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Why I haven't been posting on YouTube... - Duration: 13:28.
Hello hello, hello you guys and welcome back to my channel it has been a
long time I
When was the last time I posted a video?
Few months since I last
Recorded really much of anything and I feel like it's about darn time to hop back into it and let you guys know
where the heck I have been what the heck is going on and
Just give you guys a general update. But I think this is an update that takes 10 people not just one
to share so Ryan
Right here. Alright, perfect
Pop a squat. Alright
Welcome back. Thank you. Oh, look at that
So for those of you who don't know I like to record videos on plants it's very thrilling
Especially if you actually like plants which I do and so does he kind of thanks. Anyways, I
Am so good at delaying topics, but this is very funny. Are you excited? Yes, shall we?
You know what s just get into it. Let's just bounce right into it, but instead of needs say in an effort
How could I just show you?
Part of what has been going on since we last spoke
You
We're married
I know it's official. So before he was just my mister, but now
he's my
Mr. Oh, yes, he's still my mister, but you know that I'm so we got married. It was beautiful. We went to Mass
Maui wowie it was gorgeous tropical
fantastic
Humid, but it was beautiful
it was I
mean the water
plants there was a lot of plants actually and I recorded a little video for your guys when I was there because I was
For the past while missed making the videos with you guys and sharing them with you. She was over it
I had to encourage the video. I mean there was a lot going on
So I needed kind of like a break - kind of like gather all my thoughts to process
What was going on because the thing is that?
We didn't just get married in these couple months. So we were not recording
Theirs
We're expecting a baby a little baby a little tiny itty bitty baby not that tiny very healthy normal-sized
These are the babies kind of small now. We're about 12. Oh my gosh
21 weeks pregnant tomorrow, so we're up way past, but we are past halfway
Although they say for your first child, which is the case for us that the baby usually comes a little bit later
Then in 40 weeks, but we will soon have I have no idea man
They say the baby will tell so in any case it's amazing. It's something that we've thought about
Talk about for a while. I mean like there's this one over here. He's been talking about marriage with me since I met him
basically
and that's nice and
But I mean the baby is just an extra little
Sprinkling on top of everything that's been amazing that's going on where our love has created a life
There is nothing much more static and exciting than that
Except for maybe like a painless childbirth that goes by very wonderfully and simply that would also be a very joyous joyous
Occasion but I oh my gosh. Yeah. So the possible months have just been kind of a whirlwind of
Planning a wedding within like basically two months
Which if any of you have planned a wedding to like a two-month planning period is kind of like, baby
Like mind-blowing something. Yeah
And then on top of that, you know, just trying to get past the 12-week mark
which if you don't know what that means it means that's kind of like the safety period that
Usually doctors and midwives give you to kind of be like yours. See you're clear. You can officially confirm that you are pregnant and
We passed it. Everything is going really well. Everything is really healthy. I've seen active really fit
Haven't had what's walking lots of walking which my pups are very excited about actually
Antes Ruby's birthday to leave it. We went on a little walk around
Lots of parks and we went out. We just basically took her everywhere
So she's back there nothing right now
But she's exhausted literally like I tried to like get her to play and let me have a little ball for you which she loves
but
She was unresponsive. She was passed out homegirls upper and lower eyelids. We're like BFFs for life
You couldn't break them up
But
Yeah, so I just kind of wanted to make a little video just because I didn't want to stop recording
They literally do have fun making these videos, but I've been pokin out here in the last few months
I'm like, hey, what are we doing this again? I know but like my thing was that I couldn't
start recording a video without having it be about
What the heck was going on just because it's like what am I gonna do be like? Hey guys
How's the weather doing where you are, by the way, I got married events right nuts
It's like you can't you can't blaze that out. I feel like a normal conversation. I
Don't think a video. Yeah, so we made a video so long story short. This is the intro
Where have I been now? I can get back into the normal swing of things that it's gonna be amazing
Except we're gonna add even more content to this will not we're it's gonna be me, although technically
I guess it is weird and sometimes he does
videos of us
If we're though
We are going to be adding more content to the channel and it might not just be about plants anymore
It might be about other little please that might be about the dogs. They're cooking. So I like to cook
I also like spa things and we just have some random little clips from Hawaii even that we might share with you guys
I think we're gonna do a whole video every when we did a small hike one day why I think the day
after
Wedding yet wasn't that there the following day. It was like we got married and then the next day we went hiking
What's that? We had this spa
Look at the video
We have the recordings on my phone so we are going to
Double-check, but surely after the waiting one of the first things we did
The following days was go on an amazing lie again. It was a really short hike just
Creating a mile and a half but it had like three kind of little components to each one was like half a mile back
Shall I give us the vibe of what you were thinking but anyway that's gonna be a little video
exactly and then tomorrow
We are going to a Renaissance Fair. I have never really been to a Renaissance Fair
I think I actually might have gone once when I was like a wee little whippersnapper and had no idea what was going on
I was like, wow, look it was crazy, but it wasn't just kidding. He likes it
No, so we're going tomorrow and we're dressing up I'm gonna be a gladiator you can be a gladiator
We're gonna kick some turkey leg. But and so we're probably gonna do a video on that. Yeah, so if you want to see
That then, you know just stay tuned to the channel. There's gonna be one new things going on. It's gonna be awesome
Oh and we have another plant. Oh
We've all oh my gosh and the plant show video
That's right, because I think it was about like a month or something ago. There was another
Succulent show happens where two times a year two times brand autumn bring it on buddy
it's like the megaphone but so I have recording a
Video about the succulent show once before on my channel a link to it somewhere up here or up here
This is gonna be like the same thing but round 2, and we have a hall
So it's gonna be super exciting
it's all pictures and I took a video of the capacity because it's split up into half of the show room is for a
Contest and they judge plants and the other half is for buying plants
So pretty someone for father purchased some and we have a great video on
the show the blue
Yeah what she didn't get which blew my mind
He came back then and got like a couple, you know
what would you mind will show all over the other day you'll suspect in any case if you want more details also about like the
Proposal or the marriage? There's no one over here, but about the marriage
Then let me know I will make sure to do
Update videos on that so that this video isn't like 30 minutes long
So if you specifically want to know about it comment down below. Let me know
It was a beautiful proposal and he an even more beautiful wedding. No, she doesn't proposal for the wedding was just like oh
So it was perfect. It was really really good, which is really nice because I don't plan to get married again
So
But then also, um, I have been taking notes
I don't have the notebook with me. But I have this like little baby journal called Obon. Um
where I recorded down basically everything I was feeling
thinking
experiencing from like my
Finding out moment of pregnancy until now. So if you want kind of like a week-by-week update of what kind of went on
during those pregnancy like what to kind of expect let me know also because I know for myself when
first found out I was like, ah
With a mixture of excitement and also are you sure this is really happening? So I
Found that those kind of like weekly updates were super helpful to myself personally
So if you think I'd be helpful to you, let me know and I'll record
videos
So I think that's about it, I don't know what else you would want in a juicy update other than that
I mean that's pretty intense. But what else do we have to handle everything else?
I mean, I don't know if I could handle anything. I was like pretty much like shut down
I was like Patrick starts when I never Rock it was like
You know, but we're back
Yes, I'm sorry so I can't wait to share the Renaissance Faire video with you guys when it happens tomorrow
I hope you guys like this video
I am so glad to message your grades back again, and I thank you so much for all of you who are commenting
while I still wasn't posting it was nice to kind of still have those interactions while I was kind of like
not really, but like I was there but I was kind of like
you know, I was processing making sure that everything was
You know prepared this is a huge life-changing thing. I was I wanted to take it really seriously
We wanted to take it really seriously and kind of just make sure that our heads were in order
before we kind of continued going on like
We're totally cool in any case
It feels good to be back. The talking comes so naturally it does so it's kind of almost necessary
so
In any case thank you so much for staying subscribe - thank you for the new subscribers
And I can't wait to make more content if you want to see more videos like this
Give me a big old thumbs up or just time to go. No, but if you're happy
And for the baby
babies, man
Push one out for your girl you can get it. No, is that like too soon of a language? Oh
Okay, in any case
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How Operator Mods Work in Black Ops 4 | All 18 Super Attachments! - Duration: 7:41.
