what's up people Steve Mayeda here and today is Friday which means it's short
film Friday but in today's film we're gonna learn one part artistic
masterpiece and - we're gonna do a tutorial on the cool stuff you just saw
short film Friday
so what you saw there was me walking down South Congress for 35 minutes
benefit like 4,000 percent I said hello to 29 people 11 of them ignored me 6 of
them started a conversation with me and 18 actually said hello back of those six
people I spent 24 minutes out of that 35 minutes having an awesome conversation
getting to know new people and all that sort of good stuff so if we want to
learn how to do that start a conversation just by saying hello like a
normal person and I'm being all weird and convoluted and deceptive let's put
our thinking caps on and let's go upstairs
the classroom
what's happening guys we're in the studio and one thing that I love is
social dynamics but I hate pickup now I myself I've been a pickup artist for you
know 12 years in fact I guess I'm retired the last two three four or five
whatever you want to say but I've been teaching this and working with men
constantly for the last 12 years why do I hate pickup yet I do it so here's the
difference and here's the difference that you're gonna learn from this is
that I hate that pickup says you need status power control dominance to have a
good social and sexual life so what I want to do in these videos that are now
a part of the series is I want to show you that you don't need any of that that
you could just be you yet you can still use social dynamics to communicate you
authentically as you but have them work in predictable ways of conversation of
structure so that you get great connections with people so what we're
gonna do now is we're gonna go through this let's start it of me walking down
South Congress now as you see here back right off the
bat towards his pocket then you were right after that after she's done
talking to hear free I get a few people just give me a mild acknowledge but they
say back and it's you know not the greatest feeling the world but then
almost immediately you know I'm not stumble upon over this guy and I've seen
wearing a Franklin's barbecue t-shirt I asked about the t-shirt and we sat there
talking about ours from the Vegas visually from Romania about his life
what are you doing with it and you know I actually had to cut this short
and a little four thousand percent speed up because we were talking for too long
okay so now I'm continuing to walk down South Congress and I'm just
just analyze it back but right after that I do it today I get a few people a
two-man I say hello to I get nothing they're not even get back to the
opportunity totally more so with those things you can't really worry about too
much but they're you know this hammy beacon a petitions everyone I've already
signed on and so on there's super social people and you should list everything
they do but okay thank you and once again a lot of indifferent hellos back
or people just ignore guys do it but that positive demeanor how you guys
doing walk you through talking how you doing today
so is this actually a good place to read or are you waiting for someone in there
how are you fabulous how you guys doing
what's a Venetian I like the glasses she didn't like that bathroom so what I
liked about that there's the three people right in a row straight up
ignoring but now with schools I end up on this corner fist to stop way and walk
up guys from here or visiting we're from a party oh yeah yeah I've driven through
there but I've never I've never lived there but what do you like so far the
muggy weather okay what barbecue place have you where are you gonna go no but
where are you gonna go if you love barbecues all right so I want to pause
right there because right there there's something that is already showing in a
pattern I say hello to people they either ignore me or they you know
knowledge me back and if there's that little moment of hesitation that little
pause where they feed off of you know my smile energy those types of things you
know what I'm putting out there then I stop and ask them so then ask them
something really simple like where are you from are you visiting from out of
town what are you guys doing today ask that was up with a positive tonality and
that usually gets an answer so if they say hello back and you just ask a
question that's easy to answer the positive tonality that's gonna do a lot
a lot of people think this is impossible but it's so normal it's almost too easy
to see alright let's keep going how you doing
well waste of time your friend already got us up there and so this is one of my
favorite ones because you this is one of those girls who's also this equation boy
have teachings and say hey and she just starts talking to me about a ton of
stuff now I actually have to cut this out over
the the little 4,000% sped-up thing that you saw earlier because her and I talked
for a long time we talked with five minutes and we're just going on and on
about how she moved from Australia to Austin what she likes difference between
Australian people American people you know why she stays here what her
passions are what she wants to do with her life and so on but very easy started
off with basically her acknowledging me because she's a petition person but
actually wasting time with me who's not signing her thing or donating any money
to tell me about her life and just a freaking pool and the types of
conversations you want to alright let's go
so we're continuing to walk down South Congress and basically you know I get
some rejections or some people not acknowledge my presence and I noticed
some people behind me because I'm drawing attention to myself and you know
there's guys you know following me and shooting they start saying things like
oh we want to be in your movie maybe so I turn around and I say maybe
maybe and we start our conversation well walking down Congress you get another
conversation in two minutes I had to shorten this in the Edit just because
when he talked to her so long and even though it was sped up at four thousand
percent of us just Google I everybody's going home today I've talked to like
four people that's right that's right we're doing
this thing to exploit you completely now we're doing a thing where we're talking
to people and showing how easy it is rather than everybody's so afraid of
social I'd like we walk down here and I talk to people issue with Austin and so
the funny thing about is conversation we're talking so cool is you know
there's two girls one lives here and she's talking about she's from New York
