked about, "Okay.

Think about what it feels like to be successful as opposed to think about how you're going

to be successful."

I'm personally more of a how person than a why person, and I'm always connected to the

work that I do, but I'm very big on like, "How am I going to get to where I want to

go?"

I also get purpose in areas outside of my work, but inside of my work, I think a lot

of my purpose comes from growing up and seeing my dad working in New York City in long hours

and working, at times, for really bad bosses.

One of my little secrets around this executive advising thing is I know if I help a senior

executive be a better influencer and more effective, the people below that person are

going to have better lives, and when those people go home, they have a better family

life.

Matt: Absolutely.

Seeing as that you brought up your dad, and seeing as that we've talked a little bit about

adversity, would you be open to sharing a little bit about that?

Rob: Absolutely.

As you know, my dad was a great man.

He was in the Twin Towers on 9/11, and he was on the 99th floor.

He was one of the original people to happen to see the first plane going into Tower One,

and while he was watching that-- He was a very quiet person, but somehow became a leader

at that moment and told people- he was in Tower Two - to leave the towers and go home.

He was adamant about people that were trying to come back up.

One of the things that people told us about him in those last moments of life was that

he was holding a door to help people.

That's been a huge inspiration and way for us to feel connected to his story.

Unfortunately, he didn't make it home safe, but we know that he did a lot to help other

family members get home safe.

That's an element of pride we have in our dad that he was there for other people and

just a simple act of holding a door and helping those people in those moments has lived on

with me in my whole life as well as work.

Matt: What is one of the legacies that you've been able to continue?

Rob: I think that the biggest thing is this whole idea of holding the door and putting

others first and helping people.

In parallel to my work life, we have a nonprofit called Hold The Door For Others, and that's

really where we help people grow through trauma and crisis and use that as the catalyst for

growth because we know that people can grow into rightfully so understandably dark places

when they lose a loved one, whether it's related to 9/11 or it's related to a sickness, or

a car accident.

A big legacy from my dad is this nonprofit that we've developed.

Believe it or not, a lot of what I learned for the last 16 years or so in the non-profit

world and doing this is a lot of what I do is with the executives I work with; I just

use different language.

[music] Matt: We're going to put it in the show notes

but just verbally for those that are listening how can people find out more about the nonprofit?

Rob: Our website is holdthedoor.com.

All of our resources, so we have resources on sudden loss and adversity, we have a resource

at the self-awareness tool, everything is free and downloadable on holdthedoor.com,

or we could send hard copies to people.

That's really part of our passionate purpose for that.

The Fazio family as well as a lot of our friends keeping that alive.

What really is fascinating is, I mentioned before, how quiet and gentle a person my dad

was, his legacy is really loud which makes us proud.

Matt: That's terrific.

Wow.

You helped me greatly, Rob, when I had that near-death experience that listeners are familiar

with.

Part of the reason why I wanted you a part of that story, that situation, was just knowing

how you had handled your own adversity and just felt that you could really be a strength

to me, and I really appreciate that.

I guess that's a segue into, what advice do you have for others that are dealing with

their own type of adversity whether it's the type that you went through or the type that

I went through?

Rob: Whether it's business or life, there's always going to be speed bumps and roadblocks

and really difficult things.

I've always been a believer of if you think through things almost like worst case scenarios

and it sounds terrible, but let's take an executive thinking through if they got fired

or laid off and to bring it back to my Dad after 26 years of being a senior executive,

he got laid off out of the blue.

What I learned from him was to be really smart about the relationships that you keep and

not letting your ego take you over and making sure that you're smart about your entrance

as well as your exits.

Now, he never said that to me, but I learned that through his behaviors, and that's the

reason why he was able to land another job even though it took a year later.

Seeing him go through that was a big factor, and I think that when I talk with executives,

and I work with them, it's all about being transparent and laying things on the table.

I guess the best piece of advice I give to people that go through adversity is "go in

and deal with it."

Go into the eye of the storm and think about all the things that are upsetting to you because

that adversity is going to manifest in some way, and you might as well have some control

over that as opposed to it manifesting in a way you don't want such as health or getting

blindsided by something else.

Matt: I want to get right back to that point in a second, but before we leave the topic

of your Dad, what was the best piece of advice that he ever gave you?

Rob: He wasn't a give advice type of guy.

It was more of just what he did.

I would say the best piece of advice gave me through his actions was "be there."

Although he was an executive in New York, he was always there for friends.

Whether they were moving or something was going on or a friend that was dealing with

some kind of adversity, he was just present.

He wasn't the person that was giving advice or leading the way, but he was always present

and supportive, and that has really lived on in me as a constant reminder of, it sounds

so simplistic, and it is, but not spreading yourself so thin that you can be there for

people that count and be helpful because nothing replaces being present and being there.

Matt: Yes, well, I can assure our listeners that you do live and breathe that every day.

Rob: Thanks, Matt.

Thank you.

Matt: Absolutely.

I want to double click a little bit on the book, Simple Is the New Smart.

I have my trusty copy right here.

It's dog-eared and highlighted.

Tell us a little bit more about how this project came to be, and then I do want to ask you

a specific question about one of the frameworks that you share in the book.

Rob: Sure.

Much like when you asked how did you get into psychology and business, it was one of those

hurdles where I wasn't sure I could do it, but I knew I would be able to do it.

It was a dream of mine and something I always wanted to do.

There's a big barrier to getting a publisher, and so I had gotten a lot of no's.

It was something I always wanted to do, and my family and wife was very supportive and

helpful in the process.

I wanted to have a book that simplified a lot of the academic stuff that was out there.

Yes, I went to a Ph.D. program, but I'm not your traditional Ph.D. [chuckles] You can

ask any of my classmates or friends.

I appreciate the research, however, I'm not a researcher; I'm more of a connector, influencer.

I'm all about the practical aspect of research, and that's where I really get inspired.

Simple Is the New Smart is about taking things that have some theory or practice to them

or based on experiences working with executives, and my whole rule is that something that can

be applied right now.

That's what I really got excited about in writing the book.

Matt: You mentioned that it was a dream of yours, it's a dream of mine, and I just totally

admire people that have a dream and make it happen.

How did you go from "I'd never have the time to do it.

I don't know what to say.

Nobody's going to publish it.

Blah, blah, blah."?

How did you go from that to this?

Rob: Well, part of it was the decision point.

I had this belief in that, it's critical to have one primary area of focus.

There's a difference between priorities and preferences, and I have a lot of preferences

and things I want to accomplish, and I made the decision that "Okay, this book's going

to get done."

So every day until I got the book publisher to say yes, I was doing things, I'd make a

long list, and I was doing things that would help me move towards that.

I also have to say a woman named Grace Killelea that wrote the book, The Confidence Effect,

she guided me in the process and was a big support system and helped with that as well.

It was a combination of people support and that constant focus of this is my number one

priority.

Matt: Awesome.

Well, it's a gift that a lot of people are taking advantage of including myself.

Rob: Thank you.

Thank you.

Matt: One of the frameworks that you discussed in the book is the pathway to ownership.

I talk about that all the time in my own practice, in my keynote speeches because I think it's

so important.

Would you be willing to give a quick overview on what that is, and why it's important?

Rob: Yes, the whole idea of the pathway to ownership comes down to while there are so

many things going on in the world and at work and in your family, my belief is that it comes

down to you and what you're willing to do and what you're committed to doing, so this

idea, mindset of we can-- Pardon the example here, if you fold a piece of paper in half

and then you open it up and then you look at it, it's going to likely fold back to the

way it was originally.

The whole idea of pathway to ownership is not falling into that trap of the way you've

always thought and taking ownership of things.