hello everybody welcome to the channel my name is JGod in today's video we're
gonna talk about how to use operator mods and specifically what they do for
each weapon, there are actually over 15 operator mods that can actually change
how a specific weapon performs the whole operator mod concept is a brand new
system that has been brought to call duty black ops 4 as part of that picked
n create a class system let's go and talk about the most important part of
the operator mods and that's how to equip them so that first step in
equipping an operator mod is just making sure the weapon has an operator mod to
begin with as you navigate through the different weapons you can actually see
right below the weapons stats it says operator mod bat barrel in this
specific case this one doesn't have one bolt cylinder and then you can see right
there it has the stray lock and there are different ones depending on what
weapon category you go through one interesting thing is only about 60% of
the weapons have operator mods so that leaves the door open for DLC operator
mods in the future I'm not sure if that's exactly what they'll do but there
is potential in that so now that you've identified a weapon with the operator
mod you want to try make sure that the weapon is fully leveled up you're gonna
go to your wild cards and then select primary operator mod once you've
equipped that you'll have the opportunity to equip the actual operator
mod keep in mind it does take up two slots of your pick 10 system in addition
to the actual operator mod wildcard but now at this point of the video I'm gonna
go ahead and transition just showing you what each operator mod does if you do
enjoy the video in any way remember to hit that like button and I typically
cover call of duty news and game updates best class setup subscriber breakdown as
well as other tip and trick videos on how to improve a Call of Duty meaning
that seems interesting make sure you subscribe and turn those notifications
on let's go ahead and get into the first weapon the first one be taking a look at
is the Vapor operator mod and this one is a simple bayonet this one will
basically turn any melee with your weapon into a one-shot kill the next
weapon we'll be looking at is the maddox and it's operator mod is called eco fire
and it's description basically says it will increase the rate of fire in this
first example you're gonna see the rate of fire and the recoil is relatively low
but once you put on that operator mod it goes crazy fast and the recoil gets out
of control so it's something to keep in mind when you use this operator mod the
next weapon we'll talk about is the gks and it's operator mod is called quad
shot and basically converts it from a Auto submachine gun to a semi-auto burst
firing weapon that fires four bullets at once I probably recommend using this
operator mod unless you just prefer having burst fire weapons the next
weapon we'll talk about is the Spitfire which is a submachine gun and this one
increases the rate of fire significantly lowers your ability to strafe while
firing and increases the recoil significantly right here you're gonna
see the Spitfire before and after the operator mod that was before now look at
the after it's just insane the bullets run out soda and quick the next weapon
we'll talk about is a cordite and the cordite is pretty straightforward it
just adds to your ammo capacity so you don't have to reload but it does come
with an added feature that you got to be aware of the added feature is
overheating so you can see right next to your ammo you can see the bullets are
spraying out that little bars filling up and then once it fills up it does
overheat you will have to wait for it to cool back down before you could use the
weapon again there's just something to be aware of happen at seventy five
bullets per auto the next weapon we talk about is a SOG which allow you to dual
wield the only downside with this is obviously ATS will no longer be
available the downside with not being able to ATS is you're gonna lose a
little bit of that distance you'll be able to kill people at the other problem
with having dual wield is you can't tell how many bullets are in your left weapon
so hopefully they'll fix that on the HUD in the future at some point also as a
heads-up these things melt the next weapon we'll talk about is a tactical
rifle called the auger DMR and it's operator mod is called double tap which
basically converts it to a two-round burst even without any other attachments
you can see that that two bullet spread is still very tight to the time-to-kill
is gonna be that much faster the next tactical rifle we'll talk about
is the AVR and it's operator mod it's called the repeater and it says advanced
auto burst mechanism allows each successive burst to fire with a short
delay as the trigger is held down which basically means the longer you hold the
trigger the fastest weapon fires the initial burst is a little slow but then
it goes into overdrive what you see right here the next operator mod we're
gonna talk about is the Penta burst which is on the swordfish and this
operator mod is probably one of the better ones because in case you guys
didn't know this gun is typically five shots to kill so if you change this from
a four round burst to a five-round bursts you have the potential to one
burst someone in this game with a slower time to kill and right here you can
actually see the five round burst in action you can see that there's not
really much of a spread unless you're moving the faster you are
while firing it will increase that spread just that much more the next
weapon we'll talk about is the Titan which has an operator mod called a
presser and it says suppress enemies near your bullets stream they talked
about this operator mod and kind of demonstrated what it does during the
world wide reveal and pretty much if you fire bullets near an enemy it'll kind of
make their screen just a little bit hazy other than that you can't really tell a
difference from the actual person firings perspective the next one we'll
talk about is the Hades which is just another LMG and it's operator mod it's
called crossbar and for the description it says ABS is replaced with a focused
hipfire that has reduced bullet spread and improved movement speeds I don't
know if this is the most practical operator mod but it's definitely fun to
use and here's a little peek of what that looks like you can see when I 80s
it doesn't go all the way in and that hipfire spread is relatively tight the
next weapon we'll talk about is the vkm which is another LMG and it's operator
mod it's called fat barrel and it says fires massive shells that hit their
targets easier this operator monitor require a little
bit more testing to find out how effective it is but pretty much what
it's supposed to do is increase your enemy's hitbox which would basically
convert your partial misses into hits the next weapon we'll talk about is a
sniper rifle called the outlaw and it's operator mod it's called bolt cylinder
it says each bolt-action now fires a three shot burst hold the trigger or
Auto burst based off what I was able to test it only looks like that first
part's true if you hold the trigger it will not auto burst but for this I
attempted to hold down the trigger and you can see that nothing else happened
and then I'm starting to spam the trigger because that part wasn't working
the next type of rifle we'll look at is the Koshka and it's operator mod is
called scree lock which is says precision accuracy while entering ATS
when I tested this one like you've seen so far I didn't notice the difference
between having an operator mod and not having operator mod so maybe a mice's
has something to do with it you know exactly what this one does go ahead and
comment down below because that description is just not clear enough the
next weapon we'll talk about is this strife which is actually in the pistol
category and it adds a stiletto knife which is basically the bayonet all over
again that we saw in the vapor so nothing new there the next operator mod
we'll talk about is the skull splitter which is available with the mozu and
pretty much this one makes all headshots one shot to kill if you do land that
headshot first the next weapon we'll talk about is the MOG 12 and for this
one you can see the operator mod is called Dragonbreath in a Bey
Skelly adds fire shells to your weapon although this doesn't really affect the
damage all that much when you're using the weapon the big benefit is when you
hit someone with fire they will not be able to heal for a short period of time
the next weapon we'll talk about is another shotgun and its particular
operator mod it's called strobe light and this is on the sg-12 this one is
very annoying to play against and I'm going to show you a little bit of what
it looks like when you're actually using the weapon so you'll see that there is a
light attached to the end of your gun and it doesn't allow you to ATS all the
way and when you rads seen it will actually turn on this little strobe if
you're not it will not so just keep that in mind the strobe light only works when
you're aiming down sight so that's all 18 of the operator mods that are
available in the game hopefully you found the video helpful if you did
remember to hit that like button if you're brand new to the channel make
sure you subscribe turn those notifications on you appreciate the
support you guys show on a daily basis thank you for watching and as always
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Nurturing Great Relationships - Duration: 9:20.
- Everybody wants better relationships because
you and I both know, when your relationship
sucks, your life sucks.
But a ton of people have terrible relationships
and they don't know why.
And they're constantly fighting
and they're always in the argument mode, they're always
like thinking the other person isn't sufficient
isn't delivering for them, isn't happy for them,
isn't supportive enough.
And so you have all these people who have, like,
good people in their lives but their relationships suck.
And sometimes the relationship sucks with their family,
or their friends, or it can be their significant other.
And it's just like, it makes you want to tear your hair out.
So let me give you four ideas
that can actually help you improve your relationships,
nurturing deeper, better relationships with anybody, right.
Friends, family, or your significant other,
your partner, your lover.
So the first idea is, you never know a person
if you don't know their goals.
And if you don't know their goals,
you're never going to be a great friend.
You'll never be their great lover, their great supporter,
their great family member.
And it's weird, though, because most people
actually don't know other people's goals.
I'll ask family members, I'll say
what's your sister's goals?
And they're like, you know, she wants to be a dancer.
Okay, what kind of dancer?
When?
What does she want to do with that career?
Is it short term, is it long term?
Like, you have to really get into people's goals
to understand their heart.
And so that's what I want you to do
is if you want to be a great spouse to somebody,
you've got to re-engage and say hey,
what do you want at this stage of your life?
Because I know what you used to want
and then we had kids, but where are you at now?
And you gotta get that conversation with your partner
and say hey listen, I know we've been through
a couple of weird months where we just haven't really
felt each other out.
It's like, let's just do some personal development.
What do you really want to do right now
at this stage of your life?
Because you have to understand,
when I say this stage of your life, that's very specific.
Meaning a lot of people's goals change.
And it changes like every three months,
every year, every three years.
So if you haven't had the conversation
with the important people in your life recently
about what your goals are.
And about what their goals are.
Then I'm telling you, you're just skimming at the surface.
Cause if you don't support other people's dreams,
how can you ever have a deep relationship with them?
And if you don't share your dreams and your heart
and your desire with other people,
how can they possibly help you meet that hunger?
How can they possibly help you become the best version
of you if you haven't shared it?
So you also have to be very honest with them.
What's your real thoughts?
What's your real feelings?
What's your real dreams?
What do you really want at this stage of your life
with all the important people around you?
It's one of my favorite things to do with high performers
is say, okay, do all the people around you
know what you really want right now?
Are they clear on what your goals are?
Are they clear about how they can support that,
or how much you want them to be involved in it?
It's like, a lot of people start their own business
but they don't tell the other people around them
what that business is, what it requires,
how they'd love their support.
And so we all go it alone.
And isn't going it alone the opposite
of having healthy, supportive relationships?
So first thing you gotta do if you want better relationships
get to know other people's goals.
Second thing you gotta know and you have to share
is people's fears and your fears.
