Well, everything, he left. He left with a bag. I took my things. Well, that's all.
We have Saturday morning, 8 am.
And yesterday I went to look at the apartments. Now with Denis we'll go look for an apartment.
We will look for renting an apartment somewhere in our area. Let's see what happens from this.
There is one apartment is a good option, but it is beyond the area of Samukh. Those. it is even closer to the area of Kafr Abdu. Not very suitable for us.
We walk, walk, look, see nothing. In two places there were two and a half thousand and three. Expensive.
Muhamed knows that I wanted to leave. I wanted to divorce him. Those. I talked with him.
And by chance Muhamed yesterday heard that I had agreed on the apartment.
And after I talked to the man about the apartment, he came up to me and asked: What is there about the apartment?
I told him that I would leave. He said: That you still did not change your mind? We agreed on the end of the school year.
I say: No, I have not changed my mind. I just do not want to live with you.
And in the evening he went somewhere, arrived at night. And this morning he told me: I want to talk to you.
And he said: I thought and I decided that I would leave the apartment, since you do not want me to live here.
Then he said: Tonight I'll come and collect my things and I'll leave the apartment.
The next thing he said was that he would pay for the rent. I told him that I do not want to live in this apartment and I want to move to another apartment.
He said that he had no money to rent another apartment and no money to move. And that he will leave and leave us in this apartment.
I said that I need a rental contract ... Penny now I'll cover it.
I said that I need the lease to be in my name. He told me that he did not need to do this.
The owner refused. Next month, the owner will increase the rent of an apartment to 1800 pounds.
And that the owner is a very good person and I now have a joint project with the husband of his daughter.
I said the more so, if you are so well with my daughter's husband, I need a contract.
My husband said: He will not draw up a contract. I said that if he does not sign the contract, then from the beginning of next month I will leave with the children.
He promised to talk today with the owner of this apartment, to rewrite the contract for me.
But I still do not stop and continue searching for an apartment. Yesterday we saw one apartment in our same area.
And today I had to go in the morning ... Yesterday I got a call from the boy's mother, whose father is the lawyer with whom we met.
And she said we'd go make a power of attorney for her husband. Since he will deal with my citizenship and divorce.
And this boy's mother sent me the name of the lawyer (all in Arabic and where this place is located). The place is called Shera Akari (Sidi Geber).
This is the place where the power of attorney is issued.
Well, I think that maybe here. Ask. We found this place now enter.
We left this place now, Shera Akari. We did not receive documents from us. Because you need an translater.
We will now go to the translation center, which is located in the area of Shatby and will ask to be given an interpreter. And here you need to come with an translater.
And we go there either today or tomorrow.
What else did I want to say? I forgot when I started to talk. What other conditions did my husband put in me?
My husband also told me that I will pay for everything I paid for.
And allegedly he called his friend the judge and he said that if you make a divorce with me Hula (divorce in Islam, which the woman can do herself) you will not get any rights.
I say that I know. He also said that you are being deceived by all lawyers.
I am aware that by the divorce of Hula he will be obliged to provide housing and pay for all children. It suits me in principle.
And his only condition was that I stayed with the children in this apartment and that I did not divorce him Hula.
He said he would also provide. I said clearly. But, I need (he said) that we were married. It is clear, in order to hang.
Those. it will provide as before, but the only one will not come. But in principle, he does not often come.
But, I do not need you to divorce me (he said). I will work even more than I worked.
Maybe I'll go to Saudi Arabia, where my brother works. Here such information.
I write down what I remember. What else have we said? Well, today he promised that he would pick up his things in the evening and today he will tell me about the contract in my name.
Well, he's leaving now. Gathers his things and now will go. He asked where his bag was.
I said for Aya where the bag is. Now took the bag collects things.
How do I feel? Fearfully? Probably scary. But I think it's no worse than it was. God grant.
Children are always children. Children are children.
All he collected a bag. Malak go say good-bye, say goodbye.
Well, he's all gone. He left with a bag. I took my things. Well, that's it. All.
What are my feelings? Today, when I slept, and then woke up, there was a nightmarish feeling.
I think, Lord, what I'm doing. How can I live this way? How can I? How? How? How?
But, then I pulled myself together and thought how I live all these years.
That in principle, morally, mentally, in principle, people never existed, especially in the post-ample time. Probably the last one this year.
Those. he comes. Very little happens at home. At 2.3 sometimes for 4 hours. We practically do not communicate with him.
All of it is not in vain. Those. when I woke up I thought, what am I? What will I do? Guard. Paranoia.
And what is so special about my life? What changes in the lives of my children?
We, in principle, lived alone, we will live alone. It's just that he will not come to sleep here.
And his spiritual unity is no longer there. Therefore nothing changes. We continue to live the same way with children.
He arrives, takes children on weekends as before, was also to his mother, and then brings it.
This will be his communication. But the most important fact is that he will not come here. We will see how it will be.
