Hey guys, it's Nikki again. And today it's Valentine's Day and I thought it would
be a great time, very appropriate to share some awkward boys stories with y'all,
because I've never done that before.
I never touched on awkward crushes or middle school stories about crushes and
boys... and some girls. So I thought today I would share them with you just so we can
laugh at ourselves. Mostly me. So I hope you guys enjoy and I hope you guys
get to know me a little bit. Today's a bit of a chill, long, story time video, so
grab a snack, grab a drink, grab anything. Grab a hand to hold, if you have one.
Alright, so I went to an all-girls school growing up, in Miriam College. I know some
of you know Miriam College. I live in the Philippines. It's one of the more known
all-girls schools here, aside from Poveda or AC or AA or any of
those other schools. It was fun studying there. The person involved in this story,
let's name her Anna. Anna in middle school, she was one of my bestest friends along
with a bunch of other girls, like we called ourselves... forgot what we called ourselves.
Fantastic Five or something? By the way, I still know her today and we
went to the same college and we say hi to each other.
I'm sure it won't be a problem, me sharing this story, because I'm not exposing her
identity and it's really more about me than her so... and she's a really good
person, she's really nice, really friendly. But this story is not nice.
So Anna and I were really close. I went to her house all the time and hung out with our other friends.
By the way guys, just for context I was in Grade Five, so this is a middle
school embarrassing story. I was in Grade 5 and she told me that she wanted to
introduce me to her cousin... which let's name him Mark, which was actually the
real name of the "cousin". I'm doing this um... you'll know why I'm doing this, all right.
So Anna was like "Hey you should meet Mark, my cousin, I'll give him your number
or I'll give you this number", whatever I don't remember how it happened, but Mark
and I started texting, all right, and I was like "Oh yeah sure cool" I mean I was
like... how old was I back then? 2005, six, seven... Um 2007, so I was around seven, eight
nine, 10, 11... like 11 years old? I was young, all right, and dumb. So I was like alright,
I've never seen him before, there wasn't... I don't think we had Facebook yet before
or maybe there was Friendster, I don't know. But the point is I didn't
know what Mark looked like or how old Mark was. "Mark". Again you will know
why I'm doing this. So I was like alright, let's go, and then Mark
and I started texting, it was great, and then I fell in love with him.
I know it sounds stupid to fall in love with someone you've never met,
but... I mean via text, not even like chat or video call or like friggin Omegle
or something. No. It was just texting. I was like "Oh Anna, uh..." I'm just inventing
possible conversations that we might have had. This is not verbatim, like this
is not word per word the conversation we had, but I remember, you know, I was really
liking Mark and then probably told Anna, like "Hey, it's really nice talking to your cousin and everything",
so I decided to take it to the next level, so I said,
I'm gonna call Mark at Anna's house, so I dialed up Anna and back then
telephoning someone was really... I mean that was a normal way to communicate
especially like three-ways. I know some of you did that.
So I telephoned her and then I... someone picked up, I'm not sure who it was,
from her house, and I said "Hey can I talk to Mark, Anna's cousin?" and then
someone answered, they were like, "There's no Mark here, uhh, wrong number."
And I was like "No, I'm Nikki, Anna's friend and I just want to talk to Anna's
cousin, Mark". And then the other person who answered, a maid or their aunt, whoever,
I don't know, or her sister, I don't know. And then they were like "Again, wrong number,
there's no Mark here". And then I was texting Anna, I was like, "Anna, that's really weird...
I called your house and they said there wasn't a Mark there". I remember she said
something like "Oh I don't know, I'm out for a walk right now, or I'm outside the
house right now so I don't know why they said that". And then later on, not later that day,
but like... I don't know how long after that. I discovered that Mark
was not a real person and it was Anna texting me all along using that number,
that random number she probably bought a sim or something and had an extra phone
and was pranking me the whole time, the whole time.
You can imagine how heartbroken my 11-year-old, 12-year-old self was. I was in love and I just
realized I was in love with a non-existent person. So, there's that.
That, I can say, was my first heartbreak with "Mark", "Anna's cousin".
Now you know why I'm doing this this whole time. Mind you guys, before I found out that he wasn't a real person,
I would kind of cry about him, because like... I don't know, like I was
really into him and then it didn't feel like he was into me or... just like...
I think we would like set up dates together but like he wouldn't show up or
I don't know, I don't know, I don't know if I'm just imagining these things
because it was such a long time ago, but I know I remember distinctly laying down
my bed and then crying to "Go On Girl" by... is it Ne-Yo? "Go on girl, go on girl..."
I was feeling that song, because I was so heartbroken with my relationship with Mark.
And then I realize he's not a real person, so there. That's the story of my imaginary boyfriend
and since then, Anna and I kind of drifted apart for obvious reasons.
I mean, I was a good prank, if it lasted for like a day or something?
But no it lasted for days, if not weeks.
