welcome to the TSL podcast I'm Steve Mayeda I'm your host for this we're
recording this live on at TSL online call and we are talking about dates and
our dating set up in fact a specific setup of a video that we just did just
the other day you can check it out right here
and I would definitely check it out if you're interested in getting dates where
you're structuring them to get laid to get sexual very quick but we're gonna
clear up a lot of the reasons why we went for that 15-minute predate and
because they're important and they come up and whether or not you're a tinder or
Bumble guy or you're meeting people out in person this is something that is
going to make stuff work really really well for you so well to the point where
I would do this 15 20 minute date but then I'd meet up with them on a real
date and within like an hour we'd be having sex it was just so quick and so
consistent and it just made things so much easier so check it out on the TSL
podcast what we talk about is dating sex no-holds-barred but we talk about in a
way we're number one it works it is so cut to the point using social dynamics
using our self but it also is about seduction it's about sex it's about
beauty it's about sharing it's about all this awesome stuff but it's not limited
to politically correct words so that's really really cool and if you like this
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to this back to the awesome awesome shit of setting up dates to get laid so
there's a couple reasons why we did the 15-minute date now what this is is is
that we talked to somebody whether we meet them online or in person we say
like hey man you know I just want to like especially if we meet online this
was a huge thing for me is I'd say like man you know I know like you have some
tinder horror stories or Bumble horror stories or match or whatever it is like
like let's just meet up for like you know 15-20 minutes I'm gonna be in your
neck of the woods anyway and like I'll bring you a donut from down here because
we have one of the best doughnut places in town and you need to have them they'd
say well okay I guess you know maybe you know or whatever sometimes they jump at
it but the thing is is that it's an easy yes Meetup it's something that doesn't
have a lot of investment it's not too complex it doesn't have to be you know
somebody's dressing up or getting ready or preparing it's just something that
that's easy they could walk away from it's a reason why I set that up was
because so many people in the online dating realm would tell me about shitty
dates that they have there oh my god I have so many tinder horror stories oh my
god I have so many horror stories I'm gonna write a book or I'm really on this
app not to meet people but to write a book about something like all this sort
of shit that was just so consistently said so I just made a date around that
now some of the other things about that was that I also knew that when in this
works - if you meet somebody in person you just say like well hey man I you
know like I know we let's say you're texting or maybe you it's actually when
you meet the person but you say like hey I know when we met there was a lot going
on or whatever you know and all your friends were there but like I'm gonna
actually be up in your neck of the woods later on this week man you mind if I
stop by I live right next to sugar mamas he ever had him one of their cupcakes
and so I bring them something like that cost me two bucks and whatever gas money
and hey actually gas money gets expensive these days Jesus so we ID go
up there and I'd meet them for just a short amount of time and one of the
things that I immediately noticed is that it then made it easier to get a
real date and on that real date it got sexual really quick and so here's some
of the reasons why so for years and years and years I had dated women
that you know that we just went on real dates and to set up a real date is you
don't do like all this fancy shit you something that's fun that's easy that's
it's gonna get an experience where you guys connect and so on and and for me it
was always very important that we got sexual with it because I honestly
believe that a woman is truly showing her real self only after she has had sex
with you before that there's a big front of who she is and what she's gonna be in
what she's gonna say no to but what I noticed is on these real dates before we
did any pre date thing with that that I'm talking about here is on these real
dates the thing that would happen is is that there was this front that I had to
deal with about like well I don't don't get guys like this or I don't usually do
this if you think I'm easy and it was like this huge speech this crazy thing
that that you know would be armed and ready and rehearsed that she says to all
the guys that she goes out with just to defend herself and that she's not a slut
she doesn't sleep with anybody on the first date and all these sorts of things
that really weren't her they were this like mask or this fear of this image
that she was gonna get misperceived in so many different ways and the shitty
thing is is women have to deal with that so that that was like huge in there and
it always sucked but there's so many ways to get around it but I had to get
around it what I noticed is when I did that 15
minute date that didn't happen so for instance I'd do a 15-minute date on
Tuesday maybe I do two or three girls and then I'd set up dates for Friday
Saturday Sunday so on Friday let's say girl 1 I'd meet her and she
didn't have that thing prepared for me she didn't have the fuel behind it she
didn't she may have thought about it she's if I brought it up she would
definitely be able to talk about it but the thing that started to happen was I
noticed that that girl the Saturday girl the sunday girl immediately started to
have sex with me if I had a skill set on escalation and if you want to know about
escalation here for free on this YouTube channel you can get the escalation
playlist but more importantly on the free stuff link you can down load the
sexual escalation guide man it's four step easy process and we even have more
crazy models that are specific to situations once you really get into our
stuff but that's a good place to start so that's all the free stuff link or at
