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one woman just decided you know what you
can't take my dignity from me I can only
give that up and I don't choose to give
it up and I will not go back the Stan
sir is no Rosa Parks changed an entire
society because that day she chose to
focus on something else she gave it a
different meaning this is not a command
you do not have control over me and she
decided to fight and she changed the
direction of a country and of many other
countries she started something we
forget that you don't have to be famous
to have the ability to change at least
your own personal history to change the
direction we go in our life we have the
power to choose even if you have it
before you can finally say no law I
won't put up with that within myself or
from anybody else and here's what I'm
going to do differently that's where the
breakthroughs really start to happen now
the question is why do some people stand
their ground and make something change
versus other people just kind of accept
things why do some people make bold
decisions and other people make
decisions that are based on trying to
hang on to what they've got that's a
more complex question the answer that we
might have in a few minutes in this one
session but there's one that I've spent
my life studying because when you can
change your decisions you can change
your life when you can change the force
that controls your decisions you can
change anything in your life at some
level we have certain beliefs and values
but if I was going to make it simple I'd
say there's two things that determine
your choices the first thing is the
state of mind and emotion here and at
that moment think about it have you ever
snapped at somebody who had nothing to
do with them it was just the state
you're in right you're frustrated you're
pissed off about something and in that
state of mind whatever they said got
interpreted to that state and you made
of a meaning like they're an irritant or
they're interrupting you they weren't
probably feel bad afterwards when we get
in the wrong state we make the wrong
decisions when you get in a strong
empowering state you'll make a better
decision learning how to direct your
state is a big part of what my work is
with people and it's a big part of what
I do on my seminars but the other thing
that affects your decisions would be
what I would call your story or your
blueprint
we all have kind of a story about how
our life was supposed to be comes from a
set of life experiences interpretations
some people think life is all about
getting theirs
some people think life is about growing
and contributing some people think life
is about making judgments some people
think life is about saving other
people's lives
some people think life is about being
successful some people think God is the
basis of everything and the way to know
God is to go through life in a very
specific way with a set of rules and
they follow it that's what they believe
whatever your story is whatever your
blueprint your blueprint just another
way of saying whatever you believe is
how your life is supposed to be at some
level we either follow that blueprint or
we fight it if we follow it or we fight
it we're going to find that we're going
to bump into things in life where life
isn't always the same as we expect the
debate or think it should be and that's
what we start to experience stress so in
this session a breakthrough when you
watch this story and you saw Melissa you
saw the conflict between which he
desired most and what you feared most
I really believe life is the dance
between what you desire most and fear
most that's where you find where we live
our life the dance between what you want
most of what you fear most that's where
all that energy is in life so what does
she want she wants to be famous she
wants to be able to sing and have
everyone hear her voice and be able to
touch everyone she wants to contribute
she wants to share her gift and she
definitely wants to be famous and
successful
she needs to be closer to her children
but one of the big challenges in life is
oftentimes what we want and what we
needed two different things
she has five boys for all extremely
young as I'm sure you've saw and she has
a husband and while they're all
supportive or going on this journey
somewhere along the lines you've lost
that connection to what was most
important now she a bad person to make
bad decisions no good people make bad
decisions when they get in lousy states
what our ego gets involved or when we
start believing our story and here was
the story she had being a mom is
important but the bigger gift God gave
me is my singing voice now once we get
seduced into a particular story and we
start to believe it it takes ahold of
our life and it control
all of our choices and then pretty sound
bad choice on top of bad choice sometime
a choice starts to affect our life
can you write how many times you've made
some choices that you wish like Callie
would have made a different decision
back then and or that no one ever knows
the stupid decisions you made I know I
can relate to that so what I want to
talk to you about today for this brief
little session is how to break through a
crisis crises happen whatever type of
crises you go through in your life and I
know you've had many when we make some
choices unconsciously can we get
consequences and we make them
unconsciously because we're trying to
get what we want we don't really know
