This is titled, "Truth About My Husband."
Hello.
I'm a wife in my 30s with
a 4-year-old and a 9-month-old.
This is my husband.
Ring.
Hello?
What?
There's a problem?
Then I must go help you. I'll be right there!
Are you crazy? It's one in the morning!
Where are you going? No way!
You mustn't live your life like that!
You're very harsh.
You're supposed to help others.
Move aside. I'll be right back.
This is my husband.
He goes out whenever someone needs his help.
"Honey. Where are you?"
"Me? I'm at a kindergarten school performance."
"What? But our daughter is at home."
"Which kindergarten are you at?"
"My friend's daughter is performing today.
I'm busy. Bye."
Ring.
"Honey. Where are you?"
"I'm at a friend's aunt's son's wedding.
I'm at the after-party."
Is he a professional participant or something?
He's considerate of others, but to me...
"Honey. Our baby is crying. Please hold him."
"I'm tired. All babies are supposed to cry."
"Honey, my shoulders hurt. Give me a massage."
"Your shoulders?
No, I'm too tired.
I don't think I can do it."
He doesn't care about his own family.
What should I do with him?
This is her concern.
Junhyun, do you help out others?
I used to be called a meddler.
But now that I'm married...
I can't do that anymore.
It's too tiring.
You're sweating a lot.
I'm sure you can detect heat around me.
Sure.
He doesn't sweat from January 15 to February 10.
- Really? / - Why not?
It's my off-season.
You can't see that because I'm not on TV either.
I go into hibernation.
- You can go back to your seat now. / - Okay.
It feels much cooler now.
You're like a heater.
Let's meet the wife now.
She's from Mungyeong.
(Who's concerned about her meddling husband?)
(Choi Jihye)
Why is your husband so busy?
He is into so many things.
We own a health care center.
Oh, a health care center.
He is a leader in many meetings, too.
Tell us a few of them.
He's the director of a youth merchant group,
a volunteer fire brigade,
a SNS reporter group,
a youth merchant group,
a morning soccer group.
He's the vice president of his alumni association.
He's part of local campaigns, sports events...
He goes out when anyone asks for help.
He's a professional participant.
What does he do at home?
He sleeps.
He's in charge of sleeping?
It sounds like he does this voluntarily.
He's a meddler.
He can never say no to anyone.
I see. He can't say no.
One time, an acquaintance was moving.
People usually hire a moving van.
But he volunteered to help move a refrigerator.
When someone has a concern,
he listens to them talk all night long.
One time, he went to a distant relative's wedding.
A friend's aunt's son
got married the other day.
He was asked to attend the after-party.
Why would he go to that?
He came home at 4 a.m.
He's a super insider.
Insider. Insider.
Everyone knows who my husband is.
He's Director Yang.
Didn't you figure this out when you were dating?
I was blinded by love back then.
He looked so handsome.
When he volunteered to help others?
He would help those in need or
pay the bill at a meeting.
He was so manly.
I married him because he was warm-hearted.
But after our kids were born
he felt more responsible for our family.
That's when he started to work more.
So what you liked about him turned out to be bad.
You should've kept him as a stranger.
What's the point of saying that now?
He's a great guy as a stranger.
A familiar face in the neighborhood.
It's nice to have a friend like him.
(I wish he could be a better husband...)
He started to work more for his family, right?
Shouldn't this also mean he earns more money?
He gets paid from two things.
Our health center and the youth merchant group.
He does everything else for free.
So we barely break even.
Instead of selling our products to our customers,
he offers free samples to them.
Try this. I made it myself. Taste it.
He gives them out for free.
I have a hard time raising our kids.
But he goes to other stores and
gives them advice on how to be successful.
He doesn't mind his own store?
No. So I told him, "I'm exhausted.
Our store isn't doing so well."
He replies, "You're too cruel."
(What?)
(Frustrated)
"You aren't considerate of others.
If you like this, no one will be your friend."
What do people say about your husband?
"You married a great man."
- That's how it is. / - This is frustrating.
"There's no other man like him."
He works hard and watches the kids.
But when he comes home,
he just lies down and does nothing.
I am raising our 4-year-old daughter
and a 9-month-old son.
They must be a handful.
Yes, so I ask him for help.
He says, "You must overcome it.
You are their mother.
There's nothing a person can't do.
Have a strong mentality."
(How can he say that to his wife?)