I like ownership better than accountability especially in the states because accountability

tends to be about blame, and ownership, for me, is more about doing something and taking

action.

It's all about "What can I do differently as opposed to pointing fingers?"

I'll tell you this, Matt, it's not that easy to do.

I find myself, a lot of times, falling back into that victim mindset of "What's happening

to me?" about even just simple things like the weather, and having those reminders is

really, really important.

Matt: What I love about it is that there's a decision point when the shit hits the fan,

and it seems that a lot of people don't realize that there's even a decision to be made.

Could you just expound on that key point a little bit more?

Rob: Yes, a lot of it goes back to acknowledging that we have a choice to make between stimulants

and reactions, so some of your basic years-old psychology.

I think the key is reminding ourselves of that, so whatever you need to do to hit the

pause button, that is the key.

Thinking before you act and acting on what you think is critical.

I do simple things.

Sometimes, I just have a post-it on my computer with a little reminder.

Rob: For years, I had the letters VCU on my computer because I never thought I'd be able

to get into their doctoral program.

That moving more towards of "Gosh, I'm never going to be able to do this," that's the victim

because I don't have this type of intelligence to "What am I going to do to get into the

school?"

Little triggers or reminders of that are big because we know about our minds is that has

that snowball effect of once we go down a certain path, it'll pick up momentum, and

to be quite frank I have to catch myself or a lot of times other people can catch me if

I go down that path and remind me of like, "Hey, if you're going to talk about this stuff,

you got to live it."

Matt: Right.

Otherwise, the paper folds right back on itself, right?

Rob: Precisely.

Matt: Our resolve, to me it's a lot about goal setting and obviously, you know how to

do that, Rob.

You coach your clients to do that.

That's how you've accomplished all these things that we've been discussing.

What are your thoughts in general about the importance of goal setting, and how do you

stick to them?

Rob: What I found interesting about goal setting is I often don't use the terms goal setting

because clients are fatigued about the idea of goal setting.

I try to take an approach of where "Okay, what do you want to accomplish?

What success look like for you?" and talk that way.

I do the goal setting oftentimes more in the background where I know what leads successful

goals, but I'm not always playing out a worksheet or something saying "Okay, is it specific?

Is it measurable?"

It's more of I do that only and integrate it, and I'll let them know that I'm vetting

what they talk through and creating those steps.

Two things for me is, one is it has to be something that they're invested in as well

as that adds value to the company that they're working with, and the second thing is it has

to be something where they're willing to give something up in order to accomplish it.

I think that that has has been a helpful recipe.

Matt: For example, in writing a book you'll hear a lot of authors speak about how they

had the goal of writing a certain number of words per day or week.

Is that type of goal setting to get you to an endpoint? is that something that you would

subscribe to?

Rob: Yes, I think that type of thing is important but also realizing that in order to do that

you need to think through what you're going to give up in order to do that.

In goal setting, we often put more on people's plates, but I also want to make sure that

people are taking something off their plate in order to fit that priority there.

In the writing of my book, I would walk as many days a week to the Penn Bookstore, and

that's where I wrote.

I knew and my wife knew that I had this a lot of time and that was me dedicated to my

book writing.

Now when you're writing a book, your revenue can go down.

You have to plan for that as well, and so that discipline in saying, "Okay, I'm going

to be okay with this month making X amount of money or not."

I'm talking in a small business like I am as opposed to a big Fortune 500 company.

If you're the CEO, there's different parameters but for me, it was about "Will I give up revenue

to get more revenue later on and have that discipline up go to the Penn Bookstore and

writing?"

[music] Matt: Perfect segue into the E which is about

energy and this concept that when you say yes to something, you're automatically saying

no to something else.

You started to touch on it a little bit already, but what are some techniques then that one

could employ to not just have themselves so busy that they're not working on the right

things and not accomplishing their goals?

Rob: Yes.

It's very interesting how people think that task completion equals value.

It's absolutely the opposite.

I, on a daily basis, will prioritize what I [inaudible 00:35:25].

I'm an index card ninja, so I use index cards all the time.

I have some color code, really simple, like green is my top priority.

If something goes on a green index card on the day, it's getting done that day probably

within and out.

That's the way I go through it.

The second thing for me, Matt, is I don't check email first every day.

I really believe in doing something that is associated with your priority or thing you

really want to accomplish before you get pulled into the email drain and the reactive mindset.

I totally get that people have bosses and priorities, but then I say wake up 15 minutes

earlier or do something so you can do something that energizes you towards what you want to

accomplish before you get in that have-to mode.

Matt: That's terrific.

In terms of morning routines, a lot of the gurus and the pundits would say journal, meditate,

gratitude, exercises.

I may be saying it in such a way that I'm disputing it, in fact, I deploy some of those

myself.

Did you have any thoughts about that morning routine?

Rob: I believe in mindfulness, and I think it's important.

I come from a sports psychology background where I use and have used imagery.

The ones built differently, I'm a get it a done guy.

I'm a wake-up, get it done for it, and that's just me.

I think that what works for you is the most important.

Matt: Excellent.

Attitude, the A in D.R.E.A.M. is for attitude.

The power of a positive mindset.

What are your thoughts about the importance of that to have the courage, to live successfully?

Rob: What we know is that we can create new pathways by controlling our thinking, and

it's tough.

You look at the literature on emotional intelligence and how our emotional brains are built first,

in the moment, it's so tough to not get caught up in that.

I still go back to the simplifying.

I use a lot of sports psychology techniques such as having a keyword or a trigger word

that makes you reset your mindset to think more positively because what we know is if

you try to just fight your thoughts or ignore them, that doesn't work.

I believe in moving in rather than moving on.

Let your thought come in, feel it, and let it pass and then get back to neutral however

that is.

If it's deep breathing, imagery, a cue word, watching a Youtube video, or something to

reset yourself and then refocus, I think is key.

Matt: Love it.

The M is about mastery.

The concept of continuous learning and continuous self-improvement.

What are some of the things that you do, Rob, to continue to sharpen your own saw?

Rob: I talk to a lot of people that do things that I don't do.

I have a person in Philadelphia that's the head of a large growth-oriented, private equity

firm, and I've developed a relationship over the years, and he's been phenomenal just having

lunch with me once a quarter to learn about the private equity world because it's not

something that I grew up in.

I learn a lot through conversations, talking to people, asking questions.

I use searches on Youtube a lot.

The whole blockchain phenomenon and everything when I want to learn about that.

What's key for me is multiple sources because everyone's got a point of view who can find

research on what their agenda is and it's about you making your own decisions based

on multiple sources.

Matt: While we're talking about mastery, a lot of people, if they believe in coaching,

will hire a coach.

You're one; I'm doing the work as well.

What's your thought overall on the importance of coaching, and from there, what are some

things that a potential coachee, someone who's willing to hire a coach, should be thinking

about?

Rob: I lean more on the side of advising as opposed to pure coaching.

Part of my work with people, I'm coaching, and I'm using some skills from psychology,

and understanding, and influencing, I probably lean more towards a side of giving a point

of view and advising.

I think that the value that I've heard from clients is "I'm not afraid to do the straight

talk."

I work with a lot of strong personalities, such as surgeons, or CEOs, or people that

people are afraid to give truth to, and the combination of being able to sit in the room

and tell how it is as well as listen and understand their perspective and story and being versatile,

working within that person's business context or what's important to them is important.

I'm sorry, Matt, what was the second part of the question?

Matt: Right, Rob, it was just about if people are looking for an advisor or a coach, what

are some things that they should be thinking about?

Rob: One thing that I think often gets overemphasized in the wrong way is fit.

I don't think you should necessarily always work with the person that you click with or

connect with the best because the likeability factor, while important, it should be more

about the value they can add.