what we value most we don't know what we
need can we find yourself waking up one
day and going why is my life this way
it's kind of like life is always calling
to us to constantly grow and improve you
know if you're going to look at what's
going to make life work it's really
simple
what makes people happy is progress
we're happy more progressing if you're
overweight but you leave today you see
you know what this breakthrough thing
what I got today for me more anything
else is I've been stuck waiting for some
magical diets and magical exercise
climbs some magical time in the future
when they have more time there is more
than one more time I don't need a week
wait for that I'm just going to make a
decision today to get started I don't
need to go out there and go interview
twenty trainers and get online I don't
need somebody give me a perfect plan I
used to pick up my shoes and start
walking I need to just get somebody
behind me who just goes wrong I don't
need a way for perfection I'm gonna do
something right now I choose to get that
I choose the walk I just a run I choose
to go join a club I'm doing it now a
breakthrough happens the moment you make
a new choice and you don't have to wait
you can just get yourself in a new state
maybe this tape will get your doing or
just have to have a new thought that
says you know what I made choices in the
past I'm overweight because I chose to
eat this and this I'm not going to eat
it anymore I'm changing now you can
change your whole life real fast with
just a few choices but if you don't make
the right choices eventually you're
going to face a crisis crisis is when
you made so many poor choices that
sooner or later life shows up and
instead of asking gently for you to
change and improve to grow to make
progress to be happy life what if the
crisis now demands change it isn't
asking anymore we borrowed money
society and we overspent and we talked
about changing and we knew we had to
change and our crisis happens and guess
what nobody other choice the game has
changed and what crisis does is it melts
us down it melts us down so that we can
recast our life we can we mold ourselves
and usually on the other side our life
is greater because as we go through that
crisis we have to growl nobody everybody
wants change nobody wants to do it
everybody I should say wants progress
but nobody wants to change everybody
wants their life better but nobody wants
to do the push-ups the running have the
economic or emotional discipline to make
it happen but if you're watching this
right now and you're still with me some
part of you wants more and I'm saying to
you choose it and the way you're going
to choose it is really simple if you're
in that crisis what keeps you in the
crisis is probably because you're being
reinforced most people they over eat or
they smoke or they drink or they yell at
people they keep doing it because
they're rewarded whatever gets rewarded
gets reinforced whatever habit or
behaviors reinforced becomes a habit and
pretty soon do it long enough it becomes
part of your personality and pretty soon
you think it's who you are and you just
keep living that way I mean it's easy to
see this in other people right it's easy
to see how messed up they are and how
easy they could if they just make some
new choices all you gotta do is turn on
the television some news programs an
entertainment program and you'll hear
detailed descriptions about some person
who is very powerful celebrity who is
doing some stupid thing why do we see
all the stuff on television why do we
hear about every person you can imagine
for Lindsay Lohan - Britney Spears -
only back to the old days it was Elvis
or Michael Jackson or whoever it is
that's in the news today in this stage
of life in your countries you're
watching this it's because we want to
see other people who make bad decisions
so we can feel better about our own but
the reason those people don't change
Lindsay Lohan she's got other DUI she's
putting herself at risk she's putting
other people or she could guilt someone
she goes to jail and supposed to be 90
days but here's the consequence it goes
to two weeks and before she even gets
out of the jail she makes a deal for
gets paid a million dollars when she
gets out for the interview what do you
think the chances of her changing when
her bad behavior gets her a million
dollars I don't know if she even makes
that for that much time of acting at
this stage what do you think the chances
are when people around her say it's not
your fault it's not fair they treat you
unfairly as long as we have the decision
that we're not responsible it's not our
fault we can't change anything we have
no power so I don't know if I time you
watch this if Lindsey will change but if
she did it will because the enablers are
gone she's taking responsibility and
she's found something she values more
than attention and money for bad
behavior now it's easy to look at that
with her but what about you and I where
are you hi addicted to our problems
where are you hi reinforced so many
people won't have a big problem listen
if things are going well you say how
it's going so great your friends go well
that's great after a while they go well
easy for you but if you got a problem to
go hey I understand and they connect
with you where do we get addicted to our
problems if you want to make a new
choice if you want to make a new
decision today if you want to have a
breakthrough in summary your life you
have to give up the story that it's not
