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Hey what's up friends, How you doing?

So, today we are gonna visit San Francisco del Rincón Guanajuato

Today i'm with my tour guide, the one and only, my cousin Daniela

Hi, good afternoon

"Hello friends" So polite, but yeah, she's cool

Let's go visit

Where are we right now Dani?

Well, we are in Plazarella, it's a place relatively new

not long ago was created, and we didn't have lot of places to hang out

We currently have two cinemas, and well, besides going to movies, you can get a coffee

...or get some pizza.

and also there's a place where you can learn English, which makes things easier for you

Weather it's pretty good, sometimes is sunny, right now neither too hot or too cold

How many degrees are right now approximately?

around 20 degrees?

Yeah, 20 - 25 degrees

20 degrees Reynosa, 25 degrees, that's like pretty hot down here... i know....i know

It's amazing here, so let's go

This is so cool, it's a tribute to the great mexican actor Mario Moreno Reyes "Cantinflas" 100 years

Dani and i get into "Movie Center" i've never been here before, gotta say i really liked this.

It has a lot of space, and different areas to hang out before your movie starts.

One detail: The guard invite us politely to get out and don't take videos inside.

So we were going to make some videos inside, but they kicked us out.

i put my "i'm not from this city" face, which is true...

Well i was born in León Guanajuato, but they don't have to know that.

It's pretty cool right?

Yes, wll Marco Says he likes it a lot, because it's innovative

Yeah it's cool, it's like minimalistic, and there's no one around, besides it's midday so, no ones gonna come

It's cool, it's big, i recommend it to you... Reynosa hasn't any of these, but still.

It's pretty cool down here right? it has a great weather.

Yeah right, it's the thing i like the most.

What i like the most are the spas

Now we don't know where the people come from, "Hey where are you from?" "i'm from Mexico city, i'm from Tepito

Weather it's pretty good here, we are so lucky

We don't suffer from floods

We don't suffer from...

Gurl that's not true, what about the flood that happened

so many YEARS ago

40 years ago, exactly in July, in ... what? June, July, July 11th

Do you guys go out on vacations?

Of course i've gone to the beach Polita!

Well, tell him you've gone to the beach!

I go where the Huarache says Polita, you tell me let's go, and i go.

San Francisco del Rincón or "San Pancho" (just for friends" it's the hat world capital and Shoe sport National capital.

The city it's very calm, the first religion it's catholic and city it's 20 minutes far away from Leon Guanajuato.

And then Dani and i went to Historic museum.

Dani, have you been here before?

Yes, one day i came with my school, we watched a movie and also went to basement.

People say down there sacare you, that there's a ghost girl, i haven't seen here though.

Well let's go and see if we find this ghost girl, maybe she would let us get in for free.

In San Pancho, there's people who engage in witchcraft.

In the museum there was a temporary exhibition on Natividad Reyna, the sorcerer Major, who died in 1993

The lady remembered the date of the flood.

On July 11, 1976, San Pancho suffered a flood where water covered for more than 24 hours throughout the city.

The water rose for two meters and people spent the night on the roof

The balance was 10 dead, 12 missing, 1286 homes were affected and many collapsed because they were made of adobe

Dani, where are we going?

We go to the tunnels that are in the museum where the girl shows up.

Ok, let's go and see this girl.

The witch-burning goes back hundreds of years, when Purísima (a nearby municipality) was taking all the customers of San Pancho and the trade collapsed.

Someone said they found witches and were going to burn them, that was just marketing, but there are people who do that.

Sorceres and Santeros face a local government campaign urging people to avoid their services

Since a family passed away in February during a practice of this type

By the way the ghost little girl left us waiting.

Don't go before try sandwiches "El Charro"

These are the famous sandwiches "El charro", see, it looks super delicious, I asked for chicken

Did you like your sandwich?

She says: Yes!

In the main square, you can walk quietly, enjoy a Guacamaya or some craving.

San Pancho has several traditions like the Illuminations that are held before Christmas or the burning of witches.

Dani, tell us, what's a burning of witches?

If you are from San Pancho, it means that you are a witch

it is an event that we celebrate here in the municipal palace,

where they put fake witches, hang them and burn them.

There are girls who dress up as witches and act.

And... do they burn them?