What I try to talk with clients, when I'm advising them on selecting a coach or advisor,

is "Yes, the connection and the likeability is important," also think about, "Are they

confident enough to give you a different point of view than your own and stand up to you?"

I think that's probably the biggest factor.

Matt: Right.

If all they do is tell you what you want to hear, you don't need a coach for that or an

advisor for that.

Rob: Then it's just a comfortable conversation [inaudible 00:42:55] more than that.

Matt: Excellent.

As we wind down, I got a couple of quick hitting questions for you, if you don't mind.

Rob, how about this.

What three things would you take along with you to a desert island, and family is disqualified?

Rob: Family and you are disqualified, so I'll go from there?

[chuckles] I would say if there was a way to take the Internet because you're able to

be connected to other people.

Two is some form of entertainment, so you're keeping your mind engaged and enjoyable.

The third thing would be a mystery.

My daughter is big into Mickey and Minnie Mouse now, and they have that thing "Toodles"

I see every day, that big question mark "Toodles in life, what would that third thing be?"

I don't know, it's a question mark.

Matt: [laughs] Okay.

How about a hat that provides some shade?

Rob: I'm actually an expert at the exfoliating after I go out at the golf course and get

burned, so I'm good.

I'm used to that by now.

Matt: On a more serious note, what advice would you give to your 21-year-old self?

Rob: I would say, "Do what you did," and the only caveat I have that is, "Do it earlier.

Build relationships sooner, find your confidence sooner, appreciate others sooner, and realize

that it's not just about what's going on in your own head, it's also about what's going

on in other people, and realize that you can be a bridge and help other people unleash

excellence for themselves and get to a different level."

Matt: Excellent.

Thank you for that.

I'm big into motivational quotes.

I know that some people might think that they're clich�s, but they're good reminders for

me, a little bit like what you put on your computer as reminders for yourself.

With that as a backdrop, is there one particular quote that you might want to put on a billboard,

so you could get that message out to as many people as possible?

Rob: Yes.

Henry Ford's quote is my favorite which is, "If you think you can or you think you can't,

you're right."

That to me just really sums up a lot of all this, the things that we're talking about.

Matt: That's great.

Henry Ford was the one that said, "The key to a successful life is to figure out what

your destiny is, and then do it."

You're taking issue with that one but-- Rob: Listen, I don't have a Ford, so it's

okay.

[laughs] Matt: Right, that's good.

It's the power of your mindset once again.

Rob: Absolutely.

You raised a good point though, Matt.

It's diversity of thinking as well.

We don't have to agree with everything that someone says, it's the pieces of what they

say.

We get too caught up in this binary of like/dislike, but I think, even people that we don't like,

there's probably value that they can add in our lives, but we block that because we disagree

or don't like them.

Matt: Interesting.

Is there any other thought, idea, or any other comment that you might want to share with

the audience?

Rob: Something I've been doing a lot of work on is, we talk a lot about motivation, and

I've studied it for years, and I wanted to have something that's practical yet has some

theoretical underpinning to it.

You and I have talked about this idea of motivational currency before which puts people into boxes

or colors or things like that, so this idea of motivational currency, where people are

driven by different things like performance, people, power, and purpose.

All I'm saying here is that realizing that people are diversified and have more complexity

to them rather than just being one way, I think that that's an important message for

us to realize and to leverage.

Matt: Thanks, Rob.

Let's be clear about it.

You developed an assessment that you call "Motivational Currency Calculator," is it?

Rob: Yes, absolutely.

Developed that, and it's where there's three aspects to it which is recognizing, reading,

and leading.

The first part is a general self-assessment, looks at what motivates you and drives you.

Then, what I like about it is there's a skill base to it, so there's a place where you have

to determine what other people's motivators are, what drives them.

The third part is how to lead according to people's primary motivators.

The whole theory is that if you start with what people's primary motivators are, or motivates

them, they'll be more open to your message, and you might be able to influence them more

effectively.

Matt: Excellent.

This leads us into how can people learn more about the Motivational Currency Calculator,

how can they get in touch with you if they'd like to follow up?

Rob: Yes.

Onpointadvising.com is our website.

You can go there, there are a number of free resources as well, under insights there's

articles and different blogs there, and there're also examples of different situations of working

with people, and I think some good resources that might be helpful.

Matt: That's great, Rob.

Thanks so much for joining us today.

I really appreciate you sharing your stories, your frameworks, your background with the

audience.

I know I learned a lot, and I'm sure those listening did as well.

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I'm really excited to have Raymond Lee joining us for this episode.

Raymond Lee is founder and CEO of Careerminds, which he launched in 2008, as a virtual outplacement

company.

He brings over 18 years of human resources leadership, career consulting, and outplacement

experience to Careerminds.

The concept of a virtual outplacement was developed by Raymond after experiencing years

of traditional outplacement in a variety of HR roles.

When he started the company in 2008, he had one goal in mind.

To create an outplacement program that was forward-thinking to reduce the stress employees

face during a career transition.

Raymond holds a master's degree in IO psychology from Louisiana Tech University and a bachelor's

degree in psychology.

Welcome, Raymond, to the show.

I've been really looking forward to our conversation.

Raymond Lee: Thanks, Matt, I'm glad to be here.

Matthew: We're going to have some fun, Raymond, talking about how to summon the courage to

achieve big goals in work and life.

What I'd like to do is start out by asking you a little bit about your upbringing and

how that ultimately influenced your career direction.

Raymond: Matt, I'm really happy to be here.

When I think about my upbringing, my parents actually were both entrepreneurs.

They were business owners themselves.

My parents separated at a young age.

My mom actually raised me.

She was a school teacher when I was a young kid.

After raising two young boys, realized that she wasn't going to be able to do it on a

teaching salary.

She went out on her own and was a court reporter.

After about 10 years of working as a court reporter, she went out and started her own

company.

She hired other court reporters and started her own firm and became really successful

with that.

As I grew up, I got a chance to see my parents and their entrepreneurial spirit and their

passion for what they believed in.

I would say that that certainly had an influence on myself when I was growing up as a little

kid.

Matthew: Interesting.

This was in Louisiana, was it?

Raymond: Yes.

I currently live outside of Philadelphia.

I did, I grew up right outside of New Orleans.

I lived there for about 20 years before moving to the Northeast and getting married and starting

a family.

Matthew: Yes, it's always about the spouse, right?

Raymond: Sometimes, absolutely.

I'll tell you, she's been fantastic, especially starting Careerminds 10 years ago.

She's been a great supporter.

We're now 16 years married with two great kids.

One 14, my daughter, and I have a son that's 7.

They both have birthdays in April coming up.

Matthew: That's great.

We will talk a bit later about the importance of that type of support system, for sure.

How did you wind your way, career-wise, to HR?

I definitely want to hear the story about Careerminds, of course.

That's a central part of the story, I know.

Raymond: Yes, absolutely.

When I was in high school, I had a guidance counselor tell me early on that she thought

I'd be a great psychologist.

I was always helping my friends with relationships and personal problems, and all that kind of

stuff.

This guidance counselor told me, "You'd be great at being a psychologist."

That stuck with me because I went up to college and got my undergraduate degree in psychology.

I did an internship in my senior year at a hospital.

After a couple of weeks, I quickly realized that being in medicine and healthcare wasn't

the field for me.

I got into industrial-organizational psychology, which, as you know, is the study of behavior

in the workplace.

That's where I was introduced to assessments and testing, which is really synonymous to

human behavior, organizational behavior.

I graduated with master's in IO psychology from Louisiana Tech.

I started my career in HR from that standpoint about 15 years in a variety of different roles,

different industries.

That's how I got into it.

Definitely, had an early change in what I thought I wanted to do in my career.

Matthew: You mentioned your master's.