your fault and you got to give up the
attention and the love and the
connection and the commiserating that
comes with it with other human beings
here's how you change five simple quick
steps and then I'm going to give you a
little tool but if you want to you can
go online and really make a change with
if you're going to change your life step
one I don't care if something that's
happened to you you know somebody
spilled oil all over where you fish it's
horrific it's disgusting how they dealt
with it
but it's happened you got to deal with
it something's happened someone your
family has been injured you've lost your
job I don't care what the problem is if
you're in a crisis step number one see
it as it is but don't see it worse than
it is now what do I mean by that I don't
mean visa mr. Mis positive thinking
right now if you're spending time with
me you know I'm not about that I'm not
here to tell you go to that garden and
chant there's no weeds there's no weeds
or still weed doing affirmations not
going to change your life you've got to
go see what the weeds are opponent
I point a simple you've got to see what
the problem is but you can't make it so
horrific that you just give up today
this is the first generation in almost a
hundred years of Americans who now
believe the majority of Americans now
believe that the quality of life for
themselves and their kids in the future
is going to be worse than the past they
have in other words nothing to look
forward to 63% of the u.s. as of today
Wow when you start thinking there is no
future you go into what we call learned
helplessness a place where you just kind
of give up and if you get to that place
of giving up then you have no power of
your life that's when people get
depressed not some people do crazy
stupid things that's when people want to
turn to drugs or alcohol or sometimes
suicide or just total frustration and
anger and their life starts to do the
opposite of breakthrough it becomes
completely stockin and pain or an
ongoing suffering if you're not going to
break out of that we got to see it as it
is we're not here to be positive
thinking people you got to see what's
really going on but if you're overweight
you can't say to yourself well I'm
big-boned that's not what you're
overweight you're overweight because you
don't work out you eat certain things
you Cheetos all day long watching TV I
don't know what did you do but I know
it's not just cuz you're big-boned
you don't want to make it so it's
outside your control you can't change it
so see it as it is but don't see it
worse than it is so that you have no
reason to try does that make sense
that's the first step step to get to the
real truth and deal with it don't just
see it as it is and not worse than it is
don't just like balance it but now get
to the truth I mean listen yes the truth
is you've been trying to get a job for
two years and you truly have worked
every day in a particular industry the
number of jobs made industry has shrunk
down and you really aren't getting that
job then you might have look at the
truth the truth is you might have to
retool you might have to say gosh you
know the industry I'm in is gone I mean
gross implica simplistic example but for
years vinyl records were around for 85
years there was a gigantic industry and
things came and went during the vinyl
record time what happened well there
were
remember those 8-track tapes are you
ain't enough to remember those things
and you know somebody remembers those
things these big boxes you push it in
and out yeah eight tracks came and went
vinyl records are still here and then
cassette tapes came right and cassette
dates were small or a more compact and
more convenient and more seemingly
indestructible and they came over here
and vinyl records were still selling
like crazy they had a job and vinyl
record you kept it but then a little
thing came along called the CD when that
happened almost overnight you saw an
entire industry been around almost a
century was gone if you were the guy
that worked in the vinyl record factory
and you everything about it it was the
second generation didn't matter it was
over and when now we laugh about a CD
right because everything in this digital
world you can have instantly who wants
to put on a CD pretty rare still
available in vinyl records maybe there's
a small market of people that are
collectors but it's gone my point is if
you're in the battle record business
you've got to tell yourself the truth
you got to see it it is not worse than
it is but you also got to get the truth
and deal with it you got to deal with a
card you're dealt you're going to have
to retool you have to change something
we might have to move if you live in the
Gulf and I don't support anything that's
happened there who could it's
unconscionable what's happening with BP
but if you live in the Gulf and you're a
third-generation fisherman and you're
now you fish for oysters and they're
dead you better get to the truth are
they going to be dead for two years or
10 or 20 to the best of your ability and
you might say but I can't do anything
else
I can't I'm a third generation this is
all I know yes you can get to the truth
and deal with it deal the card you dealt
with you got to deal with it sure I'm
sure illegally but in the meantime you
got to take care of your family I'm not
saying this off-the-cuff easy because
I've been in those situations where it's
impossible it's unjust it's wrong but I
