what's happening gentlemen Steve Mayeda year with the TSL podcast and today we
are talking about the beginner's guide to seduction all the different things
that you're gonna go through when you get started with your dating life when
you get started meeting women perhaps it's after a divorce or perhaps you've
had social anxiety all of your life but a lot of the things that you're going to
go through the trouble that you're gonna hit and how are you gonna solve those
things so pretty important stuff if you're getting started with this whole
thing because you could have a great dating life and a sexual life and that's
really what we do here at the sexual life so this is being recorded live on
our men's development excellence call it's September 20th 2017 and what would
what we do on these calls is we unify as a group and we talk about a lot of stuff
there's actually a guy who just brought up a question about some of the basics
and dating a lot of the trouble that he's going through and he's really I
mean there's 13 guys on the call they're just jumping on this so what I want you
to do is if this is something that you are taking seriously in your life
getting started with dating on any level you know I don't care if you're 45 I
don't care if you're 19 but what I want you to do is I want you to check out our
community we have a world of stuff for you to visit now first let's start off
with subscribing to this channel and when you do that click the bell because
that's gonna let you know when new videos come up that are about the
specific topic that will take you through everything you need to know
there's also our playlists there's things like our social dynamics playlist
or our sexual escalation playlist all sorts of stuff that dealing with the
right mindset all sorts of stuff on men's development that you can tap into
but more importantly go to the free stuff link down below because there's a
free course that will get you started on everything that you need to know that's
the instant connection course it's free four-part video series and it will
really do you some good to get started and then the last thing is is our
communities other than downloading our free PDFs and all that sort of stuff our
communities are the way to go our men's development excellence call is a paid
group there's also our free Austin men's development community that is a good
place to get started in any case let's get into this so some of the things that
happen when we get started in dating is what we need to realize is there's a
couple of distinct phases in fact there's five things that we're going to
need to go over and get through and they're really basic they might be like
oh but let's go into detail about what you're going to struggle with and
how are you gonna get comfortable with these things so each of these phases
you're going to need to get comfortable with you're going to need to gain
functionality with it and then through that you can understand the meaning of
it and also your drivers propelling you so a lot of things that might be pushing
you towards this are things like man I just want to get laid I just want to I
want to be with somebody I want to connect I want to be myself and so on
but the thing there is that's your drive right in order to understand your drive
you're gonna have to under get the function of it and you're also going to
have to get comfortable in whatever that situation is so let's talk about these
phases and we'll just go through them really quick but the first one is going
to be being able to meet women the second one is gonna be able to get into
some sort of rapport or comfort situation with women the third is going
to be able to state intent and this separates you from the friendzone and
all that sort of stuff the fourth is gonna be dating and the
fifth is gonna be being sexual and we're not just done there we're gonna cycle it
again after that but perhaps another video for but that's gonna get you
started if we can get you to the functionality of that you're gonna start
understanding a lot more about your masculinity in sex so number one is is
meeting women how do we do this look we want to make this as simple as possible
now a lot of times when we meet women we want to dive in and get all crazy with
different stuff we want to start you know approaching the hottest girls we
make approaching women about our masculinity and who we are these are all
ways to confuse yourself more what you want to do is you want to make this
normal simple because meeting women and getting socials ultimately going to be a
social expression of yourself and it's a natural one meaning that it doesn't have
to be a big deal so let's start talking to everybody let's start talking to men
let's start talking to women let's start talking to people you're not attracted
to people that you don't want something from and build conversations with that
now if you get the instant connection course it's literally a step-by-step map
on how to do that but let's start with saying hello to people let's start with
asking people about their day now the goal in this yes sure down the road is
to get a great dating life but the goal first or initially to get all of this is
to be able to just very sim we feel comfortable in this situation so
you want to feel comfortable you want to be at peace in this situation you want
to not feel nervous to let your guard down because when we get into that
situation where we can just talk and converse we get into something called
rapport all right now this leads us to our next phase which is rapport but a
couple tricks to get there from meeting women to rapport is let's say we say
hello to someone who say hey how's it going so that's our way of talking to
somebody now let's make it easy let's just do it with somebody to cafe in fact
there's an excellent breakdown of this in one of our social anxiety videos so
if you have that or if you're a guy that I mean you don't have social anxiety but
you just want to get started a conversation watch that video it's it's
good stuff so let's just say hello to somebody say how's it going how's your
day going right very simple open-ended it's a cafe person you know they're
gonna be nice to us but the thing is is we're not trying to get some huge thing