Not to the girls, only to the fake ones made of paper that hang from the ceiling, and there are fireworks and that is interesting.

Finally Dani took me to the entrance of the hill of Palenque and from there we observed the municipalities of SanPancho and Purisima del Rincon

And that'show it ends a day, but there's so many adventures

Dani came with us and she will come later

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honor nine came up with five point one five inch F HD display with Corning

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at the bottom of this handset we've got the speaker three point five millimeters

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HEATWAVE GIVEAWAY WINNER!! - Announcing an ALL NEW GIVEAWAY! - Rocket League - Duration: 2:01.

the beasts kind co-star what is going on everybody rich you go here and I'm back

with another video hope you guys are having an amazing day and in today's

video we're going to be announcing the heatwave giveaway winner I mean I have

been running this giveaway for a long time now maybe like around about a month

like I think it's like exactly a month kind of and we're going to be announcing

that he weighs giveaway in this video and we are going to be doing a all-new

brand new heat wave giveaway because as you guys saw in that blind trading video

I did have to surf at heat waves just because Zack gave me one so that's

perfect to do another giveaway so don't be down if I didn't pick you for this

giveaway everybody would obviously have another chance to win another heatwave

in our next giveaway all right so without further ado our

winner for this heat wave giveaway is a shot a lob see I think I might be

pronouncing that wrong but if I am don't hate on me that's all you have to do is

just comment down below your gamertag and I will send you a message right away

sending you over the heat wave or the certified heat wave obviously and for

those of you who did not win don't worry because another heat wave giveaway is

going to be taking place and like probably like in a day or something so

don't worry about it alright guys this is probably going to be the end of the

video yeah I know this video is really short but I just want to announce the

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really helps out the channel this is Richie go I'll see you guys in my next

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A Day In The Life Of ME! - Duration: 4:35.

Hi guys! My name is Anouk, and today

I almost didn't upload a video until my very good friend came up with a video idea

While I already gave up

And at first I didn't really like the video idea because my life is boring as fuck

But then she said ''most of those videos aren't funny anyways''

And that just completely changed my mind because I'm also not funny so that's perfect!

So yeah today I'm going to show y'all my daily routine vACATION EDITING because last Friday was my last day of school!

So my life is 100% more boring now

Okay so the first thing I do when I wake up is..

Look at the time..

Turn back around..

And go back to sleep

I repeat that about 27 times until it's about 4-

Nah just kidding, I usually wake up at 9 in the morning

So when I finally find the courage to stand up

I grab my glasses so I don't hurt myself because I can't see anything

And then I look in the mirror to see how ugly I am

After that, I go downstairs and sit on the couch

I scroll through all my social media for about 1 to 2 hours

And then I finally remember I haven't eaten anything yet

I walk towards the kitchen and I see that there's nothing to eat

So I just grab some stuff that's probably unhealthy and call it 'breakfast'

Then I tried to film a scene where I was eating breakfast but my mom walked in

So it's time to run upstairs and get dressed and all that shit

But then I realised it's vacation and I'm not going anywhere because I have no friends

And I have social anxiety so I just stay in my pj's for the rest of the day

Then it's time to brush my teeth, and when I'm in a good mood

I'll also do my hair, which is usually not the case because my life sucks

It's time for lunch now, but because I had breakfast 30 minutes ago, I'm not hungry and just forget to have lunch

Now, welcome to my bed, this is where I sit and browse the internet-

*cough* that's a lie

I play games for 10-year-olds and watch YouTube videos of cute dogs- dON'T JUDGE ME

When my stomach starts to growl, I know it's about half past 2

So I walk all the way downstairs to get something to drink and another unhealthy thing

I probably say about 2 or 3 words to my family about how boring I am

And I go back upstairs

Now we're going to do the same thing for another 2,5 hours

Until my mom or dad sends me a message that dinner's ready

So I have dinner with my family bla blah can't film that because I'm too shy

Okay back to my bedroom

We repeat the same thing again until it's about 9 in the evening because my parents are strict

And we're not allowed to be upstairs of do stuff on our phones after 9 in the evening

So I go downstairs, sit on the couch and probably watch a movie and eat even more unhealthy stuff

Which I can't film because my family's in the same room!

Then it's time to go to sleep

And when I mean (say) go to sleep..