You have to know your spouse, your partner,
your friend's fears because if you don't know their fears
you don't really know them.
Cause isn't it true we're all kind of like
running around sometimes, feeling inadequate
or unworthy or undeserving.
Isn't it true we all have a bad day,
isn't it true we all doubt on ourselves.
Isn't it true sometimes our fears prevent us
from chasing our dreams.
That's part of life.
And if you don't know that part of the life of your partner
or your friend or your spouse or your kids,
do you really know them?
If you don't know what people are scared of,
you don't know their outer limits.
If you don't know what people are scared of, or fear,
you don't know what their real comfort zone is.
Meaning A, you can't make sure that they have
that comfort, that certainty, that stability with you.
And B, you can't help them grow.
And if you're in a relationship with somebody
who can't help you grow or you can't help them grow
they get bored with you, and they move on.
And a lot of relationships that could have been great end
because the people didn't realize
what either the goals were or what their fears were.
Because listen, you might have somebody who's
they're desperately afraid of losing you.
But they've never shared it.
And so they're running around this insecurity
in your relationship all the time
and you're never really getting to know that.
You really don't understand that.
So those nights out when you're late, they're having fears.
Those nights out when you don't respond to texts,
they're having fears.
Those times that you don't reply fast enough,
they start wondering things
and those fears grow into doubts about the relationship
or doubt about your character.
And all of a sudden you're fighting about stupid stuff.
And if you knew that they were worried about
those types of things, or fearful of those types of things
you could preempt those and say, hey listen,
I know this has been an issue for you before.
Or I know this is a concern.
But here's what's happening, here's what's going on.
Meaning once you know someone's fears,
you can over communicate, and you can
cut off those fears in advance.
And now they feel supported, and now they're not scared
in your relationship.
You have to know people's goals and their fears.
The third thing you gotta do is to create
unique, varied experiences.
You know, a lot of people in relationships
they just go through the motions.
Oh, let's go out to the movie,
oh let's go out to dinner.
And then they're out to movies and they're on the phone
or they're out to dinner and they're on their phone.
And they're not even paying attention to the other person
and trying to create magic.
But if you remember at the beginning of a relationship,
you really worked hard to do unique things.
Take someone to a nice restaurant,
to create an experience at the park or at the show.
You worked hard to set up flowers for them
or give them a nice card.
Like you were thinking about experiences.
Oh, I love you so much, let's go to Italy.
Let's go to France, someday let's go and swim with
the, you know, dolphins.
I mean, you had all these ideas for adventures
and unique experiences and then it turned into
Thursday night Netflix, four barrels of popcorn
and a barrel of wine.
And all of a sudden you're like
why don't we have the zest and the pop anymore?
Because you stopped creating experiences
that brought out that newness and that vibrancy
and that adventure and that growth together.
Like the most important thing in great relationships,
they do things together.
And this applies to your friends, too.
Like are you creating situations with your friends
where you go out on an adventure together?
I mean, when's the last time you really hung out
with your friends and you did something new?
Not the same old thing, something new.
When's the last time in your relationship, maybe,
your marriage or your partner,
did you really try to like craft something magical?
And often people, they'll realize
they didn't try to craft something magical in years.
And now they wonder why their marriage is in trouble.
They haven't tried to craft something magical in months
and they wonder why their boyfriend's disinterested.
You have to work hard in relationships.
You have to plan in relationships.
You have to make sure that that variety is there
and that experiences are forming a tighter bond.
Because listen, you can share your goals,
you can share your fears, you can talk all day
you can have great dates
but if you're not having new experiences together
suddenly you get bored with each other
and the magic is gone.
So what geek-out thing could you do together?
What new thing can you see?
What exciting thing can you participate in together?
Is there a show coming up?
I always love to tell people, you should know
everything cool coming to your town this weekend.
So if you want to ask your girlfriend or your friends
or your partner, your spouse, to that thing, you got it.
Listen, it's in the newspaper.
It's like here's everything happening cool in town.
Go do more stuff together.
And the connection deepens.
I would say the fourth big thing that you have to do
is that you have to share your personal growth
journey with others.
I mean, every week, what would it sound like
and what would it be like if you said to someone
hey, here's something I learned about myself this week.
Hey, here's the things I'm working on.
Hey you know, I've got this weakness over here
I'm trying to strengthen it up.
If you shared your growth journey with other people
instead of like feeling or trying to be
so perfect with other people, say, you know what?
I'm really struggling in this area.
But here's what I'm trying to do better at it.
Do you have any advice for me?
If you sought advice from other people
about your personal growth.
If you shared with other people,
what's the books you're reading?
What's the courses you're reading?
Share this video with them, share my podcast with them.
Share whatever you're consuming that's making you better.
Share that more and talk about it more.
Put the conversation of personal development
into your relationships and then those relationships
start to grow automatically because the discussion is there.
If the conversation of personal development
is always present in your relationship,
your relationship is always getting better.
If the conversation about personal development
is never in your relationship,
then your relationship will always be stagnant
cause you're not growing together.
But if you're growing together, you'll be happier together.
You'll be together longer and you will feel
more connected with the very important people in your life.
Relationships bring life to life.
So do a better job at 'em.
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I'm not going to die without my referral getting processed I will
I am very impatient where I actually fell asleep early I always go to bed
early I don't know why would I talk I have those awkward pauses but I do
what was that is that I looked behind me and there was no body on the ground so I
didn't crash over a human good morning I already went to PT today and it is
only ten o'clock or something I don't know what possessed me to schedule at
8:45 oh so early morning rising and so I already did that and now I need to edit
videos because I was supposed to or I usually put up a video on Mondays and at
least on Thursdays the last week I did all five days but I need to be edited I
haven't been a today I just keep getting distracted instead of editing and then
later I have a pediatrician appointment and yeah I'm going to ask her about my
eternal sore throat I don't even know if it's like throat or what but it hurts
like right here is that my throat trachea baby gonna hurts like right here
right here and I think that's all today hopefully
insurance gets it together and gets their computer sixth so that I'll not be
waiting forever like society that everybody's been waiting for this long
for referrals or whatever because I mean I'm not going to die without my referral
getting processed I will I am very impatient but then like
there's people that might actually like without their referral being processed
could die that's what I was thinking about last night I was like well good
thing I'm not gonna die from this but I am very impatient so I'm gonna edit and
then be really tired today I went to bed really early last night too or I
actually fell asleep early I always go to bed early but usually I just lay
there from nine hours and then like go to bed like one one video is edited
I have drinking my lunch why am I still having the wine up and now I'm watching
crime after crime while it's trying to upload this this is the 10 things I wish
people understood about chronic illness I think that but that title was or is
and it's a really really rambling video very sorry about that
I tried to edit out the most of the rambling as' and the really long awkward
pauses they're just like and then the thought starts again I don't know why
would I talk I have those awkward pauses but I do and yes I'm wearing like my
rubber halfway on but it's also a thing in my life apparently it is only 11:45
so I have four more hours until or
three hours and 45 minutes until I need to drive to the doctor's so probably
edit at least one or two more videos it's just I have to wait for them to
upload before I can edit again and then I do need to work on getting the videos
from my computer to my hard drive don't know why save them on the hard drive
it's not like I ever go through them but whatever I guess they'll be good to have
one day yeah I ended it I think three videos one of them might need to be
reacted but that's okay I'm getting my shoes and I probably needed to leave
like five minutes ago because I just remembered that school got out or all
the people around here about 10 minutes ago
and so there's gonna be people everywhere that's okay I'm wearing my
fruit salad I top oh yeah so I'll either try to vlog there before she comes in or
just log in the car after it's probably just in the car afterwards because I
don't want to be weird I forgot about you guys and now I'm invading Zeus in
her homework station so tomorrow I will be having a chest x-ray you can see this
she's in the reflection cuz she's working she's always working yeah yeah
yeah but I will be having a chick's chest x-ray because when I lay down I
can't breathe and she wants to make sure that my heart is not gigantic or that my
lungs are not filled with filled with fluid although I think I would know both
of those are have but we do x-rays and things just to make
sure because I was like there's I don't have a science affection and it was a
really bad one oh yeah wait she ditched me her homework is right there I'm done
oh okay so yes and their medicines already what else it'd be sick Oh in my
face numbness thing like this part of my face is numb routinely it was it's
probably just you know my bod and what else
Oh insurance called dad back today and their computer is fixed now but um the
IVIG was not approved after it was approved then they're like no nevermind
so now we might just drive to San Francisco to have it and boost yep I
don't think how it got transferred over so easy but yes hopefully going to San
Francisco every two weeks just so you know not like we don't do that nail so
it's probably really really short vlog unless they come up with some more
things to say I forgot you guys in the car even when I went in so I didn't
obviously I didn't log there and then we went and got men cheese and I didn't
belong there because I forgot you guys are in the car with me oh oh yeah I'm
tired I feel like there was another thing I had to say but I can't remember
anymore so that you drove over a curb hey we weren't talking about that yes
but when we were driving two men cheese from the doctors this is probably why
I'm not sense to drive but I had to do but I felt the cargo problem what was
that is that I looked behind me and there was no body on the ground so I
didn't crash over a human so I was like that's fine so I'll try to make my vlogs
more interesting and by not forgetting you everywhere and they redid my
doctor's office it smells like paint mm-hmm like and they're making it more
sad cuz they've painted over all their animal murals and that like Park mural
thing or fair or carnival and it's just all beige oh I didn't notice that but no
you see it nobody notice it was gone yeah and on the doors the numbers used
to be like a snake in the shape of a 1 or a walrus in the shape of a 2 or
whatever but now those are beige - yeah I notice that I look tired don't I
as I am no I'm just tired as me good night tonight well close it hmm
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Susana e Cátia | EP. 242 | 21 de Outubro - Duration: 2:06.