and there's you know people are unfriendly here another one's bit is
visiting here from New York and she's about to leave so the one who's living
here actually wants to move back foot you know goes into you know how did that
weekend go any untold stories about the dates you know tell me all the dirty
stuff and whatever but it really wasn't anything it was just them drinking and
partying and society's easy conversation fell into my lap right there so many
people fear this yet being social is super easy all right and so it just
keeps keeps coming I'm walking down South Congress getting to the end at
Joe's coffee shop and these girls talk to me so right here two girls from
Dallas one of them is actually engaged which I didn't know at that moment but
we find that and they asked me to take their picture and so on you're curious
like taking a picture of me where you guys probably are used to live in Dallas
what barter Dallas wait this isn't selfie so switching
okay so you're from Dallas fourth part is out but I sit there and talk to him
first ten minutes ten minutes we get into the single one how she just started
dating the guy what she likes about him all this stuff that she actually she
goes bad you could not post the city board he could not post a slide but it
was a good conversation and two super cool people and again a conversation
that's so many people fear and so many people are unwilling to have and people
think you can't talk about dating or sex in public with somebody especially a
girl we actually joked about the whole me to thing in the sexual harassment
stuff which again you don't necessarily want to harass somebody or put them in a
bad spot but man if you talk about sex in the right ways it's super super easy
to have a great conversation about it and connect them so we make it just past
those two girls at Joe's coffee shop move to the end of Joe's coffee shop and
already some people are like hey can you take our picture in front of my I love
you so much son group of five or six girls and we just start talking about it
about the sign and all the stuff and I have made up like some crazy Austin
folklore about it just it's pretty funny just looks on the face was pretty cool
but we start interacting about where the problem what they do why they're here
they're the different pops their passions and so on and it's pretty cool
you know if we just continue on there's just a few more people that I say hello
to and get a few acknowledgments back and some people ignoring me and so on
but I want to go back to this okay so socializing is easy and I get it
because I've been teaching this for so long so many people are like yeah but
but how do I get a date how do i you know i can just say hello to anybody and
it's gonna waste my time first off let me just say this took me 35 minutes 35
minutes out of my day and it could have been a lot quicker to knock out 29 say
hello that's what we call the exercise but of course i sat around and talks
people I like talking to people afterwards I felt awesome literally if
you spent five minutes to saying hello to five people or so on you might get
into a conversation you might not but what I want you to work on is you
projecting your positive energy your openness to people and those different
forms of demeanor now also one of the other things here that you should know
is if I walk down downtown in Austin on a business day at 2:00 p.m. and I say
hello to people I'm not gonna get that much response this was on a Monday
it was Presidents Day there were a lot of people out and it was a good time if
I went on a Sunday or a Saturday it would have been even more so you also
want to pick your areas now this comes to the question of life
Steve potowa these girls how do I get past my social anxiety how do I get a
date how do I not get rejected how do I gain my alpha spirit and cause and all
the sort of stuff but here's the deal guys is before we can learn advanced
social dynamics and I have a company and I taught this for 12 years something
that I'm an expert at some that I personally have just tons of experience
with I can tell you that if you do not like talking to people if you do not
feel comfortable and normal with conversation you then have to make it
abnormal in order to make connections this is not good this is where we get
into that extreme pick up stuff that alienates us further from the culture in
society and these types of things so what I want you to start thinking is how
can I first enjoy talking to people and then the next thing is is in our future
videos we're gonna show you how to get report make mad connections with people
using a system that is customizable to you and all of your individual quirks
and idiosyncrasies and all sort of cool stuff so that you can connect with
people and on top of that learn how to get intent where that happens in a
conversation and so on so if you like this video let me know in the comment
section let me know what you'd like to see because there's a ton of stuff and
of course we already have playlists of classroom taught videos on social
dynamics on meeting a protein building rapport building connections sexual
escalation you know being really good in bed and so on so all those things are
already there but they're just adding some more flavor to it so if there's
anything that you get from this guys it's that you can be social in a very
normal way and make it work you know number one I mean I don't dress the best
I'm wearing flip-flops you know I look kind of uncapped in fact
I'm uncut that day I mean Jesus come on but I'm also five seven I'm not tall and
I'm able to make connections with people why is that why is that you know I don't
think my height my ethnicity you know what I'm wearing or whatever who I am is
good enough I start putting on this mask of all these different things you don't
need power you don't need status to make connections sure that gets you more
attention and it definitely helps you get more attention but I was able to
live a pretty amazing sexual life I'm one of the few guys in pickup actually
has a functional relationship I'm married I've changed up a really stable
life and I said no to all of that it's kind of interesting I'm one of the very
few people that always said no for 12 years of status of hierarchy of power of
too much attention I was like man people are born to be social people are born to
be sexual so that's what we're showing you here in these videos and super
important if you want to watch the entirety of any of these clips join our
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