we're trying to learn a social dynamic and builds the value of connection so
we're then gonna say like hey you know I want to ask you something
like are you somebody that is from here are you from somewhere else and they say
whatever they say and you know they say they're from somewhere else say okay
okay so a lot of times people that move to a town rather than grew up in a town
or grew up in a city or whatever it is they grew up with a different
perspective so I'm just explaining it right so I asked a question that was
kind of specific that would give me a specific answer and now I'm explaining
why I asked that question all right just so you guys know anything that gets
left out in this because it's all a one-take video that's recorded live on
our call that I put it in the show notes so even the dialogue of this if there's
room so I can only do 5,000 words it's in the show notes on the YouTube channel
so check that out plus a whole bunch of other stuff all that free stuff and yada
yada yada so the thing is I'm just saying like are
you from you're from somewhere else they say whatever they say I'm from here I'm
from somewhere else so whatever you say I mean it's interesting because it just
it changes how people think and that's that's kind of a cool thing you know man
the fact that you're would say from here and you know it just has to with a
different mindset would you say you're somebody that like is open-minded and
everybody says yes to that but are you open-minded in a way we're like a
true friend could come to you with something that like that really means so
are you the go-to person for that or is that somebody else in your group so all
there I'm just defining a personality trait now also we have videos on
connection and eliciting values and tipping points of rapport that's one of
them actually and that's a way where I move from say hello to get to that
rapport now all of that period there can be
nerve-racking for you so if you're new with this and again in that instant
connection course that's mapped out for you that process that step-by-step
pattern and there's so many of them it's there and it's going to make you nervous
you're gonna obsess about it this is part of your Achilles heel of beginning
right is you get so wrapped up in the process of the technique or other pick
up people have negs and teases and all this other sort of stuff which is all
great it all can work but it can also not work in some very consistent ways is
that you get caught up in that process the thing is is you want to get that
process to lead you to rapport because once you get to that second phase of
rapport you just do yourself you stop worrying about the process you stop
worried about your anxiety your social anxiety goes away and you start
free-flowing okay so rapport you might be going what do I talk about well it's
a couple things this is the identity workbook just get the instant connection
course but the identity workbook allows us to talk about ourselves and so on and
you know be able to analyze ourself reception or social perception our
beliefs and all all these things that we could talk about rapport but if we learn
to present those things man it really helps us out in a lot of different ways
so in rapport our key is to be able to get comfortable talking about ourselves
and caring about somebody else and that's really what rapport is I care
about you you care about me now when we get there what is so tough about guys
because a lot of guys will say well I get into a conversation and it just kind
of happens and that's cool but where do I go with it from there you know women
choose me or that sort of thing we then need to start getting good at stating
intent now this is a big jumping point for people but the way to go from
rapport to intent is going to be as if I can get something really deep or
something that they know about themselves and don't be intimidated by
this you might say well I don't like having deep
conversations but it's really easy all I have to do is get a value of theirs or
get a unique quality of theirs or I'll have to do is get something that is very
special to them get them to really share it and say hey man I like you because of
that and that's where my intent goes so let's say we talk about that and we just
say like oh would you say you're an open-minded person we're doing that same
opening thing and they say yeah I'm an open-minded person so we'll just start
they're like yeah I'm open-minded my friends do come to me with that and it's
you know it's weird that you asked that here while working at this cafe a bla
bla bla bla and you could say man that's such a cool thing like so I would say
I'm a very open-minded person a lot of people come to me with stuff but what's
more special about fixing that situation or listening to them is really that I'm
trusted on that level like like what would you say is the most special thing
about that so I'm really tried to get the real them right trying to get the
real them out of it very quick I mean this will take you like 30 seconds to
minutes it will not take you long this can be done you know on your coffee
break from work this is very easy to do and you should make it normal and
natural again we don't want to get comfortable with this so how do I get in
tent and this could be with somebody that I'm not even that attracted to but
I can still state an intention a movement in a certain direction that's
important right or she could be somebody I'm attracted to and I want a date so
she says no man what I think is special about me is or about that whole
situation is that that I can I mean that somebody sees me as that good person
that's really cool so she now shared her real self she gave that to me she gave
me that that's rapport let's report right there all right now I need to
state and tend towards it wow that is a tribe that is cool and what intent does
is it puts a definition on the conversation how so many guys end up in
the friend zone is that they there they act like a friend they don't ever state
intent they never put it on the line and that's not even putting that much on the
line there I'm just saying like wow that is really attractive like man that's