- A message from Manuel?
- Yes
he doesn't suspect of anything, right? - No, he doesn't suspect Cátia
it's just one more mission
- What is it now?
- He wants to know who's behind of a blog
- He's getting picky, no? - No
it's not just a blog
it's a page
responsible
for making an anonymous report
about an alleged leakage we've had with our probe boats
it must be work from that environmentalist
- What are you gonna do?
- Keep on having Manuel's trust
- Susana - Calm
i have an idea
there's lucky days, you know?
i just found a use for you
you must be faithful and obey whatever instruction i give you, are we understood?
- Susana i promise
i do everything that's needed
really - Great
and i hope you remember that, because of any sign of betrayal
what i did to you
it'll just be a slight thing compared to what i'll do
with each relative and colleague of yours
- I promise, i do anything you want, anything you need, really
you can trust me
but please let me go
please let me go
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A Party for the Wealthy | Tolkien Talks Ep. 1 - Duration: 38:42.
Hey, everyone, and welcome to episode 1 of Tolkien Talks! It's happening guys.
It's finally happening. I'm finally reading it! Lord of the Rings being it.
it's happening. I read chapter 1 and now I'm gonna talk about it.
So let's get started with a little recap of chapter 1: A Long Expected Party,
which, as you can see, I have notes on and everything, but I'm not gonna read them
for the recap because if that would be cheating. This is my own show. I make up
my own rules. It's not cheating, but it would take too long.
Keep in mind, I did not read the prologue. I didn't realize there was a prologue
because in this edition there's like a lot of stuff before so I just kept
flipping to chapter 1 instead of seeing what was there before. It was a bunch of
essays and then a prologue, so keep in mind I did not read the prologue, but it
was basically a recap of what happened to Bilbo a little bit and it's a recap
of how the Rings were forged, I believe, because that was the prologue in the
movie as well. Oh, and then it's an explainer on hobbits. That's what the
prologue is. You can read it if you want, I'm not gonna.
So! For the recap. So
basically what happens in chapter 1 is Bilbo Baggins is about to turn eleventy-one, or
111, and he's gonna have a party as all hobbits do in the Shire. All hobbits have
parties and give out gifts so that's basically the whole of it. But there's
more to it, obviously. So the chapter opens with people kind of talking -
first it opens with the narrator talking about Bilbo Baggins and then it jumps to
the shire-folk, the other hobbits, talking about Bilbo and how he hasn't aged and
how enormous his wealth is and how he's such a curious
creature but it's all good. And we get introduced to Sam's dad which is nice. We
never saw any family of Sam's in the movies that was cool to see. Yeah, it's
just a lot of talk about the strange goings-on and how peculiar Bilbo is for
a hobbit. And then it jumps to Gandalf arriving about a month before the party.
All the kids are excited, but Gandalf is strictly there for Bilbo he's
not going to talk to anyone, he's not gonna do anything,
he's on strictly party business. So then he goes and he chats with Bilbo and
Bilbo seems to have a plan of some sort - during - that's going to happen during
the party and it is a joint birthday party with Bilbo and Frodo because they
have the same birthday. So then, that's all of the lead-up to the party and then
the party happens. There are a lot a lot of hobbits invited to the party, and
everyone's very happy with their gifts, but there is some are a little bit
critical, as people are with things that make other people happy, because
they came from out of town, which I do think is an important detail because it
shows that Bilbo is still in contact with out-of-towners, which most people
from the hob- people from the Shire are not in touch with the people from out of
town. And that clearly alludes to Bilbo's adventures in the hobbit and all
of that good stuff. I think that's an important detail that the gifts Bilbo is
giving out are very different than the gifts
hobbits would usually get during one of these parties. So then the party's
happening, everyone's having a grand old time
Gandalf is there doing some fireworks, everyone's finishing up eating, or
filling up the corners, as they call it. I think it's like the post-dessert. It's
like it's like - this is like after like a family friend dinner get-together sort
of thing, like after dinner we've played a few card games we've had some fun and
then like someone's like "so cha, anyone?" and
everyone's like "Yes, we want cha," 'cause that's just how Indians work. And then
everyone's munching on something and drinking some tea and it's a good time.
And that's what it sounds like filling up the corners is. And then Bilbo
gets up and begins his Speech with a capital S and make some backhanded
compliments towards the the hobbits, and the hobbits don't quite get those
compliments. Or or they don't they're not sure whether they're insults or
compliments, which is the point, because I read that sentence three times and I
couldn't get it. Which is Tolkien. He's an English scholar. This is what he
does.
He's [Bilbo's] like I haven't gotten to know half of you as well as I want to
and like is pretty pretty nice even to the Sackville-Bagginses, who lost out on
Bag End pre-book, post-Hobbit. They lost out
to the property of Bag End. He's talking, being fairly nice to people, and
everyone's having a jolly good time and then he's like "despite the fact that I
don't know you as well as I want to and I want to spend more time with you, this
is the end." And then he disappears and then we switch finally to Frodo's
perspective, where Frodo is a bit lost for words. He knew this was gonna happen,
he knew this was the big plan - the big surprise at the end that Bilbo was going
to leave, but all of a sudden he's just filled with so much affection for his
uncle and the person who raised him and he is just quite sad and a little
despondent and he's not talking to any of the party guests or anything. And then
that's all we see of Frodo, and then we cut to the inside of back end again
where Bilbo is preparing to leave he's reappeared in Bag End
no Hobbit has seen him and Gandalf is there and they're talking about his
plans to leave and how Gandalf really wants Bilbo to follow through on all of
his plans and then Gandalf asks about a ring
it's called Lord of the Rings [tapping sounds] Bilbo's like "yeah yeah I put it in this
envelope on the mantle!" and then he's like "oh wait no, it's still in my pocket
but why should I get rid of it it's mine it came to me [gollum voice] my precious." Obviously you
can't hear the voice in this, and I think it it says that it came out in a strange
way but obviously not in this strangled [gollum voice] "my precious" sort of way that we see
with in the movies with a Bilbo at the beginning and then later when we meet
Smeagol / Gollum and that's where the voice comes from. Clearly I've been
influenced by the movies. Could you tell? Could you tell that I really like the
movies? In the end, Gandalf does end up getting the ring out of Bilbo's hands -
I can't remember how - and it ends up in the house
while Bilbo goes away. And then we get to the third act I kind of want to say or I
guess the fourth act. I guess it's still the third because like first act was
talked the lead-up to the party, second act was party and Bilbo disappearing and
the immediate aftermath of that, and then third act is what everyone gets now that
Bilbo is gone, and that's where Frodo inherits basically everything and yeah.
Frodo inherits basically everything but everyone is kind of left happy except
for the Sackville-Bagginses, who got like spoons and then I believe that's the end
of the chapter but let me double-check. [flipping pages] Yeah. Yeah. And in this part we also go
back to Frodo's perspective and we see that Frodo is still just very upset that
his uncle was gone and he he doesn't care about any of the stuff he's
received he just wants his uncle back and he really misses him,
and it's very sweet the end! End Recap. That - that took forever. Yeah, so that is
what happened in the first chapter. It was a lot. A lot happened. Or maybe I just
made it long-winded. But you know what? Tolkien makes it even more long-winded
so it's fine, I think, for me to make it long-winded. So yeah, that's what happened
in Chapter one in Lord - of Lord of the Rings. The way I kind of want to
structure this a little bit is I want to talk about my favorite parts and then my
less favorite parts and then do kind of a literary analysis sort of deal. Iff you
guys listen to Harry Potter and the Sacred Text, something kind of like
exploring the book through - the the chapter through a theme or sometimes
looking at a specific passage that I really loved and doing a bit of close
reading literary analysis English major-y things that I really loved doing, and
then I will probably end off on a favorite quote. So first, I want to talk
about my favorite parts of this chapter. So my favorite part was probably sassy
Bilbo. Bilbo is so sassy and so backhanded and he's just - he's very - he's
just so - [frustrated sound] You know in the West Wing when it like Bartlet makes a joke or and or
just like - you know what? Any character in the West Wing 'cause so it's all just like
they're just on another kind of plane of intelligence. And it's all very fast
talking and like. Also Gilmore Girls like their jokes are very fast talking and
it's like a blink and you miss it sort of joke when you're listening to it.