Let's meet this considerate man.
Her husband. Where are you?
(Who's the meddler husband?)
I'm her husband, Yang Jaepil.
He does look like a nice person.
Thank you for coming here despite your busy day.
It looks like he came here today
because he couldn't say no to the scriptwriters.
He can't refuse like a yes-man.
Did you come because we asked you to come?
No, that's not it.
I want her to be more understanding.
(Be more understanding?)
You want her to be even more understanding?
I wasn't like this before we got married.
If I don't interact with others,
I can't make ends meet for my family.
I started these meetings for my family
and I'm where I am today.
You think this is all part of your sales?
I don't think too much about sales.
Then what is it that you're doing?
What has the choir got to do with sales?
I'm the director of the youth merchant group.
I thought that doing this would
help our business in the future.
You started those meeting to revive the market?
Yes, that's right.
Why did you go to your friend's daughter's school?
People don't normally go to those.
I think my friend's daughter is
also my family.
That is why you feel so burdened.
Then everyone's children would be family.
(He lives such a tiring life)
He asked me to join him,
but my disc ruptured.
I couldn't even sit down.
He went there instead of taking care of you?
She was in pain at the time?
It's been a while since her back hurt.
It got worse the day of the school performance.
I think you should apologize to her.
(You can't see that I'm in pain, right?)
Tell us one thing he did you couldn't accept
It was a colleague that he used to work with.
A friend of 10 years moved to Vietnam saying,
"Come visit me when I get married."
I didn't think he would actually go.
But he really went to Vietnam
for the wedding.
Our son was 200 days old, he abandoned the store
and went for 8 days 7 nights.
That's a long trip.
For a wedding?
(Can't understand)
(Ha ha)
In Vietnam, a wedding lasts for 4 days.
You were there for the after-party, too?
Who is that?
(The husband is singing)
(He has forgotten about his wife)
It's his wife who's crying.
(The friend who comforted me)
He likes songs about friendship.
(Bounce bounce)
He's having a blast.
(Having a blast!)
(My life-long friend)
(He had a blast!)
I was only going to stay for a few days.
But he said, "That's too short. Stay longer."
He politely asked me.
Oh gee.
It wasn't just the wedding.
I studied the market while I was there.
(He gets people even angrier)
I listened to Coach Park Hangseo, too.
(He isn't apologizing at all...)
My parents always taught me that
everything I do for others will come back tenfold.
Wouldn't that be true?
It is true,
but at this rate, we'll be broke.
It costs money to go to special events.
He goes to a distant relative's wedding.
When a friend he hasn't spoken with
calls and says, "My son turned one,"
he says, "I'll wire you some money."
People ask him for money for various reasons.
I think he's given away about $20,000 so far.
(Oh my)
(He'll never get that back...)
I said, "We'll go broke if you keep this up."
He said, "Why are you so pessimistic?
We live in a beautiful world.
You'll realize that someday."
It's so frustrating.
I have a disorder.
I can't say no to people.
You said that you can't say no.
Have you lent money and never got it back?
Yes, a little.
Something that your wife doesn't know about?
(Something that his wife doesn't know?)
If I told her, she would've...
There is?
(Speechless)
I don't have a lot of money.
So it's only about $2,000.
I lend it out thinking that it's not mine.
Why would you do that? It's your money.
(This is why I'm so frustrated)
How much do you think you spend
on special occasions per month?
I heard that stars spend thousands on those.
We don't!
Why would you compare with us?
(Why would he compare it with celebrities?)
Why do you compare it with us?
I gave $100 at Sooji's wedding.
Yes, It was well received.
During peak seasons,
I spend about $700 a month.
I spent over $1,000 for relatives.
Why are you surprised?
I didn't know.
She didn't know about some special events.
(Oh my)
Does he help out around the house?
To be honest, I work, too.
(What? She works, too?)
I am in charge of the youth merchant group.
I send our daughter to daycare
and go to work with our son.
I work from morning to evening.
Then you do chores at home, too?
Yes, I do them all by myself.
I bathe our kids and put them to bed.
I ask him to take out the trash,
and he says, "I'll do it in the future."
He says that if he's too good to me now,
- I will get tired of him. / - Too good to you?
He says that he'll do it gradually.
Doesn't he keep losing his appeal?
He likes to watch television, too.
He cries as he watches idol audition programs.
It must've been hard to get this far.
