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(Portuguese) Babi: Hi everyone! Mike: Hi everyone! Today I brought my husband here to make a video
Can you fix my hair?
Are you good with that curl here on the side?
Yeah, it's fine! Look at me..
Do you want some makeup??? Maybe!
(Portuguese) So.. I brought my husband to make a video
We are going to talk a little bit about the pregnancy
But in a fun way
I wrote five questions to ask him and he has five questions to ask me
(Portuguese) Mike: My name is Mike, I don't speak too much Portuguese
But I speak a little bit!
As a result let's just do this in English...
So yeah, so I'm gonna ask her a few questions. She's gonna ask me a few questions, and we'll go form there
Fix my hair! Fix my hair!
So my first question for you is: What was the first time you realized that you had another human being growing inside of you?
It was at the first ultrasound
Not the first ultrasound here..
But the one at the hospital
I was as three months pregnant
That was the first time we saw a baby
All the others
Ultrasounds we would see like a peanut, a frog..
A rag doll...
But that one was the first time we saw a baby.. like we saw her nose, we saw her head..
It was like starting..
Yeah. That was like really really incredible!
And it feels really weird to have someone growing inside of me
And it gets weirder every day
I wrote down everything because of pregnancy brain
What was the first thing you thought when I told you I was pregnant?
See the first time... Like what I first thought the first time she told me like: Yeah, we're pregnant was I was going work
Was at the station and my first thought was "I KNEW IT!". Because it was weird like she wasn't feeling well
And I kept joking like oh you're displaying all the symptoms of pregnancy, maybe you're pregnant
Like you should take a test, and I actually said that to her as I was giving her
You know the goodbye kiss in the morning. Yeah, you should take a test just in case. You're like late at this point.. might as well and then
The first reaction I had when she told me was "I knew it!" and then immediately afterwards was like wait
%$@#&*
That's that's a big deal
I should probably not said that but you get.. you know.. Oh damn! That's a big deal!
But yeah, so it was like I was really shocked to hear it
But I kind of was like I knew it at the same time and I was excited to be honest and definitely wanted
Oh, you know wanted a kid at some point, so it was definitely a really good thing for us
But the time I was very shell-shocked in like the same time the kind of like I knew it
But like it's a weird thing to say like I knew it I can see it coming when it's something like you're not planning
It just happens. And I freaked out more than he did. Yeah!.. It's your turn
Yeah, so
My next question is what are you most excited for and what are you most nervous about for when the baby comes?
I am definitely VERY, VERY
Excited to have a doll!
And change her clothes and take pictures and that's like...
Definitely what I'm most excited for
Little dresses and skirts.. OMG! Everything so cute!
And nervous, I'm very very nervous about diapers!
I have no idea how to change diapers...
I keep reading about how many diapers we need and the first month, that's like..
210
For the newborn size
And then we change for... We swap to another one and it's like 600 and then
900 and then... I don't even know when they stop using diapers you know?
Like that what a age like yeah.. two or three
They have to be like kind of cognizant in order to be potty trained. I have no idea...
Okay, my turn...
That's a funny one
How many times a month do you think you hang out with your friends who don't have kids?
Yeah, so um. I'm gonna say it's gonna be a number. That's greater than zero
probably less than one
Just cuz you know some months we're gonna have different schedules and we're gonna kind of work it out in a way where
You know if people want to come visit. You know have dinner
Yeah, definitely come visit roll through you know come play with the baby is gonna be cute. We're having a good time
Yes, so that'll be cool. I think that'll kind of depend on that, but yeah.. I think the first three months. It's gonna be more difficult
Yeah, it's gonna be way more difficult. I think as the baby matures
It's gonna be easier to like to go out with the baby
To certain things and obviously certain things are not I'm not gonna go to any music festivals anytime soon
I don't think either of us will be. Yeah I don't think so.. But you know...
Happy hours. Yeah, definitely after work have a drink and come home. You know that that I think is okay..
But yeah, probably not
As frequently as we used to..
But come visit us that's fine. Yeah!
Please visit us!
So this is kind of a more serious one
But uh, what would you like out of me as a husband for the last trimester and as a father
for when the baby arrives?
First..
About the third trimester
I need you to be patient
Very very patient!
Because every day things are getting harder for me to do and I keep you asking him to do things for me
But yeah, that's...
Patient basically.
And as a father just
Just like you know, love her spend time with her
Enjoy the baby, like all
The stages because
It passes too fast. It's, it's crazy..
Not like the baby, but life!
Because I remember when we found out I was pregnant
And I was like Oh My God!
Now we have three months left..
And it's weird that it passed like too, too fast
So yeah, that's it!
Fixing your hair or your mom is going to kill me when she watches this
What are you most looking forward to about being a dad?