But reading it, you can take your time with it which I really liked and Bilbo
is just - I could just sit and just appreciate the way Tolkien uses language
with Bilbo and how - how we don't hear a lot from Bilbo or even Frodo in this
chapter but we get such a good sense of their character based on
mostly the speech and what Bilbo wrote. So I kind of want to look at the
place where he writes his will. So this is his will where everyone gets
something - and you guys know how wills work why am I explaining this? Actually
all of the things that he was giving away were tagged with what everyone was
getting. So it says - So this is on page 37 of this 50th anniversary
paperback edition so this says "For Abelard took for his very own from Bilbo
on an umbrella Abelard had carried off many unlabeled ones." So it's just like -
It's one of those 'I see you' sort of things. Snd it goes on "'for Dora
Baggins, in memory of a long correspondence. With love, Bilbo.' on a
large waste paper basket. Dora was Droga's sister" ba-pa-ba-pa-ba "She had written reams
of good advice for more than half a century." And Bilbo was giving her a
trash can. Like can you imagine someone writes to you so much advice
would such a love and care, and you the last thing you want them to know about
you, the very last thing - the last memory they'll ever have of you is the
knowledge that you threw out every single thing they wrote to you.
It's savage. And then with the Sackville-Bagginses - He does for one of
those Sackville-Bagginses, he does give spoons because he thought that uh
that she stole all of his spoons so he was like you know what take him and then
Lobelia Sackville-Baggins was obviously offended but still took
'em. So it's just so great and like, aah, I wish I could be that savage.
Sassy Bilbo is [clap] brilliant. So good I probably should should have done the
Hobbit for a Tolkien Talks, shouldn't I .. have. Shouldn't I've? Shouldn't I have? So
the second thing I really loved about this chapter was the way the narrator
shows affection for characters because it's interesting because
the book is told in third-person but it's very clear that the narrator has a
perspective. Because the entire first paragraph is just the the narrator
speaking no one else is talking there's no dialogue there's no internal thought
monologue from anyone else. It's very clear that there is a perspective which
I really like. One way Tolkien actually does this is
with parentheticals. So just the final sentence in the second paragraph, the one
that starts with "Bilbo was very rich and very peculiar," it ends with "There were
some that shook their heads and thought this was too much of a good
thing. It seemed unfair that anyone should possess (apparently) perpetual
youth as well as (reputedly) inexhaustible wealth." It's very clear that the narrator
has some sort of bias just by that sentence. That the narrator is willing to
question what the hobbits believe is fact, what the people of the Shire
believe is fact, which is that he has inexhaustible wealth and that he has
perpetual youth. But it's also interesting that like it's not an
omniscient narrator that knows already about this ring that's giving him the
perpetual youth and his adventures that gave him the inexhaustible fortune. Or
at least the narrator is letting us figure that out ourselves. It's just a
really interesting narrator which I really like. It's also very clear that
the narrator has affection. I'm referring to the narrator as a "he" because there
are no female characters in these books except for like, one or two. And the guy
who wrote this was a guy. So I'm just referring to the narrator as "he" but feel
free to use they/them pronouns or whatever you want for the narrator
because we don't know who the narrator is. I don't believe the narrator becomes
a character. It's still a third-person narrator. It's
clear that he has a lot of affection for the hobbits because of both the things
the narrator chose to quote? I know this sounds weird but bear with me. So the
narrator decides to give voice to Ham Gamgee commonly known as the Gaffer. So
the narrator sides with Bilbo in the sense that he too has affection for Ham
Gamgee because the Gaffer aka Ham Gamgee is talking about Bilbo with affection
and that's the quote the narrator chose to include in the description of the
talkings between the hobbits. Obviously, there's a lot of chatter going around
about Bilbo and what's going on, but the narrator he took - he chose to paint
Ham and Bilbo in favorable lights, despite calling them peculiar at times,
which is why it says "'A very nice well-spoken gentle Hobbit is Mr. Bilbo
as I've always said,' the Gaffer declared." And then this is the narrator
talking, "with perfect truth, for Bilbo was very polite to him, calling him
Master Hamfast and consulting him constantly upon the growing of
vegetables." So this - that little section really - it zones in on how the narrator
just has a slant, has a perspective and sees the good in Bilbo and Ham, because
he chooses to treat them both with more dignity than say the Sackville-Bagginses,
who are just the worst they're greedy they just want Bag-End,
they steal silver spoons and I'm sure the the Sackville-Bagginses
have good things about them too but it's it's very clear that we're already
rooting for Sam Gamgee because of this first introduction of the Gamgees,
which is him speaking nicely about Bilbo. Because Bilbo has always treated him
with respect. Do you see do do you see what's going on
here? I think I think you guys will get it. [sigh] It's much - so this is so much easier
with a round table class and everyone talking at the same time and me just
like raising my hands and doing a little thought and then a little thought there, a
little thought there. It's hard with just a camera, but we're getting through it!
One more thing I wanted to talk about that was interesting, despite me not
reading the prologue, I found the opening of this story the first chapter to be
very similar to the opening of the first Harry Potter book and also many other
Harry Potter books open outside of the real story. So the real story of the
Sorcerer's Stone is obviously Harry discovering he's a wizard and going to
Hogwarts and defeating Professor Quirrell / Voldy. That's the main story
of Harry Potter - and also making friends. That's the main story, but it starts with
"Mr. and Mrs. Dursley of number 4 privet drive were proud to say that they were
perfectly normal, thank you very much." and it describes the day the Potters died
from their perspective of Petunia and Vernon and that's how the story starts.
And it's very interesting that JK Rowling uses that method that Tolkien
uses in this book. The end of the first chapter of Harry Potter is Harry
appearing at their front steps and it's very interesting that the same thing
kind of happens here where this is probably one of the only chapters were
in there Shire and deep in the Shire politics of
Who's strange, who's greedy? And like this is the last time we'll see Ham
Gamgee, you know? Who is officially my favorite character. It's very interesting
that that happens where we're kind of outside of the world that the rest of
the story is going to take place in. But I think it's important because it's a
way into the story for the reader because I can relate to the goings-on of
the Shire. There is like, friendship politics all over the place. With every
friend group, everywhere. Like, I can [incoherent sound] like the gossip is everywhere and that's
the first scene of this book. It's gossip.
It's people chatting about Bilbo and how weird he is and how he's gonna have a
party. Everyone's been there and then everyone's
been at a party and it - as I said before I could so relate to the filling up the
corners thing because that's what we do, that's what brown people do we we eat
food we hang out and then we have like chai and dessert and loads of other
things that's what we do. But, it's a way into the story like with JK Rowling our
way into the story is through the muggles who, whose only wish and only
desire is to be normal and God if I haven't felt that way. They're places
we've all been, although maybe not to that level, where Petunia and Vernon
want to be normal to an extreme, but that's also because Petunia has been
through extreme circumstances, of her sister being a witch. And there's a bit
of an extreme with Bilbo disappearing but we've all had bad experiences at
parties and talked about it the next day, which is what's going on here. This first
chapter could have been a realistic fiction story, were not for the one
wizard in it. If Gandalf weren't there, this this could be the opening to any
story ever. It could have been a murder mystery!
It could have been there was this great party there's loads of gossip in the
town about this party beforehand, and then during the party everyone was
having a grand old time and then the host disappeared! What happened to the
host?! It's a very relatable thing that they both opened with and I thought that
was really interesting and really intelligent - as much as I'm tired of JK
Rowling right now I'll give her props for the original seven Harry Potter book
series I give her props for that. I just kept noticing it while reading
this chapter and I had to talk about it and I love Harry Potter guys it's great.
Oh and I didn't want to talk about another bit of foreshadowing before I
end this this is when Ham Gamgee is talking about his son Sam and how he's
always in Bag End hanging out with his buddy Frodo. "'Elves and Dragons!' I says to
him. 'Cabbages and potatoes are better for me and you. Don't go getting mixed up in
the business of your betters or you'll land in trouble too big for you,' I says
to him." Foreshadowing! Sam you're gonna do better
than anyone else. You're the best, Sam. I love you. So now on to my not so
favorite things. One of my not so favorite things is the
Sackville-Bagginses. I kind of felt bad for them this chapter they aren't given
the nicest edit by the narrator. Those of you who watch The Bachelor
franchise like I do, know what an edit means, but for those of you who don't and
edit is when - like a bad edit is when someone is turned into the villain to
fit the storyline even though in real life they may not have been the villain.
They may have just been doing ordinary things maybe some not so good things, but
it's taken to an extreme with the way they are edited to appear on our screens.
And I feel like that's sort of happening with the Sackville-Bagginses and the way
the narrator is including them in this story. We're seeing the version of the
Sackville-Bagginses where all they want is Bag End and they're very greedy and they
steel spoons. However there were moments in here where
I felt bad for the Sackville-Bagginses because they were only invited to this
party to fill out the the amount of people Bilbo wanted at the party.