fucking that's really attractive that you say that man I like that like what's
your number let's hang out sometime and so that's how we stayed intention now if
it's somebody that we're not attractive we could say like man that's really
beautiful leave it says fucking cool and you're an amazing person remember that
you know or whatever you know so we're just we're
putting it in a direction we can't be afraid of that now this fourth face that
we go to is the dating world so once we get into that dating world we got to get
this functioning this a little bit different okay so this is where it's
like guys man get on our groups if you if you are willing to get on to MD
excellence all right and they are actually a MD plus and step down
one-time payment and what as I'm recording this September 20th 2017 it's
$50 one-time payment you get on an t plus that'll get you formula 69 that'll
get you a bunch of get you a ton of stuff but in formula 69 it breaks this
down sequentially right meet people build the connection get rapport get a
dig get that date to stick get a kiss all right and move that kiss into
seduction all right I'll tell you step-by-step how to do that
for a one-time payment at nine part video series super high value along with
a ton of other stuff Anna will get you on one of our paid boards which is even
better so here's the thing is that when we do that right when we get into a
dating world you want two dates to stick so this will involve some texting this
will involve some phone conversation all that sort of stuff but what a dating
life should be like is something that we don't have to work hard
so hard at once again remember the Achilles heel of the beginner when we
were getting started with dating and seduction is to overthink the process to
overvalue that process to overvalue the map and we build up all this tension
around it but once we get into like some connection with somebody we forget about
the process and map and that was just this a template to help us get started
that's what dating should be like so dating should not be over thought we
need to get into that mode we need to realize it's about fun we need to
realize it's about adventure we need to realize it's about connection and here's
the deal with dating guys is if a girl goes on a date with you it was actually
a video that we published just recently today on the 20th on ten signs you know
she wants to sleep with you or something of that nature I'll put a link to it but
there it's if a girl goes on a date with you and she starts asking personal
questions about your life or she gets really close to you or she goes back to
your place or she initiates some form of isolation this is how he moved to sexual
it's so quick it's so fast so easy there's such an advantage to
being on a date with somebody we're where we need to get comfortable with
that and get sexually active all right so on the dating world what we need to
do is we need to date women we need to go two to three different locations
whatever it is but as quick as possible and there's so many templates for it man
there's a date guide template on the free stuff link where you'll have a 90
minute date you'll start to get sexual with people it's really easy it's super
super easy to do but our point to get going from dating to sexual what's going
to help us there is to lead to that interaction we need to know about
resistance we need to know about how to deal with it and it's super easy we
could say like hey let's go back to my place oh well I don't do that I don't
hook up with people on my first date blah blah around yeah I'm not bringing
any of that I'm just say let's go back to my place like let's go back and hang
out we could decide whatever we're gonna do why are you building up all this
resistance around when you say that it actually makes me think like I'm some
sort of like axe murderer or something man don't just come on let's go all it
needs is that little bit of leadership all it needs is that little bit of sway
in that direction and then we can get isolated and move into the choice of
seduction because she can still decide not to sleep with us it's very simple
right she can that we want that there if she's not choosing it's like kind of
it's sex is unenjoyable so we need to move through those phases and get
comfortable and that's all very easy to do and there's a map for you to do that
with the instant connection course and especially if you get a md+ with the
formula 69 course it's just so mapped out for you but the important thing is
is we need to get comfortable with that and learn our language these are the
things that are gonna happen we're gonna overthink things we're gonna have doubt
about them but it's so important that we move along this line we're gonna look at
multiple different products and different ways and methodologies
remember the method is just something there that's gonna confuse you about
dating and sex we need to realize that the most important part of this is
getting comfortable and gaining functionality of meeting women getting
rapport starting to move into intend getting a dating life and then getting
sexual and when we gain functionality of that of us doing that will then find the
meaning in it all and we'll stop making pickup or seduction or meeting women
about this being a man or having to be alpha or whatever we won't even think
about that anymore that's what guys who don't get laid or don't have confidence
in themselves do like we'll be able to move into that into just whatever our
expression of our life is and that is really the sexual life and that's what
we're all about so look guys if you liked this and you
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if you have a little bit of cash man fifty dollars will get you the AMD plus
will get you on an exclusive board as well as the formula 69 course was just
man dude seriously seriously that will change your entire life so that's a
great way to get your feet wet in any case I'm Steve Meyer signing off
watch these these are these two videos that we have listed here for you to
check out because I recommended them for a reason to better your life to get
sexual and to be a man all right talk to you soon
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