the playlist that I talked about so the thing was I knew how to escalate
really well it was easy just follow stuff in the PDF and you'll be able to
do it like like that it's like so predictable it's awesome
you'll have good sex with it it's not tricking you nor manipulating anybody
actually open her up to really unleash who she is as a woman but I didn't get
that speech beforehand it was amazing and so I just noticed this happened over
and over again so I started asking I was like man you know what and I didn't want
to ask like an asshole so I'd say like you know what you seem like a girl that
usually has a lot of boundaries but you didn't have any of those like do you
always have sex with people that fast because and I know she's gonna say no to
that so she would say something like it's like no no no but you know what
like when I met you on Tuesday I thought this and that and I thought about it I
almost didn't come on the date this is like and when I started asking everybody
this they all started saying this they're like I almost didn't come on the
date you know I looked at your Facebook I looked at this and and it was just
like there was too much that you just seemed too smooth or whatever and I
almost talked myself out of it but I came and so that whole dialogue happened
without me that dialogue you know she would have with her best friend or her
gay friend or her multiple friends or people the office about how she didn't
want to be seen as a whore or a slut or all these points of resistance that
usually got brought up to me that I had to deal with which are pretty easy to
deal with but they add in more time so instead of a 60 minute date or maybe if
it went a little bit longer a 90 minute date I'd be having a three four-hour
date where I'd be working with that sort of stuff building up more trust and so
on so the cool part about it was is in that 15 minute time that I spent with
them which was done basically like this and sorry not to break it down but you
should really watch the video dedicated completely to that as that meet up with
them and you know for that 15 minutes would be oh yeah when I met you or you
know when I met you online or whatever it was you know these things are
happening is just always good to see somebody and plus you know when we're at
a bar let's say I met him in a bar you know say like when we're at a bar you
know sometimes things get out of hand and then you show up on a date and the
person's crazy but whatever anyway so tell me about your day and then you know
something would happen or time would go on I checked my watch or my phone or
whatever it is and I be yeah know what like it's it's 4:15 I got a
run and it was really cool meeting you but like look you're you're an awesome
person I would state intent basically it's a year an awesome person
like you're you're physically beautiful and that's why it's hard for me to say
but that's why I talked to you but you're actually really good like I want
to like what are you doing Friday let's do something let's do some cool and then
we'd set up that date and in that time she would talk with her her friends you
know she would talk with her friends or sort through the different resistances
without me so that when I met her I would just say hey what's up let's have
fun and that happened and it was so cool once I started predicting it would be
like well let's do this and that and like I'd be like well I got to stop by
my place really quick like come inside like and she said well I don't normally
do that it's okay alright I've heard that before I'm not asking you I'm
asking to come inside like he you can you have choice like I'm not a bad
person or whatever or maybe I am whatever and so then they come in and
they usually want to get situated it's so simple you know on a date when we
offer a situation where she can be more of herself and less of her fear dude so
much awesome stuff happens and then just from then I'd work to get the kiss or if
I couldn't we'd go and do something and I can't tell you man who's just happened
a lot where I take them to my house I'd pick something up and they'd still be a
little bit nervous and we'd go for a hike which was just like around the
corner from my house and we'd hook up there it was just so nuts but so that
was the beauty of that 15 minutes sort of predate and you don't have to do it
in some set way that is like meeting them at a Starbucks and there's sort of
their side of town the important part is is that you get an easy yes date
somebody that they can say yes to and it also has like a time constraint it
doesn't have commitment to it it can't really be a date it's more something
that is just an event that they can show up to easily and effortlessly so it's
like oh well you work at the W downtown you know when's your break like well can
you meet me at Halcyon which is right next to the W just well meet me there
like if you can you can't I'll be there studying or working on something and
something along those lines so I would make those opportu
he's there to build that little bit of a bridge and if I just got that little
connection for a short amount of time and it was able to state intent with
their real self so who they they really were showing you
in a relaxed mode oh man it helped out so much so in that that there we have an
explanation of the structure of what we do and why we do it really the important
thing is is that we can get an opportunity to lessen a lot of the
resistance that comes around dating and keeps women not being themselves you
know like I really I really believe this that we aren't actually being honest
with each other until we have been sexual and that doesn't mean other
problems or other hurdles in a relationship and building bridges and
connections may not happen or that they won't happen it just means that I'm
talking to such a true or part of the person so that to me is very important
in any case there's tons of stuff that we have for you the best thing that you
can do once again guys other than subscribe me is clicking the free stuff
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you can do that here in any case signing off Steve Maya hey we'll talk to you
guys soon
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