That's not a great feeling and yeah, maybe you really wanted that house and
that property but - but maybe you moved on and maybe it's Bilbo who's rubbing it in
a little bit, and who keeps rubbing it in and that's why you don't like Bilbo and
you see Frodo as the enemy because you hate Bilbo so much. There are justifications
to the way they are written that aren't in the story that are my brain going ding-ding-ding
I sense a bad edit. It's like Jordan, the male model in the last
season of The Bachelorette. He was a jerk according to us during that whole season
like he seemed awful. But then during Paradise, we saw a whole new side of him
where he was in love with this girl and he was listening to her and it was
beautiful, and I feel like the Sackville-Bagginses deserve a Bachelor
and Paradise Redemption. That's all I'm saying. Oh, this is what happens when I
don't script my videos. The second thing that was kind of my less favorite thing
was also the way the narrator was treating people. I thought it was
frustrating that the narrator kept talking down to the hobbits he was he
was very condescending toward the hobbits, and maybe it's justified maybe
they are just a simple-minded folk and that's all they are.
And given the gravity of the rest of the book I'm sure it makes sense, but
in the context of just this chapter, it's a little unfair. The area that it
frustrated me the most was when Ham Gamgee was talking about the queerness
of Bilbo and how he "drownded." And that's the only
time I'm reading a word that sounds like an English word just slightly altered to
make it sound dumbed down. Everything else is in regular English or yeah,
everything else in this chapter is in regular understandable English except
for that word. And then and then Gaffer says 'oh he drownded.' And then, "'Drownded?'
said several voices. They had heard this and other darker rumors before, of course,
but hobbits have a passion for family history and they were ready to hear it
again."
Aah the narrator's such a jerk in that moment these people are just having
a good time listening to stories that they've heard a million times. I tell
stories a million times people listen to my stories a million times if they're my
friends / family and they have to. And sometimes they enjoy hearing a story
again and again. Like, there's this hilarious story of this one Christmas
and Lata Mangeshkar is involved it's hilarious I've heard this story a
million times and I was there when it happened. It's still hilarious and we're-
people are allowed to enjoy themselves. And it's [sigh] I was just so angry at that
moment. Like, why are you raining on their parade? Why are you stopping them from
having a good time listening to just family history? Why are you stopping them
from doing that, and why are you using that word 'drownded,' dear narrator, when
everything else, every other quotation, every other thing is in regular English.
Like the only reason to use that version of the word drowned is to indicate how
uneducated they are and it frustrates me. It's - it's classist it's what it is. The
narrator is a - pretty classist. Not a little bit classist,
pretty classist. And it's like the way people make fun of AAVE,
african-american vernacular English. it's when people make fun of that type of
language because it's not real grammar and it's not regular grammar and
it's not following all the rules and like guess what? English evolves and
people like - I feel like as long as the person who is listening to you, as long
as your intended audience understands what you are saying, it does not matter
how you talk. To an extent, obviously like be nice to people and all that, but as
long as you're getting the point across, it's fine. It's fine a few sometimes say
words a little differently and I feel like this - the choice to use that term
was judgment placed on the hobbits and it was unfair judgment. I think there's a
lot of fair judgment of the hobbits in in this chapter, but this was an unfair
judgment. End Rant. Ok [sighs of relief] whoo! Exhausting. and I haven't even gotten to the fun part yet
of this, which is a little bit of literary analysis. I think I alluded to
this a little bit during my recap of this but I want to talk about the
concept of wealth in the Hobbit [laugh] [incredulous]The Hobbit. [normal] in the first chapter of Lord of
the Rings. It's getting late guys. A lot of this chapter has to do with wealth. One
of the first things you hear about Bilbo, other than the fact that he is well-preserved,
*before* even the fact that he is well-preserved and that he looks
great for eleventy-one is that he is rich. So let me just read you the first
two sentences. "When mr. Bilbo Baggins of Bag End announced that he would shortly
be celebrating his eleventy-first birthday with a party of special
magnificence, there was much talk and excitement in Hobbiton."
So establishing setting, establishing.. you know, that's an
establishing opening sentence. And then. The first description of Bilbo ever:
"Bilbo was very rich and very peculiar and had been the wonder of the shire for
sixty years ever since his remarkable disappearance and unexpected return."
"Bilbo was very rich" is the first thing we hear about Bilbo Baggins in this book.
And that's very important. I think it's important because, first of all, a lot of
this chapter revolves around the fact that Bilbo is wealthy and the fact that
he's giving things away to people and the fact that this party is magnificent
and there are riches that hobbits haven't seen before. But I also think
it's important because it establishes Frodo's role in Hobbiton. Frodo is the
upper class in Hobbiton. He is the 1%. Frodo is about to be richer than he ever
wanted to be, clearly, because he just wants his uncle back. But it's more than
that. It's establishing that Frodo is a very big fish in this small pond.
Everyone knows who Bilbo Baggins is. Everyone knows he owns Bag End which,
clearly, if the Sackville-Bagginses want it so much, is a pretty nice property.
And everyone knows that he came back with these riches and he hasn't aged at
all and - and Frodo has to be popular because of that. I don't think there's
any talk of like what sort of schooling these people go through when they're
young or anything, but to his fellow peers in grade school or whatever the
equivalent in the Shire is, Bilbo was probably a big deal. Everyone knows about
his his uncle his adoptive father and how rich he is. That's what everyone
knows about him. Bilbo is an eccentric billionaire. Bilbo is like Tony Stark
or [laughing] Mr. Lemoncello. I love that that's the first reference I can think of outside
of Tony Stark because I work at a children's book store. But yes,
actually, I think mr. lemoncello works actually better than Tony Stark.
Because Mr. Lemoncello is an eccentric billionaire who creates a library and
makes a contest that's very Willy Wonka-esque sounds like Bilbo a little
bit, right? Bilbo is the eccentric billionaire of the town he's the richest
guy there everyone wants to be invited to this party. Even the people who are a
little bit skeptical of him. Everyone everyone thinks he's a little weird.
Everyone thinks he's a little cuckoo things are queer up in here. But that
doesn't stop everyone from wanting to be there. That doesn't stop - just
because the Sackville-Bagginses don't like Bilbo doesn't mean they're not
gonna show up and be that last number in the gross that creates the 144 guests.
And that's so important when you think of the fact that later on in the ser- in
the story, Frodo's the one who volunteers to carry
the ring, because he thinks he can do it. Now obviously, we love Frodo. Frodo is
very humble and very sweet, but I think the Frodo
in this book. The Frodo that's being introduced here as the rich nephew and
the sole heir of the Baggins fortune is is the one that volunteers to take the
ring. Not the lovely humble one who just wants to help. Obviously, he also wants to
help, but there's a certain confidence to it that Sam Gamgee does not have, you
know? That Merry and Pippin don't have because they didn't grow up being Frodo
freakin Baggins, King of the Shire. Or the Prince of the Shire, you know. And I just
think that's very important. I was going to do a slightly closer reading of that
but this video is already long enough and I feel like I've given you guys
examples of the wealth in this chapter already I don't think I need to rehash
that, and I think I got my argument across which is the point in an English
paper. This isn't an English paper and I keep having to remember that. This is a
YouTube video. And it's just me chatting at my phone camera [siren starts] with a siren in the
background at 11 p.m.
Alright so yes, things are important. And finally I think you guys know my
favorite quote from this chapter already but this I I do want to end every
episode on my favorite quotation from the chapter. So. My favorite quotations
[singing] from this chapter. [normal] So this is on page 22 of my 50th anniversary one volume
paperback. So this is my favorite quotation from the chapter. "'But what
about this Frodo that lives with him,' asked Old Nokes of Bywater. 'Baggins is
his name, but he's more than half a Brandybuck, they say. It beats me why any
Baggins of Hobbiton should go looking for a wife away there in Buckland where
folks are so queer.' 'And no wonder they're queer,' put in Daddy Two-foot, the Gaffer's
next-door neighbor. 'If they live on the wrong side of the Brandywine River and
right agin the Old Forest. that's a dark bad place if half the tales be true.'
'You're right, dad,' said the Gaffer, 'Not that the Brandybucks of Buckland live
in the Old Forest, but they're a queer breed seemingly they fool about with
boats on that big river, and that isn't natural.'
'Small wonder that trouble came of it, I say." Yeah, yeah. So much queerness already.
[singing] It's so beautiful! [normal] I love it. So far I'm really enjoying this reread. I am
looking forward to chapter two. So guys I will see you again in two weeks for
chapter two of Lord of the Rings let's see what it's called. [flipping pages] What are you called?
What are you called? What are you called? What are you called? The long-expected party
it's pretty long. You are called, "The Shadow of the Past." But yeah, I will see
you guys next time. Guys, this is so much fun.
Alright. Bye! Special thanks to Jay Patel John E. Norem, Carl Reimann, Shrenik
Shah, and Chris Lawrence for being my patrons. If you would like to support my
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How To Start A Family Blog | Family Blogging - Duration: 9:15.
How To Start A Family Blog | Family Blogging For Beginner's
Hey guys, Bryan with WP Cupid Blog and in this video, I'm going to be showing you
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For the new domain you can select if you want it to be a .com, .net, .org, etc.… .com
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Almost any customization or feature that you would want more than likely there is a plugin
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one or a Premium theme.
Select Themes when you hover over appearance.
It will showcase free WordPress themes to you can choose from.
If you select most popular, it will show you the most popular free WordPress themes.
Hover over a Theme and click install and then click activate to make the Theme your WordPress
theme.
You should also see add new theme on this page.
This is where you can add a new theme if you got it from another site or it is a Premium
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You can easily browse WordPress blogging premium themes.