I actually browse the internet for another 15 minutes and then..

I make the horrible decision to wach ''1 YouTube video''

Okay when I almost fall asleep while watching random YouTube videos

I know it's time for me to actually go to sleep

So I quickly turn off my laptop and go to sleep

And that's the reason why I have depression- *cough*

And that was my daily routine in the vacation!

I hope you liked it, and if you did, please give it a thumbs up!

If you want to see my latest video, click over here!

And if you want to subscribe to my channel, click over here!

And then I'll see you in the next video! Bye!

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Good Timing: Knight of Wands Reversed. Dixie Vogel, A Fool's Journey - Duration: 1:36.

Hi.

This is Dixie from A Fool's Journey dot com.

Here with some weekly thoughts for ya.

Hang on.

Hey, thanks for hanging in.

I am doing another quickie, lazy I'm not gonna set up my video equipment video on my cell

phone.

So, let's see what we're looking at for the week.

Okay.

I've got the Knight of Wands reversed.

And what I want to say about this is, you don't have to move right now.

Okay.

Sometimes there's like, an urge, or um, almost a compulsion to answer that email, to make

the phone call, to tell somebody, you know, to give somebody what-for.

To intervene, or act or whatever.

And here, I want to recommend that you hold back until the action is obvious.

If you can avoid acting from a place where you're stressed out and you're trying to fix

a big problem and you're oh-my-Gosh, I just hope this works!

And that kind of stuff?

Your outcome will tend to be better.

Because you bring a whole different type of energy to it.

If you're kind of chill about it.

You know when the action is right.

And try to bring the emotional energy that you want for the final outcome to the action

and you'll be a whole lot more successful.

So that's this week's look at what's on my radar.

Hope it's helpful to you.

Take care, peace out.

Ommmmm!

Talk to you later.

Bye bye.

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(Fluid 50) First test with Fluetrol and Golden Fluid Acrylics - Duration: 21:29.

Hi, I'm back you have to wait a bit

Bi I make my next video

I finally distrusted Fluetrol

to buy

It is the first time, I have not tried it

You should be there

I'm curious

and because that's not all, I have from golden

Is an American company

Do not know if you can see it?

exactly

I have primer yellow here

so yellow

They have quite funny names

Phthalo Blue ( Red Shede

and

Naphtol Red Medium

I left it open now

I have prepared the other colors

White I still from Boesner acrylic studio

because since I have not yet

From the Golden bought, which are nevertheless a bit more expensive

But if I try something, then everything or nothing

We try to see if it works

So now I wanted to mix the red with you, so you can see it. The Fluetrol

Where work with it, I work the first time with it

I've done so much into the cup to 20%

Make of this

fluid acrylics called the yes

Approx. 10 drops pure

because I think they are sparingly

As said somewhat more expensive though

I think you do not need so much. I dont know. You have to test it first

It seems to me a bit thin. But that may be due to the Fluetrol

Now we look!

You see here as well

I find the Golden have beautiful colors

And still go from the price

where they are somewhat dünnflüssing, not as opaque

I think are the colors so

do not all have the masive opacity

If then you have something more money lie down. Since there are different series at golden

Do not know if it starts from 1? There are 2,3,4,5 to 9 I believe

And then it becomes more expensive

Which I noticed at the fluetrol

You have to make a lot of water

Which do not drop or flow properly

From my rod

But when I cant the mug I'm almost too thin.

Who has already worked with them

You know then already rather modest

For me it is really the first time

And I'm really curious

This is now a very bright red

Did not look like, because I wanted a strong red

I do not know if I should make a little bit pure

I'm still doing

Four drops in it

Yes then it gets a bit darker

by the golden have to be careful, some colors are transparent

not completely opaque, so do not properly cover

As said the first time

We just try it now

Then we'll see what comes out

But I think you know me, it always went quite well

I can estimate it roughly

It does not really flow

But when I swing it is almost all right

I do not want to make it too thin, so that everything goes back afterwards

When drying

For the english speaking people

I'll do it now! Yes

I do it now with English subtitles, it is too difficult for me in English and German bilingual

This is better for me and better for you. You understand it better!