Did you go straight from undergrad into graduate school?

Raymond: I did, yes.

Went right into it.

Matthew: Is that something that you recommend for others when you're having mentoring conversations

and so forth?

Raymond: I would tell you that if I were coaching someone, it really depends on what you want

to do long-term.

For me, I had a fork in the road, but I had two decisions to make.

One is what did I want to do from a career perspective, and how would psychology, as

an undergrad, help me to get to where I wanted to get to.

I recognized that I wouldn't be able to get into business, which is what I really wanted

to get into, as an industry, versus working in the medical field.

I knew psychology alone wouldn't do it.

I looked for a degree that would broaden my-- Not leaving the profession of psychology,

which I really enjoy, but this idea of studying work behavior in the workplace, human behavior

in the workplace, was very appealing.

I knew I could leverage that master's degree.

I will tell you that it definitely helped with looking for companies and competing against

others that were looking for HR positions.

I would say absolutely a master's degree, it definitely gives you an advantage.

If you're going to want to start your own company, which is what I did, years down the

road, having a business degree or having an MBA certainly would have helped my situation

at that time.

I think everyone needs to figure that out.

Yes, absolutely, a graduate degree, definitely, I would say, would be advantageous.

Matthew: What was your first job then, after getting the master's?

Raymond: Actually, I worked at a hotel at a front desk.

This is a funny story, Matt.

I started applying to jobs.

I had one internship that I did for a wellness center.

I was a safety coordinator for a hospital.

Three-month internship, that was great.

I ended that.

Couldn't get a full-time job so I started applying.

I didn't have any experience, so then I started applying to-- It was New Orleans, so hotel

hospitality was really, the preferred industry.

I started applying to hotels.

I found myself getting the, "You're overqualified.

You have a master's degree, you're not going to be here more than a couple of weeks."

I started not getting jobs as a result of having a master's.

I ended up taking up the master's degree off my application and just had the bachelor's.

I applied, I got a job as a front desk clerk for a hotel in New Orleans.

I got hired and I worked there for, probably, about a year maybe.

I ended up networking with a family member.

I got a recruiting position for construction company in New Orleans.

That was, I would say, my first HR job.

It was interesting.

I had a graduate degree and it took me a year to land into something that was really what

I was looking for.

Matthew: There are some interesting lessons there, Raymond, for sure.

One of them is to just get started and not hold back for some sort of dream job.

Once you got the job in the hotel, then you started building a resume and building some

experience and being able to use the experiences that you had to land the next job.

I feel like I did something similar starting my career in a retail executive development

program.

It was not so glamorous working in a department store, but I quickly found that I was able

to have 10 or 12 direct reports as a 22-year-old.

That gave me the experience and I leveraged that to get also into the corporate world.

Raymond: Absolutely.

Matthew: Yes, help us with the rest of the story as far as how your HR career unfolded.

I'm really excited to hear about the defining moment when you decided to start your own

company.

Raymond: Absolutely.

I was in New Orleans.

I worked for this construction company for about five years or so.

I started in recruiting.

I was tasked with hiring field plumbers and pipefitters.

They had a real challenge of getting skilled labor at a time where there was a boom in

construction in the southeast.

I did that for five years and over the course of my five years, I got involved in other

HR initiatives like training and development, help them create-- It was a smaller construction

company, so I put in place a policy handbook.

Did a lot of employee relations kinds of issues in training and led recruiting.

I got to the point after about five years, there was really nowhere else for me to go.

This was around the 2000 timeframe.

This is when the monster.coms and the career builders and the internet was really taking

off for job search.

I put my resume online and was recruited by Corning out of Corning, New York.

Literally, one of the reasons I took that job is because I knew that if I wanted to

grow to the next level, I would need to leave New Orleans.

It's a small town with not a lot of industry and working in HR, I felt like I needed to

really move somewhere to get with a much larger company.

Corning was perfect because they've been touted as one of a company's most strategic HR practices.

It allowed me to get a good foundation at the next level working for a Fortune 100 company.

I literally moved to Northeast Pennsylvania to a startup plant and was in charge of hiring

several hundred hourly employees, lots of engineers.

Actually, that's where I met my wife who was hired at that same facility.

It was great.

It was stressful for me because I moved to Scranton, Pennsylvania where the plant was

located.

I didn't know anyone there.

It was a little bit of, you mentioned courage earlier.

I was definitely stepping outside of my comfort zone to stretch myself into a position that

was new but very challenging.

[music] Matthew: To that end Raymond, there's a lot

of listeners out there that have probably lived in the same town their whole lives.

Maybe because it is comfortable, and they know everyone.

Just walk us through the mindset that you had to be willing to pull yourself out of

that environment in the south.

These are polar extremes.

Scranton, Pennsylvania and New Orleans.

Raymond: I moved there in July of 2000.

It was the summer, the weather was beautiful.

The mountains, the Poconos, all of the scenery during that time was just absolutely amazing.

I remember when that fall came around, the leaves were changing, I've had family members

come visit and it was fantastic.

Well, then the winter came.

If you've lived through a winter in Northeast Pennsylvania, it's pretty brutal.

The valley of Scranton, there's not much sunlight that peeks out.

It's just like a layer of clouds over the valley.

It's always very cloudy, very dark, very grey.

When the snow comes in December, January, the snow sticks around forever.

By the time February rolls around, the term seasonal depression, it's definitely a real

thing.

I was used to in New Orleans.

There's two seasons, it's basically winter and summer.

There's no spring and fall.

When I got to March and April and there's still snow in the ground, my body is telling

me I need to be outdoors and I'm still stuck inside.

I'll tell you, it definitely takes a toll.

Well, at the same time, this was around the dot-com burst in 2000, 2001.

Telecom companies were having massive layoffs.

The uncertainty of my job in the company was looming.

There was all kinds of dynamics that were happening at the same time.

I'm dealing with the seasonal change.

It definitely, I'll tell you, it had an impact for me.

I got through that I felt like, "Jeez."

In fact, after another six months, that facility shut down, and I was relocated to another

fiber optic plant in Wilmington, North Carolina which was great because I went further south,

but it was a job transfer.

Actually, Abie, my wife ended up moving to Wilmington as well.

The end result was super positive, but there was definitely a lot of stress.

The seasonal changes, it didn't help for sure.

Matthew: Were there moments in that Scranton era that you thought about pulling the plug

and saying, "Screw it, I'm heading back to New Orleans?"

Raymond: I wasn't there just yet.

I will tell you.

I felt like-- I was going to see it through and see how things worked out with Corning.

I'm sure the thought did cross my mind if things didn't work out.

I knew that I could always move back home and find a job.

I persevered and just rolled with the punches if you will, and things worked out.

That's the philosophy that I've had over my career is that if you just do the right thing,

and you keep moving forward, there's always a little bit of luck and things seem to work

out.

You have to just keep positive.

I do believe in a higher power and what's meant to be is meant to be.

It worked out for me.

I'm very fortunate of that.

Matthew: There's definitely something about what you're saying, moving forward, taking

a step forward.

The metaphor that comes to mind, when you just tip over a domino, you can set forth

a chain reaction of events.

It doesn't take much and I think by your willingness to step out of New Orleans and take this risk,

it was like that domino that continued to push you forward.

In fact, it'd be great to hear because ultimately, Corning fell on some additional hard times

like moving forward in the 2000's.

Tell us about that experience.

Raymond: At the time, Corning had gone through pretty significant change.

They sold off their consumer products division.

The old Corning ware, the dishes that you would have in your kitchen, well, when I joined

the company, that business had been sold.

They were putting a ton of capital into optical fiber.