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In the top left of your WordPress dashboard, you will see welcome here or your site title
towards the top of the page.
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in your domain name with a slashwp-admin.
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"BOOO!" 👻 Halloween (Doja Cat Parody) - Duration: 6:25.
Honestly I really didn't even want it to come this but man.
Yall witches always say the same thing! Always!
I tell yall I'm a ghost and you think I'm a ghoul.. So you know what?
I just made this song.. so yall just need to listen
Just listen. . because I'm tired of the misconception.
Yuuuhh
Witch, I'm a ghost, witch I'm a ghost
I'm not a ghoul, you just a fool.
Witch, I'm a ghost, witch I'm a ghost.
Witch, I'm a ghost, witch I'm a ghost.
I go "Booo!"
Booo!
Boooo!
Booo!
Witch, I'm too smooth
Gonna haunt you
Trynna scare some fools
Trynna scare some fools
Witch, I'm too smooth
Gonna haunt you
Trynna scare some fools
Trynna scare some fools
Got Jesus?
Got a bible?
You finna need it? For your survival
Holy water, not tea.
I got the crosses on hangin' me
These hoes are trying to scream
acting like they some banshees
Banshees.
You see ghost and better believe
They scream
They scream
You a fool, witch
you gettin' slaughtered
I ain't bothered
I'm a plotter
Got a fountain?
Holy Water
Get hotter
Gettin' hotter
They try to see me, it's an honor
I ain't bothered, I'm a spawner
I get the children dreams as a starter
and they screams just keepin me stronger
Me stong
Witch, I'm a ghost, witch I'm a ghost
I'm not a ghoul, you just a fool.
Witch, I'm a ghost, witch I'm a ghost
Witch, I'm a ghost, witch I'm a ghost
I go "Booo!"
Booo!
Boooo!
Yuuuhh
Witch, I'm too smooth
Gonna haunt you
Trynna scare some fools
Trynna scare some fools
Witch, I'm too smooth
Creepin' up on you
Trynna scare some fools
Trynna scare some fools
Witch, I'm a ghost, witch I'm a ghost
Witch, I'm a ghost, witch I'm a ghost
Witch, I'm a ghost, witch I'm a ghost
Witch, I'm a ghost, witch I'm a ghost
Witch, I'm a ghost, witch I'm a ghost
Witch, I'm a ghost, witch I'm a ghost
Witch, I'm a ghost, witch I'm a ghost
Old McDonald had a farm
I know Frankenstein just lives next door
yall be thinkin he the monster
but frankenstein is the
Cre-
a-tor
Sacrifice a cat or somethin'
E-
- I -
-O
hauntin all these thots only thing I know
Carvin' all these pumpkins
gonna put you in a dungeon
finna catch you ridin brooms with them fiends I know.
I ain't a ghoul, witch, get out my way
Get out my way, witch, get out my way
I ain't a ghoul, witch, get out my way
Get out my way, witch, get out my way
I ain't a ghoul, witch, get out my way
Get out my way, witch, get out my way
I ain't a ghoul witch
Get out my way, get out my way, witch get out my way
My woodstake brings all the vamps to the yard
and they be
lookin like Edward
and they be
lookin like Edward
They can feed on me
but I'll have to charge
My wood stake brings all vamps to the yard
and they be
lookin like Edward
and they be
lookin like Edward
They can feed on me
but I'll have to charge
But I'll have to charge
lookin like Edward
But I'll have to charge
lookin like Edward
But I'll have to charge
But I'll have to charge
But I'll have to charge
lookin like Edward
So yeah
uhhmm
Yall heard the song so I hope yall know that
I'm a ghost
And I'm not a ghoul
Uhhhmm
yeah
Well yall got me so tired
imma go chill in the afterlife
so uhh
Peace
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Fans shock theory why Vardy suddenly ran off pitch at crunch time vs Arsenal - Daily News - Duration: 3:14.
They were 3-1 down with only minutes to go - and if one man was going to get Leicester that all important goal and give them a fighting chance it was going to be Jamie Vardy
But with 87 minutes on the clock at the Emirates, a clearly, er, unsettled Vardy ran off the pitch - and despite the Foxes having made all three subs he didn't come back on
AdChoicesADVERTISINGinRead invented by Teads This led to fans theorising what was wrong with the former England striker as his Leicester side lost 3-1 to Arsenal
Promoted Stories And on Twitter Sam Cox laid it out in no uncertain terms: "Did Jamie Vardy really leave the pitch during a live televised football match to do a poo?" It certainly would explain a few things, and Sam wasn't the only one to discharge this conclusion
And Leicester boss Claude Puel did little to fan the flames after the match. The Frenchman said: "He was ill he could not come back on the pitch
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In an interview with BBC to mark his 50th birthday, Lineker admitted to taking a poo on the PITCH in a 1-1 draw against Ireland
Lineker told the Beeb: "I've never admitted to it, but it's true. It was a World Cup game
It's filmed, I've seen it but unless you know (what was happening) you wouldn't know
"I was not very well, I was poorly at half time but I carried on. "The ball went down the left hand side, I did try to tackle someone, I stretched and then I relaxed myself
I was very fortunate it rained that night and I could do something about it. It was messy, it just came out, it happened
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Arsenal vs Leicester live stream: TV channel, kick-off time - watch - Duration: 4:20.
Leicester midfielder James Maddison insists he always believed he would make an instant impact in the Premier League
The 21-year-old has thrived in the top flight since his £24million summer move from Norwich
He has scored three and made two goals for the Foxes in his eight games so far will be hoping his fine form continues against Arsenal tonight
"I always believe in my own ability, that I can come to this level and have an effect," Maddison said
"I wouldn't use the word easy, as you come up against some really tough opponents, but it's been a step up and one I've relished
"Hopefully I can keep my form high and my performances good and we can carry it out for the rest of the season
" Meanwhile, Arsenal manager Unai Emery believes Alexandre Lacazette can only get better after admitting he tried to sign the striker while at Paris St-Germain
The France international has scored 14 goals in his last 24 games for the Gunners, including a brace in a 5-1 win at Fulham before the international break
"When I arrived at PSG we were thinking to sign Lacazette," Emery said. "His quality and his characteristics also we liked at PSG
"The people who were working there, they said to us, 'This player has the quality to play for PSG' when we were there
He was an option for us."What time does Arsenal vs Leicester kick-off? The Premier League clash kicks off at 8pm BST
Is Arsenal vs Leicester on TV tonight? The match will be shown live on Sky Sports Main Event and Sky Sports Premier League in the UK and Ireland
Pre-match coverage gets underway at 7pm.Can I live stream Arsenal vs Leicester? Existing Sky Sports customers can stream the game via the Sky Go app, which can be downloaded across a host of devices
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Day Passes start at £7.99 and give you 24 hours of access to Sky Sports channels without locking into a contract
Arsenal vs Leicester team news confirmed Arsenal: Leno, Bellerin, Mustafi, Holding, Lichtsteiner, Torreira, Xhaka, Iwobi, Mkhitaryan, Ozil, Lacazette Subs: Martinez, Medley, Guendouzi, Smith-Rowe, Ramsey, Welbeck, Aubameyang Leicester: Schmeichel, Amartey, Evans, Maguire, Chilwell, Pereira, Mendy, Ndidi, Maddison, Iheanacho, Vardy Subs: Ward, Soyuncu, Albrighton, Okazaki, Iborra, Fuchs, GhezzalArsenal vs Leicester - what do the odds say? The Gunners can be backed at 8/15 to continue their winning streak
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Nurturing Great Relationships - Duration: 9:20.
- Everybody wants better relationships because
you and I both know, when your relationship
sucks, your life sucks.
But a ton of people have terrible relationships
and they don't know why.
And they're constantly fighting
and they're always in the argument mode, they're always
like thinking the other person isn't sufficient
isn't delivering for them, isn't happy for them,
isn't supportive enough.
And so you have all these people who have, like,
good people in their lives but their relationships suck.
And sometimes the relationship sucks with their family,
or their friends, or it can be their significant other.
And it's just like, it makes you want to tear your hair out.
So let me give you four ideas
that can actually help you improve your relationships,
nurturing deeper, better relationships with anybody, right.
Friends, family, or your significant other,
your partner, your lover.
So the first idea is, you never know a person
if you don't know their goals.
And if you don't know their goals,
you're never going to be a great friend.
You'll never be their great lover, their great supporter,
their great family member.
And it's weird, though, because most people
actually don't know other people's goals.
I'll ask family members, I'll say
what's your sister's goals?
And they're like, you know, she wants to be a dancer.
Okay, what kind of dancer?
When?
What does she want to do with that career?
Is it short term, is it long term?
Like, you have to really get into people's goals
to understand their heart.
And so that's what I want you to do
is if you want to be a great spouse to somebody,
you've got to re-engage and say hey,
what do you want at this stage of your life?
Because I know what you used to want
and then we had kids, but where are you at now?
And you gotta get that conversation with your partner
and say hey listen, I know we've been through
a couple of weird months where we just haven't really
felt each other out.
It's like, let's just do some personal development.
What do you really want to do right now
at this stage of your life?