My English is not so good

So for the English-speaking, I do it with subtitles

Because this is too strenuous for me. my English is not so good

As you have already noticed. Then it is easier for me and for the others to understand me

So thats the problem that I have

It does not flow properly but it is

Almost fluid enough

But quite a lot of water

Unless I make it too thick afterwards, I do not know

As said my first test

Also comes very transparent

Because I am really strained

It glimmers through my little stick

I think that's enough

I would also like to see the cells arise

As with my medium

Again, my Silicone spray from Caramba

Two splashes

I always say two good splashes

I always exaggerate it

Stir easily

The one says more stir the other less

If there be less stirring, there should be larger cells! Hmmm

I do not believe it

but good

okey

I would say times I put everything away so far

2.5 liters I have brought

Hopefully it was the right decision

Sooo! chopstick out!

Or is it due to the golden colors, I do not know yet

Now we look. I'm curious

Well I think I make a quite normal picture

Because I want to try it first

White I take something more. I take it as a background

Yes well are formed at the edge of even slight cell

This is already positive

One must also say. I trusted you. You all geasgt it works pretty well

Have some

Write from you get

Otherwise I would not have bought it

So at least everyone told me it worked

am curious if it is dry tomorrow and I'll show it to you also nocht

so I think so

That should already be enough

okey

good

Oh so my wedge frame again prepared black

This time 30 to 30 cm

Which I do not forget

I write you down in the description what colors are that. Are partly difficult to speak out

I write in the list which I have used

Almost too little white

That bothers me a bit

the flow is good!

so the corners are also so far to

I think so I leave it

What bothers me is the white does not come right

Is perhaps the white of Acrylic Studio of Boesner

And the other colors are from Golden

I do not know if they can stand. I took as much as I did from the others

Well, but you see it is already bubbles

also cells

Hmmm!

It looks a little too transparent to me

I'm not quite sure

that's it. When I saw it in the other videos

So other Youtuber when it had dried, always looked pretty insipid. I did not like that

No matter, now I make a little fire on it

With my little gas burner :)

Let's see if we can still a few cells elicit

I have small cells but not optimal

we look

Maybe I have too little

From the Gloden colors

As I said it is a test, I make more pictures

So what it does is bring my white out

Hmm

Yes what can I say, it is not so successful. I dont know

I do not like it so

I try the next picture again with my Boesner colors

And then we look

When it is dried. I'll show you from near, but me

Optically pleases it

not so, see you

So friends, I am back and have it 2 - 3 minutes let in

Hmm

See myself I am not enthusiastic

Perhaps it is also due to the golden colors, i din't no

I will try again a picture with mine

Boesner colors whether there is something changed

Maybe you have tips, many are already doing it with Fluetrol

I do not look for nice cells, but after, yes

I am now cautious, stains

does not take it amiss

I do not know if it comes out with you better, you can give me tips, which I do wrong

I am glad to hints on tips, I help you also gladly :)

Well, as I said

I do not know what it is now

I try again with my other colors

Did I get it too thin or too thick?

Well, well

I look now

with the next picture

Let you surprise

Gladly help me

I hope you enjoyed it anyway

Good Morning

Thats the Picture on the next day

I have with

Fluetrol and

I have made the first attempt with the golden colors and denm Fluetrol

Yes Cells look different

it has become rather spotty. Is also still wet

Hmm. I do not really like it

You can write me

As you like it or what I have done wrong

You have written to me that it works with Fluetrol

You know it, my cells look normal

or so

and not so

Maybe it was also the golden colors that are too thin?

I don't no

I hope you enjoyed it anyway

I could share it with you again

So you can see how it does not work

And than see you next time, bye!

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When I'm Not Disciplined Enough... - Duration: 6:06.

hey guys, first I just wanted to say a little piece about this painting

As I'm recording this, I'm only actually halfway through this painting, so I don't

actually know how it turned out. but I'm trying to get through with the "places"

series where I go to different places and then illustrate aspects of it that

stuck with me. this is another one from Edmonton. I just wanted to do the

pirate ship that we saw a whole lot in the mall. the one thing that really

struck me about the pirate ship in the mall is just the bright aqua color of

their water, it just looks so unreal. so I wanted to paint the ship kind of coming

over a whole wave and I did struggle a little bit with that

because the colors I want to use is so opaque and this particular paper does

some interesting textural stuff. a lot of granulation is happening. because Canada

is currently patting its own back about its 150th birthday, I'm super

extra driven to add little tidbits about where Canada comes from. so I ended

up sticking this Saskatoon berry bush in the painting to be crushed by the waves

and the ship because that's that's how Canada was created... we came in

and plowed everything to the ground and destroyed it so... I just wanted to explain why

that little bush was there otherwise I guess it just doesn't make

any sense. and since I don't have a whole lot else to say about this

painting I guess I will share my number one quick trick to improve your

productivity. and everyone does (suggests) you know, planners! planners are okay if you

actually look at them! a lot of people don't. and discipline? timing? I don't know.