The big telecom companies like Lucent, Nortel, Cisco were laying fiber optic cable around

the country, across the Atlantic, so that when you send an email or when you're on the

phone, et cetera, that information would travel over fiber optic lines versus cable lines.

I was there during the time when telecommunications was going through pretty massive transformation.

That also led with an overabundance of fiber.

If you remember the dot-com, everyone was on the internet.

The dot-com boom just happened and the internet, I remembered Corning stock when I got there,

was $300 a share.

Over the course of a year, when the dot-com boom ended, companies either went bankrupt

or their stock value was less than $10.

I'm sharing that just to give you-- just bringing you back to a time where we were very prosperous

in technology, but it quickly evaporated overnight which meant Corning had to go through massive

layoffs.

They had, I would say, probably 20% of their workforce in the manufacturing sector.

We were laying off almost a third of production and salaried employees.

Because of that massive transformation, I was tapped to be on an internal outplacement

team called Talent to Talent.

It's something that we branded internally.

Corning was very forward thinking again with their HR practices at the time.

They decided that they would not outsource their outplacement to a traditional outplacement

company.

We essentially took HR consultants.

At the time, they were called consultants, my business partners, recruiters.

We essentially created outplacement centers at all the locations where Corning had hubs

of employees.

This branded approach Talent to Talent was essentially a career transition center where

employees would come in.

We would utilize all of our HR expertise, recruiting expertise to help people transition

into their next job.

It was interesting.

About seven years later is when I started Careerminds, but it was at that point in my

career, I got an insight more internal within a company.

The inner workings of how an outplacement process worked, how outplacement support worked.

I conducted workshops, I did interviews, essentially all the aspects of career transition someone

would need.

I had that experience.

It was really fantastic.

I ended up after just round and rounds the layoffs, you can imagine.

I know you've been through it on probably both sides of the desk.

It's pretty stressful when you're going through those rounds of layoffs.

I knew at the time that I wasn't going to spend the rest of my career at least in Wilmington,

North Carolina.

My wife and I decided to take a package and they were very generous.

Again, another courageous thing.

We took severance packages without having a job to go to and signed up and said, 'We're

going to start our new job search in the Philadelphia area."

I ended up landing a job with a chemical company called FARO, right outside of Philadelphia,

and was an HR manager for a couple of chemical plants.

I did that for about five years.

Left Corning, took an opportunity to make a move.

It was a little bit of trying to get back closer to my wife's family, and completely

needed a change.

Matthew: What year did you exit from Corning?

Just so our listeners can have the chronology.

Raymond: It was about two years.

I will tell you, the first year was in Scranton, the second year was in Wilmington.

When I was in Wilmington, I was hired to-- primarily, we went through three rounds of

layoffs.

The business was thinking that things would turnaround in the dot-com, and it never did.

We went through three rounds of layoffs.

That was about a year, 2001.

That's right when 9/11 happened.

I was with FARO for about five years and left FARO to start Careerminds around 2007.

Matthew: Tell us about that transition then.

Raymond: Kind of similar, I found myself working in companies.

I feel, like, I've always gotten to a point where I feel I've done everything I could

have done.

With FARO, I was working out in the business, supporting especially chemicals.

I was overseeing a couple of manufacturing plants.

A lot of union labor relations work, employee relations.

I was fortunate though, to do a lot of work out of their corporate office in Cleveland

around some corporate initiatives.

One was, we went on SAP HR globally and I represented the U.S. I had a couple of really

cool projects that I was part of and leading.

After about five years, it was time for me to consider an opportunity at corporate.

After moving all those times, and my wife had just started working in a new job as well,

been there for about five years when we moved back to Philadelphia.

There wasn't any way I was getting Abbie and the family to move to Cleveland.

There's nothing against Cleveland, but it was just not in the cards.

That's when my wife said, "I think it's time for you to go after that dream of starting

your business."

Which is something that I've always wanted to do.

As I mentioned, my parents were entrepreneurs.

I knew that at some point, I'd get enough courage and enough experience to make the

leap of faith.

I went to my boss at that time who was in Cleveland and basically said, "Look, I want

to put in my notice.

I've gotten a lot of credibility from corporate HR."

I knew that saying that I wanted to leave and wanted to start my own company, I knew

that they weren't just going to throw me out.

They couldn't just show me that the door.

They needed a good succession plan and they didn't have one in place.

I was really fortunate that when I mentioned that I wanted to start my own company, they

allowed me the opportunity to backfill my replacement.

I went out and hired my replacement, got her up to speed, and even had a six-month contract

transition.

I was working part-time, supporting my replacement and just finishing up some special projects.

It was a really nice-- They were very supportive of my willingness to want to go out on my

own and allowed me a transition that got me to start developing some of the branding,

the concepts, and things and started to try to find one or two clients.

It was really positive.

[music] Matthew: There's a few things to unpack here.

First, you mentioned this entrepreneurial spirit that you'd picked up when you were

a kid.

When did those seeds start to germinate that you would really want to do this.

You mentioned that your wife said, "Hey, now's the time to do it."

But help us with your thinking over those years, like the incubation process if there

was one.

Raymond: Sure, yes.

There was definitely an incubation period.

I mentioned the counseling and psychology.

When I was in college, I always found myself-- when I knew I wanted to get into HR, I always

found myself helping people with career advice in terms of writing resume and just helping

them think about what they want to do with their career.

When the internet boom came in 1997, I'll never forget, I was sitting at that construction

company probably.

About three years into the job, maybe two years into the job and everyone was scooping

up websites.

I called the 1-800 number, I said, "I need a website.

I don't know what I'm going to use it for."

I called the-- there was no GoDaddy at the time.

I called this 1-800 number, it was like $100 and I bought a domain.

Carreer.com was already taken, believe it or not.

But then I started thinking, "Okay, I have a psychology background."

I want to do something related to helping people find a job.

I said, "Okay, I'm on the phone with this customer service rep or the sales rep on getting

a domain."

I said, "Do you have caareer.com?"

"No."

"Do you have a career start?"

All these things related to career start.

Then I said, "Well, hold on.

Just give me one second."

I said, "All right.

I have a psychology background."

Looking for a career is all about having the right frame of mind.

It's not a job.

It's really being thoughtful about how you're going to spend the rest of your career.

I said to myself, "What about Careerminds?"

She said, "It's available."

I said, "Okay.

That's what I'm going with."

I went with careerminds.com in 1997.

It literally sat on the shelf.

I paid my $100 every year.

'97 to 2007, 10 years went by and I always had this idea in my mind that I'm going to

use Careerminds one day.

I have no idea it's going to be related to helping someone find a job.

It was interesting that because when I started the company in 2007, the economy was going

great.

In fact, FARO was my first client.

I started the business as a recruiting company which is not something that a lot of people

know.

In 2007, when I went on my own, I hired a couple of recruiters, I hired a salesperson

to do recruiting.

FARO, which is a global company, 10,000 employees, they took me on as a client.

I had a bunch of searches that I was working on with them.

Life was good for the first 12 months.

I picked up some work with other companies in Philadelphia.

The fourth quarter of 2007 hit and I'll never forget.

I got an email from the head of HR at FARO that was forwarded from their CEO.

The email said, "Effective immediately, our company's on a hiring freeze.

We send all offers and literally, we're not hiring for the indefinite future."

I had probably a half a dozen offers on the table.

I had recruiters working on-- actually, two recruiters I had working on assignments.

Everything literally evaporated overnight.

One company that I had who reached out to me, it was a small startup company where we

were helping them recruit salespeople.

They said, "Hey, we have some bad news."

This is after I got the FARO message.

I said, "Okay, it can't be anything worse than what I got earlier in the week."

And they say, "Well, all the sales positions that you're working on are now going away

because we're filing for Chapter 11."