still got to deal with it just like you
and I make it sense it's like you might
say I have a little Maura you might have
to move you might have to fish someplace
else you might have to get I know you
still got to deal with all the
consequences but you got to take that
control of your life
they're unjust things that happen but
you got to take control easy for me to
say I'm not sitting in your shoes I get
that but who hasn't experienced some
form of injustice
someplace who
I've dealt with something unfair who's
not dealt with something it wasn't meant
to be unfair but it affected your entire
life your career your finances whatever
you got to tell yourself the truth and
you got to get to those dealing with the
reality right now the longer you wait
the longer the crisis will be if you're
having an economic crisis got to deal
with it
got a downsize right sighs do whatever
it takes I say okay Tony well so far
you're telling me don't allow myself to
make it so bad I know try see it as is
but don't make it worse than it is
you're telling me get to the truth and
deal with it well that's nice but you
know how do I do that maybe the third
step more than just getting the role
model maybe to be more specific is get a
vision first get a vision and get strong
that's why I think the third step should
be you first tell you something true
this see it as it is not worse than is
Pro yourself the truth and deal with it
but the way to deal with it is say what
am I going to go for there's got to be a
compelling future I got to come up with
a vision for my life or a vision for my
relationship I've had terrible
relationships nothing's worked tell
yourself the truth I've made poor
choices or I told me some stories and
gave myself excuses or I've not had the
courage whatever it is get to the truth
and then get yourself a vision for what
you do want because you have to have
something you're going to move towards
does that make it sense if without a
vision people perish it says in a very
good book called the good book and I
know there many good books but that's a
good one to take a look at we need
something to go for we can deal with any
problem today as long as there's
something that we can look for in the
future that we can strive for it'll give
us the emotional and psychological fuel
the juice to keep moving forward so you
got to come up with a vision and a way
to do that we'll call that step 4 get a
role model you might get the vision from
a role model you might get division just
from coming up with a new idea but in
order to figure out how to go from where
you are to where you want to be to close
the gap from where you are to where you
want to be it's best to learn by other
people's experience whenever you can so
get a role model get their strategy and
go to work get into action so I'll give
you an example um years ago when I was
first starting to try to figure out how
to build myself financially I grew up at
a time when just because I was
do well this big recession happen I
remember I was like 29 30 years old I
think maybe 31 and I was doing okay and
then all of a sudden there were all
these business challenges because we
went through this severe recession back
in those days and I remember the time
everybody was downsizing and freaking
out and I thought you know what I don't
want to just settle for this I want to
find a way to do well who's done well in
really tough times and so I started
doing my homework and those days you
know he didn't go out and use the
internet the way you do today you
couldn't access all that information we
actually went the libraries and did
research in traditional ways I'm H
enough to remember those days and I
started hearing about this man named Sir
John Templeton very famous man he's a
man who became a multi billionaire as an
investor he started with nothing but
that was interesting is when I started
find out about his story because here's
a guy that when he's a young man is
called Sir John heppa Templeton now he
was actually an American originally and
he wasn't served he came from a very
poor family and he just decided that in
his life he wanted not only do well
financially he want to do so well he
could help other people at any level
that he wanted and today by the way he's
passed but before he did he created the
Templeton fund and he also created a
fund that now delivers money gives money
each year at the Templeton Prize to
people to do good spiritual works and
it's larger than the Nobel Prize and it
continues to go on but the guy started
with nothing and here's how I did it
listen to me now the reason I look from
as a role model is because he made all
his money and the worst of times he made
all his money when people were going
through the equivalent of the deepest
recession or depression possible his
whole belief was this is different than
almost anybody else you see around me
was pessimism was the secret to success
that what he wanted to do was make money
when people are most pessimistic because
when people are optimistic they want you
to pay for their house a huge sum of
money but as they start getting more and
more pessimistic or pretty soon they
think they can never the house is the
worst thing to have they'll virtually
give you the house they'll virtually
give you the business and so he metals
money starting in World War two when the
war broke out when Hitler invaded over
in Europe he took all the money hat and
borrow
total money at $10,000 a total amount he
bought with $10,000 every stock on the