there are a lot of thorough tricks that involve you, uh, developing habits for life

you start doing things at a specific time. that's a good idea of

scheduling things. but my super quick best tip

for improving your productivity is to go to the place where you're working.

it seems kind of stupid but that is actually my number one failing, is that I

am exhausted when I come home from work. I'm running

around on my feet on concrete all day and I come home and there's always more

stuff to do, I have to clean this I have to clean that I have to take out the

trash, you know household stuff. basic stuff. and so when I finished that

all I want to do is just sit on the couch and I just want to, you know, pet my

cats? I just wanna check my email to see if anything's happening. I want to check

Facebook and I want to catch up on YouTube videos like I just want to relax.

because you know I have to make dinner in an hour and I think "I can just do it

after supper" but then suddenly it's 7 o'clock it's 8

o'clock and then I'm thinking "well I only have an hour before I go to bed so

I might as well just right here on the couch and continue vegging out because

what could I do in an hour?" a lot of things, it turns out. but the hardest part

is getting off the couch and going to my desk, and it is super important to have a

place. it's really hard to make art consistently if you have to do it at the

kitchen table where you eat every day or in the living room on the coffee table

where you have to put things in other rooms and get up and grab things when

you need them. it's just... it's distracting. it interrupts your working time and I've

done that. I've done that, it's it's possible but yeah. in this case if I

really want to get some stuff done but there's too many distractions I can just

take my computer and I can just take it to my desk

it's literally 4 feet away so if I sit in my uncomfortable art chair and decide

"well ok I can watch a YouTube video as long as I watch it at my desk"

and I do and then suddenly I see something interesting on my desk that I

want to work on or I'm just I'm already uncomfortable so I might as well just

start working, you know? sometimes it doesn't work out. sometimes I will sit

and doodle while I'm watching videos and nothing comes out right, and I give

myself permission to quit if I'm not actually achieving anything but usually

it starts. just you just have to start. and it's easy to just say "oh just sit

down and do it" you know? but um there are some of us who can't even do

that we're just not that disciplined so that's my "trick", is to do whatever you

want to do but do it at your workspace. you know, like, give it a shot

maybe that comfy couch is the reason why you're not getting up? maybe you've

just forgotten what you were working on and you just need a refresher. this may

not be relevant to everyone so I'm sorry if you came here looking for the magical

answer and it didn't work for you. this is my personal magic answer

and it does kind of work for me so give it a shot, tell me how it goes

you can give yourself permission to do something fun, but do something fun

in your workspace. so have a good one and I will see you next time. bye!

you

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Guns, God, & Drugs: How to Negotiate America's Political Arguments | Dan Shapiro - Duration: 7:33.

So here we are trying to negotiate what might seem nonnegotiable.

Why do these things feel so nonnegotiable?

One reason is that we hold certain values and beliefs as sacred.

The other side holds alternative values and beliefs as sacred.

And if my beliefs don't match up with yours we have an impasse, we have gridlock.

The question is, can you get out of gridlock, and how do you get out of gridlock?

Is it true that you cannot negotiate the nonnegotiable?

You can.

The most powerful tool I know on how to negotiate the nonnegotiable is the power of appreciation.

What I mean by that, it is the ability to deeply listen to the other side's perspective

not just so that you can argue back but so that they feel heard.

Now this is the hardest thing to do in the world.

If you're a strong Clintonite or Trumpite, to say,

"you know, start by understanding that other side's perspective"—You're going to

look at me like, "you're crazy."

And even if you don't think I'm crazy, you're going to try and do it, and let me

tell you what I see happen a lot.

People try to understand the other side and two minutes later they say, "Oh no, I understand

your perspective, but you're just wrong!"