I was like, "Jeez, okay."

They said, "Do you have any experience doing any kind of career transition work or outplacement?"

I said to myself, "That's my pivot."

It was January 2008 where the recruiters walked out the door and the salesperson walked out

the door and I said, "Careerminds after one year, is now an outplacement company."

We started a new virtual model.

I said to myself with the small company of people in Delaware, I said, "How am I going

to-- I don't have the office space to house these people.

How am I going to deliver the service?"

I knew about the traditional players out there.

They have offices all over the world.

I said, "Am I going to ramp up?"

This is beginning to be the biggest recession that we were facing.

I said, "Wow, okay, I'm not going to be able to open up offices quickly enough.

I don't have the capital to do that."

My neighbor just so happened to be a software developer who I was sharing some office space

with.

One of the employees from that company had a Ph.D. in educational technology.

I started coaching them over the phone and just working on their resume.

When I saw this one person's resume, I saw his background.

He had a lot of experience in developing educational technology software.

I had this guy in my office who worked for Microsoft and super smart, was a software

developer.

He said, "Well, why don't we develop-- Why don't you develop a virtual model, build your

own software platform and do the coaching over the phone and through Skype?

Why in the world would you even think about opening offices?

That's going to be dead in 5 years, maybe 10 years."

I was like, "Wow, that sounds interesting."

I hired that one employee who started with me-- I don't know, you may know Justin Schakelman.

He started with me day one.

I contracted this software developer to help.

We basically cobbled together our first generation platform in 2008.

It was the beginning of the recession, there was lots of companies out there that were

looking for inexpensive ways to help their employees transition.

That one client that went bankrupt, I essentially charged them $1 per person, per employee,

just so we can say we actually built a client.

The president of the company wrote a testimonial for us.

That became our first client in 2008.

Matthew: Wow, it really is an incredible story.

I didn't know some of the nuanced details.

I really appreciate you sharing them.

Let me ask a couple of follow-on questions to that story.

The first one is, back to the idea of actually quitting FARO.

You had these traditional W2 jobs, regular paychecks.

Now all of a sudden, you were going to give that up and then have to, what we call hunt

and kill to make a salary.

How did you wrap your head around that huge transition?

Raymond: I would tell you, this is where the silent partner comes into play because my

wife, very fortunate, has a great job.

She's a electrical engineer and carries the benefits which for someone who's-- I had at

the time, my daughter was four years old.

We had a young kid, we had our new house that we just built.

If I were in a situation where I was the breadwinner.

Let's say, I had a stay-at-home mom and we had a daughter, I may not have had the opportunity

to take that leap of faith.

If I were 20 years old and single and maybe a couple of years experience, I think entrepreneurship

would have been maybe a little bit better timing.

Very fortunate to have a co-working partner who was the breadwinner for the first three

years, had a great job, very stable.

I'll tell you, we definitely bootstrapped in the family.

We didn't take a lot of vacations, I paid myself very little.

When I say very little, probably a couple hundred bucks a week, just to pay out utility

bills.

I ate ramen noodles.

My friends would always joke, "I'd keep a case of ramen noodles in the office."

Never went out to eat.

Yes, you have to grind away in the first couple of years to get to a point where you can start

taking a salary.

I would say, it was probably three years.

It was actually three years.

We started in 2008 and we kept working at the technology piece.

Around 2009 to 2010, once we knew we were on to something, we started reaching out to

some local investors in Delaware.

It was interesting that, because you're a family guy.

You have kids and stability is really important.

When I approached Abbie and asked her about putting up the house as a mortgage or getting

a home equity loan to fund Careerminds as a startup, that was a very short conversation.

Getting a loan and putting that kind of risk on the family, in hindsight, was a very smart

decision.

Starting a new company, it's not easy and it takes a lot of investment capital.

I had decided to see if there was investors out there that liked the idea of disrupting

a very traditional outplacements function, been around for 30 years with something that

is faster, more relevant to today's modern day job seeker, lower cost, scalable.

Around 2011, we raised our first round of venture capital from a handful of investors.

That was an inflection point for us because I could actually take a salary, and start

making some money, and not feeling so pressured to have to perform or have to get to that

point.

The tradeoff is, you do give up ownership.

If you watch Shark Tank, it's exactly that.

You go in, you pitch something to investors, they determine what the value is of your business?

Based on that value, they're going to give you some pool of money, some capital for some

percentage of your business.

That was my first life lesson is that I hated to give up 100% ownership, but someone very

wise told me that having 10% of something very big, is a lot better than 100% of nothing.

That 2011 is when we raised some capital.

It really allowed us to go out and hire salespeople and scale the business to the next level.

Matthew: Yes.

My company is really big on what we call the DREAM framework.

It's this formula where you've got D for devotion, R for resolve, E for energy, A for attitude

and M for mastery.

What I'd love to do, Raymond, is walk through a bit of that framework and see how these

concepts may or may not apply to how you've taken your career and how you run the business.

The D is around devotion, and the concept is that, if we can just figure out what our

purpose is in life, it gives us an opportunity to overcome adversity and really double down

against rejection to achieve big things in life.

Do you see this concept of purpose playing out in how your career has unfolded?

Raymond: I think so.

I look at the business, Careerminds, as we started when I was doing recruiting.

I have to tell you, it was really interesting.

I got into recruiting, and I look back and I said, "Why in the world did I do that?"

I didn't really find fulfillment out of recruiting.

In fact, it was a little for me-- I know it's an industry that people find a lot of purpose

and meaning.

The one thing that drove me crazy is working with a candidate all the way through to the

11th hour and they have a change of heart or something in their personal situation that

you couldn't control, changes.

That loss of a participant landing-- although it could probably be the best decision they

were making at the time, Raymond: I didn't like that aspect, though,

of the recruiting function.

The fact though with outplacement, you're taking someone who has lost their job and

they were hit with a life event at the most stressful point in their life.

When I think back of the interest in psychology, I did a lot of the coaching early on and work

with a lot of the participants even from that first contract where I was working with people

who were just notified, they had to go home, tell their spouse, tell their kids they weren't

going to have a job and then start thinking about their next opportunity.

For me, I loved the idea of that being a challenge and helping people from a place of a lot of

stress, and anxiety, and even some cases of depression to get them to a place where they

look back and say, "Wow, I'm better off today than I was three months ago or six months

ago."

The idea of starting and wrapping a company around that kind of mission and purpose for

me is much more fulfilling than being an expert recruiter.

Matthew: Yes.

I can see that, Raymond.

I mean after all, people put job loss up there with the death of a loved one.

It's that impactful for people and you're right.

You've been through it and I've been through it from both sides of the desk.

There must be a lot of a purpose in helping people through that.

Raymond: Yes, absolutely.

We get testimonials from our participant to land and in many cases, they're thanking us

for our expertise.

Sometimes, they just really reach into their personal side of what they went through and

they share that journey.

It's great to read those when they come in and really hear about the success they had

in knowing that we were a part of that.

It's definitely very fulfilling.

Matthew: Excellent.

We'll skip around a little bit in the interest of time.

From an energy standpoint, you've already given us some insights into your family.

Careerminds has grown significantly.

I guess maybe you should tell us first about where the company is in terms of size and

scale, and your responsibilities with the company today.

Because the follow-on to that is, how do you balance being the CEO of this prosperous company,

being a husband, being a wonderful father?

Also, you and I have worked together in our association and you have a leadership role

there as well.

Raymond: Absolutely.

I'll tell you one of the things that we've done with the company is we work virtually

and we practice what we preach.

What's interesting and I'm smiling because when I left the corporate world, the first

thing I did when we raised the investment capital and we hired a handful of employees

is I said, "Oh, we have to run out and get an office."