So it was awkward.
Um, yeah, and we say hi sometimes to each other when we were in college
and just decided not to talk about the story about Mark. There's that.
Alright so... Let's move on to high school. Again my childhood,
growing up in MC, it wasn't that bad, like I had good friends,
I enjoyed studying there, but like I said there were definitely some moments there
that kind of um... it was really awkward and I'd just wanna cringe and I still cringe to
this day when I think about it. Another cringe-worthy story I have for you is
prom season. So here in the Philippines, we only have one prom, that's when
you're a junior in high school, and when you're a senior you have a grad ball,
is what you call it, like graduation ball. So when I was a junior obviously we had
prom and we're an all-girls school, so we can ask people outside of school to be
our dates. So that's what I did. I knew this guy and he is still friends with
some of my friends today so I won't say his name out loud here on camera.
Let's just name him Ben. So this guy named Ben... That doesn't suit him at all... but, Ben.
So Ben and I... I forgot how we met but we were both into music and I was.
I used to write songs back in high school, and he had a band. I think he still is
in the band today. So I'm not sure if that's how he met, but that was our, like,
common interest, like me would do gigs together, stuff like that. So we were
kind of close. And then I was friends with his friends as well from the band.
I'm not sure if it was a soiree we met at, maybe it was. Because in all-girls schools,
in all-boys schools, we do soirees. What that is is like we do like...
get-togethers, like parties outside of school to get a chance interact
with the opposite sex, because like I said all-girls school, so not many males there,
just the teachers, I guess. So there, I think I met Ben in a soiree.
So like I said, we were... I think we kind of liked each other, but then we didn't
really talk about it. Again, very blurry memory. I'm just telling you like the
general plot of my life and what happened. But I remember texting him my
promposal. I asked him "Hey you wanna go to prom with me?" like it wasn't a big
deal or anything, like it was just a text and it wasn't a big deal to me, just
asking him to prom. And he said yes. And my prom... I mean it wasn't, uh, it wasn't
the best prom ever. It was nice because I got to spend time
with my friends, but like, me and Ben, we just really didn't click, like we had the
most awkward prom dance ever, where we were like dancing and then we were like,
we didn't know where to put our heads, so like we did like a forehead-to-forehead action,
it was like really cringey. Maybe at the time it wasn't for him,
or maybe at the time, I was just in denial, but looking back now, it was kind
of cringey. Like, I mean, obviously, we just weren't meant for each other that way
we were just meant to be friends, but that happened. And then funnily
enough the next day after prom, that's where I met my ex-girlfriend.
Another long story. Some of you don't even know that I had a
girlfriend in the past, but I did. Just dropped a bomb probably on some of you,
but that's not the story today. Anyways it's about Ben. I'm not sure
about the timeline in this story but... so he went to prom with me and it was all
fine and dandy whatever. He studied in Ateneo High School (AHS),
which is right next to Miriam College so the reason I'm telling you that is I was
invited to a talk for... I think it was an Ateneo Grade School (AGS) talk. I don't know why
I specifically was invited, but me and a bunch of other girls from MC were
invited to talk to the boys in the grade school about puberty or growing up
or I remember that we had to talk about masturbation and like my thoughts on it,
was it wrong? I remember saying "Guys, don't masturbate" because I mean there
were parents there. What was I supposed to say? Like tell a bunch of seventh graders
to masturbate in front of their parents and teachers? I mean I wasn't
gonna do that, so I was like "Yeah don't masturbate.
It's... no, don't do it." That's another awkward story in this awkward story,
but I remember that day so I went over there. So I went over there to the AGS,
we just walked, because, like I said, it's just next to each other. Walking there and
then we did a talk and everything and then during the break, like I said, Ben
studied in AHS as well, so it was just around the area of the
talk. AGS, AHS, whatever. Whatever. So he met up with me along with
his other friends during the break of the talk that day. And I was with a bunch
of other girls. And then like I said it was prom season, and then he had like
this big illustration board that he had with him that had like a drawing of
like an iPhone in front, like an iPhone home screen. I was like, what's happening?
And the guys around him were like "ooooh", you know how guys, like boys, kind of like
are rowdy and like making noise when something's happening, something's about to happen.
I was like alright "maybe he's gonna ask you to prom". Imagine I'm in the
middle and then Ben's right in front of me with a big illustration board and
then we were surrounded by MC girls and AHS boys and then he was like,
like he wanted me to like unlock the iPhone illustration, and then I did that,
like slide to unlock, like before. Right now you don't slide to unlock,
you just push a button or it reads your face, whatever. But before, you had...
for those of you who didn't know, you had to slide to unlock like an iPhone before,
for some of you who don't know that. And then he was like... he opened the illustration board
and it was like "will you go to prom with me?" or something.
like I said, very blurry memory, but it was a promposal. It was a promposal and then...
