Chiron in the 8th House in Astrology. now this is a little bit similar to Chiron
in the seventh house in the sense that it can give rise to intimacy issues but
whereas the car in the seventh house is keeping everyone and everything at bay
meaning them their intimacy issues their issues and insecurities and fears of
getting close to people is so big that they never even approach anybody they
sort of keep everything at a distance at an arm's length this is not as bad right
in the 8th house but it's still going to give rise those insecurities and fears
may come up when you get really close to people right there's not the 180-degree
opposition of the first thing the 7th it's in the 8th so it's less tense less
tension so you you may not be so terrified of getting too close to
everybody but when you do choose that one person that intimate intimate
partner and you get really close right intimate one-on-one that's when some
fears and insecurities may stop coming up they start coming up so I should say
here that for Karen to be in your 8th house means it's in the 8th sign from
your sentence so you have to know your rising sign for sure 100% and then count
the eighth sign from the ascendant would be your eighth house so if you have
Libra rising Chiron has to be in Taurus to be in the 8th house and so on and so
forth if you have you get the point so those fears and insecurities may only
come up when you are really intimate with with people right so 8th house
opposes the second house second house can be like our self-esteem so this may
give you a good self-esteem when you're on your own
but when you're with other people when you with that one special person in
partnership that's when you may fall apart and you may not understand why
this complete contrast is happening right whereas the Chiron in the seventh
house may be kind of wearing masks right masks
so there may be some some inner ugliness or something there the seventh house
Chiron is wearing a mask this is not as bad if those not as bad as like wearing
a mask or something but it's in the sense that if you're a hard-edged
controlling strong person you may think of yourself as a strong person on the
outside you may be a boss a supervisor you may own your come on your own
company and just kind of feel like you're in control of everything but you
fall apart when you get intimate right behind closed doors so the point being
that if you are controlling and hard-edged this may be challenging right
getting close to people because you're losing control but this could be fun and
enjoyable if you're not as controlling of a person or wanting to be in control
being uncomfortable with vulnerability right so if you are comfortable with
vulnerability and you do enjoy getting close to people this is a really good
placement because you can get really close to somebody right Chiron is the
soft gooey kind of thing that is flexible and and malleable so you're
able to really create this really interesting dynamic with another person
really elastic kind of soft dynamic but that's if you're comfortable with
vulnerability if you're not it's gonna be scary so again on the outside on the
external in public you may seem like this strong put together person behind
closed doors in the bedroom you're losing control right so this could be
one example this could be the person who's the dominant partner in the
relationship outside in the bedroom they may prefer or automatically get into the
submissive role right I mean they may actually like that right or they may
just automatically just feel more comfortable with being the submissive
one because there's this insecurity about
about intimacy and getting close right so so this is a good placement for I
think digging deep into psychology understanding other people's psychology
to speak this could be good understanding there and Ensign secrets -
I think this placement can give the person of hiding certain things right
eighth house is hidden it's black behind closed doors right behind the curtain so
could be that you're hiding you're playing one role the outside in society
you're you're doing the complete opposite in the bedroom right in
intimacy so this is about being comfortable bringing out the softness a
little bit and and being more truthful about your intimate moments your
intimacy or intimate realities so this may be hard for you to talk about
intimate things right yeah so you have to really like you may have a lot of
insecurities and fears but you may be afraid to seek therapy because you're
just not comfortable talking about it right because it may seem so different
from you like like you're afraid to express who you are in the bedroom who
you are intimacy because it's so different from who you really play play
is not the best word but sort of who you appear who you what role you play in
society it's so different so so the key here is to is to become comfortable with
talking about talking right talking about who you are what secrets you have
revealing secrets is another challenge meaning you may be keeping too many
secrets so revealing how you feel there's something going on behind closed
doors that we don't know about you and so that's really if you keep it too much
too hidden then it could just be really eating you up inside so it's really
important to be open with this placement you want to be open and sort of as
uncomfortable as it is to open up to talk about your intimate intimacy and
intimate details of your intimate life that may be really scary because you're
just terrified of people finding out what you do behind closed doors but once
you find groups and other people that that have similar insecurities and fears
or or fetishes or whatever it is that this placement card in the 8th house
gives you when you find other people a community that you can be part of that
can support you that can help you heal if there's any woundedness about
intimacy then that can make you feel really good you can start actually
enjoying getting close to people you won't be as afraid of it if you are if
you are afraid of it then you won't be as afraid if you're not afraid of it and
you do enjoy it this can make a great psychologist right somebody who really
studies other people and is able to learn from experience right so this is
the kind of a psychologist who's been through that so hasn't just studied
about that specific trauma but they have been through a similar experience and
they've healed another speaking as in they've been through that so it's it's
like it's like your education your knowledge about emotions and intimacy
it's all life based it's not textbook based it's because you've lived through
it you've been there done that so to speak and you're helping people because
you you you know exactly what it's like right so what is the dark side the dark
side is keeping too many secrets had leaving like almost like a double life
so there's like Chiron in the seventh but it's like behind closed doors use
somebody else outside you're somebody else
okay so that's the dark side to have extreme characteristics the the the good
side is you when you heal you start talking about such intimate details that
it's that it's sort of like wow I never thought that I could talk about this
little fetish that I have or this thing that is so unique and interesting about
my intimate life that I could ever talk about to anybody else so be careful of
keeping secrets too many secrets here sort of kind of sweeping everything
under the rug like everything's fine nothing to worry about you know what I
mean and switching roles so so so so quickly but talking about support groups
so you have really interesting insights about human psychology and intimacy
share that with other people start a group if there is no if you're so unique
in your fetishes in your fears and insecurities that nobody else you don't
know anybody else start your own group and see if there's I'm sure there's
other people that have similar things that they need help with so I think this
is a placement where you bring this dark secret out and heal society heal help
others because you've been there so that's my take on Chiron in the eighth
house I hope you guys enjoyed this video I would love to hear your thoughts if
you have anything to say and if you would like in-depth insights and you
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perspective because we're talking about a single placement in isolation and it
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