Yeah, so
Definitely I'm.. I'm excited to be a dad to be honest like I am definitely very scared, but I'm also very excited
I already am kind of a dad as I have this uh doggy coming through for pets..
But uh, yeah
I'm really really excited to
Have a you know have an adorable baby that you get to raise and you know indoctrinate as your own you get to
You get to basically teach them everything from from nothing and then
Basically get them to grow into
Hopefully someone that reflects. You know your own values and your own
Your own ideals, and I think that's gonna be a really exciting process. I think it's gonna be
Especially, especially rewarding to provide all these awesome experiences like I know my parents
You know took me out when I was
Young to all these trips and try to teach me all sorts of different things
And I'm really excited to do the same
And you know pay forward to the next generation and try to learn from their mistakes and try, you know, make my own mistakes as I go
Yeah
Oh, it's you! So what of my..
I kind of talked about indoctrinating in my last answer a little bit, but uh which of my let's say
hobbies, interests
things I'm a fan of, beliefs
Do you wanna rub off on the baby and which ones do you hope she doesn't really pick up from me
Definitely no to pro-guns
100%not. We don't talk about this here because we don't agree and we don't want to fight. I don't believe the state should have a monopoly on force.
Shut up. It's my channel when you have one, you talk about whatever you want? Okay? Here NO!
I really hope she's not as angry as you are
about
Politics, you know he gets really really angry, and that's not good for him or anyone around him
But I really hope
She is like as generous as you are
Because... and kind. I think it's really nice that you you're always like thinking about people and you
He wants to like
Please everyone. That's right?. Yeah, please everyone. I am a people pleaser yeah. He wants to
Be nice to everyone, and I think this is really nice. I hope she
takes that
from you, yeah, so this is a very important one and
We're gonna see if you are gonna sleep on the couch or not
In one word
Describe my mood while pregnant. Yeah, so...
Trying to sum up anything in one word is kinda hard for me, but I would say um
exhausted. Even now watching her do this video you're probably really shocked to hear me say that this girl could be exhausted um
Cuz she really does it all and she.. I come home, and I'm like what are you doing baby calm down you're pregnant lie down
But what I'll say with that is she's always go go-go-go-go
And I kind of you know if the same kind of kind of why we work together is we both like to go go go
And the only thing I'll say with with her though is that
In a word, her mood during pregnancy has always been there's just like a line where she'll hit and it just won't
It will
She won't be able to just pretty much go anymore
She'll keep running and then just hit that stopping point and it's just she's tired needs to relax and
It's not as common to see her just coming be like I have to lie down right now instead of I need to get
Up and clean and do all sorts of other things and make everything look nice. My back hurts!
Yeah, my feet hurt everything hurts everything you know you're sore and tired. Everything hurts!
What would be the second word
Hungry
You're not as hungry, I mean like this is also a hungry family like your appetite still hasn't hit my level, and I'm not pregnant so
It's yours yeah, it's mine, that's awesome so my last question is based on you know your first impression of the baby so to speak
What do you think she's gonna be like out of the womb?
Hyper
Like you
I think she's gonna be like
all over the place
running I think she's gonna be the type of kid like don't touch this and
Two minutes later, you're just gonna hear like
Things breaking
you know
she
Moves a lot she kicks me all the time
So that's also why I think she's gonna be like very like
hyper, energetic right yeah
Okay, my last question
From one to ten how prepared do you feel for the baby's arrival?
Yes, this is a tough one um
So I'm an Eagle Scout and the Scout Motto is always you know be prepared and I if I have to assess our preparation. I'd say
If the baby were to arrive right now barring you know medical
Issues of premature birth and whatnot um, I would
If the baby were to arrive right now
We wouldn't have stuff ready for her at the apartment. We don't have a crib. We don't have a carriage. Or a car seat.
We don't have anything that you really need. What is that? A seat in the car the baby sits on.
A car seat with a harness.
We got none of those. No diapers
Lots of clothes but lots of clothes but that's about it
So, we're not really on that front, maybe we're like... Oh, you know a four
Then you can look at I say mentally I'd say we're probably like you know probably like a solid eight. We're we're up there we're
Probably not like I don't know how much it's hit us yet. Yeah like maybe it hasn't hit us as much as it
Will I don't know, but yeah? We're probably like a solid eight with that so
Let's even it out to a nice six. Six out of ten. Yeah, I think six. It's like a lot for
People who don't have a crib yes
So four. For is fair alright? Yeah, thanks. Yeah, we're not prepared. Unprepared
So, how are we gonna end this?
Stop baby! Stop making fun of me! I love you! That song has been stuck in my head for two days!
You say goodbye to people!... (Portuguese) BYE!!!
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