you insignificant piece of s$#! do you even have the slightest inkling as to
what you have done disrespectful people seem to do that to us
and it's usually uncalled for how do we manage to insult us in every given
situation the racists the people who make religious jokes and the people who
just happen to pull your leg here and there I am going to give you five tips
today on how you can deal with disrespectful people more effectively
and never get disrespected again there were once two monks who were walking by
a river while on their journey on one of the days they found this lady drowning
in the water the elder monk took it upon himself to jump into the river and save
the lady ultimately dragging her out and taking her along their journey to
receive some care at some point of time along the journey the younger monk asks
the older monk you know very well that we aren't allowed to touch women yet you
haven't said anything about it over the last five days and to this the older
monk replies you know what you're right we aren't allowed to touch women and in
fact you aren't even allowed to speak to them but the thing is I rescued that
lady and I carried her on my shoulders for five minutes you've been doing it
for five days it's very interesting to consider how only up until the fact that
you think about something that's when it becomes significant and this is critical
if you want to understand how disrespectful people affect you in your
life think about it every single time someone has tried to insult you is it
really their fault is what they have said about you true what do you think
about it that's very interesting to consider because majority of the time
it's not what other people say it's not what other
do but what you think about it that really matters so it's not the ongoings
of the things that are going on around you what do you think when someone else
insults you how do you respond rather than react to the situation essentially
no one on this planet can make you feel the way you do it's all up to you
because no one can belittle you no one can insult you no one can actually make
you feel miserable no one except yourself and that is a
very powerful statement to actually consider and regardless of anything that
you are doing and anything that people think about you if you look at it from
this point of view you never have to feel insulted about anything because if
you have an attitude like I don't care about what other people think of me then
life becomes so much easier and it seems that today we live in a world where we
are always dictated and driven by all of the things that people expect of us
versus what we actually want for ourselves or what we think of ourselves
so think about this can I actually control how I respond in a given
situation even if someone disrespects me having said that a disrespectful person
is always out to prove either that they're superior to you or maybe they're
just pulling your leg and having some fun or they fail to realize the
seriousness of the situation when they insult you it could be any of these
three things or a wide variety of things that forces them to actually disrespect
you in the first place so what can you do about this
let me give you five tips that will help you out with this and ultimately dispel
any of future disrespectful situations or disrespecting people
that you may encounter in your life number one just do this don't take it
personally it's very straight forward and closely connected to what I already
explained it's only up until you realize that who is this person
do they really matter to does their opinion of me really matter
to me consider all of these things and if they
actually fall into your inner circle versus your outer circle then just take
their opinion for it if it's true to some extent well consider it to be
constructive criticism and move on however if they're from your outer
circle and they don't really matter to you walk away it doesn't really matter
you don't have to address them or you don't even have to pay attention to what
it actually means if you want to understand this more deeply hit the eye
button go watch the video that I made on how to stop taking things personally and
you'll understand this principle a lot better having said that here's tip
number two tip number two is very straightforward again
remember how you you know walk away from a situation you repeat that through a
physical symbolic action shrug it off shrug it off and just walk away because
if you take it inside and you just deal with all of that all of the thoughts all
of the anger it's just going to make you feel a lot more miserable create this
sense of there's something wrong with me and in reality when someone has
disrespected you it says a lot more about them than it does about you I'll
repeat that again it says a lot more about them than it does about you so why
are you taking it personally why are you taking it upon yourself when you can
just shrug it off just take things lightly because unless their opinion
truly matters unless their opinion is truly of some value to you don't really
even bother because disrespectful people are going to disrespect the algún insult
they are going to take you for a ride so don't worry about it
shrug it off and walk away the next thing that you can do is take a timeout
you take a timeout and you walk away from the situation this is very healthy
because it's too much to handle in the heat of the moment you either want to
deal with the situation or you want to know how to react and you can't really
do both at the same time in an effective way
unless you've trained yourself to deal with these people in a very effective
manner so what do you do you call it I'm out and then you walk away from the
situation this is very powerful because it allows you to avoid a confrontation
and maybe find time later to actually deal with the situation in a more
effective manner and that is where tip number four comes into play and that is
educate them go up to them at a point of time when things have died down when
they are preferably alone and they don't have to many of the people who can
actually disrespect you together talk to them confront them and do it in
a very stern manner it's contrary to popular belief that you should probably
not go aggressive you should not try to insult people however one of the things
that I really like to do in these situations is correct them correct them
for what they did in that particular situation if someone has disrespected
you you have to let them know and you have to do it effectively and if they
don't get the message surround yourself with other people who can support you
and this is very important even for something like bullying can you confront
the person in an effective way listen what you did to me that day in front of
everyone that was really hurtful you belittled me and I did not take kindly
to that I would expect you in future to refrain from that kind of behavior
because I do not enjoy it and I think it speaks a lot more about you than it does
about me every time you do that in front of other people let the silence not hang
on for too long after that shift the situation how do I move forward that's
the most important thing and once you consider this you realize that anyway
now that I've finished saying whatever I wanted to say let's move on after you
crafted the conversation in this man you immediately do that because not only
does this allow the other person to feel more empathic and realize that what it
was like to actually stand there in that position that you were in after being
disrespected this is a great way to actually bring it back to them give it
back to them so that they actually go through and they feel a little bit of
guilt that's the only way that you can actually make a disrespectful person see
the light after you do this the last thing that you can do is craft or frame
the situation for future occasions and how do you do that you do the exact same
thing that you did in step number four and you get to know the people around
you I repeat that you get to know the people around you so that if in case
there is someone who is the funny guy the person who likes to pull your leg or
to someone who truly disrespects everyone you are well aware of it and
you make it well known within the group that there are certain rules or there
are certain things that I do not really prefer flying and I actually have a
conversation because there may be certain things that we may not even be
aware of in different situations that actually take people off that actually
caused them to feel disrespected even though no one was really time to
disrespect them in the first place so consider all of that really think about
who are the people that you're hanging out with let them consider who you are
let them get to know you and ultimately let them get framed pre framed to
realize that no I cannot behave like this in this particular situation if in
case I disrespect someone I am going to offer an apology and if the apology is
not enough what else can I do to make it up to you if you confirm all of these
things ahead of time before a confrontational situation arises before
someone disrespects you then you're more likely to avoid the situation altogether
and that's how you make sure that no one ever disrespects you again so running
through all of them don't take it personally shrug it off
all the time out ask them to develop empathy and actually confront them and
number five pre frame them in order to avoid being disrespected in the first
place if you do all five of these things I promise you you will never be
disrespected by anyone again in your life
effective tips provided you use them in the right way if you found this video
useful hit the thumbs up button comment down below tell me what you picked up
from this video which one of these five tips are you going to use first I'm very
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