Thank you all for your attention. I understand now people will tell ...... I do not want the children to see.
I understand that many now say why you do it. Children, the husband tries. I just want to say one thing, I can not live with him any more.
And as if it did not work out, it will be better for me and for the children. I think so.
Anything will go on, but it will be better for me and my children, I think so.
And I do not want to have such a life with him anymore. I'm very glad. Thank God that he left. But, and we remain with the kids.
And I do not deprive my children's father. He will meet with them on weekends. Most importantly, everything was decided without scandals.
Without abuse at children. Those. we agreed with him. And this is the most important thing.
For me, my condition is much more important now. Because with me there are children.
For me, the most important is how I will feel myself. So that my children feel most free. Their morale. My moral condition. Very important. I believe that God forbid that I was right.
The place on the camera ended so I had to interrupt.
I could not do this before and why I came back. Because many people write in the comments, why did not you leave before and give birth to a second child?
The first time I was born, I left it. Then she left him. Returned due to a financial and unstable situation.
Neither bad nor good. It is clear that in any situation, two are always to blame. I do not blame anyone.
Because when you have ... When two people do not connect anything. It is impossible to live only in the name of children, just to save the family.
Just to have a screen called a family. If two people who originally created a family do not like each other.
They should not seem to me to torment myself in the first place. If the parents torment themselves, then the children suffer first.
I think that God forbid it will be possible to maintain normal healthy relations so that the children communicate with his family and with him.
Restrict accordingly my communication with him. And to maintain a healthier environment without nerves and less positive.
Still there are working moments with payment and other things. Children for teachers, rent it will pay.
Those. working with him. The most important thing is that we will not have any personal issues with him.
No personal claims. The accusations of each other that you do not pay attention to me, I do not pay attention to you.
This will not happen again. For me, this is the most important thing. Only business issues remain. Not business, but questions related to children.
It is most important. This is what I wanted. So that we split up with him. Those. that was not personal.
That it was aimed more at children, at the family, at the provision. Without any mutual insults, humiliations, etc.
I'm very glad that it all ended.
I asked him, and what about the citizenship of the Russian Federation for girls. He said that you can forget about it.
I also asked him about my citizenship. I do not know when my relatives will re-format the documents.
There everything was stopped on names. That there were mistakes in the names of his relatives. They need to change their identity cards.
And he, respectively, with this business pulls. I have already agreed with an attorney who will deal with my citizenship, regardless of him. Which is very important.
Here such information. Something like that. What kind of news will be. I inform you.
There are a lot of comments with various tips. Thank you all very much.
There are various comments about how you can be involved in all these children.
It just so happened that children are the immediate participants of all this.
And this is not due to the fact that I am dragging children.
For example, Muhamed came yesterday with the girls. He enters the apartment and does not even greet Dany.
Some such things and children are still getting dragged into these situations. And this does not happen at will
And it just happened. Because when we found out the relationship.
Muhammad tried to show contempt for Dany, to make me hurt and unpleasant in some way.
That's why you do not want to, children ... Yes, and when he used to run screaming, he cursed before Dany
So I said that now he does not scream infront of Dany. He is afraid of Dany.
Because when he used to run screaming, he could do it infront of Dany.
Also many different others commenting that I refuse him to make coffee or something else.
You watch all the videos from the very beginning. It started neither yesterday nor the day before yesterday nor a year ago. Not 5 years ago. And it all started very, very, very, very long time ago.
Everything is very neglected. It is clear that two are always to blame. I think this from the very beginning is not the similarity of the characters.
A certain pressure on pity. For his part, he tried all the time to put pressure on pity in some way.
That's how it works out. Neither bad nor good. Family are always created by two people. Neither more nor less is not to blame.
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I show the situation that is. If I talk about furniture or I tell what happened, what's at home. I talk as it is
Do not try, as someone says "crap" or something else.
If I made a video, when he gives me the money and I try to take my money. In this it seems to me there is nothing illegal.
Because it's real. This is real, what is happening. It happens at this point in time, where we are.
I take it off accordingly. I then spread it. Is it bad or good? I try to record everything now.
Because I do not know. He now agreed to leave. In principle, it is not so and so it is not. He just came for a few hours.
Our life changes. He wants to tell me again, hang me. He does not actually live in principle, but comes for several hours.
And he wants me this way, how to give freedom. He allegedly gives me freedom. He does not give me freedom.
I am not a slave. Which was all these years and bonded.
I will do as I see it. He again tries to present all with a favor, that he will give money.
He even for HULA will have to provide, rent an apartment and will have to give money to children.
It's just a habit to represent everything in such a light that it does a favor. Here I am. I brought food.
Do not need any favors. I do not need anything from you. Something like that.
I understand that a lot of different comments about children will fall and I'm not good or something.
I want to live by myself and make my own decisions. It will be hard. Maybe it will be hard. It can be very hard.
But, it seems to me harder to live here in such a situation and do not change anything. It seems so to me.
Thank you all for your attention. See ya
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