It's not a two minute conversation.

It's at least a half hour to an hour.

It's not, "Yeah, I get it."

It's, "No, I don't get it.

Help me understand it.

Tell me more.

Talk to me."

That's the kind of conversation we want, whether it's in the political sphere or

whether it is, you know, an individual negotiating with their spouse.

The moment anybody—with even the most sacred beliefs—starts to feel heard and valued,

their arms are going to uncross, they're going to lean forward and they're going

to say "you get it."

Now the danger is they might then say "so why don't you come to my side?" you know.

But that's okay.

You've moved forward.

They feel heard.

The next most important piece then is to say, "And just as you have your perspective,

I have mine.

I have my own sacred values.

Would you be open to listening to me and to my perspective?

I understand we are coming from"—notice the next word.

It's not, "But you're wrong!", you know.

And that's how most of our conversations take place.

You look at the political sphere today: "I understand, but…"

I was recently talking with a congressperson.

He said, "Look, I went and I talked to a whole group of constituents about this one

particular issue, and then I said 'I understand your perspective,'" which was different

than his.

And after he explained why he understood, all of a sudden two minutes later he said,

"But."

And I said to him, "Boy, you lost that whole set of constituents right now.

They don't feel appreciated."

You want to say, "And."

"I hear where you're coming from, and I see the value in your perspective.

And I'm letting you know."

That can start to break through the walls of the sacred.

Once the other side feels truly heard and understood, now they're much more likely

to listen to you.

And you might start sharing a little bit about your own perspective.

And instead of saying, "Do you get where I'm coming from," you can say, "What

do you hear me saying?"

And simply by asking that question, what do you hear me saying?", it forces

the other almost to empathize with your perspective, at least to try and take that stance of understanding.

Now success for the other side is accurately reflecting back what you said.

Failure is the failure to actually have listened, which allows you to then correct.

"So what do you hear me saying?

I'm not sure I'm being clear about why I believe in this candidate and what they

stand for.

What do you hear me saying?"

So I think step one is for each side to truly understand in a really real way that other

side's perspective.

And it's true, it's not just one side understanding the other.

Each side has to work to understand the other's perspective.

Now this can easily turn into a fire when one side says, "You know, you're crazy.

I can't believe you are my relative—you're my son, my daughter…

Boy, you know, I didn't raise you the way I wanted to raise you.

Your value systems are different than the way I thought they should be.

You are wrong for believing what you believe."

Now that moment in time, that's the critical moment.

Are you going to respond at that point in time, when the other side is attacking your

belief systems, by saying, "F you, no, it's your fault!

You're wrong!"

Or at that point in time are you going to say, "You know what?

Help me understand more."

And that might seem soft and weak.

It is the toughest and hardest thing to do.

I've worked with hostage negotiators, with crisis negotiators in situations of war.

This is what moves things forward.

That ability to deeply listen to the other side even when they're throwing that toxic

energy at you.

You don't need to absorb it all.

You don't need to sort of swallow all that negative energy.

My advice is just let that negative energy fly right by you, hit the wall behind you.

You're listening for the message.

You are holding onto the meaning that they're sharing, but you're not going to let their

approach, their adversarial approach to this conversation dominate the framing of how you're

going to have a conversation.

So people say "listen," and listening is the hardest thing in the world to do, you

know.

When it comes to emotionally charged conflicts, why is it so hard to listen?

Because my identity is feeling threatened.

You're not just attacking some cerebral ideas I have.

You are attacking my value system, what I believe represents the core safety of my family,

of myself.

The meaning I bring to life.

And once you attack that, oh, it's really hard not to have that snake's head, you

know, go and bite off your head.

Another tool that you can use in a conflict situation is to ask advice.

The moment you find yourself in conflict with the other side don't entrench yourself in

your position: "This is my position.

What's your position on healthcare?"

Boy that's going to get you nowhere except toward impasse and gridlock.

Instead ask, "What's your advice?

Look, you know more about the other side's perspective than I do.

I know more about mine.

What's your advice on how we might work most effectively together?

What's your advice on some policies that might address your interests and maybe some

of my constituents interest as well?"

The moment you ask advice it almost automatically invites the other person from that role of

adversary into the role of colleague.

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What To Text Your Ex-Boyfriend (To Make Him Come Crawling Back!) - Duration: 9:30.