I mean what was I supposed to say? Was I supposed to say, "No, I don't want to go to
prom with you because my prom was awkward"? Or I don't know. I didn't know what to say, alright.
I didn't know what to say. Ben if you're watching, don't be offended, it was
years ago and right now it's just funny story to me, it's a funny story.
So I said, "yeah sure I'll go to prom with you" and then everybody was like "Ooh yeah, she's going to prom with him" blahblahblah.
And then, after a while, I don't know what happened but I backed out
from going to prom with him, I don't know why.
And I remember, Ben's friend, let's just name him George. George got
really mad at me and called me names or or a name. I just remember one name but
he was really mad and... for me cancelling on his friend, Ben. To be honest it was a
bitch move that I did, I said yes and then I cancelled, so it was a bitch move.
I shouldn't have done it. But right now it's just a funny story looking back,
because I mean I was immature and it was a bitch move. But yeah it was awkward and
after that we stopped talking, but today I mean I guess if we see each other we'll
say hi, because like I said some of my friends are his friends, so there's that.
Weird prom story for y'all. I mean it's really unfair what I did, because I asked
him to prom and he said yes and he actually went to my prom, and then he
asked me to his prom and I said yes, but then I didn't go to his prom,
which was really unfair of me, but yeah call me a bitch, but that's what's happened.
That's what happened. So there.
Anyways we're back from the commercial break.
So that's the end of the prom story. I have just one more story to share with you because this video is
gonna be so long if I keep on talking about boys and stories happened to me,
but maybe I'll do another one but here I go with the last one. This is also a
prom-ball story but this time it's ball, grad ball, and it didn't happen
during my prom season. It was when I was a freshman in high school, alright.
And it was with another AHS boy, let's name him Brian, alright.
So I was in the AHS fair, some of you know what that is, it's a fair,
I mean it's a festival, fair, carnival, whatever you call it, that is held every year.
We also have that in Miriam, but I was in the AHS fair with a bunch of friends and
then we were just walking around, just walking around, and then this one guy...
What did I name him again? Brian. This one guy Brian, and his friend... let's say Danny.
Brian and Danny. Danny was really cute but then Brian was like, you know... He was a guy.
And then I found out they were both seniors, and then me and Cessy
were like "oh Danny's really cute, like... and then Brian's like... yeah he's cool as well."
The whole day, we just went around with Brian and Danny with the fair...
We rode rides and stuff and we played games, we went around, just met people.
It was really crazy, because we had just met Brian & Danny that day, but we went around
the whole fair together that day. And then we had a great time, alright.
And the whole time, like me and Cessy were like crushing on Danny, but like
obviously Brian was the one who's like more engaging with us, which was kind of nice,
he was really friendly and we appreciated that, like he was a nice guy.
Again, if you guys are watching, which I don't think you are, sorry.
Anyways, so... what happened... Apparently Cessy's brother was friends with Danny.
And then obviously Danny was friends with Brian. And then one day, Cessy gave me like this...
like calendar or something, that apparently was from Brian to give to me.
And I was like "How did Brian give that to you" and she was like "Oh my brother is friends
with Danny, and Danny's friends with Brian", so that's how... that's the trail, that's the trail of the gift.
And then I opened the gift, it was a... like I said it was a calendar.
And then it was like this board and then here at the top is
where the the months were and it was like...like each paper was a month so
you could just had to flip it. And behind each paper was like a message for
me from Brian. And then he was like "Oh I was wearing this color when I met you"
and blah blah blah. I still have the calendar to this day, alright.
At the time I was like, I mean I was a freshman and then this guy was a senior and to me,
at the time it was like "Woah, what are you doing? You're older than me, like what are you doing?"
To me it was like so weird. But now if like a 26-year-old guy did that to me,
I wouldn't find it weird, because I mean it's not weird now at this age
for that age difference, but at the time, when I was younger, I was like whoa.
It was like super controversial to me, like what is he doing, giving me a calendar full of letters?
And at the end... at the end it was like,
"If you haven't guessed yet, it's me Brian, and would you want to go to ball with me?
It's on this day blah blah". And then again, I felt weird about it, so I told Cessy,
"I think I don't want to go with him to ball, because it's just weird,
I don't know him that well, we just met that day, and can you tell him no?" Or like
I'll just text him no. I don't know how I rejected him but I did and I'm sorry,
Brian if you're watching, which, again, I don't think you are, but yeah. It was just...
It was awkward.
Alright guys, those are all the stories I have for you today.
I hope you enjoyed each and every awkward boy story.
And if you liked this video, leave a comment down below if you want to see more of my
stories or like story time videos. I have a lot of awkward and embarrassing stories
that I can share with you and we can all cringe at my stories, so just let me know
if you want to hear more of them. For now, happy Valentine's Day. I hope you guys
enjoy and feel the love today or you felt the love today, because I might post
this after Valentine's Day, I'm pretty sure I will. I love you. I love you
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