New York Stock Exchange that was one
dollar or less that he thought might be
useful including some companies that
look like they're going to be bankrupt
but he did it when people were the most
pessimistic because your call it look
like Hitler was going to take over it
didn't look like we were all going to be
the winners it look like Hitler was
going to dominate more people are that
scared they would give up anything they
had just to get a little bit back and so
he bought all the stock that eventually
made him a multi billionaire became a
billionaire because after things changed
after the war just five years later and
the economy started to surge everything
changed for him where do you think he
invested next after World War two what
was the country that was pummeled that
was down the factories were basically
turned into mud Japan you could buy
things for pennies in Japan that would
have cost you hundreds of thousands of
dollars before and he did when everyone
is most pessimistic he went in did well
and then he sold when the 80s surged and
when everybody thought Japan was the
greatest country on earth had the
biggest businesses he sold made his
maximum profit when people were overly
optimistic he did the same thing down in
South America when inflation went crazy
this man spent his entire life basically
having a strategy of how to succeed when
everybody else was scared I tell you
that because he's a role model what he
did how he did it it's all in writing
it's crystal clear he could do the same
but you won't be able to do it when
you're telling yourself the sky is
falling and it's over when you see it
worse than it is you'll just give up you
won't do it if you don't tell yourself
the truth is you know what this system
isn't working I got to do something I
got to change my findings I got to
change my job I got to reach if you
don't tell yourself the truth and deal
with the truth the real truth nothing's
going to happen you won't ever even
think about a guy like John Templeton if
you don't have a vision that says I
don't care how the environment is I'm
going to find a way to do well and you
won't do well unless you get a strategy
based on a role model whose really done
it my whole thing is this if anybody has
something you want
they aren't lucky they did something if
you model them if you take similar steps
you can produce a similar result make
sense and finally the fifth step look
if you're in a situation where you see
it as is but not worse than it is
if you've told yourself the truth and
you dealt the cards you're dealt with
and just decide you're going to change
it you're willing to do what's necessary
if you put yourself in a place we got a
new vision and you got yourself strong
if you got a role model and you got some
strategy and you've got yourself an
action step five is give much more than
you expect to receive simple as that
sounds if you find a way to meet
people's needs in business in an
intimate relationship leading your kids
needs anybody's needs the whole game
changes what happened here when all of a
sudden you know Melissa finds herself
coming home and all of a sudden she
finds out that while she's gone her kids
now don't want to talk to her boys her
husband is having an affair well none of
that could change if she would have just
said you know what my whole life is over
I'm done and oh by the way I just lost
my career too because while I'm busy
trying to deal with my family I didn't
finish the record so I lose my record
deal oh by the way we don't have any
financial stability now we're losing our
house if that family would have just
said it's over Melissa or Rick either
just said it's over it would have been
over but they told themselves the truth
we got severe problems here but they
didn't make it worse than it was they
didn't say we can't turn it around and
then they got to the truth the truth of
the infidelity the truth of her
addiction to going after fame instead of
being a mom the truth that neither one
of them have been really competent at
parents and have not given the energy to
the kids that they deserved the truth is
the truth will set you free but first
it'll piss you off
you know the truth though it doesn't
feel good not feeling that it sometimes
will you get your drive to change things
they start looking around said we don't
have the skill to even manage your house
much less our finances we got to do
something different we got to focus on
our kids we got to focus on turning
things around we got to turn our
relationship around but that wouldn't
worked unless they got a vision of
starting to see you know it could happen
and that's what I help them with I help
them get to the truth I help them to
stop over exaggerating I got them to a
place where they got to see that this
relationship could be back alive and
passionate and these kids deserve both
their parents and that she really could
be a great mom and that maybe in the end
she could even still have her singing
career
enjoy it to that you'd have to give it
all up I'm really proud of her she did
it because she found a role model she
got a vision but she got a full role
model and the man that she works with
today as a man that's old I think now
five million or ten million records and
most people outside the country business
don't know his name he's her mentor now
he's made music with you know Willie
Nelson with just about anybody you can
imagine in the business and he's done it
for all these years but he's never left