Relationships end for all kinds of reasons.

Sometimes breakups are for the best, and other times… not so much.

That said, if there's one good thing to come out of any breakup it's the opportunity

to not only evaluate your relationship, but also to see how it can be improved.

If you're done some serious thinking and believe that the best thing you can do right

now is to win your ex back, then stay tuned, because I have just the texts messages for

you!

Hey ladies, Amy North here, welcome to my channel.

For those of you who don't know me I'm a relationship coach from the west coast of

Canada, and author of The Devotion System, a program I've designed to help women around

the world find and lock down the love they want and deserve.

And today I want to share with you the types of texts you can send your ex boyfriend to

get him back.

Now, chances are you've heard about The No Contact period by this point, but for those

of you who haven't I'll just quickly explain.

The No Contact period is 30 days during which you cut off all communication with your ex.

That means no texting, no calling, no messaging him online, no showing up at his house, the

works.

It's also important that you don't silently stalk his Facebook or Instagram, and avoid

keeping tabs on his every move.

Of course there will be situations where cutting off communication is impossible, for instance,

if you work together or have children, but in those scenarios you'll want to keep contact

to an absolute minimum and avoid talking about anything other than the responsibilities you

share.

During the No Contact period you're going to want to focus on yourself.

This means taking up new hobbies, spending times with friends and family, and really

just doing what makes you happy.

Doing so is important for a couple reasons.

First, it'll help distract you from wanting to contact your ex, which will do wonders

for winning him back, and second, it will make him miss you.

Here's why.

The thing is, there's a good chance that your ex expects you to go crawling back to

him, begging for another chance to save your relationship.

When you do the opposite, it'll surprise him and make him wonder why you haven't

reached out and what you've been so busy doing.

In other words, he'll be missing you.

This is where the second benefit comes in.

When your ex's curiosity gets the best of him he's going to check in on you.

Maybe this means calling or texting (ignore both of these if he does), or perhaps he'll

check out your Facebook page or ask mutual friends about you.

So, when you keep busy and surround yourself with those you love your ex will see that

you're not sitting around, heartbroken about the breakup.

Instead he'll realize what a fun, full life you have, and believe me, he'll want to

be a part of it.

Of course there are many tricks and tips I could share for winning your ex back through

strategies like the No Contact period and by using social sites like Facebook, but for

this video, let's stick to texting.

Just keep in mind that before you send any of the messages I'm about to share with

you though that you make sure you've let at least a month of no contact pass first.

Got it?

Lovely!

Now before I jump into the heart of this video, I'd like to quickly ask that if you enjoy

it, or find what I share here helpful, then please take a moment to click the subscribe

button below.

Not only will I appreciate your support but it's you ladies who allow me to keep coming

out with new videos for you all!

So please, don't forget to subscribe.

Now, let's talk texting.

To keep things as simple as possible I've come up with three types of text you can send

your ex to make him want you back.

To make it EVEN EASIER, I've decided to call these the triple "R" texts, which

will be reminder, remember and reminisce.

Let's start with the first R, Reminder.

Since it's been some time since you and your ex were in contact, you're going to

want to warm him up to the idea of hearing from you again, and the best way to do so

is by sending short thoughtful messages that don't ask for a response.

For instance, if your ex is really into art and you know there's a new exhibit coming

to town then you could mention that, or if he's really into a particular sports team

or activity then you could use that as your kick starter.

So, to start pinpoint an interest of his, just be sure it's one you have something

relevant to remind him of.

For example, let's say he's a huge Radiohead fan, you could text him something along the

lines of:

"Hey, I saw Radiohead is going on tour this summer!

I thought of you because I know how much you've been wanting to see them live.

Hope all is well."

Or, "Hey, I just wanted to let you know that Parks Canada is giving away free Discovery

Passes for the year to celebrate the country's 150th birthday.

I know how much you love camping, so I thought I'd let you know.

Hope all is well."

Again, these messages are thoughtful and don't ask for anything in return.

They're simply reminders to let your ex know that even though you haven't been reaching

out to him, he still crosses your mind from time to time.

Of course it can be tough to get your ex to think about your positively, especially if

your relationship ended on a sour note.

That said, these Reminder text messages can be your best bet for making that switch and

getting on his good side.

