Today's topic: The New You Under Attack
Hi I'm Doug Holt with Author of Your Own Story and this is your daily growth hack
where each day we give you a tip trick or insight to help you up level well we
call the five to thrive that is your mind your body your soul your
relationships and your business so as you're developing this author of your
own story lifestyle as you're evolving here you're doing these daily growth
acts and hopefully you're putting in the work I really hope you are as you're
doing this you're going to start noticing things to change and what you
may start to notice is something that many of us notice and that is the people
around you start to push back they start to subconsciously sabotage what you're
doing now this could be negative comments like oh you'll never do that or
you shouldn't be doing that or what the heck are you doing these types of
comments come naturally and it should be understood you see people are
comfortable with the old you they're comfortable with the you that doesn't
have a voice they're comfortable with the you that didn't take control and be
the author of their own story now you're on this path this path of change this
path of rapid growth it's exciting you're changing but their paradigm is
still stuck on the old you you see oftentimes people are uncomfortable with
change they have a story written about you I mean how many times when you look
back on your life do you run into maybe an old high school friend or or somebody
else you went to college with or something you knew years ago you still
might have the same frame of reference of that person now this happened to me
recently where I ran to somebody I went to college with and I haven't seen them
probably in 15 years now they were a partier they had a great time going out
but they really hit it hard and when I ran into I thought of them as the exact
same person now step four or 15 years later they have a family
they're very responsible they don't drink do drugs or party at all they're
completely different person yes my paradigm was stuck in the past
asked old them until I realized quickly in my actions in my comments towards
them that I was relating to the old version of them the version I knew and
was comfortable with now we may move through this very quickly but most
people don't most people don't have the realization that you can change that you
are changing you're evolving all the time and what it does is it scares them
and it scares them for multiple reasons this is also why a lot of people fail on
their own journey to becoming the author of their own story because they know
themselves as the old them now when you do a change or you do some changes in
your life these could be prosperity changes you start to make more money but
yet the people around you are comfortable with you being kind of a
broke old self that you had and now you have more prosperity and wealth or maybe
you're learning a foreign language and they're scared that you're becoming
better than them and that you're going to leave them or more unlikely they're
scared because you're putting into their face through your positive actions the
things that they are not doing now the things that they want to be doing with
their life but they're making excuses and seeing you grow scares them it
scares them because one they're probably worried they're going to lose you too
they're really scared because they're not doing the things they know they
should be doing to become the authors of their own story but don't let these
people tear you down as dr. Wayne Dyer said it's not crowded on the extra mile
and that is so true as you're on your journey it's not crowded on the extra
mile because people that have scarcity mindsets aren't there my wife and I go
hiking all the time and oftentimes we kind of begrudgingly make it through the
first 10 minutes of our hike where all the crowds of people are but once we get
past that first mile or two the crowds dissipate in fact once we get higher up
the mountain we hardly see anybody the people we do run into are always smiling
they always say hello and generally ask how we're doing because it's that type
of people that are at the top it's that type of person that takes that extra
step to get there and those are the kind of people you want to surround yourself
with now this doesn't mean that you should be putting them down the people
who are currently associating with other people
around you and also doesn't mean you should leave them it just means you need
to recognize understand that they're in a scarcity mindset they're scared
because they're not doing the right things they've also associated you
associated you with the old you the old you that they're comfortable with you
see they're very comfortable with you being in a job you don't like or making
little money or whatever it is for you maybe you're overweight and they're just
comfortable with that and they're scared that you're going to make changes you're
going to make changes you're going to leave them or they're scared you're
going to make changes and they're going to see that they're not making any
they're not progressing themselves it's just a natural human reaction so I want
you to recognize this as you're going through your journey who've almost tapes
72 these daily grow tacks that's a lot of things to do if you've
done all the 70 things that I've brought out here and mentioned to you I
guarantee you've made massive changes and I'm proud of you and then during
these changes I could also guarantee that there have been people in your life
at your workplace in your family loved ones friends that have actually started
to subconsciously tear you down you see they've noticed the changes and it makes
them uncomfortable it's not familiar they don't recognize that it's a new you
you're learning every day you're growing every day and you're going after your
passions in your dreams I'm proud of you and I'm here right now
let you know this is not a red flag this is just simply a bread crumb on the road
to success it's natural when it happens often the best thing to do is love these
people love them wholeheartedly and then lead by example
show them your greatness show them what you're doing and inspire them to do the
same that's one of the reasons I do this every single day is to inspire others
look my mission is to inspire positively impact 1 million people in this world
and I hope I'm doing this day by day little by little and eventually I'll
achieve my goal you can help me by doing the same inspire those around you and
don't worry about the haters the haters are going to come left and right and
most of them are going are going to be people you actually love and care and
you know what they love you too they're just scared so what I want you
to do today is grab your journal write out your 5 to thrive a course
and look at areas that you're growing that you're making growth and what I
want you to do is look closely at these because often times we don't see the own
growth in ourselves we don't see our own journey because we see ourselves
day-to-day in the mirror and those micro progressions make the biggest effect
over time we still recognize them and usually we see this growth or these
changes when we run into an old friend of the supermarket or out for a walk or
whatever it may be and they see us they're like wow you've changed you've
lost weight you're glowing something's radiant about you what is it
that's when we noticed but I want you to grab your v to thrive and write down
areas that you've changed but then I also want to write you to write down any
negative comment you've had recently as you've been on this growth spurt I want
you to look at that comment and embrace it because it's not true
these are comments from people of scarcity these are comments for people
who are scared to make it that extra mile you know so it's not crowded on the
extra mile because only good achievers high achievers make it that extra mile
that take that extra step most people break down because the old
them the paradigm of the old M is too powerful I want you to recognize this
new you this path that you're on it's powerful and I celebrate you for being
on it that's it for me today go over to author of your own story com
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