I could be crying then because
I can't sleep or eat well. But he doesn't care.
I suffered from mastitis from breastfeeding.
I had a fever over 104 degrees.
I called him after midnight.
You're being patient.
He said, "Do you know how hard it is for me?
I'm working all day after drinking energy drinks."
It's not like I don't do anything at home.
As I watched Hello Counselor, I would think,
"How can people like them exist?"
You're one of them.
I'm a good...
You're a kind but bull-headed man.
Right. He's bull-headed.
You're kind, but bull-headed.
It's hard to be angry at him.
If he were bad, we'd be able to scold him.
You don't admit your faults at all.
Not even your trip to Vietnam.
(It must be frustrating for her)
There's a person who is looking at her pitifully.
It's her mother.
Hello.
She's beautiful.
When did you think your son-in-law is nice?
I don't think
I've ever felt that way.
She's raising her kids
and going out to deal with the customers.
She is so tired that
she said that she needs a good sleep.
My son-in-law said,
You'll sleep well once you die.
What a choice of words he uses.
That's what he told her.
It was very upsetting.
(I feel bad for her)
Do you think he's a meddler?
His friend's aunts went to a karaoke place.
He went there
and came home late at night.
He went with his friend's aunts?
Do you think your son-in-law enjoys it
or is it strictly business?
I think he enjoys it.
He likes to hold the microphone.
My mother-in-law is mistaken.
That was an after-party of a wedding.
My friend's aunts
and their friends were at the karaoke place.
You were in a karaoke place with strangers.
The aunts were like who's this guy?
You get into it when you're at these parties.
You love it, right?
I end up enjoying it because I drink.
He likes to party.
In the video, he looked like a wedding singer.
Did your wife ever upset you?
I can't say it because I want to protect her.
When we just got married, I saw her get mad
and decided to change my personality
and never get mad at her.
Let me tell you why we don't think that's true.
If you really decided to change
your personality, when your wife breastfeeds,
you should be doing chores at home.
But she does everything and you watch TV.
It's because I'm too tired.
(He's so selfish)
You shouldn't say that right now.
Let's hear it from a third party.
Let's talk to one of his friends.
Hello.
I've been friends with him since middle school.
He's friends with my husband, too.
What was he like when he was young?
He was a yes man.
He never said no and never got angry.
He was good to other people.
He's a good person.
But there's no sincerity.
How would you feel if you were his wife?
I wouldn't be able to stand it.
He's surprisingly very patriarchal at home.
He believes that men work and
women are supposed to look after them.
When I watch those two,
Jihye is patient on a lot of things.
It'd be nice if he tells her she's doing well.
When I tell him that, he replies,
"Everyone else lives like that, too."
(How could you!)
(That's terrible)
He told me this when we were dating.
I'm not the type to say nice things.
When I'm raising our children, he tells me,
Don't be nice to them.
They will get in bad habits.
They will start to want more."
When I was giving birth to our daughter,
I didn't know I was having contractions.
But then I felt like the baby was coming.
I asked him to go get a nurse.
He said, "It's not time yet."
He wouldn't get the nurse.
I started to scream in pain.
The nurse came saying,
The baby is crowning already!
Why didn't you say anything earlier?"
After I gave birth,
he told me,
"Only Korea does postpartum treatments.
In other countries, women run after delivery.
Walk up the stairs."
I was walking up the stairs and a doctor said,
"Ma'am. What are you doing?
You bled so much that you're anemic.
You shouldn't walk around.
Sir, help her out."
So I took the elevator up.
I was very upset then.
He never listens to me.
(Oh girl...)
This really happened, right?
I was just trying to make her laugh.
I didn't mean to hurt her.
I didn't mean it.
(Sigh...)
(Hmm...)
It's not a joke if she isn't laughing.
Let me ask you this.
Why do you think your wife came here today?
Dongyeob, why don't you talk to him?
At this rate, I may have to return my award.
Because I'm the breadwinner,
I do all these things for them.
If I tell her that I'm having a hard time,
it would stress her out more.
So I take on all that burden by myself.
My wife said I go out to party a lot.
But I don't go out with my friends at all.
I don't go out to drink for personal reasons.
- Not now? / - Correct.
I don't know what you do
and how much more you need to work hard.
But if you don't go to someone's special events,
will they cut ties with you then?
I don't think so.
I think you fear that too much.