the central part of Texas because that's
where his family is and Melissa's had
offers to go to Sony Sony red she walked
away because they said you have to do
these things without your family she
found out what was most important and
she made the decisions that may met her
needs to be a great mom
when you fight life and go I should be a
singer and not a mom and you got five
kids you got a problem when you fight
life and say you know the economy should
be different you're going to be stressed
deal with what is without exaggeration
with total honesty dealing with the
cards coming up with a vision
finding a self a role model that shows
your strategy work your tail off give
give give keep changing your approach
and you can get where you want to go
make sense now that might sound like a
lot so to get you started here's a lot
like you do for this session start out
if you want by taking a big crisis or
problem you have and going through these
steps ain't okay what's really true and
let me exaggerate let me spout the
exaggeration let me not make it worse
than it's just let's define what's true
let's stop the story just here's what it
is we got this much financial challenge
we got this physical challenge whatever
it is and then go to step two all right
let's find out the truth let's get the
details let's get the details and figure
out what we're going to do then here's
where we're going to go this is where
we're going to be interesting into it
might take us longer to get where we
want to go but we're going to get here
who's done it that we can model that we
can follow the step set who can coach us
and let's just work our tail off and
change everyday but to give you a quick
jump sometimes when you're in the middle
of crisis or crises multiple crises lots
of things going on simultaneously
it feels been overwhelming so you might
not know role model I have to tell you I
don't know who well not hard in the
internet these days to find role models
or come to an event I promise you we can
show you plenty of role models what I do
for a living but what you can do right
away is you can model yourself
think about it almost everyone alive has
been through more than one tough tough
time crisis or multi crises where you're
having a problem financially and you're
on top of your family and you're having
a health problem all simultaneously
those the intense ones right but if
you're standing still today most of us
have found a way to get through it and
if you don't you know someone who went
through a tough time I grandmother and
aunts and uncles somebody the greatest
way to make that change happen when you
break out of it you know break through
you break out of a problem you break out
of crisis is model yourself so we have
five questions when you click on this
link and you can do it by video so you
can see yourself and you can share it
with other people or you can type in the
answer I'll tell you advanced what they
are and then when I'm done here I want
you to do it right away if you would
first question is let's throw a lot of
toughest times in your life what's been
one of the toughest times your life that
you did get through maybe with a
financial situation it was a career
situation again maybe with an intimate
relationship when you were crushed you
thought you could never make it through
all the pain you went through there you
know maybe it was a physical challenge
the health challenge maybe was a lack of
confidence or ability I don't know what
it was but what was it just incredibly
tough time that you did make it through
you're just going to jot it down or are
you doing the video and just tell us
because you're not only going to get
this answer but we're going to create a
community of people who will be Romans
people that have been through hell and
back saying here's what I was here's I
got through here's what shifted my life
here's what you can do our greatness
community is our gift to you so that
this isn't just a discussion that's one
way we really I want to do a start a
conversation with you where we can help
each other so that first question is
what what's the crisis what's a
challenge what's a tough situation you
eventually made through but it really
was difficult for you second question
you go back and you think about that
situation what told you through what
pulls you through that situation what
did you what did you learn what
distinction or did you give a strategy
or was it a belief or did you meet
someone who helped you or was it just
somehow you clicked into your faith and
you kick yourself into gear
what pulls you through those tough times
was it a person was in a place with an
idea was a distinction with a belief
what was it share with us type it down
or tell us from your heart what it
really was third questions just real
quick it's just for contrast third
question is what was your life like
before the crisis like right before all
hell broke loose usually you say all my
life was so great but when you go back
and look at it was it so great was it
wonderful just out of curiosity right
before all hell broke loose the question
is what was your life like right before
and then the fourth question what you do
what did you do to go from where you
were at where you are today what did you
do to get over that situation what did
you need to get through that situation
what did you do to turn it around what
action did you take who did you go learn
from what skill did you go get what what
did you physically do kind of give us