We got a really nice office in Newark, Delaware and signed a three-year lease within a nice

complex.

I realized why in the world-- we're a virtual company and so I thought to myself, "If we're

going to scale the best company with the brightest people, we need to practice what we preach."

We eventually sunset the office.

I personally primarily work from home although, we do have a satellite office in Wilmington

that we use for meeting and get-togethers at Wilmington, Delaware.

We now have about 20 full-time employees across the country.

We have 75 or so full-time career consultants and retirement coaches that are 1099 consultants

and they work across US, Canada, and the UK.

From a employees contractor standpoint, we've really grown nicely over the years and positions

ourselves to really take the company to the next level.

I find that working virtually gives me the optimum amount of time to spend at work.

I get an opportunity to go to the kids' games after school.

I do a lot of things around the house although, I do travel quite a bit, as you know there's

a lot of HR conferences that go on.

I attend those, I get to speak at some of the conferences.

I do travel quite a bit, but it's definitely balanced with not having a long commute during

the day and getting home at night late and leaving early.

The opportunity to work primarily from home is great for work-life balance.

It allows me to get the maximum amount of work done in a short period of time because

I'm not having to leave an office so that's very convenient.

I'm pretty disciplined.

My dad, actually I didn't share with you, was in the military.

He's a retired vet.

The discipline piece of working from home and being a business owner serves his purpose

for sure because there can be a lot of distractions when you're working from home in that kind

of environment.

Matthew: How does discipline show up then for you?

Is that a calendaring thing where you block off time or religiously than many people do?

Can you give us a window into that?

Raymond: Yes, it's a combination of breaks and I literally when I get in my office in

the morning, I have my coffee and I'll just stay focused unless I have to take a bio break

or something but I'll literally just stay focused.

Then, yes, I do segment my calendar to really focus on the key things that I'm responsible

for.

I have a board of directors since we have investors, I meet with our board every six

weeks.

I focus a lot on messaging, and working with our board, and making sure that the company

continues to move forward.

We have a sales and marketing function that I meet with weekly to really look at our numbers

for the month and making sure that we're hitting our sales and revenue targets.

We have an operations team with our coaches, and I meet with them pretty regularly to look

at how the operations are running.

Is our participants pleased with the service they're getting?

Then we have a technology team that develops our software, we're on our eighth version

of our software platform.

We have a whole development roadmap with our software product.

The discipline is really just really giving each of those functions, the attention it

needs, in minimizing the distractions that you would have throughout the day.

I save a certain amount of time for email and making sure I'm getting back to people.

Yes, the non-profit piece that I'm a part of is just something that I have to manage

in as well, and be disciplined that I'm not spending too much time on things that aren't

contributing to the success of the business or even in impacting my family.

Matthew: One of the themes of our discussion today has been keep moving forward and I've

seen you live that all the time.

A couple of examples, I wanted to bring forward is one, being you have newer products that

you've rolled out at Careerminds of speaking of evergreen as one example.

I'd like to hear a little bit more about that.

Also, you bring on talent routinely.

I've seen as you've grown the company and I'm speaking specifically, of a mutual friend,

Tracy that I know that you've started to partner with.

Can you tell us a little bit more about these products?

Also, your philosophy of continuing to grow and innovate the business.

Raymond: Yes, absolutely.

For the first eight years, we were primarily focused on outplacement and growing the virtual

outplacement function, being that disrupter to traditional outplacement.

It was around 2016 timeframe, around the summer of 2016, we were working on a pretty large

project with an insurance company.

It's actually, the company Tracy had come from.

A large number of employees were over the age of 55 and we'd recognized through conversation

with them as we were getting them started, that they were looking for something different

in their program.

They weren't looking to leave or jump into a corporate job.

Some cases, they've been with the company for 20 years.

We felt in order to really appropriately serve them, we needed to custom tailor a program

that would meet their needs.

In some cases, employees were in a position where they could tap into their pension.

They didn't have to work full-time.

They were a place in life where the kids were off to college or after college, and they

could do something that they really wanted to do maybe differently.

We created this retirement product that addresses more of the social-emotional aspects of retirement

where we recognize individuals are living longer.

They don't necessarily want to retire to a golf course or to a beach, and spend the rest

of their years traveling.

They want to stay in the game.

They want to continue to contribute and have purpose in life meaning.

What we found is that people wanted to do something with their life and a lot of the

times, it was related to a job.

It could be working for a non-profit, it could be doing something on a volunteer basis just

to keep them active.

There was this other component though, that we found out just doing some research is that

one of the biggest things that employees miss most when they leave their company is the

social connections.

Whether you're leaving through a reduction in force or leaving through a retirement,

a lot of cases, you're spending eight hours a day and that's your second family, and the

thought of retiring and not having those social connections creates a lot of anxiety.

Helping people think about how will you fill the time and how will you fill that void was

something that people were really interested in.

We built this evergreen program that addressed all of those dynamics to help people think

about that.

When we ran a pilot, we had just such great success with it.

We decided to start going to all of our existing accounts and pitched evergreen as an option

for participants to utilize when they're going through a retirement or a career transition.

It was adopted by all of our accounts, all of our clients.

Let's see, that was summer of 2016, so it was around 2017ish, Tracy and I had stayed

in contact.

She's a former HR executive, worked in pharmaceuticals, insurance, healthcare.

I was looking for someone who could lead this new business and take it to the market and

so felt finding someone who had the HR experience because this is very different than outplacement.

Evergreen and this retirement coaching solution is really designed to help employees even

way before retirement.

You can offer it as a standard benefit to your employees voluntarily to just help them

think about that next journey in life.

One of the things that we've learned is that half of the people who actually retire on

time, the driver of that is a reduction enforce or health issues is what causes people to

retire.

That's only half.

The other half of Americans today, and there's over 10,000 people eligible to retire every

day.

The baby boomer generation.

They're not retiring for some reason.

The research suggests it's all of the social-emotional pieces.

It's not always finances that are keeping people from retiring.

Having somebody like Tracy who can engage in a conversation to talk about their talent

strategy and what's creating issues for them with succession planning and et cetera, having

somebody that has that consultative sales approach was really important.

We are super excited because this is something that we feel like is really timely to the

market.

We have someone who is super passionate about this particular project.

She went through a little bit of a transformation and reinvention herself and so that's pretty

exciting.

We are now into the second year of this and are very bullish about the outcome.

Excited about that.

Matthew: Excellent.

Well, there's a perfect example of innovation and capitalizing on key talent for sure.

As we wind down, Raymond, let me hit you up with a couple of rapid-fire questions.

In the dream frame where we talk about M mastery, it's the concept of continuous learning.

One of the ways that we can all continuously learn is through reading.

What are one or two books that are your go-to that you recommend to others?

Raymond: The one book that I'm actually reading now, it's all about timeliness.

When I fast started Careerminds, I was reading THE ART OF THE START by Guy Kawasaki and for

those entrepreneurs that could be listening, it's a great read if you're thinking about

starting your own business.

But where we are today with Tracy now on the leadership team and we've recently promoted

someone into a VP of Operations on our team is putting together our three-year strategic

plan.

I've been reading The Four Disciplines of Execution and the focus piece is one that

really resonates with me because as a continued business that's evolving.

You can get a lot of destructions about trying this, doing this.

I get ideas pitched to me almost every day about things that we can try.

Putting a strategic plan in place and sticking to that plan, I feel is really important.

That book, I think really helps the team stay focus around that.

I would say that that's the one that comes to mind just immediately.

Matthew: I'm a big fan of motivational quotes, inspirational quotes because they can consolidate

wisdom into a rather short phrase or sentence.

With that as a backdrop, if you could put a saying on a billboard that a lot of people

would see, what would it be?