Because you have to understand,
when I say this stage of your life, that's very specific.
Meaning a lot of people's goals change.
And it changes like every three months,
every year, every three years.
So if you haven't had the conversation
with the important people in your life recently
about what your goals are.
And about what their goals are.
Then I'm telling you, you're just skimming at the surface.
Cause if you don't support other people's dreams,
how can you ever have a deep relationship with them?
And if you don't share your dreams and your heart
and your desire with other people,
how can they possibly help you meet that hunger?
How can they possibly help you become the best version
of you if you haven't shared it?
So you also have to be very honest with them.
What's your real thoughts?
What's your real feelings?
What's your real dreams?
What do you really want at this stage of your life
with all the important people around you?
It's one of my favorite things to do with high performers
is say, okay, do all the people around you
know what you really want right now?
Are they clear on what your goals are?
Are they clear about how they can support that,
or how much you want them to be involved in it?
It's like, a lot of people start their own business
but they don't tell the other people around them
what that business is, what it requires,
how they'd love their support.
And so we all go it alone.
And isn't going it alone the opposite
of having healthy, supportive relationships?
So first thing you gotta do if you want better relationships
get to know other people's goals.
Second thing you gotta know and you have to share
is people's fears and your fears.
You have to know your spouse, your partner,
your friend's fears because if you don't know their fears
you don't really know them.
Cause isn't it true we're all kind of like
running around sometimes, feeling inadequate
or unworthy or undeserving.
Isn't it true we all have a bad day,
isn't it true we all doubt on ourselves.
Isn't it true sometimes our fears prevent us
from chasing our dreams.
That's part of life.
And if you don't know that part of the life of your partner
or your friend or your spouse or your kids,
do you really know them?
If you don't know what people are scared of,
you don't know their outer limits.
If you don't know what people are scared of, or fear,
you don't know what their real comfort zone is.
Meaning A, you can't make sure that they have
that comfort, that certainty, that stability with you.
And B, you can't help them grow.
And if you're in a relationship with somebody
who can't help you grow or you can't help them grow
they get bored with you, and they move on.
And a lot of relationships that could have been great end
because the people didn't realize
what either the goals were or what their fears were.
Because listen, you might have somebody who's
they're desperately afraid of losing you.
But they've never shared it.
And so they're running around this insecurity
in your relationship all the time
and you're never really getting to know that.
You really don't understand that.
So those nights out when you're late, they're having fears.
Those nights out when you don't respond to texts,
they're having fears.
Those times that you don't reply fast enough,
they start wondering things
and those fears grow into doubts about the relationship
or doubt about your character.
And all of a sudden you're fighting about stupid stuff.
And if you knew that they were worried about
those types of things, or fearful of those types of things
you could preempt those and say, hey listen,
I know this has been an issue for you before.
Or I know this is a concern.
But here's what's happening, here's what's going on.
Meaning once you know someone's fears,
you can over communicate, and you can
cut off those fears in advance.
And now they feel supported, and now they're not scared
in your relationship.
You have to know people's goals and their fears.
The third thing you gotta do is to create
unique, varied experiences.
You know, a lot of people in relationships
they just go through the motions.
Oh, let's go out to the movie,
oh let's go out to dinner.
And then they're out to movies and they're on the phone
or they're out to dinner and they're on their phone.
And they're not even paying attention to the other person
and trying to create magic.
But if you remember at the beginning of a relationship,
you really worked hard to do unique things.
Take someone to a nice restaurant,
to create an experience at the park or at the show.
You worked hard to set up flowers for them
or give them a nice card.
Like you were thinking about experiences.
Oh, I love you so much, let's go to Italy.
Let's go to France, someday let's go and swim with
the, you know, dolphins.
I mean, you had all these ideas for adventures
and unique experiences and then it turned into
Thursday night Netflix, four barrels of popcorn
and a barrel of wine.
And all of a sudden you're like
why don't we have the zest and the pop anymore?
Because you stopped creating experiences
that brought out that newness and that vibrancy
and that adventure and that growth together.
Like the most important thing in great relationships,
they do things together.
And this applies to your friends, too.
Like are you creating situations with your friends
where you go out on an adventure together?
I mean, when's the last time you really hung out
with your friends and you did something new?
Not the same old thing, something new.
When's the last time in your relationship, maybe,
your marriage or your partner,
did you really try to like craft something magical?
And often people, they'll realize
they didn't try to craft something magical in years.
And now they wonder why their marriage is in trouble.
They haven't tried to craft something magical in months
and they wonder why their boyfriend's disinterested.
You have to work hard in relationships.
You have to plan in relationships.
You have to make sure that that variety is there
and that experiences are forming a tighter bond.
Because listen, you can share your goals,
you can share your fears, you can talk all day
you can have great dates
but if you're not having new experiences together
suddenly you get bored with each other
and the magic is gone.
So what geek-out thing could you do together?
What new thing can you see?
What exciting thing can you participate in together?
Is there a show coming up?
I always love to tell people, you should know
everything cool coming to your town this weekend.
So if you want to ask your girlfriend or your friends
or your partner, your spouse, to that thing, you got it.
Listen, it's in the newspaper.
It's like here's everything happening cool in town.
Go do more stuff together.
And the connection deepens.
I would say the fourth big thing that you have to do
is that you have to share your personal growth
journey with others.
I mean, every week, what would it sound like
and what would it be like if you said to someone
hey, here's something I learned about myself this week.
Hey, here's the things I'm working on.
Hey you know, I've got this weakness over here
I'm trying to strengthen it up.
If you shared your growth journey with other people
instead of like feeling or trying to be
so perfect with other people, say, you know what?
I'm really struggling in this area.
But here's what I'm trying to do better at it.
Do you have any advice for me?
If you sought advice from other people
about your personal growth.
If you shared with other people,
what's the books you're reading?
What's the courses you're reading?
Share this video with them, share my podcast with them.
Share whatever you're consuming that's making you better.
Share that more and talk about it more.
Put the conversation of personal development
into your relationships and then those relationships
start to grow automatically because the discussion is there.
If the conversation of personal development
is always present in your relationship,
your relationship is always getting better.
If the conversation about personal development
is never in your relationship,
then your relationship will always be stagnant
cause you're not growing together.
But if you're growing together, you'll be happier together.
You'll be together longer and you will feel
more connected with the very important people in your life.
Relationships bring life to life.
So do a better job at 'em.
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Brick Bonds - Duration: 4:50.
G'day and welcome back to Buildsum and in this video. I just want to go over what they call the different types of
Brick Bonds
So a Bond is the way the bricks are stacked together
So you can see here. This is the most common one that I've seen
This is what they call Stretcher Bond or it's also sometimes called Running Bond so you can see here
What you're looking at is you got a long
Side of the brick exposed that's what you see most of and they're stacked on top of each other half a brick offset
so that you're not getting a continuous line of
the perps
Running up through the wall. Okay, so just a little terminology this the side of the brick
It's called the stretcher the end of the brick is called the the header
okay, the joins in between the bricks the vertical joins in between the bricks are called the perps and
the horizontal joins
the beds
Okay, and then a bed and a brick together or a row of bricks is referred to as a course
So the bed of mortar and the brick makes up course
okay, so we're just going to look at some of the
More common ways that these are actually bonded together. So this is stretcher bond as I said
fairly common here in New South Wales in Australia
The next one
Is what they call English bond
so the way you can tell that is you can see they have a row of
Stretches
And then they have a row of Headers and that just alternates all the way up the wall
Okay, so these are really good if you want to all that's 230mm thick or two bricks
Thick because those headers will just down run the full width for the wall
Okay, so that's English bond
One row of stretchers one row headers and that just alternates all the way up the wall
There is another one. I was reading about Common bond which has
Six rows of stretches and then one row of headers
six rows of stretches and then one row of headers
I'll only read about that. I haven't seen it. So that's in English bond
Next one is called Flemish bond
okay, so this is a little bit different it has a
Stretcher brick and then a header brick then it alternates stretcher brick header brick
Okay, and the course about that is the same it's just offset so that none of your perps end up lining up
So Flemish stretcher,header our stretcher header, stretcher header,
Okay that so that's your Flemish bond
Then we have what they call the garden wall bonds. So you have
English garden wall that you can see he the English garden wall has three rows of stretches
And one row of headers then three rows of stretches one row of headers
and so that's English garden wall and
Then Flemish garden wall
Has three stretches that a head of brick three stretches then a header
I mean, I've actually seen this wall where they leave the headers
Sticking out of the actual out of the line of the rest of the wall. Just there's a little bit of a feature
Okay, so that's Flemish garden wall three stretches and then a header, three stretches and then a header
Ok so they are the main ones couple other ones you might see
Stack bond. Okay. So these are just
Stretchers just stack straight on top of each other. Hopefully all your perps are going to line up
All right, not seeing too often, but some people use it as a bit of a feature
And the other one again, you don't see too often is a header bond. So it's stacked similar to the stretcher bond where the
Each course is offset so that you don't get your perps lining up
But it's just all the heads or the headers of the bricks are exposed
okay, so it's just a couple of
common brick bonds and
I
imagine there's different names and variations on
Names depending on where you're from
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