It seems you're unable to distinguish
what's important and what you're doing
to impress others.
You keep saying that it's for the family,
and that's why your wife is frustrated.
Kim Junhyun is known to be friendly.
He's a meddler and likes to drink and eat.
But now that he has a family,
he started to see his colleagues less.
I would get texts at 2 or 3 a.m.
"You've changed." They would cuss, too.
You need to be more honest with yourself.
You don't have to work outside the home.
You must be a part of your family
without fearing it.
That's where you need to start.
You must stop making excuses to go out.
How would you feel if this goes on?
I feel like we are becoming hurdles
as he works to make a name for himself.
(No no)
I don't want to be the bad person.
Should I divorce him
once our children turn 20?
(What does his family mean to him?)
(How hard it must be for her to think that.)
Once they're 20? He's only 9 months old.
You've brainwashed her too much.
How could she think she's an obstacle?
What would you like to say to your husband?
I know life is tough for you.
But if you focus too much on others,
I may not be there by your side.
Please pay attention to me.
My heart dropped when she said that.
It's quite scary to hear that.
Let's start with Suji.
It must be tough to hear this.
Yes, I'm very nervous.
- I just got married. / - Oh, Suji.
(Let's live happily, honey)
(I want to press the button)
I think this problem can be solved
if the husband that your wife sees
and the man others see match.
This is a serious problem.
This is definitely a concern for the wife.
They just debuted and lost a lot of weight
during this shoot.
- Can this be real? / - It's real.
It's shocking.
I think it's a concern, too.
If you think it's a concern for the wife,
please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Please stop.
Let me ask you, ma'am.
If your husband changes his attitude
and decides to spend time with his family,
what do you want to do the most?
I want us to have a hobby together.
I like to sing and dance, too.
You are a cheerful person.
When we went to a wedding,
we went on a tour bus.
I begged my husband to let me have fun.
I got to dance for 20 minutes.
- 20 minutes? / - On the bus?
All my stress went away.
In just 20 minutes.
Your kids aren't here. Imagine that this is a bus.
(Pit-a-pat)
(Blow your stress away)
Think of this as a group tour.
Why don't you join us, too?
- You want to dance, right? / - Yes.
- Come up here. / - Come.
Hongseok.
There's always a talented dancer on the bus.
Do this, okay?
(Is he crying?)
The bus shouldn't be moving. Stop the bus.
Her husband is crying.
He's crying. Oh gee.
He must have many mixed feelings.
(He has mixed feelings when looking at his wife)
Why are you crying?
I feel like I put her through too much.
I will do better now.
(He feels bad for his wife)
(He finally sees what she's been through)
To be honest,
my wife isn't the type to talk of divorce.
Hearing her saying that today...
I never knew she felt this way.
(He feels so bad for her)
Please say a word to her.
Look into her eyes.
(Please say nice things to her)
(with sincerity)
I know I am not perfect.
Thanks for marrying me.
I will work harder
so that you don't suffer from now on.
Let's work things out!
Please try to be more understanding, too.
Hug her and tell her that you love her.
I love you.
(Please keep expressing your love)
(Just like how you're a good guy to others)
(be a great husband and father to your family!)
If you don't want to,
you don't have to dance. Do you want to dance?
Dance? Okay.
(I can't miss this chance)
She must really love to dance.
(She's determined to dance)
You should slow dance together.
Take off your jacket and let's do it.
Show her your love.
Music, cue.
Let's go.
(Let's go)
(Her body moves to the music)
(Her surpressed joy takes over the stage)
Turn up the volume.
(Bravo)
(Let's dance together, honey)
(The moves she has longed for)
Over here.
(Bursting with joy)
(Don't stop me today!)
(I wish I didn't see that)
(Move aside, stress!)
Please applaud for them!
(How did she hold it back for so long?)
(I feel refreshed now)
(Let's be happy from now on)
How many votes did they get?
Please show us.
Out of 200 votes.
Did they get 200 votes?
(Did they get 200 votes?)
(What's the result?)
For real?
170! Wow!
He may not keep his promise with her,
but he keeps his promise to other people.
Make a promise to everyone in the world.
What are you going to do at home?
Doing house chores won't be easy,
but I will try to do them.
Try to talk to her nicely.
I will tell her I love her every day
and kiss her on her cheek.
(Smile)
He'll keep his promise.
Thank you. Good work.
(After today)
(we hope they become a happy family!)
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