Raymond: There's one that I've seen recently.

Invest in your dreams, grind now, shine later.

I think that speaks volumes for an entrepreneur.

Bootstrap, grind away, and then the rewards and shine will come later.

Matthew: Yes, dream.

You can't beat that.

That's something that I'm quite passionate about.

I love it.

You talked about your parents a few times.

What was the best piece of advice that either one of them ever passed along to you?

Raymond: Well, I would say humility is probably the one that-- In fact, Matt, I remember when

you and I are out, you're always pushing me to talk more about the company which I do,

but I should probably do more of it.

Humility is definitely one.

I think that self-awareness is something that I often hear from colleagues and my board

of directors that I'm very self-aware.

I would say that those are two attributes.

Matthew: Yes, I would add that I find you to be a wonderful listener.

In the meetings that we've heard, you may not be the first one to jump into the conversation

and I think that's because you're actively listening.

Then my experience is when you do speak up, I'm all ears because I know that what's coming

has been thoughtful.

Raymond: Yes, I appreciate that.

Matthew: What advice would you give to your 21-year-old self?

Raymond: I'm going to have to stick with the follow your dreams.

I would say, "Do in life what's going to make you happy."

I think that sometimes, parents can be very influential on what you should do, but I think

that at that age, do what's going to make you happy, follow your dreams, have passion,

have energy in what you want to do in life and just go after it.

Matthew: That is great advice.

Life is so precious and if you just wind up in something that you don't really enjoy,

I feel we're wasting a real gift.

The great news, Raymond, is as you've demonstrated in your career, and in your life, and I hope

I have as well.

That it's never too late to make a change.

Raymond: Absolutely.

Amen to that.

Matthew: Is there any last little bit of advice, a pearl of wisdom?

Is there anything that we haven't talked about, yet that you'd like to pass along to our viewers

and our listeners?

Raymond: I would just say and I say this whether I'm doing interviews or just talking with

people in general is, if you're wanting to reach out and connect, I'm definitely someone

who's very approachable and always willing to help individuals, whether you're in job

search or thinking about starting a business.

Find me on LinkedIn, Raymond Lee, with Careerminds.

I'm happy to connect.

Just want to put that out there and offer any help.

I'm a firm believer in paying it forward.

I've had the fortune of meeting very generous people who've been very generous with their

time.

People that are successful or even some not so successful people sharing stories of their

trials and tribulations.

I'm a big believer in paying it forward, always looking for that opportunity.

Matthew: I've noticed that firsthand.

You've been very helpful as I've been down my entrepreneurial path.

I thank you for that.

You mentioned LinkedIn, is there any other way that people can follow your writing or

anything social media-wise?

Raymond: My Twitter handle, which I'm not a big Twitter user, but I do tweet from time

to time, is @HRentrepreneur is the handle.

I am on LinkedIn.

We have a Facebook page for Careerminds.

We have an Instagram page for Careerminds.

We have a great marketing department who handles all of our social media.

I'm pretty fortunate of that.

Yes, I would say through those channels, you can follow us and always visit our website

at careerminds.com.

Matthew: Perfect, Raymond.

We'll put some of the links in the description.

I really appreciate you joining us.

I've learned a lot and I know our viewers and listeners did as well.

Thanks, again.

Raymond: I appreciate it.

I really enjoyed it, Matt.

Thanks for having me.

Matthew: Thank you so much, Raymond.

What terrific insights.

To our listeners, again, please subscribe, rate, and share this podcast with your network.

This is Matthew Levy.

Until our next episode, remember that when you summon courage, everything changes.

I'd like to thank Levi Dillon for his excellent podcast engineering and Texas Radio Fish for

the music.

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Xperia XZ2 has a problem, and Sony can't do anything to fix it Sony Xperia XZ2 is now available to buy in the UK. The smartphone was announced at a press conference during the 2018 Mobile World Congress tradeshow in Barcelona, back in February.

The latest Sony handset boasts a top-of-the-line Qualcomm SnapDragon 845 chipset, Qi wireless charging, and 4K HDR video recording – a first for the smartphone market. However, despite all of these brilliant new additions, the Sony Xperia XZ2 includes an unforgivable problem. And worst of all, Sony can do nothing to fix it.

The Sony Xperia XZ2 has one of the most nonsensical fingerprint scanner placements ever shipped on a smartphone. Compared to the Xperia XZ2, the widely-panned fingerprint sensor on the Galaxy S8 and Galaxy S8+ looks like an ingenious piece of design.

In our review, Express.co.uk Technology Editor David Snelling said it was "possibly the worse design decision we have ever seen". Now, there is nothing intrinsically wrong with having the fingerprint scanner on the back of the phone.

In fact, for many it's the preferred place, since your finger naturally rests there when holding the smartphone. However, Sonys design team have not place the fingerprint scanner where your finger naturally rests, instead they have placed the scanner much, much lower.

And in a baffling move, the Xperia XZ2 design team has placed the camera lens where most other manufacturers would put their rear-mounted fingerprint sensor. Given how many times you unlock your smartphone each day, this placement soon graduates from a mild irritation to a outright deal-breaker.

Also, there is still a substantial chin beneath the display on the front of the Xperia XZ2 which could easily house the scanner, which only makes it more annoying each time you blindly tap your digit on the camera lens. Unlike the Galaxy S8, the Xperia XZ2 doesn't offer users an alternative method of unlocking their handset, with no iris or facial recognition included.

That means Xperia XZ2 owners are reliant on the fingerprint scanner to quickly unlock their smartphone (granted, they can manually type-in a pin, password or draw a pattern on the display to unlock the device, as with all Android smartphones). "We can't tell you how many times we have tried to unlock the phone by popping our finger right on the camera which is hugely irritating and also leaves a greasy mess all over it," we wrote in our Xperia XZ2 review.

"Its a very odd decision from Sony and one that's hard to forgive them for.

"How nobody at Sony realised that it's in totally the wrong place is beyond us!" And it's only Express.co.uk that has flagged up this egregious piece of design. Techradar notes in its review, "Sony has made quite a major mistake when it comes to the placement of the scanner – its far too low down on the rear of the phone.

"Youll find when you come to use the scanner that your forefinger lands naturally on the camera above it instead. "We lost count of the number of times we tapped the camera thinking it was the digit reader; even when we made a conscious effort to bend our finger to hit the scanner, wed still hit the camera on occasion." Engadget makes a similar criticism, noting "The whole point of a back-mounted sensor is that your fingertip naturally falls on it.

"Instead, I catch myself pawing at the camera glass as the reader rejects random finger flesh.". Pocket-Lint adds: "That fingerprint scanner is in a bit of a weird place, sitting a long way down the body of the phone, so it doesnt feel as natural to use as the higher placement thats common on devices - like the Google Pixel 2 XL, for example" It's a real shame, as otherwise, there's really a lot to like about the Sony Xperia XZ2.

The latest Sony Xperia has a beautiful new design, powerful flagship specs, and a stunning display. It's also worth noting that Sony already had a brilliant solution to quickly and conveniently unlock their smartphones.

Previous hardware, including the predecessor to the Xperia XZ2, had the fingerprint scanner embedded in the side-mounted power button. Express.co.uk talked to Sony about the decision to move the fingerprint scanner to the back of the phone.

When asked about the design change, a representative for the company explained, "The fingerprint sensor position is based on the philosophy to achieve the most efficient position for smooth unlock, with our new rounded curvature design it was felt the back as a more natural position. "Just after you hold up the smartphone, both wake up and fingerprint certification will be done.

The new position is also based on where the index finger will be when naturally holding the smartphone "With this position, users do not need to change the holding position between operation and unlock. Additionally, the symmetrical layout allows you to use both left/right hand.".

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