If you're interested in learning more ways to make your ex think positively about you

then I highly suggest you visit my site and watch the free video presentation.

The URL is www.coachnorth.com/texting, and I'll be sure to post it in the description

below.

Moving on, the next "R" text to send your ex is a Remember text.

Unlike in the first message, this is the kind of message that is going to ask for a response,

and the goal here is to do one thing: to remind your ex of an experience you shared together.

While it sounds pretty straightforward, there is actually more to it than you may think

and the key here is to be SUBTLE.

So, as much as you may think that texting your ex, completely out of the blue, to remind

them of a great night you spent together could do you good... you don't want to do that,

at least now and not so bluntly.

Again, you're going to want to be subtle here.

To do so, start by thinking of a memory you and your ex experienced.

Maybe it's a road trip you went on together, or perhaps it's a nice anniversary dinner

you shared.

Whatever you choose, just be sure to pick a memory that will stand out and stir up emotion

in your ex.

Next, you're going to want to reference that memory by asking a question about it.

For example, if on your road trip you stumbled across a hidden beach, or while away one weekend

visited a great diner, those are the things you're going to ask him about.

In order for this to work though, your ex needs to genuinely believe that you don't

already have the answers you're looking for.

So, again, you're going to want to ask about a very specific, one-of-a-kind experience.

If you ask him for the name of the restaurant the two of you used to eat at weekly, then

he probably expects you to already know what it's called… or he may think that you're

not very bright if you don't know it.

So, now that you have a memory in mind you're going to want to text him a Remember text.

An example could be something along the lines of:

"Hey Chris, remember that beach we discovered on our road trip to Tofino?

What was it called?

I'm hoping to go back this weekend but don't know the name of it.

Hope all is well."

"Hey, remember that little italian restaurant we went to for our two year anniversary?

What was the name of it?

I'm hoping to go there tonight but can't think of what it's called!

Hope all is well."

As you'll see in both of those examples you're asking your ex to remember something

special you shared together and creating the opportunity for him to text you back.

Better yet, you're also going to get him wondering who you're going out with.

Is it a friend?

Could it be another guy?

Who knows!

Either way, you'll be making him miss you and perhaps even a little bit jealous which

can do wonders for winning him back.

So, to summarize here, a "REMEMBER" text is asking him to recall a memory you shared

together and setting him up for a response.

If he does reply to your message, answer with a simple "Thanks!"

The third "R" text for getting your ex back is the Reminisce text.

Even though this kind of message doesn't necessarily ask for a reply, you may want

to hold off on sending it until you've already reached out to your ex at least a couple times.

Since Reminisce text messages are extremely emotional and powerful, chances are sending

one is going to cause a reaction, which again, is why it's good to wait until you've

already been in touch with your ex at least a couple times before sending one of these.

When it does come time to send a Reminisce text, the secret is to think of a sensual

experience you shared in as much detail as possible.

Maybe it's a passionate makeout session you had in the rain, or perhaps it's a night

you spent in each other's arms in front of the fire.

There's no right or wrong memory here, as long as it's one that's arousing or will

get his mind racing.

When you send the text start it off with "I was just thinking about that time we…."

and go from there.

I'll say it again, because I know how crucial it is to this kind of message being success,

DO NOT LEAVE OUT ANY DETAILS… that is, unless they're negative.

For instance, if you spent an amazing weekend at a cottage together but got into an argument

about directions, then yes, leave that out and keep the focus on the positive.

When done correctly this kind of message will make your ex not only miss you, but he'll

also start to question if breaking up was such a good idea.

At this time he'll come crawling back to you.

Well, that's about all the time I have for this video, I hope you enjoyed it.

If you have any questions about what I've covered here, or text messages of your own

you'd like to share, then please do so in the comments section below, I would love to

hear from you and always do my best to answer each of you personally.

Again, if you found this video helpful then please take a moment to subscribe to my channel

and share it with your girlfriends.

Not only will I appreciate the ongoing support, but I'm sure your lady friends will love

that you're looking out for their love lives too!

Lastly, if there's a video topic that you'd like me to cover then just let me know, but

before you do so check out my channel because who knows, the video you're hoping for could

already be there, waiting to be watched by you!

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So then, until next time ladies, take care and good luck!

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