the description of what you did because
we all want to know because you can
provide us a pathway you may have been
through a crisis that someone else is
going through right now and they can
learn from you could they can learn the
shortcut finally the fifth question
maybe the most important one besides
what pulls you through and if this one
is how is your life actually better
today because you went through this
crisis whatever the crisis was how are
you stronger or are you more
compassionate because you felt that
suffering you don't want anybody else to
feel it or are you more hopeful because
you know you mean to do that so you can
make it to other things or are you in a
situation where you've got a skill today
that you didn't have and wouldn't have
had if it wasn't for that situation that
made you have to grow for you just
happier today because you have a
contrast of what life could be like and
so now you appreciate the simple moments
how will you better mentally emotionally
physically financially or spiritually
today because you went through the
crisis even though you wouldn't want to
go through it again you know anybody
else to go through it how did it
actually serve you in the end
I think if you answer these five
questions you don't need to remember
them I said them the kind of trigger
you're thinking all you do is type in
the answer or you take the instructions
and click on the video and go okay
toughest time my life there been so many
but I'd say when I went through this
divorce or I'd say when I was totally
had this tumor all right say when they
told me this company
go bankrupt or whatever it was second
question what pulled me through god I
don't know I guess combination of things
one was disbelief that somehow
everything in life happens for a reason
and a purpose and you know I hate this
something miss me called me to grow or
I'll tell you what it was it was a
friend that sat me down and said man
you're going through hell but when
you're in the middle hell when you're
pushing through I'll just keep pushing
just keep going through it man
I've been there and he gave me this plan
or he gave me this strategy or he told
me you know this problem won't last
forever trust me I know it feels like
it's the end of the world but 10 years
from now you are we sitting here and
you'll be here with your children you'll
be here with your wife I will be talking
about those tough days and we'll
actually smile and laugh about them and
be so proud we made it through it
together you might say what got me
through was prayer well my faith in God
or what company through it was just
massive action you know what pulled you
through just tell us we all want to hear
we all need to know and there's lots of
ways to get through hell isn't there
there's lots of way to get through a
crisis there's so many ways that's what
I want people to get so when you're done
with us in the website you will given
something because the community's
legislation go get stuff right we should
give and the more you know authentic you
can be an honest from your heart the
more other people will see and be
touched you know what was it like before
oh my god I was on top of the mountain
and what did you do here's what I did
you know I told myself the truth I went
got this new education I went started
talking to people each day I whatever
you did how's your life better today
there's a phrase you know be humble or
be humbled oh I have a different level
of humility because I know you know that
as good as I'd may think I may be that
situation reminded me that life is not
just about me it's about we or gosh
because of that I love my wife so much
because we made it through that
situation together or because of that
man I'm so much stronger financially I'm
on top of things I don't let anybody
spend whatever it is tell us our life's
better okay I don't know how long the
session was again there's no script here
baby I just want to work with you heart
to heart
say one thing if you want to break
through you have to make new decisions
new choices create a new life the only
thing stopping you at some limiting
belief some believe about how life
should be different you should be
different deal with life the way it is
tell yourself the absolute truth don't
make it worse than it is tell yourself
the truth deal with it get a vision get
strong get a strategy get a role model
with a strategy get an action and then
put your focus on taking action every
day giving giving giving change your
approach you will get there go to the
power of crisis right now click in give
us your message of the answers to five
and look at other people you'll find
people than to things you can't imagine
a woman talking about how one day she
was home and man came in and to try and
save her children from being hurt she
had a letter him rape her right in front
of her kids and when her father her
husband found out lather he came home he
was so upset he left her and then she
developed cancer I mean you'll see some
stories here that'll blow your mind and
today she's gonna pop the incredible
woman and she's helping other people who
have cancer to get through it she's
healthy and strong her kids are strong
we need those kinds of role models so
whether your story is little or big
there isn't a little bit we all need a
pathway of power and this will be a gift
to yourself because it will activate
your resources you know they get to
other people as well
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